Top 10 Ways To Keep A Guy Interested After Sleeping With Him

Has it been hard to keep your guy interested after you sleep with him? Read on and learn how to keep him coming back for more!

By Lisa
Top 10 Ways To Keep A Guy Interested After Sleeping With Him

How do you keep a guy interested after you sleep with him?

You have just slept with a guy you really like. You want to see more of him. Now you need ways to keep the guy interested. What are you going to do? How are you going to keep him interested? There are some very simple ways to keep him from losing interest. A good conversation isn't a bad idea. Maybe try not to be so clingy and needy. Try to be adventurous and willing to try new things. There are many ways to keep the guy interested. Let's face it, most men are driven by sex and beautiful women. Meaning what is beautiful to them. They will do just about anything when it comes to sex and sexual attraction. So, do what you need to do to keep the guy you just slept with interested? These are some guidelines to what you can do to help keep him interested and wanting more than just sex. Hopefully, you will get the relationship you want out of following these guidelines and just being yourself!

He seems interested in me!

Be honest, open, and fun! Do not be clingy or overbearing. A man does not like a woman that is totally dependent on a man to be in her life. If you are fun to be around and if you're willing to try new things, he will be more likely to get in touch with you and want to hang out with you again. That is what a man is in to. He does not want a woman to have to be in constant contact with him; wanting to know what he is doing and who he is with at all times. That is a major no, no!

Pleasuring and teasing

Nothing keeps you in the mind of a guy that you have just slept with than some fun sexting. Or even some good sexual favors in the weeks after, to keep you fresh in his mind. Men are often driven by sex and sexual talk. Whispering sexual things to him in his ear or over a text message is a great way to keep him interested and wanting to see you sooner rather than later. What guy wouldn't want to come back for more after you just gave him the best blowjob of his life! Keeping the sexual tension between the two of you will make him want to see you again as soon as possible.

Keep things interesting

What guy wouldn't want you to come over after the blowjob you just gave him! He will want to see you again just as much as you want to see him. Keep him interested by sexting him dirty talk and sexual talk to leave him wanting to leave work or his friends to come and see you right now! Make him wait a couple of days, just to build the sexual tension a little bit. But don't wait too long or he may go somewhere else.

Be positive

Having a positive outlook on life is essential and as an added bonus, guys will remain interested in you thanks to your 'glass half full' mindset. If you are a negative person and believe that everything sucks, he will not want to hang out with you ever again. You need to be open to trying new things and just going with the flow and having fun. If you do so, the guy will want to spend time with you. If not, he will try to stay very far away and he will run in the opposite direction every time he sees you.

Do not be clingy!

Let's face it, most men and women do not want a partner that is clingy. Even if you happen to be in a long distance relationship, you do not need to know where he is at all times. Nor do you need to text and call all the time either. Some emotional distance can be a good thing. If you sleep with the guy and it is memorable enough, the distance will actually make him think about you when you are not around. Being clingy is not a good sign for the man you just slept with. If you are too needy, that is a major turn-off for a man. He does not want to be with you every second of the day. Even if you were married, you each need to have your own time to yourself. Enjoy some time with just the guys or just a girls. It will keep the spark alive in a relationship.

OMG! She will not stop calling me!

If you act clingy and needy, any guy you sleep with will run the other way. Men do not like a women that has to spend every waking minute with them. A quick conversation on the phone is all it takes to make plans for later. Even with long distance relationships, go about your day like normal. Do not call and text every second. It is a huge turn-off!

Intelligent conversation will keep him interested

Having a smart conversation is a good tactic. A man wants to know that you have a brain inside that pretty little head of yours. He does not want to hear about so and so's relationship, or about makeup and things girls talk about. He wants to be able to have an intelligent conversation. Maybe about the world news or sports. Maybe he just wants to get to know you and about your family and how you grew up. Tell him about what traditions you and your family follow and get to know more about him. If a women knows about sports, that is a bonus for a guy who is really into sports!

Looking good for your guy

Make it a point to look your best if you think he is going to be around or if you are going to see him. If you are going to see him again, who's to say you can't be wearing something sexy when he comes to your door for the evening? It will definitely make him think about you and make it hard for him to forget you. If you are always looking good, the guy will always have you in the back of his mind. He will want to see you and sleep with you again for sure!

Give him something to remember you by!

Have a little fun with him. Wear something that he will never forget. He won't be able to wait until the next time you want to see him. Keep things little long distance and let him wonder and dream until the next time you are together. It will keep his interest for sure.

Let the guy know you are interested in him!

You have to be honest with the guy. Have a conversation about wanting to spend more time with him. If you do not let him know that you have an interest in spending more time with him and want to get to know him better, he will have no clue. Most men do not pick up on stuff like that. You just have to be blunt and honest. More than likely, he will want to get to know you better too.

