50 Sure Signs Your Ex Is Over You & The Relationship Is Done

Listed below are fifty sure signs that your ex is over you and that your relationship is done. These signs will tell you that you should move on as well.

50 Sure Signs Your Ex Is Over You & The Relationship Is Done

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  1. 50 Sure Signs Your Ex Is Over You & The Relationship Is Done
  2. Reduced Texts And Calls Are Signs Your Ex Is Over You
  3. Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Finds A Reason To Blow You Off
  4. Your Girfriend Or Boyfriend Talks To Their Exes
  5. Your Ex Avoiding Introducing You To Their Friends Means They Are Over You
  6. They Avoid Even Minor Instances Of Intimacy In Public
  7. I Replacing We Is One of The Signs Of Your Ex Being Over You
  8. Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Has Stopped Doing Sweet Things For You
  9. Your Ex Stopped Asking Questions About Your Family And Friends
  10. Your Ex No Longer Initiating Things Is One Of The Signs They Are Over You
  11. Your Ex Doesn’t Remember Important Days Related To You Is Among Many Signs
  12. You Are No Longer Together In The Pictures Posted By Your Ex on Social Media
  13. Your Ex Carries No Regret Is Among The Signs They Are Over You
  14. One Among The Signs That Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Is Over You Is That They Change Their Number
  15. They Tell You Bluntly That They Don’t Feel Anything For You Anymore
  16. Your Ex No Longer Contacting You Is One Of The Signs They Are Over You
  17. Your Ex Unfriending You on Social Media Is One Among Many Signs
  18. Your Ex Wants Their Things Back And Returns Your Things
  19. Your Ex Is Rude
  20. Your Ex Has Started Seeing You More As A Friend
  21. Your Ex Is Dating Someone Else
  22. Your Ex Has Stopped Responding To Your Messages And Calls
  23. Your Efforts Are Taken For Granted
  24. Your Ex Isn’t Making Any Effort
  25. Your Ex Tells He Or She Is Tired With A Sigh
  26. Their Family Has Become Cold To You
  27. Your Ex Doesn’t Seem Interested In Seeing You Again
  28. Your Ex Seems Cold Or Unexcited Or Even Irritated In Seeing You Again
  29. You Ex Posts About His Or Her New Date On Social Media
  30. Your Ex Don’t Mind You Dating Someone Else
  31. Your Ex Tells You That You Deserve Someone Better
  32. Your Ex Seems Happy And Content After The Breakup
  33. You Are No Longer The Priority
  34. Your Ex Tells You It’s About Them And Not You
  35. Your Ex Has Moved Away
  36. Your Ex Has Picked Up A Lot Of Hobbies
  37. Your Ex Isn’t Flirty Anymore With You
  38. Your Ex Left The Mutual Connections Behind
  39. Your Ex Avoids Reminiscing About The Relationship
  40. Your Ex Has Stopped Blaming You For The Past Problems
  41. Your Ex Isn’t Purposely Looking For A Date
  42. Your Ex Responds But Just Politely
  43. Your Ex Asks You To Move On
  44. Your Ex Made Some Major Decisions Without You
  45. Your Ex Is Never Home
  46. They Have Changed The Things That Reminded Them Of You
  47. Your Ex Breaks Their Promises
  48. Your Ex Hopes To Be Friends With You
  49. Your Ex Doesn’t Drunk Call Or Text You
  50. Your Ex Don’t Keep Telling Everyone They Are Happy After The Breakup
  51. Your Ex Says They Have Moved On

50 Sure Signs Your Ex Is Over You & The Relationship Is Done

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You must have been shocked by the breakup and in the deepest corner of your heart, you must have been wishing your ex would come back to you. There must have been signals in your relationship, some signs from your ex, telling you that they are not happy. They must have shown the signs of disengagement before breaking up. We might be confused about them or often we are either too blind to see them or live in the denial that everything will fall into place in time. What we don’t see is a chance of salvaging our relationship, a chance to save it before it totally breaks off. And no, don’t stalk, that’s not what I am talking about. Here are some sure signs that will tell you that your ex is over you and the relationship is done.

Reduced Texts And Calls Are Signs Your Ex Is Over You

The thing that your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend now prefers texting you instead of calling, and that too only when absolutely necessary, it is a sure sign that your ex is over you and that your relationship is done. Texting is not the easiest way to communicate, it is the easiest way to avoid real communication. So, don’t get too happy if your ex texts.

