15 Ways To Make A Guy Fall Deeply In Love With You

Do you have a guy in mind that you want to fall head over heels for you? Here are 15 ways to make a guy fall deeply in love with you!

By Neko Yama
15 Ways To Make A Guy Fall Deeply In Love With You

Make sure he has fallen in love!

Growing up, I always dreamed of falling in love, getting married, and having a family. I didn't care about anything else. I thought I would stay in New Jersey for the rest of my life and marry my High School boyfriend. Now, when I look back at the teenage me who used to belt out Taylor Swift in her bedroom, I want to shake her (or should I say, shake it off, shake it off!) In college, I remained pretty sheltered. Then during Junior year, by some stroke of courage, I decided to study abroad for a semester in Rome. That trip changed everything. I fell completely in love with Europe, with traveling, and the unknown. I no longer had dreams of being a housewife or the white picket fence, I craved adventure. I returned to the states to finish up my Bachelors degree and during that time, I dated a few different guys who didn't respect or understand my desire to travel. I decided I didn't have time for anyone who tried to break my spirit or was willing to settle for mediocrity. I was determined to keep exploring. After graduating in 2014, I started applying to graduate schools to get my Masters in Psychology. My best friend mentioned that I should look in Europe and immediately a light bulb went off in my head. I started google-ing and found an American University in Netherlands that offered the program I was looking for and applied right away. I was accepted shortly after and before I knew it, I was moving across the world to a country I had never even been to before. That's where I met Luca. I wasn't looking for love when I found him. We met at the beach one day and it was truly love at first sight. 2 weeks later, we were at the same bar with friends when I drank way too much tequila. Luca ended up taking me home on his bike and took care of me all night. The next morning I was so embarrassed, but I was shocked to see that Luca was still there. Luckily he still wanted to see me again after that. We went out on a date a few days later and have been together ever since. I have since graduated with my Masters in Counseling and am still living in Netherlands while Luca finishes up his Masters in Civil Engineering. Then we'll take our next plunge together."

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Do you have a gorgeous man in mind that you're falling deeply in love with? And do you think that he's falling in love with you as well? Good for you, then! There is no better feeling than knowing you're loved back by the person you're head over heels for. It's such a good feeling when you know you're already in a relationship with the man you just dreamed of having once, right? However, do not forget the fact that there are relationships that do not work for a very long time. And, the people involved in it tend to ask where they did wrong after the fact. People believe that falling in love is so easy that they forget about its different stages. People fall with the person they believe they're in love with just months after they met, get married, and eventually, ruin the relationship as the days go by. Why does this happen, though? Love takes time, that's why. We usually mistake infatuation for love. People fall into a relationship only because they think someone is handsome or beautiful. Love doesn't work that way, which is why we have the infatuation stage, friendship stage, courtship stage, and so on. Although there are several success stories of these kinds of relationships that worked, unfortunately, it's not very many. So, why risk it all when it's easy to assure that both man and woman have fallen in love? As a woman, you might ask how you'll know if he's fallen in love with you. And if you think he's not in love but you're still willing to commit to him, is there anything you can do? Lucky for you, there are! It's all about love psychology! Keep reading these tips to make him fall in love for you for sure.

1. Make him fall in love with your outer radiance

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Although "falling in love at first sight" is not entirely true, the first thing that a man will see in you is your physical appearance. Therefore, it's important to put time and effort into taking care of yourself. By doing this, you are also showing him that you value and love yourself. Pay attention to your hygiene. Wash everyday, and make sure that your hair is clean and styled neatly. Make sure to brush your teeth after every meal. You don't want him to find out what you just had for lunch! One of the few things that men will remember is your scent, so always spray yourself with a clean-smelling perfume. Show him that you are always glowing by wearing make-up, but do not overdo it on a daily basis. Lastly, one of the most powerful tools you can use to make any person fall in love with you is your smile. One cliché you will hear from a man is "I love looking at your smile", so why not use that to your advantage?

