20 Step-By-Step Guide On How To Kiss A Boy Romantically

Romance is incomplete without a romantic kiss and kissing is one of the great joys of life. Here is a step-by-step guide on how to kiss a boy romantically.

By Amanda Palmer
20 Step-By-Step Guide On How To Kiss A Boy Romantically

Why kiss?

Kissing is one of the great joys of life and everyone has a different skill-set in kissing. To be able to kiss well can be one of your greatest traits as great kissing leads to a great sex life. Once the initial honeymoon phase fades away, many people stop indulging in romantic kisses which is really sad. By kissing your partner romantically, you are able to connect better with your boy on an emotional level. Kissing is a beautiful way to make couples horny for each other. With great sex, you remember each other's body for a long time but with a romantic kiss you remember your partner for a long time. A kiss is required to initiate your relationship with your boy on a romantic level. If there is enough sexual tension between you and your boy then all you need is a passionate kiss to get started. A kiss is the beginning of dealing with the hot chemistry between two people. It is not necessary that a kiss should always lead to sex. A romantic kiss can be the threshold of a wonderful relationship with your boy. It would not be wrong to say that your relationship with your guy has been sealed with a kiss as if implying that you are taken or that you both have signed a mutual bond of agreement to commitment. According to a recent study, it was established that kissing is a learned act and not instinctual. Around 10% of the human population does not kiss at all and they have no idea on what they are missing. Our lips and tongues are packed with a thousand nerve endings which feel good on being crushed or caressed by another's lips. It intensifies the sensation of being in love. Not many today try to find an answer to why we kiss; instead, they are satisfied with the reasoning that you kiss someone you love. A kiss brings tenderness into a relationship. If it is your first time, then you have got to read this step-by-step guide to kiss your boy in a romantic way. Even if it is not your first time, you can cast some light on your kissing techniques by referring to the below-mentioned expert tips on kissing your boy romantically.

1. Prepare yourself before initiating a kiss

You don't have to do your masters on 'The Science of Kissing' to prepare yourself before initiating a kiss. You have to be presentable best and look kissable. You have got to mentally picture yourself kissing your guy. Do some homework in your mind if it is your first time; then you will not end up looking awkward around him. Make sure you smell good too. Thinking too much of your first time kiss will definitely make you look anxious and weird. Let the kiss come naturally. You don't have to kiss only because you want to do it. If you have been feeling the sexual tension built up between your boy and he too is giving you suggestive looks then you can probably initiate the kiss.

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2. Give your boy suggestive and romantic looks

If you feel like kissing your boy, you cannot just grab him out of the blue and pin your lips to his. Give him some suggestive looks and let your eyes do the talking. Before initiating your first kiss, eyes play a lot of role in giving some suggestive and romantic looks to your boy that you are ready for a kiss. Look at his eyes and then at his lip, come closer and let him pull you into his arms. Breathe deeply while still looking at each other's eyes and lips. This creates a beautiful chemistry before initiating a kiss.

3. Initiate softy and slowly

You, of course, cannot just crush your boy's lips with yours, bite him and use your tongue right in the beginning. Start slowly and softly. Let your kissing deepen and passion and emotions flow between both of you. Just brush your lips to his first and then proceed with a soft peck on his lips. Detach and look into his eyes. If he breathes deeply and looks at your lips again as you detach, then you can kiss him again, this time a little more passionately than before. The passion will make you close your eyes automatically at this stage.

4. Gaze in a romantic way into his eyes

To further deepen the impact of your kiss, detach and gaze into his eyes after your first lip contact. Gaze romantically and look at his lips suggestively. This will create raw passion between both of you and the feel for lip-lock becomes urgent and almost impossible to break.

5. Breath mint

Make sure you have your mints handy as you don't want to come close to your partner smelling like dragon-breath! Bad breath is one of the most upsetting things while kissing or while having sex. If you are out on a date, try not to eat aerated drinks, sugary and starchy foods or other processed food as it tends to stick to your teeth giving you a horrible breath. You after-date-first-time kiss will be all ruined if your boy tries to move away from you because of your bad breath. But these are basic manners, aren't they?