Your Boyfriend Or Girlfriend Finds A Reason To Blow You Off

If your boyfriend or girlfriend loves you, he or she will find ways to be with you. So, if your ex is making excuses or is showing up late, don’t make excuses or get confused with them being busy. It is a sure sign that your relationship is over and done with and your ex is now all set to move on.

Your Girfriend Or Boyfriend Talks To Their Exes

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So, if your ex is back in touch with their exes or has begun to stalk them, it is a sure sign that either your girlfriend or boyfriend has never been over them or not that into you anymore. That could be a rebound or a confused attraction but it could also mean that your ex is over you and considers the relationship over. If this is happening, it means there is no chance that your ex is coming back to you.

Your Ex Avoiding Introducing You To Their Friends Means They Are Over You

When your boyfriend or girlfriend is in love with you and is proud of you, they show you off to their friends. It is also a sign that they want to include you in their life. If they avoid going out with their friends with you or keep their distance with you when they are around, it is a sure sign that your ex is over you and that your relationship is over and done with.

They Avoid Even Minor Instances Of Intimacy In Public

Well, most people don’t like public displays of affection. They don’t like being hugged and kissed in public. But if I love someone, I will put an arm around or at least hold hands with that person. So, if your ex avoids holding your hand in public and keeps a little distance like you are some stranger or someone they hardly know, don’t get confused and take it for shyness. It means you must let go. It is a sure sign that your ex is over you and that the relationship is done and over with.

I Replacing We Is One of The Signs Of Your Ex Being Over You

The moment you notice that your ex has started speaking in terms of I as compared to We when in the relationship, it is a sign that it’s over. Like when they talk about the future and talk in the singular. Or like when they find a new place and instead of saying we must go, says I want to go and check out. This means your relationship is done and your ex is over you.

Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Has Stopped Doing Sweet Things For You

When your ex stops doing sweet things for you that make you go aww or feel weak in your knees, it is a sign that your ex is over you. It includes giving a bouquet of flowers, wishing you the best on occasions and arranging surprises.

Your Ex Stopped Asking Questions About Your Family And Friends

This shows that your girlfriend or boyfriend has stopped being concerned about you, your family and friends. This is a sure sign that your ex no longer harbors feelings for you. So, as your ex stops asking about people related to you, your family, friends, and even work, just know that your relationship is over and your ex has moved on.

Your Ex No Longer Initiating Things Is One Of The Signs They Are Over You

Has it been you who plans the dinner together, or the movie or an outing? Have you noticed your ex doesn’t initiate these things, not even once? It means they no longer wish to be in your company. Don’t be confused or ignore this sign. So, stop chasing them. And don’t stalk them. It is a sign that your girlfriend or boyfriend is over you and that your relationship is done with.

Your Ex Doesn’t Remember Important Days Related To You Is Among Many Signs

This shows that you no longer hold the same importance in their life if your ex is forgetting your birthday, your anniversary and your other important dates. This is yet another sign that your ex is over you and that there is nothing you can do about the relationship.

You Are No Longer Together In The Pictures Posted By Your Ex on Social Media

Look at the images on the social networking sites of your ex, their Instagram, Facebook etc. if you see there are no pictures of you two together, it means your ex has gotten over you and is no longer inclined towards you. This is a sure sign that your relationship is over and you should not stalk your girlfriend or boyfriend on their social media platforms as well.

Your Ex Carries No Regret Is Among The Signs They Are Over You

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When asked on how they are feeling, your ex answers that they are happy and doing great. They show no regret for breaking up with you and don't miss you. This might be a facade as well so don’t be confused. They might be trying to show to the world that they have done the right thing and are happy. But after a few days, it shows on their face, their depression, and regret. So, if your ex genuinely looks happy, they are over you and have moved on. It is a sign that you must not stalk your ex.

One Among The Signs That Your Girlfriend Or Boyfriend Is Over You Is That They Change Their Number

This one is the most obvious sign that your ex has moved on and they want nothing to do with you. However if you have ended in a friendly note, this might not happen. If your ex has changed the number, it means that either you have been very clingy or your breakup must have been bitter for them and they are going to extreme extent to heal themselves without bringing up the painful memories.