2. Treat him as your hero and he will love you

"That dapper man in the photo is my husband and we are High School Sweethearts. We've been together for 12 years and were married last year. I'm originally from the UK and met Sameer on my first day attending High School in Canada. I first noticed him when he walked in late to English class. I was immediately smitten but it took a little longer to catch Sameer's attention! We started dating our second semester of Sophomore year and have been together ever since. We even went on to attend McMaster University together. We are now proud home owners and dog parents to a 6 year old toy poodle. People always doubted that Sameer and I would last. We were told countless times that we were too young, not to mention from two different countries and two different cultural backgrounds. But we followed our hearts and had faith in our love. The key to long term relationship success is allowing each other to grow and evolve over time. Sameer and I have both changed so much as individuals over the years but we continue to accept each other and our differences. We wear our matching @danielwellington watches as a reminder that the greatest gift you can give someone is your time- because you can never get time back. All of the small moments eventually equal your life, so chose wisely who you spend them with." * To get 15% off your own Daniel Wellington watch, click the link in my bio and use promo code WEMET #danielwellington #sponsored

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In a man's psychology, one of the most important things he takes pride in is his masculinity. Almost all men feel the need to be the alpha so your man will truly love it when you treat him as your superhero. Show your man that you appreciate his ability to provide and protect. When he solves problems, admire him and be proud of how he handles them. By appreciating him like this, he will try even harder to make you proud of him and would be willing to "die" for you. A man's heart fills with pure happiness when his woman thinks he's the greatest.

3. Love is acceptance

"This story is for every woman who may be panicking or feeling pressure because they're in their late 20's or 30's and haven't found the one. I'm sure you have a lot of friends who are married with kids and you feel like you're running behind. Well I'm here to tell you NOT TO SETTLE. I was married in my mid-twenties. I definitely settled and knew it. I always tell people if there is even one single ounce of you that is telling you it's not right, listen to that. That tiny feeling will not go away and will only continue to grow. Can you live with that feeling and pain every single day? You shouldn't. And you deserve not to. There is someone out there for you even if you don’t find them until later in life. I was 30 by the time my divorce was settled. Shortly after, I was in a new relationship. After 2 months, I moved to Philadelphia for my new boyfriend so he could attend grad school. However, shortly after our 2 year anniversary, I ended things. I realized that he wasn't the one either and I wasn't going to walk down the aisle again knowing it didn't feel 100 percent right. At this point, I was 33 and decided to move to LA for MYSELF. I signed up for an online dating app and went on several dates but none that really excited me. Until I met Reid. We set our first date for drinks and the rest is history. After two weeks, I knew I didn't want to date anyone else. Now 3.5 years later, we're married and trying for a baby at 36! I think I realized Reid was the one the first time he did something that upset me. In my two other long-term relationships, there was always a lot of conflict and defensiveness if I brought up something that upset me. So I braced myself for the worse when I told Reid that I felt bothered and un-loved by one of his actions. His response was so understanding, apologetic, and filled with love. He made me feel like I had a true partner. This is something I had NEVER felt before and always longed for. Reid and I never fight! I've realized relationships shouldn't be THAT hard- in fact, they should actually be pretty simple. Your partner is supposed to be the person who you tackle life's hardships with not the one who creates them."

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If you want your man to fall in love with you, do not treat him as something that needs fixing. Once you feel that you need to change someone's personality for your own benefit, that's not love at all and your man will just see you as someone who is controlling him. Although, yes, in a relationship where there is true love, both partners will somehow have to adjust to make it work. But to force your partner to change is entirely different. Accept your man for who he is. If he's a bit childish and has an interest and love for silly cartoon shows, so be it and do not try to change that as long as he's not hurting anybody. If he's a little shy and quiet around people, do not force him to go to parties to socialize. If you don't like his friends, then don't hang around them but don't tell him to leave them for good. Falling in love is all about acceptance. If there are a lot of things you don't like in a person, just leave. Do not ever try to control the person you love.

4. Love is being grateful

"On the days we scheduled to read our English papers in groups, Sam would leave his usual seat and find his way to my side of the classroom. We were both Writing majors at our University who became well-versed in each other’s writing, but strangers otherwise. It wasn’t until our grieving over the Haiti Earthquake in 2010 that we had our first conversation and learned we share the same Haitian ethnicity and both have family who were affected. After that, I realized we shouldn’t have been strangers at all. We both worked in the cafeteria and were in our school’s drama club. He was a complete nerd! I laughed at him more than I did with him until he charmed his way into my heart. He courted me. Our next play as a drama group was Midsummer’s night dream and our director saw fit for Sam to play King Theseus and I, Queen Hippolyta. We’ve been making memories together ever since. On September 17, 2016 Sam asked me to be his Queen forever and I said Yes!" (📸: @jonnieface_photo )

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When we fall in love with someone, we become almost willing to die for them. We would commit everything into giving our loved ones safety and security, right? In a man's psychology, that's the way it works too. It has to do with their masculinity so they think it's their main responsibility to provide and protect the woman they love. However, due to today's women being independent and able to provide for themselves, we tend to disregard our men's efforts. So, for them not to be disheartened, the least we can do is to be grateful and be appreciative of their efforts.

