Make It Memorable: 100 Proven Ways To Turn A Person On In Bed

Sex can become monotonous and routine if you have been engaging in it with your partner for many years. Eventually, either one of the spouses loses interest in it, and they just do it to satisfy the other's needs. But sex can be spiced up and made exciting in numerous ways. This not only strengthens your bond with your partner but also adds a spark to your relationship. Sometimes couples engage in sex without the required foreplay or without the other partner feeling aroused. Women often fake their arousal just to make their partner happy or to end the process quickly. But if you really want to enjoy your sexual intimacy, then you have got to be sure that your partner is equally turned on. Following is a list of some proven sure shot ways to turn a person on in bed.

1. Make sure you are clean before going to bed. You might think that you smell fine but certain body odors cannot be known to us but only to someone who comes close to you. 2. Apply some sexy aftershave or perfume before going to bed. Certain perfumes contain pheromones which seduce the person and releases some hormones in the body making it crave for sex. 3. Sweat is a big turn off, so make sure you smell fresh and fragrant if you want to turn your partner on. 4. Put on some good music. Light and soft music is a great way to turn on your partner. Music destresses the mind and makes the mood light. 5. Make a list of all the things your partner likes and try to follow at least a few of them if you want to turn him or her on. 6. If your partner gets turned on by a good bum, then give him a sneak peek into your sexy lingerie clad bum. 7. Light some candles and dim the lights as the perfect ambiance is the ideal turn on for many people. Being turned on is just a mind game. One needs to do all those things which they think will turn their partner on. 8. Dress up in sexy lingerie to turn on your partner. Try on a new pair every time. 9. Share the same blanket or quilt as that gives more access to feeling each other in bed. 10. Prolong the tease factor while in bed with your partner by accidentally touching him or her here and there.

11. Kiss him/her on their most erogenous zones. Erogenous zones can be earlobes, neck and chest hair for men and neck, upper arms, shoulders, and stomach for women. 12. Try a different sex position every time. Try woman on top, standing position, anal, doggy style, 69 and every other position possible. 13. If your partner likes kinky sex, then dress up accordingly. Maybe a cat woman or a Batwoman with a hunter. This really arouses some people. 14. Blindfold your partner and strip her with your tongue, this will really turn her on. 15. Put some porn movie while in bed to turn your partner on. 16. Do not discuss any important issues as this is a major turn off. Keep such discussions for some other time. 17. Grab her butt casually while watching tv as this will turn her on and set her in the mood. 18. Play with her hair while spending some quality time with each other. This too turns her on. Women like such soft gestures and get turned on. 19. Play with the hair on his chest as this really turns on some men. 20. Give your partner a sensual massage. Use fragrant or edible oil or some massage cream.

21. Some light touches on the arms, neck and back area will turn her on. 22. Give her a sensuous kiss while seeing a similar kissing scene on the screen. 23. Fondle with her breasts while focussing your attention on TV. 24. Let her feel your hard-on while resting her head on your lap. 25. Massage her lower back or temple area while she watches TV. 26. Massage her feet. 27. Tickle her while he or she is completely engrossed in their TV. This really deviates their attention and distracts them. 28. Plant soft kisses or pecks on her shoulder, arms, and neck. 29. Just hold her hand while something romantic plays on the screen. 30. Whisper softly into her ears. 31. Blow softly near her temples or neck, as this really turns a woman on.

32. Caress her body on top of a mountain. 33. Tell her you want to make love out in the open. 34. Take her for a long drive and explore each other in the car. 35. Take a walk holding her hands. 36. Kiss her in public as this will instill greater confidence in her about your commitment. 37. Be naughty in the swimming pool with her. 38. Be naughty in the movie theatre with her. 39. Feel her from under the table while dining somewhere out. 40. Do some crazy stuff with her like tickling her or licking chocolate off her body.

41. Take her shopping. 42. Load her with presents. 43. Whisper sweet nothings into her ear. 44. Talk about your deepest fantasies with her. 45. Tell her what your female means to you while in bed together. 46. Gift her something precious just as you both get comfortable in bed. 47. A female finds a guy with a great sense of humor really attractive. Use your best jokes just before you want to have sex with her as this would turn her on. 48. But a sexy piece of lingerie as a gift for her and tell your female to wear it for you. 49. Comb her hair. 50. Massage some night cream onto her hands and legs before going to bed.

51. Massage her gently on her hands and legs. 52. Give her soft pecks and kisses on her back and shoulders to turn her wild with passion. 53. Use your tongue to strip off her lingerie. 54. Make sure you smell great and fresh as a bad smell is a real turn off. 55. Caress her everywhere apart from her private parts as this really drives them wild with lust. 56. Tease her with your kisses and caresses till she begs you for sex. 57. Some cocktails before going to bed also help in relieving the stress and putting her in the mood. 58. Give her a deep kiss and even bite her on her lips. 59. Tell her how much she means to you while foreplay. 60. Ask her if she wants gentle or rough sex and oblige accordingly.

61. Guys love to see their woman without makeup in bed. 62. Smell great and fresh for your guy. 63. Make sure you have waxed your hands and legs and also your pubic area. 64. Wear a sexy lingerie according to your guy's likes. 65. Take him by surprise and dress up kinky if you want to turn him on. 66. Underarm hair is a great turn off for most guys, so make sure you clean them. 67. Give him a nice BJ to turn him on. 68. Tease him by showing your sexy parts in bits and pieces. 69. Touch him where he likes it most. 70. Play with his chest hair and suck his nipples, guys like it too. 71. Tell him your deepest fantasies like enacting 'Grey's Anatomy' or doing a threesome. 72. Do a little sexy dance for him to turn him on. 73. Do a striptease for him to turn your guy on. 74. If your guy loves belly dancing, then show him your skills. 75. Pole dance together or other slow and seductive dance together. 76. Kiss him in the shower. 77. Tell him to apply soap all over your body. 78. Be experimental and try different sex positions together. 79. Message him about waiting for him at home with wine for a sexy date as this will really turn him on and excite him. 80. Go to a striptease club together. 81. Sexting is a great way to turn your guy on. 82. Give him pomegranate juice or other such natural drinks to boost his libido. 83. Hug him passionately and let him feel your body. 84. Wear his favorite color while going out for a date. 85. Feed him chocolates or grapes to arouse his senses. 86. Be loud and utter soft moans during foreplay as this greatly turns your guy on. 87. Tie him up and do all the wonderful things to your body to turn him on. 88. Share some sex toys together. 89. Wear your high heels on while making love as will turn on your guy. 90. Enjoy naked Sundays by cooking in the nude on a relaxed Sunday morning in your kitchen. 91. Run around the house in the nude to make your guy really horny. 92. Have sex with his on the kitchen table. 93. Play a sex game of slow stripping while playing cards or chess. 94. Sit on his lap while he does his work. 95. Leave some naughty love notes in his underwear or his pockets. 96. Read an erotic book aloud to him. 97. Challenge him into a commercial sex session quickie. 98. Masturbate in front of your partner. 99. Pretend as if you are too engrossed in your work while giving him a good peak at your body. 100. Bend in front of him to let him get a good view of your rounded bum.

Sex is one of the most beautiful things a couple can share. Its free, it's limitless, and it helps you connect deeper with your love. As the saying goes, 'Smile more as it costs you nothing, so holds true for sex. Have as much sex with your partner as possible as it costs you nothing. Try all the tips mentioned above in the list to excite and spice up your sex life and to make it feel like new every time. Take into consideration your partner's sexual cravings and fulfill them.