They Tell You Bluntly That They Don’t Feel Anything For You Anymore

It can’t be any clearer than your ex saying they don’t feel anything for you. It is a sure sign that your ex is trying to move on. You can win your ex over again. Them saying harsh things doesn’t mean it is the end of the world. You can change the mind of your ex about you but don’t look desperate and confused. However, it stands that your ex telling you that they don’t feel anything for you means they are over you and your relationship is over as well.

Your Ex No Longer Contacting You Is One Of The Signs They Are Over You

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This is the most common sign that your ex is over you and has moved on in their life. If your ex stops contacting you, it means that they don’t want to have to do anything with you anymore. It is a sure sign that your relationship is done and that you must not stalk them.

Your Ex Unfriending You on Social Media Is One Among Many Signs

This is a big deal in this age of social media and it is a sign that your ex is over you and doesn’t want to be in contact with you or be associated with you. However, if you have parted on friendly terms, this might not really happen. In that case you will have to look for other signs indicating that your ex is over you and the relationship is done.

Your Ex Wants Their Things Back And Returns Your Things

We are visual creature and the things that remind us of someone makes it hard to move on. So, if your ex gives you your things back and asks for theirs, it is a sure sign that they are over you. It means your relationship has come to an end and you should move on as well.

Your Ex Is Rude

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Well, not everyone gets rude. But sometimes when people are hurt, they act rude. Don’t get confused. Some also do that to get through you the fact that they don’t want anything to do with you. So, if your ex has become rude, it is a sure sign that they are over you and the relationship is done with.

Your Ex Has Started Seeing You More As A Friend

This happens mostly in more short term relationships. This happens when the physical attraction fades out in the relationship. So, if your ex says they see you more as a friend, it is a sign that your ex is over you and that relationship is done.

Your Ex Is Dating Someone Else

Well, everyone knows this, right? When your ex has started dating someone else, it is a sure sign that they have moved on. That could be rebound or serious but anywhichways it shows that your relationship is over. This also tells you that you should not stalk your ex-girlfriend or boyfriend.

Your Ex Has Stopped Responding To Your Messages And Calls

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After all, t is a normal thing to do. If your ex doesn’t respond to your calls and messages, it means they just need some time and space to get themselves together. But if even after months, your ex is doing the same thing, not responding to your calls and messages, it means they don’t want to. It is a sure sign that your ex is over you and the relationship. It means the relationship is done and don’t be confused about it.

Your Efforts Are Taken For Granted

You are doing everything to win your ex back and you have been doing it for months. But all your efforts are blind eyed by them and if your ex doesn’t care anymore about your efforts, you had better stop. It is a sign that the relationship is done and your ex is over you.

Your Ex Isn’t Making Any Effort

If it has been months and yet your ex doesn’t seem to be trying even a tiny tiny bit to win you back and get the relationship back on track, it means they don’t want to. It is a sign that they have moved on in life and is over between you. If your ex isn’t doing anything to rekindle the romance between you, your relationship is done for sure.

Your Ex Tells He Or She Is Tired With A Sigh

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When someone gets tired of putting all those efforts in their relationship, they would not want to do it anymore. So, if your ex tells you that he or she is tired already and doesn’t want to get back with you, you must step back and give them some time and space that they need. Don’t get confused by the assumption that your ex is just tired at that moment. It might be a sign that your relationship is done with and that your ex is over you and ready to move on.

Their Family Has Become Cold To You

If you have always felt warm and welcomed in the family of your ex and suddenly you start feeling the other way, it is a sure sign that your relationship has come to an end. When you become the part of their family and there is a fight between you, they will urge you both to reconcile and will even tell you how to win them over again. However, if they aren’t doing this anymore, it means your ex is over you. But this is not the case in every relationship. In some, the families are not involved yet and in some, the family will stay in touch with you even after the breakup because they really like you.

Your Ex Doesn’t Seem Interested In Seeing You Again

If your ex still cared about you, he or she would jump at every chance of seeing you. But if you have already extended some opportunities like a casual outing, a coffee, or dinner and your ex has denied all of them or failed to show up at these moments, it is a sure sign that they are over you and don't want to see you again. It means your relationship is done and that you must not stalk them.

