30 Signs She Wants To Be More Than Just Friends With You

Women are super notorious when it comes to sending signals. That said, here are 30 signs that she wants to be more than just friends with you.

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30 Signs She Wants To Be More Than Just Friends With You

Signs that she wants to be more than just friends

Whether single or married, there are always specific signs a woman will exhibit especially when she's interested in being more than just friends. It is, therefore, a brilliant idea for you to learn how to read these signs so that you don’t end up missing out on the opportunity of a lifetime. It is also important to note that one woman is completely different from the next. This means the signs one woman exhibits may certainly not be the same as the next woman will. And with that said, here are the salient signs that a woman who is interested in being more than just friends is likely to exhibit.

1. She may touch her neck while talking to you

If a woman wants to either sleep or be more than just friends with you, then touching her neck while talking to you is something she’s highly likely to do. She’ll either do this while playing with her hair or maintaining intense eye contact with you. A woman might tell lies about her true feelings but her body language will never lie, especially when it comes to neck touching. Therefore, always pay close attention to how the girl behaves whenever she’s around you. The neck touching is subliminal and chances are that she won’t even realize she’s doing it. The neck touching is so sexual that you’ll definitely get the message without much thought.

2. Sexual glances = She wants to be more than friends

A wise man once said that the eyes are the windows to one’s soul. Therefore, you can tell when a woman is sexually interested in you by the way she looks at you. Her eyebrows will be raised (or cocked) and her eyes sparkling with pure lust or interest – or both. You can never go wrong with the sexual glance. It’s one of those looks you immediately notice the moment you see it. It’s the same look she’ll give you when the both of you are about to kiss. And just like the subconscious touching, this kind of look happens involuntarily. And that is why you need to consider it among the top signs to look out for when confused about whether or not she wants to be more than friends.

3. Twirling her hair; she wants to be more than friends

Girls will always play with their hair when they are interested in being more than friends with you. And the way they twirl will be so playful you’ll automatically tell that she’s teasing you. This sign applies to women, including the strictly married woman. As the informal dictum states, the heart wants what it wants - period. Therefore, if she wants to be more than friends, she’ll subconsciously twirl her hair, running her fingers through it while looking her best so as to seize your undivided attention. Hair twirling is also among the strong signs that she wants to be more than friends. This is because girls only do this when around boys they find really attractive.

4. An arched back is among the signs of interest

This is probably the first thing you’ll notice whenever a woman is interested in being more than just friends with you. When she arches her back, it pushes her boobs forward, making them much more conspicuous. Women do this intentionally because they fully understand just how much guys love and adore boobs. Therefore, she’ll arch her back in order to look more sexually attractive whenever the both of you are facing each other. If you ever notice a woman with whom you are just friends with doing this, it should be a hint that she’s more than ready to sleep with you. It would, therefore, be astute for you to make up your mind fast so that you don’t end up wasting her valuable time. Body signs don’t tell lies, unlike those dating coaches I normally see online. Learn to follow your instincts and you’ll know what to do the next time a woman throws this hint at you.

5. She’ll giggle if she wants to be more than friends

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Apart from the usual body language, another one of the salient signs that she is super interested in dating you will be too much giggling. Girls just can’t help but giggle especially when they are interested in a guy. She’ll giggle at almost everything you say, including your usual dry jokes that are usually frowned at by your friends. If you notice her exhibiting the above-mentioned signs while giggling all the time, it might be a good time for you to take her to a quiet, private place then go in for a kiss. If you go about your seduction process well, she’ll definitely kiss you right back.

6. She wants to be more than friends; she’ll blush a lot

A girl will always blush especially when teased by a guy she likes or sees as a “potential mate”. The more you tease her, the more she’ll blush. Blushing shows just how much the girl is powerless to your manly charm and should, therefore, be your cue to go in and seal the deal while you still can. Blushing also shows she wants to be more than friends. It means that she wants to either date or get married to you. If this ever happens to you, it would be nice if you decided what you really want and let her know your answer in advance.