You won't know unless you try!

You want to let the guy know that you like him and that want to see him again. If you do not, he might not think you are interested and decide to move on. Men do not like playing games and will not wait forever. You need to be honest from the beginning, so as to not have your feelings hurt or to give mixed signals.

Be independent to keep the guy interested

What guy does not like an independent woman? It shows that you both can have your own life and still get together and have a good time. It proves that you do not need a guy to be happy. A guy wants a women that can go out with her friends without him, and meet up with him later or another day and not have a fight or confrontation about what they were doing the night before.

Being independent!

If you are independent and do not need a man in your life to make you happy, then you are already in the game. Men love it when a women can have her own life and he can have his own life and they can meet in the middle or hang out on occasion.

So it's not just physical

Just because you slept together does not mean that you do not have other things in common. I bet if you sat down and had a conversation with the guy, you would find out that you had more in common than just a physical attraction. Maybe you have the same outdoor interests that he does or you like the same movies and foods. You will not know unless you sit down with him and have a conversation.

I'm not going to sleep with you and never see you again!

You want the guy to know that it is more than just sex. You do actually have feelings for him and like spending time with him. You are not just any random girl to sleep with and never see or talk to again. Make sure you let him know that you want to see him again on a date, not just to sleep with when you are drunk or lonely.

Not just a person to sleep with

Now you need to let the guy know that you are not the easy girl at the bar. Some men lose interest if they think a girl is too easy. You need to prove to him that you are not that woman. You deserve to be respected and you have self-confidence in yourself. Let him know that there is way more going on in you than just a good lay every once in a while. You really want to get to know him better. On an intellectual level and not just a sexual level. You slept with him so soon because you are attracted to him in many different ways. Not just a physical attraction.

Not going to sleep and leave!

You may have jumped the gun in sleeping with the guy. You need to let him know that you are not typically the easy girl. You need to let him know that you slept with him because you like him and have feelings for him and because you want to spend more time getting to know him. So you already got the awkward first time out of the way, now you can spend time getting to really know each other.

Act casual around him

If you act like sleeping with him was no big deal, I bet it will drive him crazy! Do not let sleeping with him seem like a big deal, even if it felt that way to you. Make sure that you keep communication open though, so that you can still ask him out on another date. Remember that you want to act casual, but not so casual that he thinks that you do not like him and do not want to see him again. Imagine that you are out with a group of friends. Do not hang all over him and follow him everywhere, let him do his thing and you do your thing. It will add some excitment for the next time you guys are alone and wanting to get it on again. It is a fun way to build sexual tension and have a good time in the process.

Be casual

If you act like it is no big deal that you slept together, it will drive him CRAZY! When you are out with friends, just act like nothing has happened between you and I bet he will want to leave and go home with you at the end of the night. Assuming he can wait that long!

Put a little distance between you and the guy

Put a little distance between the two of you. If you keep some distance, he will wonder what you are doing and who you are doing it with. If it is long distance he might think that you are not interested at all and move on. So be careful how long you go without contact. It is good to just randomly surprise him with a phone call or text message to keep him interested and wondering about you.

Blow his mind

Seriously now, you should invite him over after about a week of long distance talks. Cook him a nice dinner and wear something sexy. When you are done eating you can sit on the couch together and watch a movie or talk about how you feel about him. The long distance, the fact that you can cook, and seeing you in a sexy outfit will all leave him wanting more. Remain mysterious for him for a while and let him wonder and dream about you. When the time is right, tell him you want to be with him and not just for SEX!

Make him want more!

It could be fun to be mysterious and sexy all the while letting him know that you like him and want to spend more time with him on an intellectual level. Men love an honest woman who knows what she wants and goes out and gets what she wants.

Be mysterious

I think every guy likes a little mystery with his women. Why not be a little vague in telling him what you are up to and who you are with? If he thinks you are with another guy, he might want to see you. Maybe he will want to spend more time with you if he thinks other guys are after you. Be mysterious, but not so mysterious he thinks you are sleeping with everybody. A little teasing never hurt anybody!

How to keep a guy interested after sleeping with him?

So, most men are driven by sex and sexual favors. Most guys think about sex all the time and are willing to do about anything for it. Especially if it is good sex. Guys do not like clingy, depressed, women who have to have a man in their lives to feel complete. Guys want a women who is independent and upbeat who likes to have fun and try new things. Being spontaneous and adventurous are just a few good qualities to have. Also, being able to talk dirty and engaging in some sexting will help to keep your guy interested. Tell him what you want to do to him the next time you see him. I bet he calls and wants to see you as soon as possible! You should be able to keep the man you want interested after sleeping with him by following the tips that have been provided for you. Just remember to always be yourself and do you first. Just be sure to have fun in the process. No man is worth changing who you are, and if you have to do that for the guy you just slept with, then he is not worth the time.

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