Is He The One? 20 Unmistakable Signs You've Found The Right Man

You are in a relationship, but still have some doubts if he is the one? Read these 20 signs and find out if he is the right man for you.

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Is He The One? 20 Unmistakable Signs You've Found The Right Man

Is He The One?

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It's almost impossible to escape from the need to find your own soulmate, the person for long-term relationship or a partner that you will marry in the future, especially because fairy tales are everywhere around you: from books and movies to loving couples in city parks. Whatever you do, your whole life has the feeling of being on the mission to find the right one and to marry someday with him. It does not help even the fact that you are probably in the years when all your friends and acquaintances announce engagement, and wedding photos are blocking your social network profiles. That's when anxiety kicks you. In trying to find "the right one" you are prone to lowering your standards. But keep in mind that you cannot have a relationship or even marry with anyone, so if your current partner does not have these characteristics, you should rather look for someone who has it.

Unmistakable Signs You Should Look For

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1. You weren't searching for him

Nothing comes in our life when we search it so relax. Your life partner will only appear from somewhere in your life, as if you two were connected by destiny. Maybe you already know him, but you still do not know that he is the one who is the right for you.

2. You are always honest with each other

If a dress does not stand you well, your true love will be honest to tell you. But he will not tell you because he wants to offend you, but because he wants you to look beautiful. He will also tell you honestly what he thinks about your friends, how many beers he drank and admit that he ate chips that you were looking for in drawers in the evening. And you too have the freedom to tell him everything honestly.

3. He knows how to make you laugh

You had a bad day at work or maybe a fight with a friend/family member, and the last thing on your mind is to put a smile on your face. But with a partner who is "the one" for you, you will feel relaxed, contented, and comfortable. He is the person that knows how to make you laugh at any time, even if you had a bad day or feel depressed or anxiety. With him you are always natural.

4. He listens to you

Before a man opens his heart, he must open his ears. If your man wants to be with you in the long run, he will listen to you well when you need him. He will listen to your problems and will not ignore you, just because some of your problems are too big. Even if he does not know the solution, he will still try to help you to solve the problem.

5. He tries to make you happy

A true man is someone who tries to make her happy partner and who wants to get closer to her. It is related to the feeling and care of others that a person can have in himself or not. The true man is the one who respects you, your character and individuality and who solves your problems with you, not your mother or friends. Women want men who carry a lot in themselves and know how to enjoy life, but it does not have to be proof that he is the right one for you. If he is unhappy, you are unhappy too and vice versa. The right person will do everything to make you happy, because if you have a bad day, his day will be bad too. Your connection is so powerful that you are experiencing emotions together.

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6. The one for you is someone you truly know

What are his faults and can you live with them? What kind of behaviors will you tolerate (for example, smoking or obsessing with a cube) and which simply cannot be tolerated? Recall that in a few years it will not be significantly different and that you cannot change it. You need to have realistic expectations and accept that a real man does not mean an ideal person, because that does not exist. Even if some of his habits are bothering you, think well -do you really feel that you cannot be with him? And keep in mind that you are not perfect, and that, especially if he is aware of it, he tolerates you. And tolerance is a sign of love. The true sign...The one for you is someone you really know, know his flaws and you can live with them till the rest of your life.

7. You two are very compatible

You are personally compatible to each other and understanding one another without saying a word, then it's very likely that he is the one for you.

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8. The relationship is relaxed

Along with the real guy for you, you will almost always be relaxed, careless, you will feel perfect in your skin and you will never have to play and pretend. Of course, he must be confident, safe in himself, and have positive energy that will affect the relationship. Once you find a partner that suits you, natural chemistry defines your relationship. You do not need to force, pull or repair something to make the relationship work well. The relationship gives you lightness and relaxation, and you notice it not only you, but others around you.

9. You do not have to compromise on who you are

If you need to change to make him want you, then he is not the right person for you. You need to feel good in your skin when you are with your partner. With him, you should feel good and he should encourage you to be even a better person. If your partner does not feel well in your company, it will be difficult for you to change that.

10. You believe him

When you trust a partner, you open your relationship for many opportunities. Without trust, the relationship cannot be developed and it is doomed to failure. In order to trust a partner you need to believe that he is trying and wants what is best for you. The secret of trust is not the expectation of the partner to be perfect. Maintaining realistic expectations is the key to understanding your roles. You will know that you have found your life partner when an evening out with friends is not a problem. 'The one' will believe that you will not do anything to hurt him, just as you will carelessly go to sleep when he leaves with friends.

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11. He makes your life better

Falling in love should work productively on your quality of life. "The one" should encourage you to have dreams and desires. Good partner will support you in professional, private and spiritual life.

12. You have a lot in common

You have common and unique spiritual, social, financial and economic attitudes, and it creates your fellowship. If you cannot agree on the basic values, you probably will not get far off. It's not enough that you are together. You need to want to develop the relationship together.

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13. He makes sacrifices for you

A true man will regard sacrificing as an honor, not a burden. When he wants to give you something that belongs to him, before you ask for it, you will know that he wants to have a serious relationship with you. If given with heart, it is not considered as a victim, but by investing in a common future. Whether it's time, money or energy, he will provide you what you need.

14. You are part of his world

When you meet his family, colleagues from work and friends, you will see who he really is. If he wants a serious relationship, he will not only want you to be part of his world but will open the way to you so that you can enjoy his world, along with his friends and family.

15. He takes care of you

Do not mix this with spoiling. He shows you with his behavior that you mean a lot to him. Whether you prepare dinner or massage your feet, it shows you his affection and takes care of you.

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16. He supports you

As much as your dreams are unrealistic, 'the real one' will support you in your accomplishment. When you are going to study for the exam in the middle of the night or prepare a project for a job, he will be with you to cheer for you and help you overcome your anxiety - because he believes in you and knows that you can do it. When you look at your life, you will realize that your person has always pushed you forward and helped you to progress. He will be the one who will keep you by the hand on the road to success.

17. Besides your lover, he is your best friend

In addition to providing you with indescribable romantic pleasures, the right one for you will also be your best friend, who will always be with you.

18. You have created your best memories with him

When you return to the past, the most beloved moments of your life will be those you have spent with your chosen one. The best of all is that after that you will create even countless wonderful memories.

19. You accept each other's strange habits

Snoring, biting your nails or gnashing your teeth: he will accept all your strange habits. Your bad or strange habits will not be repulsive to him but unique.

20. You wouldn't be the same without him

When you find the right one for you, your life will change. You will not change your personality because he will love you the way you are, but you will change your view of the world. You will come to question how you could live without him at all.

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Final Word

You are awhile in a relationship and still feel the butterflies in your stomach whenever you are with him, but are not sure if he is the right man for you? There is a lot of risk in love, so in time notice this 20 signs that will indicate that you are on the right track with your partner. Let's be honest: even if your partner is perfect, you will sometimes wonder, "Is he really the man I want to spend the rest of my life with?" "Do I want to marry him" or "Is not this all a big mistake?" So let the anxiety aside, and use the few tips above in this article, that will surely help you to find out if he is the right man for you.

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