20 Signs to Tell If Is He Flirting or Just Being Nice At Work

Wondering if your colleague is flirting with you or simply being nice at work? Worry no more. Watch out for the following signs to be certain for sure.

By Dagmar Thomson
20 Signs to Tell If Is He Flirting or Just Being Nice At Work

20 Signs to Tell If Is He Flirting or Just Being Nice At Work

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Most women always know whether a man is flirting with them. Sometimes, it can be hard to know if a man is flirting with you when he sends out mixed signals. Most men will send out simple signs just like women to show that he is flirting with you. If you want to know whether he is flirting or just being friendly, you have to pay attention to the signs he is sending. It is very important to know if a man is flirting or just being nice especially at work. You do not want to mistake the signals and think he is flirting. This could cause the atmosphere in the workplace to be awkward when you get the signs all wrong. You might find that there is a man at work that you are very attracted to. When you talk to him, you do not know if he is flirting with you or he is just being friendly. You hope that you are not reading too much into the signs he sends your way. To be honest, most people find it hard to read other people’s body language. At times, you might find that he is smiling at you and you think he is flirting. In the real sense, it could be you have something in your teeth and that is what is making him smile.

Signs That He is Flirting with You at Work

1. He Constantly Checks You Out

When you are at work, you get to notice that each time you are in the same room or when you walk past him, he checks you out. You should try to see when he is checking you out if his eyes are going up and down your body. If he does this, then it is a sign that he is flirting with you. When he checks you out, he is sending you a sign language that he is interested in you. You might also notice when you are talking to him, his eyes always wanders to your bust region. This is his way of flirting and telling you that he is interested in you.

2. He Touches You Often

Men often tend to flirt by touching a woman. When a man does this, he is trying to create a connection with the woman he is interested in. When you are at work and you notice that when he touches you, his hand tends to linger for some time. Then this is a clear sign that he is flirting with you. When he holds your hand at work each time the two of you talk, then he is flirting with you and not just being friendly.

3. Look at His Smile

You need to be observant and know how often he smiles at you. You also need to know if he gets a glow in his eyes when he smiles at you. If he smiles at you often and at times for no particular reason then he is flirting with you. When he gets a glow in his eyes then, this language is his way of saying that he is interested in you and not just being friendly at work.

4. He Leans In When Having a Conversation

When you are having a conversation and a man leans in to you then it could be he is flirting with you and not trying to hear what you are saying clearly. This is his way of telling you that he is interested in you. If he only does this with you and not with the other women at work, then he is definitely flirting with you.

5. He Asks You If You Are Single

When a man at work approaches you and asks if you are single, then he is definitely interested in you. He is curious if you are single or not. He can also flirt in a clever way using phrases like “there is no way a girl like you could be single. “ This is his way of showing you that he has a crush on you and is interested.

6. He Treats You in A Special Way

When a man pays you more attention than other women do at work then he is interested in you. This could be his way of flirting with you. There also some men at work who are known as common flirts. You should be wary of such men since they flirt with you for fun and are not really interested. They use flirting as a way of making friends or just entertaining themselves.

7. His Eyes Sparkle When Talking To You

When a man talks to you and his eyes become wide each time, then you are having a flirty conversation. When his eyes are expressive like having a sparkle, he is definitely interested in you. If this happens often when you are at work, then you should know he is flirting with you.

8. He Lets You Know He Is Single

If you are just having a normal conversation and he cleverly puts in something about his ex. Then he is trying to let you know that he is single and available. This is his way of flirting and hoping that you are also interested in him. If he has not mentioned this to another woman at work, then he is definitely flirting with you.

9. Notice If He Blushes

Whenever a man talks to you and he blushes a lot, it is a sign that he is interested in you. This is a man’s way of flirting and letting you know that he likes you and not in a friendly way. You should know that some men are shy and they will blush when a woman talks to them. This does not mean they are interested in you. Make sure that you can be able to differentiate this and know when a man is flirting with you.

10. He Remembers Everything You Tell Him

Most men are known to be forgetful creatures. Therefore, when you notice that a man can remember everything you told him like stories and jokes then he is interested in you. A man will flirt by being keen to anything you say and this happens without their knowledge. When he is flirting, it will be as if a switch has been switched on and he records everything you tell him.

11. He Acts Nervous

You will know a man is nervous by his body language. If he is around you and he touches his ear or hair and keeps on shifting in the seat, then this is his body language saying he is nervous. He could be doing this because he wants to impress you and is afraid of rejection. It is his way of saying that he wants to flirt with you and does not know how to do it.

12. He Gets Excited When He Sees You

You will know he is flirting with you when he is happier than normal to see you. When he tries to extend conversations and the two of you are not that friendly then he is flirting with you.

13. He Spends A Lot Of Time With You

When you notice that he always wants to spend time with you and does not want to leave your side then he is interested in you. He is flirting with you by telling you that he loves your company. If you are not interested in the man, this will feel weird. It is good to let him know so that it is not weird in the workplace. When a man you are interested in does this, then enjoy it since he is flirting with you.

14. He Highlights What You Have In Common

When a man is interested in you, he will find a way to know the things that you have in common. He will flirt by making sure that he gets the chance to talk about them and let you know. This is a sign that he has a crush on you and hopes that you get the hint and flirt back.

15. He Always Compliments You

If you get to work and you find that he is always the first to compliment you on how you look, this is a sign he is flirting with you. He can flirt by using phrases of how you look each day. If never fails to compliment you then, know that he is flirting with you because he has a crush on you.

16. He Pays Attention

When you talk to a man and you notice that he does not pick calls then he is interested in you and wants to hear what you have to say. If it seems like he talks quickly with people who interrupt your conversations, it is clear that he is flirting with you by paying more attention to you.

17. He Gets Pissed When Your Conversations Are Interrupted

If you are talking to a man, someone at work interrupts your conversation, and he gets mad, that is a sign that he likes you. He gets mad since someone is getting in the way of him flirting with you. Just know that he is interested in you.

18. He Does Everything to Impress You

When a man keeps on telling you about all he has done and achieved, then he is trying to impress you. It might seem like he is bragging but in real sense he is trying to flirt with you by informing you of his achievements.

19. He Winks At You

Everyone knows that when someone winks at you then he or she is flirting with you. If there is that man at work who only winks at you, just know that he is flirting with you and wants you to know that he is interested in you.

20. He Talks and Jokes A Lot about Sex

When a man constantly talks and jokes about sexual stuff to you, it is his way of flirting. He wants to find out if you are also interested in him. He may also want you to flirt back with him. It could be his way of finding out if you are comfortable with him. Therefore, when you flirt back, he is assured you are also interested in him. Flirting always makes you have butterflies or get a warm feeling in your body. When you find a man you are attracted to flirting with you, it makes you feel like you are on cloud nine. You might find that there is a man at work who keeps giving you signs and you are not sure about them. His body language could be hard to read and you are afraid of misreading the signs. The 20 signs discussed will help you to know if a man is flirting or is just being friendly. If he is flirting with you, then flirt back and enjoy the thrill of getting to know each other.

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