60 Interesting and Fun Topics to Talk About with Your Girlfriend

There will be moments within your relationship whether it is new and fresh or if you have years under your relationship belt where you will run out of things to talk about, it happens. But, if you want to spark up a curious conversation and keep things fun and engaging here is a list of topics you both can tackle while discovering new things about one another that would probably surprise you.

We all know that us ladies tend to talk a lot about anything and everything while your guy sits back and admires your verbal skills but, sometimes that doesn’t happen. The usual “how was your work day?” and getting into it about coworkers isn’t always conversations people like to lean toward.

We all know work is work and that is it. But, as a couple, it’s all about discovering new things about each other and getting excited about questions that get you thinking.

So, let's go ahead and start.

This is another universal topic. Sports is the same everywhere a lot of women know about sports, and a lot of other women don’t. But, if your girlfriend is a sports fanatic, then I’m sure the conversations easily flow around super bowl and playoffs. Go, Russell Westbrook!

Everyone looks forward to a nice vacation after weeks and months of all work and no play. A great conversation could be had that will leave a great result…a relaxing and peaceful time with your girlfriend somewhere on the beach in Cancun having drinks and laying up under the sun or night sky.

A great question to ask your girlfriend, especially if you guys are together. At this point what you are feeling with her is love and more than likely she feels the same way. But, why not ask her what love is to her? Love is subjective, and people find different ways to show love. This well help your relationship in the future because now you both have your set definition of this term and no reason to get the word confused.

If you are having it, then why not talk about it? If it is good sex let your girlfriend know, and if it is bad sex then you need to talk about that with her, too. Sex is a big part of the relationship, and if someone is not fulfilling needs, then it needs to be discussed.

Everyone has created a bucket list at one point in their life. If you have not created a bucket list yet, don’t worry it isn’t too late, you have your whole life ahead of you still. A great way to learn more about your girlfriend is to ask her what she wants to do? What does she want to see? That is what we call a bucket list. A better idea is to create a relationship bucket list. This will keep things fun and entertaining and will bring you both closer together.

Who doesn’t love food? We all must eat, and we all like to talk about eating. Whether it is about the new diet that we started and the healthy ingredients that make these meals or talking about the smothered mash potatoes and steak dinner you had the night before. Food is universal, and so is a conversation.

Most of us have something to say when it comes to politics, but some people stay away from it. I can understand politics is a touchy subject as like religion. But, no topic should be off limit when you are with someone you are trying to build a relationship.

Such topics as these will sometimes make or break a relationship. Political views are something important that you may want to discuss early on.

Don’t know how to start this talk. It’s simple, are you a liberal or a conservative? Then move your way up the political conversation latter.

There will be times that your partner feels stuck and needs someone to talk to; whether it is about, friends, family or work. This is when you step in.

Giving a little advice on any matter can go a long way. Just make sure the advice that you give is positive, and the goal is not to make situations worse.

This is a significant aspect of conversation when you are in a relationship. What’s that slogan? Family Matters, and family will bring fun times and at times not so fun.

This will give you time to learn about your girlfriend’s family as she will ask about yours, an icebreaker for the plan for the family night. No one will feel ambushed because the topic has already been discussed.

We all hope that our significant others families like us but sometimes that isn't always the case. Talking about the "what ifs" can be important and comforting to your girlfriend. Your girlfriend may want reassurance that you have her back regardless of what your family may feel.

Don't make your girlfriend feel like an outsider when meeting your family because guess what? She already is, if your family doesn't make her feel as comfortable, it is your job to do so. Once you have this talk with her, she will feel a lot better about meeting the family. 

It is a fun and cool feeling to share something funny that no one else gets, need I say more?

It’s almost like the bucket list mentioned earlier but, the conversation is going to be a lot heavier. This gives you both a chance to figure out where you are in your relationship and where you want to go. The topic of kids will probably pop up, where both of you see yourselves in five years? Will you be renting or owning? This will probably be a conversation you will have more than once.