Your Ex Seems Cold Or Unexcited Or Even Irritated In Seeing You Again

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If you have accidentally bumped into each other and yet failed to get any reaction or positive reaction from your ex, it means they don't want to see you again even by chance. Had they still felt something for you, it would show on their face and the way they behave. So, if you feel neglected, or get a cold reaction or even irritation on seeing each other accidentally after, say, a few months, it is a sure sign that your ex is over you. So, don’t stalk them and let them go.

You Ex Posts About His Or Her New Date On Social Media

If your ex still feels something for you even after your breakup, they would not do anything to hurt you or drive you away. They would still be looking for a way to reconcile and restart the relationship afresh. But if they start dating someone and are very open about it then it is a sure thing that you are out of the picture. If they are openly posting about their recent date on social media, it means that your ex has moved on and your relationship is over.

Your Ex Don’t Mind You Dating Someone Else

Similarly, if they don’t care if you date someone else, it means you don’t matter anymore to your ex. If your ex still loved you or cared for you, they would express their anger and bitterness over you dating someone else in some way. If they are not doing that, it means your ex is over you and your relationship is done.

Your Ex Tells You That You Deserve Someone Better

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This one of the most classic dumping lines of all time. It is used by someone to free themselves from the guilt of hurting others along the breakup. If your ex really loved you and believed that you deserve someone better, they would do everything in their power to be that someone better you deserve. But if they are saying this to you time and over again, it is a sure sign that your ex is over you and the relationship is done.

Your Ex Seems Happy And Content After The Breakup

If the breakup is not traumatic for your ex and he or she doesn’t feel the loss, it will show on their face and their aura. Your ex should miss you and that is normal. If he or she doesn’t look sad and stressed, it means they think the breakup was a good decision. So, if your ex looks happy and content, know that they are over you and that your relationship is done with.

You Are No Longer The Priority

If your ex has to choose between you and something or someone else, he or she always picks that other person or thing. This is a sure sign that you no longer hold that important place in their life anymore. It means your ex is over you and the relationship is done.

Your Ex Tells You It’s About Them And Not You

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Your ex knows that whatever reason they will give you, you will find a way around it. So, they say this line to tell you that you should stop trying to get back together. Your ex knows that any other reason won’t work as you will work on it and fix it, thus trying to get back together. So, they make it about them. You can’t change the way they feel about you. So, they make it their problem. The fact is they are trying to tell you that they don’t want to get back together and revive the relationship. It is a sure sign that your ex is over you.

Your Ex Has Moved Away

There could be many reasons why your ex has moved away and all those reasons might not be you. But if they have after the breakup, it means they want to move on physically and emotionally, away from you. If they stop being in touch with you before or after that, it is a sign that they have closed all the options of getting back together. You must take the cue that your ex has moved on and you must move on as well. Don’t hang onto the relationship that has been long done with.

Your Ex Has Picked Up A Lot Of Hobbies

It is a good thing to pick up new hobbies or the old ones that had been forgotten along the way of your relationship. Hobbies help you to feel better after the breakup and ease the pain. So, if you notice your ex picking up new and old hobbies, it means they are ready to move on and are over you. It is a sure sign that your relationship is over.

Your Ex Isn’t Flirty Anymore With You

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Usually, there is still a lot of intimacy between the partners even after a breakup. It is because they are still partly in love with each other. In these cases, there are chances of reviving the relationship and getting your ex back. However, if your ex is no longer flirty while talking to you, it means they have moved on. It is a sure sign that your ex is over you and the relationship is done with.

Your Ex Left The Mutual Connections Behind

There are a few exceptions to this. Your ex could still be in touch with the mutual friend because of the bond of friendship that they share with them from their side as well. But if your ex is reaching out to your family even after the breakup and is still hanging out with your cousin that they despised, it is usually a sign that there are chances of getting back together. However, if your ex has cut all ties with your mutual connections it is a sure sign that your ex is over you and that your relationship is done with.

Your Ex Avoids Reminiscing About The Relationship

If you bump into your ex and they bring up the time together, it shows they are still hung up on you and that there is a chance for you to get back together. But if your ex avoids reminiscing about the past and the relationship that you two once had, it is a sure sign that they have moved on and don’t want to remember the past. It is a sign that your relationship is done with.

Your Ex Has Stopped Blaming You For The Past Problems

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This is like the final stage, the final sign that your ex is over you and has moved on. It takes a lot to come to this. It means your ex is no more concerned about you and everything that had been in the past doesn’t matter anymore. So, if it has come to this one, it is the final nail, the final sign that your relationship is done.

