40 Reasons Why I Love You, My Best Friend
A best friend is a great blessing in our life. It is the best relationship we get in our lives probably. Having a best friend is like a poem, unmatched, not always rhyming and yet beautiful. It’s like you meet them and you instantly fall in love with them. They become your extended family, someone you trust, you love and you count on. You know even if the world turned against you, they will always stand by your side. They are the one you call when you are feeling low, or if something great happens in your life. You know they never will never judge you and will always give you an honest opinion about everything. You enjoy going through stories, an old letter from a secret admirer and laugh about it. They give you every reason to fall in love with your best friend. And here, we are giving you 40 reasons why I love you, my best friend.
I love you my best friend because you are always there when I need you
When I need someone, be it a little help for the projects, or for dealing with some friend problem, or if I had a tiff with my family, you always find a way to help me. Whenever I need you and whatever for, you are always there helping me. You never say no to me for any kind of help. You soothe me like a poem soothes a poet or like a letter from the beloved soothes the aching heart.
Somehow my best friend always knows when something is bothering me or I am upset
Even when I don’t say a word about it or don’t show it on my face, you somehow always know that I am upset or if something is bothering me. You let me be and don’t push me for telling it to you. You wait until I feel like sharing and you know I will eventually.
When I am upset, you try to make me smile
Rather than just pushing me to tell you why am I upset, you try to put a smile on my face. You do every possible thing for making me happy and forget the reason why I am upset. And that’s the reason why I Love You my best friend, more than anyone and forever.
Even if we don’t talk for weeks, when we do we always pick up where we left off
Distance can never separate us. No matter how far we are or for how long we have not spoken to each other, we always pick up where we had left off. It never feels like we haven’t been in touch, or haven’t written even a single letter or email or we haven’t seen each other for a long time. And that’s the reason I Love You, because we connect on a different level.
As a best friend we have our own sets of codes and nicknames
It feels so great to have a conversation with you that no one else understands. We have our own codes about everything and our own nicknames for everyone. We can talk about anything and everything and yet get away with it. It’s so much fun being with you.
My best friend,you are dependable and I can always count on you
It’s amazing how I know I can always depend on you. No matter what mess I am in or what trouble I have gotten myself into, I know you will help me out. I know I can always count on you for guiding me and keeping me on the right track always and forever.
You are confident about yourself and don’t obsess about being perfect, I love that about you
It’s amazing how you are so confident about yourself. When most of the world is being obsessed about being perfect, you are so comfortable in your skin. This is the reason why I Love You, because you are perfectly happy as you are.
You always protect my secrets, my best friend
Another reason why I Love You so much is that I know I can tell you anything and everything and you will keep it to yourself forever. You know so many of my secrets, like the letter I had written to my crush, some even embarrassing and dirty and yet you keep it locked deep inside your heart.
You never judge me and I love you for that
One of the reasons why I love you my best friend is because you don’t judge me. No matter what I say or do or what someone says about me, you never make an opinion without knowing the complete picture. You know me like a poet knows his poem and you keep faith in me. And that’s one among the reasons why we are the best of friends.
You always know how and when to comfort me as a best friend
When I am distressed and sad, you just know the right things to say. You know how to mend my broken heart. You always find a way to comfort me and get me out of the sadness. I love you for always being able to cheer me up. You are the best.
I know you will always be by my side even if the world has turned its back on me
You are one person I have utmost faith on. I know that even when everyone is against me, you will be the one person who will stand by me, holding my hand, giving me the courage to fight the whole world. I love you my best friend for being my strength forever.
Even if I am arrogant, you still stick by my side
If I am in the bad mood, or I am acting like an irritating and arrogant person, you still refuse to leave me alone. You take all my stuffiness and then give me time to get back to my real self. You and only you can do something like this and be so forgiving. I love you for this even more.
We have an amazing time even if we don’t do anything
Just being with you feels good. Even if we are sitting doing nothing or doing our separate thing, it still becomes the best time of my life. Such is your presence in my life.
Your laugh, it’s contagious
No matter how bad my mood is or if I am sulking, watching you laugh at something makes me laugh. I don’t need any joke or anything funny, just your contagious laugh to laugh.
Hearing your voice makes my day perfect; you make all my tensions and worries go away
Stress at work, tension with my boss or colleagues, everything fades away as soon as I hear your voice. You make everything sad and dull go away with just the sound of your voice. I love you and I love hearing your voice anytime.
You mean every word you say to me
Unlike others who just say for the sake of saying things, you mean everything you say to me. When you say you love me and that I am the best person you have ever come across, I believe you without a single doubt.
You know and understand me better than anyone
I love you because you know me inside out. You understand my every act,my every mood and my every word. If I am acting unlike me, you know there have to be a reason when others think I have gone mad.
When you are around, everything feels a lot better
A tiring lecture, a silly movie or a boring concert, nothing matters when you are around. It's amazing how we find something fun in everything. When you are around, even the dull weather feels beautiful. And I love you the way you make everything feel a lot better with your presence.
You work hard for whatever you want in your life
I love you for your hard work. You never try to find the quick and the short way of fulfilling your dreams. You always work hard and right to achieve what you want. And you neither let me take any shortcuts. You are my guide.
You are so good, you never put anyone down
Almost everyone in the world grabs the chance of putting someone or the other down, making them feel lowly. While you, on the other hand, never do that. You never put anyone down and I love this about you. You respect everyone for what they are.