If you didn’t know by now, this is very pertinent aspect when in a relationship. People find ways to connect with their spirituality. Some people meet in such ways; some people have a different purpose; a different call. Take Christian Mingle for example. Get to know what your girlfriend spiritual beliefs are. Share your faith with her, yourself. Get that spiritual connection going. And, even if you both don’t believe in the same thing, that may not be a deal breaker everyone has a purpose and what they believe in shouldn’t tarnish the love you both have for each other. Accept differences; it’s sexy.

Wisdom is the key that keeps people going and moving forward in a positive direction. Don’t be afraid to share that platitude that your mom told you four times this week. Not only will you give your partner wisdom but, you’re showing her, “yes, I do listen to my parents, and yes, I have taken away a lot from them.”

Whether you both have a night out on the town doing a regularly scheduled sip & paint or building action figures together; start something new. There will not be much to say when in a long-lasting relationship, but, discussing things that you both can do. It’ll be fun the things both of you come up with and decide to embark on new adventures.

Have fun.

Music is another way you get to know a person without having to say much. Ask your girlfriend to put on some of her favorite tunes and listen. The lyrics, flow and even instrumental of a song will tell you a lot about what she likes.

Birthday plans mean you are the center of attention, it is your day to plan whatever you want and do whatever you want. Who doesn't love to talk about their birthday plans? 

Remember the time when you made prom king, and another student's drooled over your glory? Or those times where you would spend long nights talking to girls on the phone about what you both watched on MTV and how you thought N'sync was so dope?

These are conversations that would be cute and fun.

Some people go straight to yoga, some turn off their phone and take a nap, other people may work on their hobby; anything to get their mind off the workday they had. Having this conversation and being able to ask this question will make your relationship easier. Want to know how and why?

Let's think about how you feel when you get off of work? Are you happy? Are you still in the workday funk? Are you frustrated about a confrontation you had with a coworker 15 minutes before you leave for the day?

If so, many times the other person is not going to be in a happy go lucky mood. Give that person time to relax and get their mind back on track. Give them time to settle in at home before you bombard them with questions or talking way too much about your day. Give your significant other that conversation, so they know what to expect, and they aren't confused about your after work personality.

Everyone has a different definition of "happiness." To some people, they would call happiness being healthy and wealthy. Others would call happiness just being able to breathe in fresh air with the ones you love. Learning about what you both define as happiness is an amazing conversation that will keep your relationship running strong.

If you made a phone call to your girlfriend and asked her, "what was the worst period of your life?" She may be shocked but, she will be intrigued that you care about stuff as such. That shows her that not only do I see you as my girlfriend but, I see you as someone that is human.

Someone who loves, someone who hurts, someone who has good days and bad days. He may ask you this question for many reasons. He doesn't want to put you in that predicament and wants to make sure he protects you from it. Or, he may be digging deep because he is digging you.

People in relationships intend to ask their partners hard questions for the sake of getting to know them deep down and not just above the surface.

While you were sitting there thinking you ran out of things to talk about with your girlfriend well think again. Say goodbye to awkward silences and say hello to taking control in conversations. Other topics you may want to talk about are:

• Your Dreams 
• Your Past 
• Your Future
• What Do You Think is a Waste of Time?
• Your definition of misery?
• Date Night
• What is Your Favorite Book?
• Television
• Money
• What is Romance To You?
• Strengths
• Weaknesses
• Embarrassing Moments
• Most Prized Possession
• Are You Optimistic or Pessimistic?
• Career Goals
• Your First Time? 
• What Advice Would You Give Your Past Self?
• What Advice Would You Give Your Future Self?
• If you were Reincarnated What Would You Come Back As? 
• Reality TV vs. Sitcoms
• How do you Feel About Social Media?
• Do You Remember Your Prom Night?
• How Old Were You When You Got Your First Kiss? 
• How Do You Feel About Marriage?
• If We Were To Move In Together What Kind of Pet Would We Get? 
• Relationship Problems
• Have you ever cheated?