For some men, the thought of stimulating their prostate is not appealing at all – they even cringe at this thought. The prostate is a small walnut-sized gland, present between the urine bladder and penis. But realistically stating, massaging a guy’s prostate can arouse infinite sexual pleasure and excitement.
Most of the gays, bi-curious and bisexual men have tried this practice of stimulating their prostate for sexual fun. The interesting thing here is that there are also straight guys, who like this idea of getting their prostate massaged for pleasure. Those, who have done it, term it as a sexually electrifying experience and that is why sex experts have dubbed it as male G-spot.
There is a major difference between penile orgasm and prostate orgasm. And it has also been found that prostate stimulation can lead to more intense orgasms than penile orgasm. Here Are the Most Important Things You Need to Know About Stimulating a Guy’s Prostate.
What Is Male G-Spot?
It is also known as the P-spot, which is a nickname abbreviated for the prostate gland. It is located within the premises of the male reproductive system and its main role is to create prostatic fluid, which mixes with the sperm to yield semen. It is located right in front of the rectum and its muscular action helps expel semen right from the urethra during the process of ejaculation.
Apart from its role in reproduction, the prostate can also be stimulated gently for stirring sexual pleasure and producing extreme orgasms. It is very easy to achieve prostate orgasm, locate it and massage it.
It can be directly stimulated with a sex toy, a penis, or a finger. It has been established that prostate climax leads to muscular contractions probably due to a euphoric sense of full body orgasm. Why does the g-spot react in such a manner?
It is due to the presence of thousands of nerve endings, which are extremely sensitive to the touch. The number of nerves presents around the prostate is nearly equal to that of a clitoris. Imagine, what will happen if you can stimulate them all at once. A sheer wave of orgasm!
How To Locate The Male G-Spot?
One needs to locate the prostate at its accurate location to produce a g-spot orgasm. It is located nearly two inches deep in the rectum and right below the bladder. Guys, who want to find their prostate need to indulge in some sort of masturbation or foreplay to make it easier. The reason for this warm-up is that after getting sexually aroused the blood flow to the prostate increases and it swells a bit, which makes it easier to find it.
Insert your anal toy or even your finger into the anus, nearly three or four inches deep. Make sure that your toy or finger is pointed towards the belly. First, you will touch the rectum wall and then be able to feel the prostate. Once you touch it, it will feel very satisfying. As told earlier, it is about the size of a walnut. It will also feel firm to the touch. The prostate can also be stimulated externally by rubbing the area between the ball sack and the anus. This area is called the perineum. External stimulation can also help reach orgasm, but anal penetration is recommended to experience a potent prostate orgasm. When you can stimulate the nerves the sense of pleasure would be indescribable.
Stimulating The Male G-Spot The Right Way
You can find it yourself or even ask your partner to do it for you. Here, I have included a few tips that will help stimulate the g-spot without any difficulty.
First of all, discuss with your partner that you want to try this. Anal stimulation can be a lot of fun with your partner. Discuss everything and make it certain. It is important to have the consent of your partner to do it with utmost enjoyment.
Make sure that your hands are perfectly clean before the anal fun. We have bacteria present on our skin and even inside the rectum. So make sure that you are all pristine. And in the same manner, once you are done with prostate massage, make sure that your hands are cleaned thoroughly.
It is suggested to make use of a finger for the first time. Again you can do it yourself or ask your partner for the favor. A finger is the best option for beginners, as it is small and allows more control. Just see that fingernails are perfectly trimmed. You can even wear a condom or a glove for prostate massage.
Any sort of anal play suggests making use of lots of lube. And the major reason for that is, inside the rectum, there is no mechanism through which lubrication can be maintained naturally. To stay comfortable just have a tube of lube at hand. I would recommend water-based lube for anal play through a condom and a silicone one for bare fingers. Silicone-based lubes are much thicker in consistency and hence, they last long. Just make sure that the choice of lubricant is made appropriately. The anus should be lubed carefully from inside and outside. Before massaging the prostate make sure that your anus muscles are loosened up.
Doctors recommend external prostate stimulation before the internal pleasure, gets properly turned on. This will also help your body understand that the prostate is being stimulated. The next step. Start very slowly. And keep the finger inside till you get used to its presence. A few seconds would do it. Once you are all relaxed start moving your finger.
There are several methods of massaging a prostate. But don’t go too hard in the beginning. Keep it slow and light. Once you are comfortable enough start stroking the prostate with your finger in a ‘come hither’ motion. You can also tap it gently or stroke it in a circular motion. Sometimes, orgasm can also be achieved by just putting light pressure over the prostate. If you are doing it to your partner, ask for his feedback. And observe his response to different massage techniques.
Most of the anal toys help stimulate the g-spot. Butt plugs, anal vibrators, prostate massagers, and all other similar adult toys help in enjoying a liberating prostate orgasm. These toys come in handy if you don’t have a partner or want to skip the fingering part. Do it yourself or ask your partner.
What Are The Risks?
Always remember that the anal lining and the anus are extremely sensitive parts of our body. Though the anus can stretch to some degree, it cannot offer internal lubrication as the vagina does.
So you need to take proper precautions, as unprepared anal stimulation can lead to tearing and pain that could ultimately cause an infection. Everyone involved in anal play needs to prepare accordingly both the giver and the taker.
At first, it might seem uncomfortable, but it will get okay after some time. That is why sex experts recommend getting in the mood before any sort of anal intercourse. The same rule applies to prostate stimulation.
There are no serious risks attached. Just stay super clean, all lubed up, and extremely horny for a prostate massage.
What Are Other Pleasure Spots Apart From The Male G-Spot?
A male body is also loaded with several sensitive spots, which when aroused can lead to sexual orgasm. I am going to list a few that can be stimulated along with the prostate to double the fun!
Also known as the head to the penis, it is equipped with numerous nerve endings which feel good after being sucked, licked, rubbed, or even touched. While giving the prostate massage, you can also play with the tip of the penis to add some action.
Is not just a sack! It has got some feelings too. By massaging the balls and prostate at the same time, your man will certainly go wild. You can also play with his scrotal raphe, a fine line that runs right down the middle of the ball sack.
So, Here Are the Most Important Things You Need to Know About Stimulating a Guy’s Prostate. I hope that this read was helpful. So what are you waiting for? Go grab some lube and find the pleasure spot!
It is not a difficult thing at all and doesn’t be alarmed if you are unable to locate it on the very first try. Have patience, do it later when you are in the mood again. Male g-spot the next mission?