You always look out for the people you love
When it comes to the people you love, you are always there for them. You always keep an eye on them, trying to help them and keeping them out of any problem or trouble.
You are honest, kind and patient
I love you honesty. You always say what’s on your mind straightforwardly. You are kind to everyone, be it a human, an animal or even a plant. And you are patient with everyone. I have hardly seen you losing your calm. That’s commendable.
When I am crying, you never laugh at me
Most people find pleasure in other’s pain. When they see someone cry, they make fun of them. While you, you never laugh when I cry. In fact you lend me your shoulder to cry on and lend your sympathetic ears to my blabbering. I love you for this.
You know I trust you with my life and you do the same
I trust you the most. I trust you with my life and you have earned that trust. And i love the fact that you trust me with the same intensity.
You are my rock hard support
When I am at my very low and losing my heart over the situation, you are always there backing me up. You always push me to find a way out. When I am breaking apart, you hold me together. You are my rock hard support and I love you for that.
You always try to boost my confidence
You never belittle me. You always try to boost my confidence when I am running low on it. Even when you know it's going to be a lost case, you still encourage me to find a ray of hope and sometimes I do.
Nothing that we say to each other feels awkward
I know I don’t have to think before I speak in front of you. I can say anything to you and nothing feels awkward when it comes to talking to you. I can talk silly or senseless or rubbish and I know you will listen.
I know I can tell you everything, every silly thing and you will take it seriously
Even when I am sulking or feeling mad at a very silly thing, you never make fun of me. Instead you take me seriously, trying to solve my problem. I love you so much for being such a best friend to me.
We are never jealous of each other
The best thing about friendship is we take pleasure in each other’s success. We are never jealous of each other. And when the rest of the world is trying to pull the other down, we keep pushing each other up to the success. That’s the beauty of our friendship.
You know you will always come first, even before my spouse in my life
Your place will always be yours in my life. No matter who comes or who I get married to, you will always come first. You will always be my first priority. Be sure that even when you call in the middle of the night, I will take the call.
I know you will never use my secrets against me ever
You know all my secrets, some dirty ones as well. But I am not worried. I know even if we are mad at each other, you will still protect my secret. I know you will never use them against me, in any situation. I love you for being so loyal and wonderful friend.
I can act stupid with you
I know you will not judge me. So, I find it easy and comfortable to act stupid around you. I can read a poem or a letter and make a joke of it and you will never mind. I don’t have to be on my best behaviour around you because I know you will understand and will laugh it off. I love you for letting me be me with you.
We never question the loyalty of each other
We are loyal to each other forever and we never question each other’s loyalty. That’s the unsaid deal of friendship. We trust each other and understand each other. And we know beyond doubt that we will not betray each other.
Our other friends and girlfriends or boyfriends need each other’s approval
That’s a rule of our friendship that every other friend or girlfriend/boyfriend will need the approval of each other. If any one of us object, the other will terminate the relationship with immediate effect. Well, that’s more because your opinion matters to me and vice versa. No one else is as important to us as we are to each other.
No matter how busy we are, we always make time for each other
No matter how much workload we have, or how busy we are with anything, we always have time for each other. No matter if we are in the middle of some very important work, we always make time when anyone of us needs the other.
Not telling anyone excludes us for each other
When someone tells us something and asks us not to tell anyone else, it doesn’t include each other for us. It is pertinent that we let the secret out to each other and hide it from everyone else. We are one and we love each other.
You give me hope when I have lost every bit of it
Hope, you always keep hold of it for me. When I am disheartened and losing hope, you always find a way of filling me with it. You always lend me your positivity. You never let me sink into despair. I love you for putting so much effort into me always and forever.
You take my hand and walk me to light when I am dipped in darkness
When I am in the darkness and am willing to lose myself to it, you always take my hand and take me to the light. You have always managed to pull me out of the depression and hopelessness. You have always shown me the way when I felt lost and misguided. In darkness, you have always managed to reach for my hand and I love you for holding onto it while guiding me to the right way.
You treat my family as yours and your family treat me as their own
Being best friends means having two families. I love the way you treat my family as your own and that your family treat me as a part of their family as well. It goes the same with me and my family. Your family is my family and you, to my family, is equal to me. This makes out bond stronger.
You make me a better person
Everything being said and done, the bottom line of the entire relationship is that you make me a better person. You bring out the best in me. You always teach me right from wrong and you inspire me to do the right thing always. You give me hop and tech me honesty.
A best friend is someone who always guides you to the right way and teaches you right thing. You don’t have to share the same hobbies or love the same poem. They will tell you openly if you are wrong. They don’t judge you and always want the best for you. They always look for the goodness inside you. A best friend knows when you are sad or depressed. They gladly let you take out fumes on them and bear with your unreasonable and arrogant behaviour. And yet they forgive you. They never resent you. A best friend is like a poem, always fresh and pleasant. You don’t have to be in touch everyday for feeling the connection. And even then you will know your best friend is the one person who will be there for you even at a moment’s notice. You know you can always count on your best friend, be it for your secret, for some help or for lending the ears. A best friend will always be there, no matter what, no matter when. The love between the two best friends doesn’t need anything to stay alive. It just stays there, irrespective of the conditions or situations. Even if you meet after a decade, have written letter or not, you will always pick up where you two left off. Such is the love between the best of friends.