Top 10 flirting signs from a man you wished you knew

Flirting is an art that comes naturally to most men as well as women however men are often more expressive when it comes to it. Flirting means the display of attraction towards someone in a more playful or cheerful manner. Men and women flirt with each other when they are attracted to each other. However, most of the times, it is the men who will make the first move. Men flirt in a number of different ways. Some of these ways are as follows:
 

• When he cannot hold his smile back around you
• When he makes constant eye contact with you
• He cannot help checking you out
• He teases you
• He puts in an effort to make you laugh
• He calls or texts you out of the blue
• He is trying to find ways to grab your attention
• He gives you his undivided attention
• He jumps in to play Superman if you need anything
• He compliments you

There are times when ladies can get confused about whether a man is flirting or not, but if they pay a little more attention, his body language will answer all your questions. Some of these cues are that he will try to grab the attention of a girl randomly by doing anything funny or even silly sometimes; he will even stand at a distance from his friends and will hope to be noticed by the girl he is attracted to.

Some men make it so obvious that they want to flirt with you and they want to be seen by the girl they are checking out while others can be very discrete about it. Once he has your attention and he finally gets to talk to you, he will try to make innocent physical contact with you like he might touch your hand while handing you something. Most men do not want to come across as creepy instead of cute hence to keep it cute, he will lend you his jacket or coat if you are cold. He wants you to notice that he is flirting with you in a cute manner.

At first, he will initiate by friendly conversations and will eventually try to escape the monotonous work-related conversation and will show interest in your personal life. However, he will make sure that he does not make you awkward or uncomfortable being too direct. Hence at first, he will befriend you and after he is comfortable with you, he will ask you if you are seeing anyone or if you like anyone. He might even play a guessing game with you saying that there is no way a girl like you could be single, hoping you will contradict his statement.

When a guy is paying you more attention as compared to his other female colleagues, he is giving away the vibe that he is interested in you and this is one-way men flirt at work. However, there are always a few men who will flirt with any girl nonetheless. Some men flirt as a habit and they are not really interested. You need to know if he flirts with all the girls or if he is like this only with you. If he is interested in you, he will treat you a lot more special than other female colleagues.

Whenever a man starts blushing while he is talking to you, it means he is interested in you and wants to take things forward with you. A man will only blush while talking to you if he likes you more than just a friend. It is important to know how to differentiate when a man is flirting and when he is only shy or intimidated.

Most men are bad with little details and are often pretty forgetful. Therefore, if a man remembers things you have told him it means he pays attention to everything you say. This shows that he is interested in you and wants to know more about you. A man will flirt by paying attention to you and by being a keen listener. He being observant and extremely mindful towards you shows the level of interest he has in you.

A guy will only get insecure when he is really into you. He likes being your go-to person and acts weird when other men are being extra nice to you. He will not be insecure for all the girls at the workplace but if he is insecure for you that means he is interested in you. He will get mad when someone else offers to help you with work and will always try to be the first person to help you out.

There are two possibilities that a guy will talk about other women with you: if he wants to make you insecure or when he isn’t interested in you and just treats you as a good friend or colleague. By his tone and actions, you will know if he is trying to make you insecure or if he actually is not into you and was just being nice or friendly with you. Further, if he asks you to help him talk to that other girl, this definitely means he just treats you like a good friend.

If a guy is not interested in you and is just being nice, he will not give you any extra attention or make you feel special in any way. He will treat you as nicely as he treats all his other co-workers. If a guy likes you, he will make sure to give you that special treatment so if you're not on his mind, this is a major sign that shows that he is not into you and is just being nice like he is with everyone else.

A man might be super nice and friendly with you but if he is interested in you he will make sure to not ditch you on a night out. If he cancels plans with you last minute to hang out with his friends, this means he just treats you like a normal colleague or a friend and he is not interested in you in any other way. Guys who are trying to impress a girl will make sure they do not ditch plans, especially at the last minute.

If a guy is really interested in you, he will genuinely put in an effort to hear you out and pay attention to your tales. However, when a guy doesn’t think of you in any special manner, he might forget things you have shared or he might not even listen attentively in the first place. When a guy is flirting with you he will make sure to pay attention to everything you say.

There are guys who are genuinely nice and offer to help you with work but they offer help to everyone who needs it. It is a part of their nature and they are helpful towards everyone who needs help. If a guy is interested in you, he will go that extra mile to help you with work even if he doesn’t offer help to anyone else. The guy who helps everyone is just nice and isn’t trying to flirt with you.

All of us ladies have been put in a position where we get confused about the actions and initiatives of the males around us and this article was written to help you understand the signals of that opposite gender better! Let’s not embarrass ourselves ever again by misinterpreting a sign and always being one step ahead in this sneaky game of flirting by keeping all the above pointers in mind. Best of luck ladies! <3