5. Show him that you're happy

In a relationship, happiness is just one of the many things that keeps it going. When a man sees that he cannot please you anymore, or when he sees you disappointed with him all the time, he'll lose confidence and think he's not able to make you happy. Men are very simple creatures; if they see you happy, it's enough for them to go on. Your happiness is like their energy booster to keep the love going. If ever there's a problem that's tearing you apart, and he tries to console you by making you laugh with corny jokes, appreciate that. Because as much as it's a simple gesture to you, to see you laugh and smile is the most important thing in the world for him. Do not ever ignore his effort to help you whenever he can. When a man sees his woman feeling happy by his side, he tends to fall more deeply in love.

6. Trust in each other

"I met Dain at a surprise party over five years ago. He was my first date, my first kiss, and my first boyfriend. For his 18th birthday, I gave him a Beyonce CD (trying to convert him to the Beyhive) and 10 pounds of Reese’s peanut butter cups. Even back then there was always something about Dain. I found him hilarious, easy going, handsome, witty, and the person I never got tired of being around. He was unwavering in his beliefs and always did what was right. I could give example after example of times I saw just how big his heart is, and the genuine compassion and empathy he feels towards others. Yesterday was his 23rd birthday, and he still has all of those same qualities and more. And just when I thought he couldn’t get any better, he married me."

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The usual cause of endless arguments and feuds between couples most of the time is mistrust. For a man, there is nothing more irritable than to hear his woman doubting him. If you think that he is always off doing something that might hurt you, he will get offended by it and get tired, eventually resulting in him falling out of love and ending the relationship. For two people to fall deeply in love, complete trust in each other is essential.

7. Be an independent woman

One common personality trait that many women have in relationships is being too clingy. Though there are men who feel macho and fall more in love when their women are overly attached, there are also some who find it quite annoying. Besides, it's not to your benefit either to depend on other people for your happiness. There is nothing sexier than a woman who's independent. Believe it or not, most men think the same way. Show him that you're living happily and that you have a great life. Know that it's okay to turn down dates sometimes because you're busy. Show your man that you can stand on your own and don't need other people to live.

8. Simplicity is beauty

It's okay to be concerned about your physical appearance. It's okay if you sometimes take hours to get ready for a date because you want to get your eyebrows on fleek. It's okay to carefully choose the clothes you're going to wear. After all, it's normal for women to want to look pretty. But never be high-maintenance. Do not be the type of woman who turns down a date because a man could not afford to reserve a table at a fancy restaurant. Do not be someone who turns down adventure because she doesn't want to get dirty. Do not be the woman who hates cheap and secondhand items. You might think you're feeling important when you do these things, but it's a major faux pas in society. There's no need to be a snob. Aim for simplicity. Appreciate what your man can give you.

9. Show him what makes you special

If you are skilled at something, never miss an opportunity to show off in front of him. There are men who fall more deeply in love when they see that their woman has a lot of talents and skills because they'll be reminded why you are so special. For example, if you're good at playing an instrument, try to find a way to play for him. Rest assured, he will give you an amazed look as if telling you silently "I am so proud of you!" He will show you off to his friends as if to tell them to fall in love with you too.

10. Never forget to balance your time

When you're just starting out, it's okay to be together almost 7 days a week. It's an opportunity for both of you to get to know each other, share your interests and hobbies, be happy together, go out on adventures, and so on. It's a stage that will make you both fall more deeply in love. But keep in mind that each of you still have your own lives. Make plans of your own and make him miss you sometimes. Not being able to see each other for days develops a much deeper desire to get in touch.