7. Signs of interest: She’ll look over her shoulder

When a woman wants you, she’ll always make a point of passing by you more times than usual. And each time she does so, she’ll look over her shoulder just to see whether or not you are staring at her nice, round butt. And if you happen to be staring at her nice, round butt, she’ll definitely cast a sexy, come-hither glance at you. This sexy glance might be accompanied by a smile or a wink if she is confident enough. This shows she’s not only interested in being more than friends but she’s also willing to sleep with you. Thing is, girls and woman, in general, know what they want and would stop at nothing until they get it.

8. Flirts with lips; she wants to be more than friends

Forget about all the lies your favorite online dating coach has been feeding you with and only listen to what her lips are subliminally telling you. As I’ve mentioned over and over again, a girl’s body language will never lie. So how does a man listen to a woman’s lips? Well, it’s quite easy. For instance, she’d either apply lipstick in a slow, sensual way especially when she’s certain you’re watching. Even better, she’ll be sucking on her juicy strawberries while constantly throwing suggestive glances at you. If this ever happens in your presence, just know that you are being invited for a personate kiss - and maybe some hot, steamy sex afterward. Don’t be a douche!

9. More than friends: Invading personal space

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This is also among the most reliable signs to watch out for when wondering whether or not a woman wants to be more than friends with you. If she indeed wants to be more than just friends, she’ll invade your personal space any chance she gets. For instance, she will attack you with a pillow or hug you for absolutely no reason. She’ll even lean over and squint at your phone before asking jokingly, “Babe, who is texting us?” The good thing about girls is they’ll invade your personal space so smoothly and with so much cuteness you won’t even have time to get offended.

10. Attraction signs: She laughs at everything you say

Again, if a woman likes you, she likes everything about you. She’ll always throw caution to the wind and won’t care whether she is single or a married woman. Therefore, if she is interested in you, you’ll most certainly know because she’ll be giggling at just about anything you saying. On top of that, she might even admit to finding you funny even when it’s obvious you aren’t. If this ever happens to you, know for a fact that the hot woman really wants to be with you. And once you confirm that she’s interested, you’ll be expected to let her know how you feel about it.

11. Attraction signs 101: Her tone changes with you

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When a girl wants to date or sleep with you, you’ll notice her tonal change whenever she is with you. All of a sudden, she’ll start sounding sexy and very suggestive. And if you aren’t aware of what she’s up to, you might just find yourself getting turned on with the tone of her voice. You’ll also notice that her voice will switch to normal when everyone else is around because her in “that voice” will feel a little awkward. Even if she lies about wanting to be more than just friends, her body language, as well as her bold, flirtatious tone of voice, will contradict her.

12. Attraction signs 101: She bites her lips more

The only reason why she’ll be doing this is that she wants you to kiss her lips. Let’s just be honest for a second, a cute woman biting her lips is quite a sight to behold. Other signs to expect together with the lip biting include suggestive eye contact, a change in the tone of her voice, and lots of touching and giggling. If she bites her lips more than once, it should be clear as crystal that she wants to be more than friends. So, the next time you catch her biting her lips in a slow, seductive manner while gazing at you sexily, then you ought to know the deal.

13. Attraction signs 101: The three-head nod

Only expect a girl or woman who really likes you and would like to be more than just friends to do this. Whenever you suggest something she agrees with, she’ll quickly nod her head three times. She’ll either do this with a smile on her face or even better, a funny face that’s guaranteed to make you laugh your **s off. She’ll even do this when she’s a married woman. And if you still aren’t sure about her intentions after observing the three-head nod, feel free to look out for other signs suggesting that she wants to be more than friends.

14. Attraction signs 101: She pulls her sleeves up

Scientists claim that if a girl rolls up her sleeves, she subliminally wants a guy she likes to touch her hands. Girls consider touching a very intimate affair. Therefore, she’ll only signal you when she’s interested in the hope that you’ll follow through. Therefore, learn how to recognize these obvious signs because she might want to sleep with you but you have no clue whatsoever. Again, don’t fall for the lies the notorious online dating frauds tell you about what women say or need. Just look at her body language and you’ll know what’s up. You should also be on the lookout for the other signs just to be sure that you indeed are what she really wants.