6. Body language

When you picture yourself and your boy kissing you often think of one of those movie-like passionate lip-lock scenes but in reality a first time kiss can get awkward if your body language is not correct. You need to be very soft and seductive. Often holding your boy's head while kissing is the best way to indulge in a deep kiss! You have to appear warm and delicious when your boy takes you in his arms. Wear something comfortable and smell good.

7. Take care of the ambience

If it is your first time kiss, darkness can be your best friend. It will hide away all the awkwardness of the bodies and will calm your fidgety hands. You might not be able to see your boy staring at you if that leaves you anxious. Just relax the feel of his lips on yours and enjoy the moment.

8. Get a little more aggressive

It’s now time to get a little more aggressive with your kiss. Kiss deeper and more passionately! Crush your lips to your boy's and let him feel the heat. Hold him tighter and apply a little force while kissing. Using aggression while kissing is just to state that 'you drive me crazy' or 'I want you right now'!

9. Use your teeth

You can use your teeth slightly now when the passion builds up and you both get aggressive in kissing. Give him the softest bite on his lips with your teeth. Make sure you do not give him a cut else he will run away. Slight biting only increases the raw passion.

10. Suck on his lips

Periodically suck on his lips in between. It feels great. If you both intend to have sex later on, then such aggression in kissing leads to a great sex.

11. Change your head position

After about kissing for some time, detach and gaze into each other eyes. Then change your head position and kiss again. Mostly, women need to do this is to relax their nerves as they have been kissing in one position for quite some time now. It will make you more comfortable.

12. Give your boy a kiss on other places than the lips

You must picture yourself properly in your mind before actually kissing your boy. This thought process is nothing but your homework before kissing so that you do not feel or do anything awkward. After kissing for some time, detach and continue to kiss your boy on his cheeks, forehead and nose. This feels very endearing and emotional.

13. Kiss him when he least expects it

Sometimes, kissing your guy when he is least expecting it could be a lot of fun and romantic in its own way. Obviously you have seen a picture of yourself and your boy kissing madly and deeply but if you don't get enough pre-setting before you initiate your first kiss, you can just kiss him all of a sudden and when he is least expecting it. This will throw him off-balance for sure but he will get there eventually and will love you for it.

14. Go subtle on your lipstick

A dark red or a subtle pink lipstick does look great but do you want your guy looking like he has eaten lipstick himself? If you plan to kiss then go subtle on your lipstick. Many guys try to avert kissing if their girl wears lipstick. Try putting on a subtle flavored lip balm. It will take care of the dryness of your lips, will add subtle color to your lips and taste delicious.

15. Tongue play

Sometimes an aggressive kiss without tongue play feels incomplete. When you are kissing your boy passionately, you feel like exploring all of him. Tease him and play with his tongue as it feels amazing. But be careful about your saliva drooling as it gets very gross if you don't do it expertly.

16. Let him kiss you

After such display of raw passion, your boy will surely get aroused and horny. Step back and let him kiss you now while you enjoy him teasing and playing with your lips.

17. Use your hands at the right time

While it often starts with holding the boy's head or hair while kissing, let your hand rove around his body as your kiss deepens. Let your hands caress his shoulders, back and slide them against the length of his arms straight to his palms. Use your hands to pull him closer to you as your kiss deepens.

18. Stop in between to look into each other's eyes

Your eyes often automatically close as you kiss, but you need to open your eyes in between to gaze into each other's eyes to feel the electricity in the atmosphere, to feel the romance in his eyes and to make your kiss even more romantic.

19. Soft sighs in between feel good

While you detach to look into each other's eyes and lips, sigh softly but in an audible way so as to let your partner know the effect you have while kissing him. This just turns each other hornier just as listening to husky voices makes one horny.

20. You will do better next time

If it is your first kiss, it is quite possible that you do not do as well as you pictured yourself in your mind. No matter how many tutorials you watch or how many kissing articles you read, practice makes man perfect. You will definitely do better next time!

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