11. Give emphasis to your similarities

"It was my Senior year of college and graduation was approaching. I decided to apply to give the commencement speech for my class. I started watching other commencement speeches on YouTube to get some inspiration and came across Mitch's in the search results. I loved the sound of his voice but more importantly, I loved how witty he was. I emailed him to ask if he would read the draft of mine. He wrote back saying he would. A year passed of not talking when I messaged him online and said 'Do you remember me? I’m the graduation speech girl.’ He responded: 'Of course I remember.’ That night we chatted for hours, connecting on so many parts of our lives and laughing so hard that my cheeks hurt. I had just moved to NYC and Mitch mentioned he would be visiting from California for the Challenged Athletes Foundation charity event. We arranged to meet for a boat ride with some of his friends on the Hudson River. As I saw him walking towards my cab at Chelsea Piers, I became nervous because I wasn’t expecting to be so attracted to him. I purposely dropped my credit card in the cab, gaining some time to compose myself. Within the first minute, I knew he was the one. When I got out of the taxi, he said, ‘Oh my, you are so beautiful’ and quickly apologized for being so blunt. We spent every day together for the next week until he had to fly home. He proposed just four months later and I moved to La Jolla, California. After our wedding, he convinced me that we should do a 70.3 Half Ironman together for our honeymoon. We did the entire race together, start to finish and got a drafting penalty for biking too close to each other. I’m forever grateful to have trusted my intuition after watching his speech to reach out to him. He is my soulmate. Finn, our first baby, was born three months ago and when he smiles, he has the same eyes as the man I found on YouTube. Anything is possible."

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In a man's psychology, if there is someone who has the same interest as him, it's worth knowing that person. So, if you both love something a lot, try to give emphasis to it during conversations. For example, if you both love playing video games, plan a video gaming marathon for your next date. Just don't overdo it, because he might think you're desperate to get his attention. The similarities you both share are one of the keys to falling more in love.

12. Ask for his help

"As someone who called off her destination wedding 1 month before the date, trust me when I tell you to always trust your instincts. Listen to that inner voice when it tells you something doesn't feel right despite external pressures and expectations. In 2012, I was about to graduate college when I first spotted Dan at a bar. I noticed him having a great time with his silly dance moves. I decided to use his Bluejay's hat as an excuse to talk to him. Long story short, the night ended with me puking and him holding my hair back. Any other guy would have just excused themselves, but not Dan. We stayed up the rest of the night talking and dated for a few weeks after that until I graduated college and moved to San Francisco. I knew we shared a special connection but I was 22 and ready to conquer the world. We maintained a friendship and went our separate ways, but my feelings for him never quite faded. One time I flew to Boston on a whim to tell him how I felt, only to be introduced to his new girlfriend. I was crushed and returned back to SF thinking that was the end of our story. Life went on. He moved in with his girlfriend and I got engaged. Naturally, our friendship fizzled out with respect to our relationships. Then, a few months before my wedding, I knew something wasn't right in my relationship. I flew home to spend time with my family and figure it out. It was an emotional time as I analyzed my life and tried to understand what I was feeling. While I was home, Dan, who had no idea what was going on, randomly texted me out of the blue. It had been 2 years since our last conversation. I found out he had ended his former relationship. Our conversation lead to the most natural re-connection and something inside of me knew that Dan was my destiny. I had never stopped loving him. I called things off with my fiancé and cancelled the wedding. I flew back to California and moved in with Dan. It sounds crazy, but it just felt right. We eloped on leap day with $15 rings purchased at the courthouse (mine was hot pink)" * You can be in a relationship for 2 years and feel nothing. You can be in a relationship for 2 months and feel everything. Time is not a measure of love

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Again, it's all about masculinity! Make him feel needed and ask for his help whenever you feel the need. It doesn't necessarily have to be a big issue, sometimes just a little gesture is all that matters. For example, you can ask his help to carry heavy furniture or ask his advice on a dilemma you're having. By doing this, you're making him feel important.

13. Love him truly

"In 2012, I was working for a New York matchmaker part-time to supplement my income as a preschool teacher. Part of my duties as a matchmaker’s assistant was to attend charity events and talk with guests to find potential matches for clients and recruit singles for the company's database. In December 2012, my boss was hosting a holiday party and I was in charge of organizing the guest list. I was looking through the database for bachelors to invite and remembered a nice doctor I recently met at another party. I invited him to attend and bring two guests- one of whom was Lonny. I decided to wear a red dress that night because every girl in New York City wears black and I wanted to stand out. Even though I wasn't there to meet anyone special because I already had a boyfriend, I would be networking. I noticed Lonny looking at me from a distance and went over to introduce myself. I asked him if there was anyone at the event he was interested in meeting to which he replied, "No, but you’re my type. There’s really no one else here I’m interested in." I was flattered, but told him I was already seeing someone. A week later, I was sent to another party to scout for potential matches again. I was wearing the same red dress when I happened to run into Lonny. He spotted me immediately and came over to say hello. In conversation, I mentioned I was meeting my boyfriend's parents the next day to which he replied, "That mean's its serious." I'm pretty sure he thought there was no chance after that. A month later I was single and attending yet another event- this one for young professionals. And you guessed it, I was wearing the same red dress. When I spotted Lonny there, I was excited to see him, but also extremely embarrassed to be wearing the same outfit for the third time in a row. He probably thought the dress was plastered to my body. But he didn't seem to care and when he found out I was newly single, proceeded to ask for my phone number. On our first date, we stayed up talking until 5 am. Now we're engaged to be married. I still have that red dress and yes it's the one in the photo above. I think I would get married in it if I could." (📸: Teri Bloom)