Your Ex Isn’t Purposely Looking For A Date

Usually, this is what happens after the breakup. People hit the bar and places where they can hook up again as soon as possible. It is mostly because they want to get over the pain of the breakup and losing you and also to make you jealous so that you try to get back together with them. But if your ex is not doing anything like that, it means they are over you and that your relationship is done.

Your Ex Responds But Just Politely

When you get in touch with your ex, you find a certain amount of coldness but politeness in their tone. This means that they don’t really want to talk to you, but don’t want to come off as rude. They are courteous enough to respond to you but aren’t willing to talk to you. When you start missing the closeness, it is a sure sign that your ex is over you and your relationship is done with.

Your Ex Asks You To Move On

Usually, after a breakup, everyone thinks about moving on and tells their partner to move on as well. For some reason at that time, they think that getting back together is not an option and yet they keep that door open. They find ways to revive their relationship. But, if even after some time your ex still says the same thing and asks you to move on, then you must. It is a sure sign that they are done with the relationship.

Your Ex Made Some Major Decisions Without You

If your ex has made some major decisions that will affect his or her entire life and that don't include you, it means they are over you. They don’t consider it important to consult you since their future doesn’t include you. When this happens, you must let go of your ex as well. It means your relationship is done and your ex is over you.

Your Ex Is Never Home

When you begin to get over someone, going out a lot is a typical thing that everyone does. It means that you may go on a vacation or go out with friends a lot. So, if your ex is hanging out a lot and is never home, it is a sure sign that they are over you and that your relationship is over. In fact, you should do that as well.

They Have Changed The Things That Reminded Them Of You

You see new clothes on them every now and then and you see certain things are done differently or the interior of their living space has been changed, it might mean that your ex is trying to get rid of the things that remind them of you. It is a sign that your ex is over you and doesn’t want to be reminded of the relationship they had with you. This tells you that the relationship is done.

Your Ex Breaks Their Promises

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There might have been some commitments or promises that your ex made to you and now they step back from them. It might be because that it has slipped from their mind, or that they just chose to forget or that they no longer feel the need to impress you. If they still cared, they would keep the promise even after the breakup in the hope of getting back together. So, if your ex is not keeping up their promises, it is a sign that they have moved on.

Your Ex Hopes To Be Friends With You

If your ex tells you that they want to be friends with you and date other people, it means they find it ok to be around you and are comfortable with both of you dating someone else. This is a sure sign that your ex is over you because your presence doesn't bother them anymore. It means your relationship is done.

Your Ex Doesn’t Drunk Call Or Text You

Calling or texting someone while drunk often reveals the person’s hidden desire. If your ex calls or texts you while drunk, it is a sign that they are still not over you and want you back. It is just that they are not brave enough to say that upfront in when they are sober. So, if they don’t do that it might be because they are not thinking of you and the relationship anymore. It could be a sign that your ex is over you and has moved on.

Your Ex Don’t Keep Telling Everyone They Are Happy After The Breakup

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If someone keeps telling everyone else that they are happy, the fact is that they are not really happy. So, if your ex keeps telling you and everyone around that they are very happy after the breakup and that they don’t want to get back, they are lying. It means they are still stuck on you. But if they don’t do that, it means that they are truly happy and don't care what everyone else thinks. It is a sign that your ex is over you and that your relationship is over.

Your Ex Says They Have Moved On

This is the final straw. If your ex tells you that they have moved on, there is a fair chance that they have. You should listen to them. When your ex tells you that they have moved on, they also want you to move beyond the broken relationship. You don't need anything else to be sure of the fact that your relationship is over. These are 50 sure signs that will tell you that your ex has moved on, is over you, and that your relationship is done. At this point, you must stop chasing your ex and trying to get back with them. No matter what, you must not stalk them. You must move on as well. But you must try first to win your ex over and get your relationship back on track. That doesn’t mean you must push them to the point of no return and losing your dignity. Try, that’s one thing you can not be denied. Along with that give your ex some space to understand everything. Your ex must need some time to realise how much you love them and that you are the best thing that happened to them. You can lure them back into the relationship by recreating the magic of your initial dating days. However don’t push it too far. If it doesn’t work you must move on as well.

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