22 Dirty And Freaky Things To Do To Your Boyfriend That Will Blow His Mind

Do you wish to spice up things between you and your boyfriend, here's how

By MariaA
22 Dirty And Freaky Things To Do To Your Boyfriend That Will Blow His Mind

22 Dirty and Freaky Things to Do To Your Boyfriend That Will Blow His Mind

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Sometimes it can be hard and frustrating to keep your love life exciting and fun when you do not know what to do. People who are in a relationship know that love is all about knowing each other physically and emotionally. There is no way these two can work alone. If you are a woman who wants your relationship with your man to last, then this is the article for you. Men are visual creatures. If you want to spice up things in bed with your boyfriend, there are certain freaky and dirty things you can do and say to turn on your man and keep him coming back for more. You have to be confident and not shy for you to do and say these freaky things.

Here are 21 dirty and freaky things that you can do or say to your boyfriend to blow his mind.

1. A Striptease is a Freaky Thing to do to Your Boyfriend

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Men love it when a woman is stripping for them. You should know that your boyfriend is no exception. Most women think that a striptease is done in the first stage of dating, but they are wrong. As his girlfriend, you should be ready to spice it up in bed. Do the striptease when he least expects it. Strip for him slowly and at times hesitate as if you are not sure if you want to remove the clothes. Ensure that he does not touch you or try to help you remove the clothes. By the time you have removed all your clothes, he will be crazy for you.

2. Do a Lip Tease

Both men and women love kissing because it motivates them sexually. As a girlfriend, you can make kissing your boyfriend fun and exciting. You can give him a lip tease that will make him want you more. You can do this by first kissing him slowly for a few moments and then pulling away. Then after a minute, go back and kiss him lustily. This will make his passion grow, and he'll want to kiss you even more. If you are not a shy person, you can do this to your boyfriend in public; it will blow his mind. He will make sure to get you back home quickly and have you sexually.

3. Play Footsie

This is something that most men do not think that their girlfriend will do. It is very erotic when you do it in public. You can do this when you are out with your friends or just together. Just run the side of your foot up and down his calf, first start with the outside of the leg then the inside. Make it slow and ensure that you keep eye contact with him. Whether you are in public or at home, this will really drive him crazy, and he will find a way to get you in his bed. 

4. Take a Shower Together

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You might be surprised to learn that most couples have never had a shower together. It could be that the man has never given such a suggestion or the woman is shy. You should know that very small gestures easily excite men. If you and your boyfriend have never tried anything freaky and dirty, then you should try this. Anytime you want to take a shower, invite your boyfriend or surprise him when he is in the shower and join him. This will make him sexually attracted to you, and he will look at you, as a girlfriend, in a new light.

5. Play the Whisper Game

You can do this dirty and freaky thing to your boyfriend. The whisper game is all about you whispering in your man’s ear sexy and dirty things and then playing with his ear. You can say things like how much you love him, how sexy he looks, or how you like it when he wears certain clothes that make him sexy. Then flick the inside of his ear with your tongue and take his earlobe gently between your teeth. That combined with the words will send a shiver down his spine and blow his mind. You can do this in public or at home. This will sexually wake up your boyfriend’s senses, and he will want a piece of you.

6. Make A Little Friction

There are times when you can decide to be naughty for your boyfriend in public. You can decide to rub a part of yourself against him as if it is an accident. You can brush one of your breast against your boyfriend’s arm and act innocent. Keep doing this and ensure there is a pause each time you brush up against him. This will definitely capture your boyfriend’s attention. He will start to look at you sexually and even say that it is time to go home. Be sure that when you get home, he will be ripping your clothes off before you get to bed. 

7.    Sit on His Lap

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During the first stages of dating, this is something that boyfriends and girlfriends like to do. However, when the relationship becomes serious, they rarely do it and at times complete stop. It might sound ordinary but what you do when you sit on your boyfriend’s lap can be freaky and dirty to blow his mind. You can seat on his lap whether you are out on a barbeque, in the living room or when he is lounging on the balcony. Ensure that when you seat, you align your private parts with his. After some time, shift your weight or grind yourself against him. The grinding will sexually stimulate his groin, and his attention will shift to you. When you continue with the grinding, it will drive him crazy, and he will soon be carrying you to his bed.

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8. Eat In a Suggestive Manner

Men love it when a woman does freaky and dirty things towards them. One of the freaky things you can do to your boyfriend is to eat anything, like a banana or ice cream, sexily. The most exciting one you can try out is eating an ice cream cone. Just suggest that you are in a mood for ice cream and go out for some. Once you are seated with your ice cream cone, bow your head down, look up coyly and ensure you make eye contact with him as you lick around the whole circumference of the cone. Then take a mouthful of the ice cream at the top. Some will get at the corner of your mouth. Continue keeping eye contact as you slowly reach for the ice cream at the corner of your mouth with your tongue. By this time, your boyfriend will be dragging you back to the house for some much-needed attention.

9. Playing Games is a Freaky Thing for Your Boyfriend

Games are a fun way for boyfriends and girlfriends to bond and spend time together. You can suggest that you play a game and ensure that it ends up with both of you or one of you naked. One of the most commonly paid game is strip poker. Ensure that you have won his favorite bra and panty that turns him on. The excitement of the game is who will lose the most clothes, and seeing you naked will definitely drive him crazy. You can do this freaky thing at the comfort of your own home because the results will be him making love to you on the floor.

10. Do Role Plays

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This freaky thing will work if your boyfriend is into role-playing. If your boyfriend loves cheerleaders, dress up like one and wait for him to get home. Ensure that when he gets in the door, you are the first thing he sees. You can also decide to go out and pretend that you are strangers who have just met for the first time. This way, you can disclose to him dirty and freaky things like what you want a guy to do to you when having sex. This will surely get him going, and it will make him crazy for you.