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Of course, there is nothing more important than making your man feel loved. It's not just about exchanging "I love you" in text messages and chats. It's not about just kissing and hugging either. It's all about committing yourself to him completely, staying with him through thick and thin, and showing him that you need no one else in your life but him. When he sees how much you've fallen for him, he will treat you as his queen and will be head over heels for you.

14. Be someone that brings positivity

"Bill Murray once said, "If you have someone you think is The One, take that person and travel around the world. Buy a plane ticket for the two of you to travel all around the world, and go to places that are hard to go to and hard to get out of. And if when you come back to JFK, when you land in JFK, and you're still in love with that person, get married at the airport.” And that is exactly what we did. We met on a dating app. On our first date we quickly realized how much we had in common, basically running parallel lives. We both shared a strong passion for travelling and an interest in seeing the vastness of the world. While enjoying a drink on our 2nd date during a beautiful spring day, Jack said "Let's go to Mexico, you and me." I was hesitant and remember thinking as a woman this probably wasn't the safest idea. But being a lover of spontaneity and of course remembering Bill Murray's advice, I pushed my fears aside. We booked the tickets right then and there. We went. We adventured. We fell in love. Now we have a pact- we always book our next vacation before our current vacation ends. And as we continue traveling together, we continue to grow more and more in love with each other."

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No one ever wants to fall in love with someone who is a pessimist. No man wants to commit himself to a woman who does nothing but complain about almost everything. It's a turn off for men when they see their women always disappointed. Try to be the woman who brings positivity to his life. Be the type of woman who can brighten his mood on even the most miserable of days.

15. Love takes time

"Sometimes we put up walls, not to keep people out, but to see who actually cares enough to break them down. I was 20 years old living in New York City as a struggling actress. I was at a wrap party for a play I was in and this British guy with an amazing smile decided to crash it. As he approached me, I came off as cold and uninterested, which was really just my defense mechanism for being intrigued. I had a boyfriend at the time who I knew wasn't Mr. Right. But when Cory asked me to join him and his friends at a Manhattan rooftop afterwards, I declined. He asked again later on in the evening, and I declined again. He then asked my friends who asked me, which made me laugh. I caved and we all ended up going. We had an amazing friendly night and afterwards, he returned to London. Before we parted, he was honest about his attraction towards me, and although I couldn't verbalize the same interest, he could see it in my eyes. He's always been very good at that- at reading me. A year later, I was single, and Cory wasted no time returning to NYC for a visit. We shared a lot of laughs, deep conversation, and an undeniable chemistry. We were falling for each other and of course that freaked me out. I knew he was leaving again, and being that I was young, living alone in NYC, and afraid to fall in love, I pushed him away. Again, he was able to read me and knew that's what I was doing. But he understood. We didn't speak for a while after that. I even tried dating someone else who lived closer, but I knew I was settling. I ended up moving solo to LA to further my acting career. In the spring, I planned a trip to Ireland with a friend and wrote to Cory to tell him I'd be across the pond. Without hesitation he said, "see you there." Seeing him in the streets of Dublin waiting for me after all those years suddenly made all of my fears evaporate. Every emotional wall I'd built up was suddenly shattered. Dublin started a whole new chapter for us. We fell in love, except this time nothing was holding me back. His patience, consistency, and unconditional love is something I've never experienced. I'm no longer scared but grateful I found someone who cared enough to wait for me."

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Last but definitely not the least, do not hurry love as it takes time. You can follow all the tips mentioned in this article but never be desperate and overdo them. A man should be head over heels for you because of your genuine self, not because you tried your hardest to get his attention. Be casual and let time decide for both of you. If it doesn't turn out the way you wanted it, just think of it as a blessing in disguise and remember that someone better is waiting for you.

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