15. Attraction signs 101: The flirting triangle

You can never go wrong with the flirting triangle because it always points to one thing - attraction. For those of you who aren’t familiar with the term, the flirting triangle is when the girl stares at your left right, right eye and your mouth in a complete sequence. To be honest, I can’t lie to you that I understand what this body language is supposed to mean. But since the psychologists have ruled it among the possible signs that she wants to be more than friends, who am I not to list it? Maybe she’ll do the flirting triangle because she wants to be kissed, I don’t know.

16. She flaunts her cleavage for you

As earlier mentioned, girls are fully aware of the fact that guys can’t resist a nice cleavage. Therefore, if she wants to be more than friends with you, she’ll do all in her power to get your attention using her “goodies”. She might wear a wonder bra or a see-through top that’ll make sure her irresistible chest area is all up in your face. This is a common sign that doesn’t discriminate. She’ll do this whether she is single or married. It is therefore among the common signs of attraction you need to keep an eye out for.

17. She wants to be more than friends when she preens

Preening is when a woman takes five to retouch her make up or spruce up her general look. She might take a mirror and makeup kit and do a quick retouch while continuing with the conversation like nothing is really taking place. The reason for this is to ensure she is looking her best every single minute she is spending with you. In other words, she’s carrying out the retouch for your viewing pleasure. In the process of preening, she might either play with her hair or steal a few cute glances at you. If she does that, never get it twisted. The girl is simply interested in being more than friends with you. And if the feeling is mutual, then don’t you dare sleep on this golden opportunity!

18. Facing you directly; wants to be more than friends

For the umpteenth time, a woman’s body language never lies especially when she wants to be more than friends. For instance, she’ll always have a knack for facing you directly, whether while standing up or sitting down. She’ll do this because she wants you to recognize her best features i.e. Her face, her boobs just to mention a few. She’ll also assume this position so that in case you want to move in for a passionate kiss, it would be easier and more convenient for you. So, once you notice her assuming this position, always be ready to take advantage of it and start seducing her immediately.

19. Fiddling with jewelry means she wants you

Just like it’s the case with her hair, the woman who wants to be more than friends will always find herself fiddling with her jewelry. This will happen as she touches her neck while talking to you. She’ll subliminally fiddle with the beads on her necklace and you’ll easily take note of that. She might be fiddling her jewelry while giggling at your dry jokes. It is therefore among the strongest signs that you ought to watch out for at all times. And the moment you notice this, intensify your flirtation because you are definitely doing something right.

20. She pays way more attention to you than usual

Whether married or single, a woman will always pay more attention to the guy she’s attracted to. This is something that comes naturally to her because she wants to know more about him. This might also be the case because she likes the way he’s talking or she tends to like his facial features. Paying close attention is among the sure signs, which are also usually very easy to detect. And you spot her paying too much attention to you; you’ll be expected to respond to her accordingly. In short, a man should always know whether he is interested in a woman or not. And the earlier you tell her the truth the better.

21. She touches you a lot

One of the many signs that show a girl wants to sleep with you is when she’s always touching you. Try telling a joke and she’ll be the first to lean over and touch you while laughing her butt off. She might also do this because the joke was way too darn funny. But if she does this over and over again, chances are that she is so into you. Touch is a very important part of seduction. Therefore, she knows clearly well that the more she’s touching you, the more you are likely to return the favor. And that’s exactly what she wants because that’s how body language works. Don’t listen to all these lies being peddled in the name of online seduction packages!

