Beginner's Guide to Butt Plugs

All you need to know about butt plugs and how to use them right!

By Kimmy
Beginner's Guide to Butt Plugs

What Is A Butt Plug?

You must have heard of the name butt plug, among ten thousand other types of sex toys you used to joke around with your friends in high school. Once you enter the sex world, a quality sex toy is a supplement to your bed skills.

Butt plugs are one of the most popular sex toys available. A butt plug is essentially a plug shaped like a teardrop with a flanged end so it doesn't get lost up in one's anus. Butt plugs are popular because they can be used by everyone, whether you are a man, a woman, or a transgender.

Those who have used a butt plug have often commented on the intense orgasm you can get from it. Anal stimulation can be much more intense and pleasurable than other types of orgasms.

There are many shapes and types of butt plugs on the market. Some are huge and some are small. Some are even shaped in special ways to accommodate different people's desire.

If you are planning to try a butt plug for the very first time, you are in the right place. This article provide the full guide to anyone trying this glorious toy and how to enjoy it to the maximum.

Can Butt Plugs Bring Orgasms?

Yes, 100% yes.

Butt area is known to be an erogenous zone. It stimulates your G-spot, allowing for a better, faster climax. Both men and women should be able to enjoy the anal orgasm but it's said that it's easier for women to achieve it as the anus area is close to the G-spot area in the vagina. Women may get more stimulated than men.

With using a butt plug, it can be easier to achieve orgasm than through normal penis penetration. Butt plugs are designed for human pleasure and a lot of them come with the buzzing feature, which allows users to a faster orgasmic experience. 

Are Butt Plugs Safe?

There are many misconceptions and misunderstandings surrounding butt plugs. First of all, you will not shit yourself. It may feel like you do because it's the same hole, but you won't. Discomfort is normal as your anus gets used to having something coming up from a different direction, but it should never escalate to pain. If you experience pain, you should stop and see if you are doing right or if you have got the right butt plug for it.

Second, butt plugs are the safest things you will be able put up your butt. A lot of people who want to try something exotic put things that aren't made for their anus like fruits and tools. Those objects may end up getting stuck and the person will require medical attention. Butt plugs are specifically designed for your anus and for your comfort. If you ever want to try, butt plugs are your best option.

However, since there are different types of butt plugs. Choosing the right one is important. Bringing the wrong butt plug could cause internal bleeding and traumatise yourself. If this is your first time buying a butt plug, make sure you are getting something your anus can handle.

How To Choose The Right Butt Plug?

For all beginners, start small. The big ones can be intimidating and cause a great deal of discomfort. Your anus usually will not be able to adjust to having something up there so quickly. It takes some time before you will be able to enjoy it. Sex for the first time for most people is not the best, you have to work your way up. Most butt plugs are shaped the same. Choose the smallest size so it's easier to insert.

Butt plugs can be made of different materials. For first-timers, silicone butt plugs can be a great options. It feels the closest to the skin texture and reduces the feeling of having a foreign object in there. Silicone is also the calmest materials used for sex toys, meanings it will likely not to cause any allergic reaction. For people with sensitive skin, silicone butt plugs will be a great choice.

In your local sex shops, there may be butt plugs that come with a ring for you to put on the finger. In some cases, there may even be a flluffy tail attached at the end so you will look like a fox after you insert it. These fancy-looking butt plugs are popular among couples looking to role play, or to perform at a sex party. They can surely increase the mood in your bedroom.

Be careful as the longer the tail, the heavier it gets, and it may not feel the best for someone trying it for the first time. Most of the extravagant ones are for performers and not really for regular use at hone, as fancy as they look.

There are also the buzzing ones that work like a vibrator. It can bring twice the pleasure if you know how to use it right. It's up to your personal preference but usually for first-time users, having a vibrating butt plug can be too intense and not in the best way possible. So you may want to keep the vibrating one until your anus is more used to it.

How To Use A Butt Plug

Lube, always use a lot of lube. Even when you think it's enough, it's probably not enough, put more. Your anus can't produce natural lube like a vagina so lube is a must for a painful insertion and better stimulation. Depending on what type of butt plug you have, choose a lube that suits your needs.

If you want to use your butt plugs in the shower, choose a silicone-based lube so it lasts longer. If you are using it together with your partner during sex and you are using a condom, don't choose an oil-based lube as it will destroy the protective property of the confom.

Once you have chosen the right lube. It's time to get started. Whether you are using your butt plug to masturbate or with a partner, foreplay is a must to get your body ready. Relax your body. Lie down and start applying lube around your anus and on the butt plug. Remember, the more the merrier.

After you have applied the lube, point the tip of the butt plug gentle at your anus. Move it around first to arouse yourself and feel the touch on your skin. Then, slightly pressure the tip into your anus. Don't force it in. Take it very slowly and stop immediately if you feel pain. Discomfort is normal. That's why you need to take it real slow.

Constantly apply more lube to the area and pull the butt plug out when it hurts. You can try to put on a different lube to try again.

After a few tries, once you have put the whole thing in, it will feel like you are in an orgasmic heaven. The orgasm brings to you by a butt plug is not comparable to other types of orgasms.

Clean your butt plug every time after use like how you would normally clean your other sex toys. With soap and water. Dry it completely and store it probably in a drawer for the next time.

How To Convince My Partner To Try Butt Plugs?

Butt plugs are not for everyone. It can be hard for some people to see the fun in it and they may reject the idea. If your partner hasn't warmed up to the idea of using a butt plug, try something else first. Have you tried using other sex toys? Does your partner enjoy it?

It can be scary to use a butt plug for the first time. You can get to get him over that fear by introducing other toys that he might like. Then, get the smallest butt plug and show him how to use it. If he doesn't like it, encourage him to watch you try it so he sees how much you are enjoying it.

Communication is the key to convincing your partner. Butt plugs are made for everyone. So if your partner still refuses after you keep trying, you should just use the butt plug on yourself instead of forcing him and damaging the relationship.


Butt plugs are the kings of dildos. They are for everyone and bring to you pleasure like no other. You don't have to be afraid of using a butt plug. Follow this beginner's guide and enjoy the best sex you will ever have with this magical toy!