11. Take Charge

It is sexy and a turn on when a woman decides to take charge in the bedroom. A man can sometimes get bored when he is the one who always initiates the sex and has to take charge. Men love it when a woman is confident enough to initiate the sex. When your boyfriend least expects it and is just sitting around, take his hand and lead him into the bedroom. Let him lie down on the bed and strip slowly for him. Ensure that you are wearing lingerie because it will drive him crazy. Your man will love this new and confident you.

12. Try Some Sex Toys

Most people are afraid of trying out sex toys with their partners. Sex toys are a great way of having fun and knowing what your boyfriend or girlfriend likes. If you want to blow your boyfriend’s mind, spice up your sex by introducing sex toys. You can try some handcuffs or vibrators. You can decide if you are to be handcuffed or if your boyfriend is to be tied down. The sex toys ensure that you have fun and you both get your climax. When you do this, your man will always be anticipating the sex.

13. Get Him Ready Again

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It is a dream come true for a man when his woman wants to have sex again after they are done. Some men have a high sex drive and are never satisfied with just one round of sex. Therefore, when you and your boyfriend are done making love, let him catch his breath and suggest you want another go. He will definitely go nuts. When you do this, you will have made his night, and he will be awed by you.

14. Do a Quick One

There are times when everyone is in a rush to go to work, and when you come back in the evening, you are both too tired to do anything. If you want to spice up your love and sex life, then try having a quickie with your boyfriend. You can do in the morning in the shower before you both leave or even suggest doing it during your lunch break. This will keep you both going and waiting to see one another again. A quickie will ensure that your boyfriend keeps thinking about you and how long it is until the lunch break.

15. Be Spontaneous

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Being spontaneous can be fun and interesting. The next time you go to a restaurant with your boyfriend, halfway through the meal, tell him that he is so sexy and you want him at that moment. Suggest that you go and have sex in the restroom. The thrill of being caught in such a public place will make your sex hot and mind-blowing. You can even go for an art show and when everyone is busy with the art, sneak in the restroom and get busy. This will keep your boyfriend on his toes and keep him wanting more.

16. Feast His Eyes

When a man loves you, he cannot help himself and will always love to see you naked. Some men are bold enough to say this and others keep silent, but their eyes tell it all. If you want to do something dirty and freaky for your boyfriend, this is what you have to do. Go take a shower when he is in the house and just lazing in bed. Come back and let your towel fall to the floor. Apply lotion slowly to your body and start with the legs. Bend as low as you can and let him have a view of your butt. By the time you are done, and you want to put on clothes, he will have pulled you back to bed for some lovemaking.

17. Blindfold Him

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Sex can sometimes get boring when you do the same things all the time. With time, you will get bored with each other, and the love will also start to fade out. It is therefore important to try out dirty and freaky things that will keep you and your boyfriend entertained and satisfied. One freaky thing you can do when you both want to make love is to blindfold your boyfriend. This will make him so excited because it is a new experience for him. His anticipation will keep growing because he will not know where you will kiss or touch him next.

You can make this experience unforgettable by making him experience new sensations that are intense. You can let your hair trail on his body, or you can use your silky panties to massage his penis. By the time you are done with him, he will be floating in a cloud of ecstasy.

18. Try Spicy and Sweet With Him

There is something about incorporating food into your sex that makes it amazing and mind-blowing. It allows you to discover each other’s body and experiment a few things. Just take your boyfriend breakfast in bed and add in some chocolate, peanut butter, or whipped cream. The added items will give him an idea of what you are up to and get him ready. You can apply either the chocolate or peanut butter on various places on his body like his nipples and then lick it off. This will drive him crazy, and he will want more and even do it to you too. When you are both done, you will be exhausted but have had so much fun.

19. Give Him a Massage

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Most of the time, women are the ones who are always getting massages from their husband or boyfriend, but we never reciprocate it. This is why men end up going to massage parlors. You should know that you can massage your man and make it as freaky and dirty as possible. Just let him lie down on his back with no clothes on. Oil your hands and start to slide them sensually on his pec muscles. Use the tip of your fingers to massage the muscles as you move up slowly along his sides and to his armpits. Use your thumbs to massage the middle of his chest by making outward fanning movements. Slide slowly almost to his groin then retreat slowly. Let him lie on his stomach and massage his back. Do not be afraid to slightly squeeze his butt because it will definitely turn him on. Once you are done, he will be all yours relaxed and turned on.

20. Send Him a Sexy Text

Men love it when you let them know how much you want them. The erotic and freaky way you can do this is to send a sexy text to your man when he is working. This will really make him want to come home earlier. You can text to him to let him know how sexy he looks or how you cannot wait for him to get home and ravish him. You can even send him a sexy photo of yourself if you are that confident. This can even make him come looking for you during his lunch break.

21. Try a New Spot

Sex in the same place, like the bedroom, can be boring and monotonous. Just try to spice up things for your boyfriend by seducing him in various places in the house. You can try out in new spots like the kitchen counter, the carpet in the living room, or even on the balcony if you have comfortable chairs and no nosy neighbors.

22. Being Rough is a Freaky Thing to do to Your Boyfriend

There are times when you can change up the sex a bit and be rough with him. You can try to scratch his back with your nails or pinch his nipples. He is bound to enjoy every bit of attention you give to him.

Relationships can be tricky at times. When you know how to spice up things in your relationship by using freaky and dirty things, then you are set for life. Try out these freaky and dirty things with your boyfriend, and he will soon be eating from your hand.

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