22. She wants you if she touches her thighs

Behavioral scientists have found that girls who like you will subliminally show you how they want to be touched. That’s usually the case when they want to either sleep or kiss a guy they like. Therefore, if a girl is always leaning over, laughing at your jokes while touching her inner thighs. That’s your greenlight buddy. Go in there and make us all proud! This is because she is showing you how she likes being touched. It would, therefore, be smart of you to pick the hint up and go with the flow. This should also tell you that she clearly wants to be more than just friends. So, when this happens, take her to a quiet place and kiss her passionately. Trust me, it will be worth your while.

23. She’ll unleash her sexy walk when around you

When a girl wants to date you, she’ll try and look as sexy as she can whenever she is around you. That’ll include her sexy walk. Don’t be surprised when she does the catwalk she’d been practicing in front of the mirror for hours just for you. And if she does the sexy walk and couples it with some seductive eye contact, you’ll automatically know she wants to be more than friends. For the umpteenth time, signs of attraction usually cut across the female gender. So, whether she is a married woman head over heels for her husband or a single girl attracted to a cute boy, you can always tell by how she skulks around her “person of interest.”

24. When she toys with her phone more

You can tell when a girl is interested in you by how she toys with items she has in her hands. They’ll do so in such a way that’ll make you aware of their intentions. And how they manage to do it is and will always remain to be a mystery to the male gender. She stroking the phone/item in a slow, suggestive manner or even better, play with it while suggestively teasing you. This should, therefore, be a clear indicator that she wants to sleep with you and don’t listen to whatever lies her friends are telling you. And if you also feel attracted to her, then the time to seal the deal is now.

25. Attraction signs: All hands on deck!

Another body language that shows a woman wants to be more than friends is when she puts her hands on her butt when talking to you. Women already know for a fact that men love a handful of boobs and butts. So, whenever she puts her hands on her hips especially when talking to you, chances are that she really likes you. And if you respond in a way she hopes you would, you might get a kiss and “backstage pass” to her bed. Therefore, always pay attention to these signs of attraction.

26. Attraction signs: The mirror effect

If a girl keeps mirroring your actions, it just shows she’s more interested in dating you than in being just friends. For example, every time you pick up your glass, she’ll pick up hers. And whenever you blink, she’ll also blink. She just can’t help it as she wants to be more than friends and her mind is working overtime to make you realize that. Ask any married men whether or not their wives still mirror their actions and their answers surprise you. As long as their relationships are characterized by strong attraction, there will always be evidence of mirroring. This is because she wants more and more of you!

27. Her breathing is heavy and much faster

A woman who’s interested in being more than friends will experience a heavier, much faster breathing whenever she’s around you. This is primarily the case because she’s uncontrollably nervous. At this point, all she wants is to sleep with you but doesn’t really know how to go about telling you. All she can do at this point is helplessly expecting the unexpected and that’ll definitely make her hella nervous.

28. She’ll take off some clothes

When a girl suddenly starts getting rid of some of her outfits whenever she’s with you, chances are that she wants to be more than friends. Forget all about the lies she’ll keep telling about how hot she feels and what not. If a girl doesn’t like you, she won’t even remove a heavy headscarf even when camping in the middle of the desert. That’s why I insist that to be on the safe side, learn to trust her body language because it always bears the true answers. Once she starts stripping down, play cool as you wait for the right time to lean in and kiss her - because it’s nigh.

29. She’ll give your drink seductive looks

If a woman shows this among other signs, then chances are that she wants to be more than friends with you. Just pay more attention when it comes to these obvious signs and you’ll know when and how to act.

30. Her knees will always point towards you

Married, divorced or single and searching, all women are the same when it comes to the exhibition of the body language of attraction. That said, if she’s interested in being more than just friends, her knees will always point towards your direction. If she does this, then it means you are in her good books. Stop hesitating and go for it irrespective of all the other lies you heard!

Final word

Learning how to rely on her body language before kissing or making your move will save you a ton of embarrassment. Thankfully, the female signs of attraction are usually written on her behavior. So, if you’re good at decoding these signs, you’ll realize that she is interested in being more than friends and get to do the necessary. Last but not least, always remember to have fun because women are beautiful! Good luck!

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