10 Things To Do And Say To Attract An Aquarius Man

Here's how to lure in an Aquarius Man you got your eyes on!

By Kazuko Otsuka
10 Things To Do And Say To Attract An Aquarius Man

What Is An Aquarius man?

Nothing is more confusing than the relationships between the different zodiacs when it comes to the complex world of soulmates and love interests. Each sign has its perfect match or ideal partner as well as a bad pairing. Truly understanding how the mind of one sign works is a tough job. For some signs, like the controlling and bossy Capricorn, the job becomes even more difficult. However, there are also signs like the twin personality of a Gemini that is easier to get along with. How about that of an Aquarius man? 

The dates for the star sign Aquarius annually falls between January 20 and February 18. The eleventh sign of the zodiac, the Aquarius, represented by the Water Bearer, is a rebel at heart. If you’ve recently just found out that your crush’s sign is an Aquarius, you’ve come to the right place. Some famous Aquarius men include Harry Styles, Ashton Kutcher, Taylor Lautner, Christian Bale, Justin Timberlake, Tom Hiddleston, and Ed Sheeran. Think about what you already know about these men to understand the mind of your Aquarius man better. 

An Aquarius man is a social being. Many times they are seen as wacky geniuses, and they always have new ideas waiting to unfurl. Think back to your high school days to that one guy who was able to drift in different social circles with ease- jocks, to nerds, to the outcasts. An Aquarius can fit in with almost anyone and everyone. This sign is a social personality that is sexy at heart. You can never get an Aquarius man to conform to one social norm; just like the water, they float through life. A complete original, an Aquarius man, is sure to sweep you off of your feet. Here’s why. 

What are the traits of an Aquarius?

Every sign always has defining characteristics that set them apart. An Aquarius stands out in a group of people for their charismatic intelligence. Here are some of the positive traits of an Aquarius: outgoing, open-minded, witty, progressive, original, independent, and intelligent. 

When it comes to the future, an Aquarius is miles ahead. They are naturally future-oriented people, often seen as visionaries by the people around them. It goes without saying that an Aquarius has that sexy, intelligent aura around them. They strut their intelligence like no other sign. This sign is hugely progressive and a humanitarian at heart. They are the ones who fight against climate change and believe in making the world a better place through acts of kindness. Yup, that’s what is behind the mind of your Aquarius man. 

Other positive traits of Aquarius is their originality. They will be the most unique and out-of-the-box person you’ll ever meet in your lifetime. What makes people more drawn to them is that they are proud of their uniqueness and are not afraid to be different. Many Aquarius express themselves through art, music, and writing. They are devoutly artistic beings. Sounds too good to be true? Just like any coin, there is always a backside. Many don’t want to look at a side because they only wish to focus on the positive traits. 

The common negative traits of an Aquarius are the following: unemotional, arrogant, sarcastic, aloof, temperamental, cold, condescending, and unpredictable. Because of their immense intelligence and pragmatic outlook, an Aquarius can come across as cold and insensitive to many people. Because they do not know how to express themselves, they are misunderstood. Their cold and temperamental character is due to their inability to connect to their emotions. Because of their drive for never-ending change, an Aquarius can become too unpredictable and fast-paced to the people around them. 

What are Aquarius people attracted to?

Aquarius people are attracted to Sun signs like Gemini and Libra. However, fire signs like a Saggitarius are the ones that an Aquarius is the most attracted to. 

An Aquarius and a Gemini, both air signs, are carefree spirits who have a powerful initial attraction. Both very analytical; these two signs will always have something to talk about. On the other hand, an Aquarius and a Libra make more of a playful pairing. These signs love being surrounded by their close friends. A relationship between these two signs is one full of adventure and laughter. 

Aquarius people are also attracted to the boisterous nature of the fire signs. A Sagittarius, for example, has a burning desire for life, something that an Aquarius yearns for. A Sagittarius loves their independence and freedom- an instant plus point for an Aquarius. Both signs have no trouble opening up, and the moment they do, an instant connection is formed. However, to make a relationship between these two signs work out, both signs need to find balance and compromise. 

How to make an Aquarius interested in you?

1. Be Open To Change

An Aquarius is carefree and always changing. If you want to get their attention, be ready to adapt, and change. Never try to “change him” because that is an instant turnoff for them. 

2. Intellectual Stimulation is Vital

An easy way to an Aquarius’ heart is through intellectual stimulation. If you’re not able to keep up with their wittiness and intellect, better try another day. 

3. Be Carefree

Never try to make strong demands on an Aquarius man. Even if you’re already going steady, never try to control them. If you do, well, that’s the end for the both of you. 

4. Say Goodbye to Rituals

Doing the same routine over and over again is an instant no-no to an Aquarius. If you want them to be interested in you, you’ve got to throw out the mundane routines. 

5. Be Ready to Give Space

An Aquarius is an unemotional being. However, when they’re feeling more emotions than normal, be ready to give them space. Do not overwhelm them too much trying to fix their problem. Give them space, and leave him be for a while. You’ll gain multiple plus points instantly. 

6. Do Not Be Over Possessive

An Aquarius is free-spirited. If they catch on to your over possessiveness, they will try to run away. Never try to trap them and control them. 

7. Let Them Do Their Own Thing

The title speaks for itself. Let an Aquarius do their own thing. If they want to try something new that you’re not too keen on, you can’t stop them. They will find your aloofness attractive. 

8. Stand Out From the Crowd

An Aquarius man is drawn to unusual, weird, and unconventional behavior. If you stand out from the crowd because of your uniqueness, you’ll catch the heart of an Aquarius in no time. 

9. No More Drama

An easy bait to catch the interest of an Aquarius man is to be rational and logical. These two traits are what makes any Aquarius. Try not to be overly dramatic, and let your emotions get the best out of you. 

10. Challenge Him

An Aquarius loves a challenge. The thrill of something new and exciting is sure to catch their attention. Be spontaneous and challenge their mind. They will love that. 

Qualities that Aquarius Men are Drawn To

Here are some qualities that attract an Aquarius man: 


Because of the intelligent mind of an Aquarius, they are naturally drawn to a smart woman. If you’re able to keep on par with their fast-paced dialogues and witty remarks, things will look good for you. 

Career Girl

An Aquarius man is drawn to a career woman. A woman that is independent and speaks her mind is sure to get the attention of any Aquarius man. 


Because of the randomness and quirkiness of an Aquarius man, they are naturally drawn to women like them. A woman who is unique yet keep their individuality is sure to draw the attention of an Aquarius. 


Own it. Believe it. Be it. It’s not only an Aquarius that is drawn to a confident woman. Confidence is sexy, and this trait is like a drug to an Aquarius. They can’t get enough of it. 


Whether it be a passion for your hobbies, your career, your family, your interests- just showing any form of passion is sure to get the attention of an Aquarius man. 

How to know if the Aquarius Man likes you?

When an Aquarius man likes you, you’re likely to find out quite fast. This sign is quite blunt and speaks their mind. If they like you, they won’t beat around the bush and tell you straight away that they are interested in you. If you’re stumped with an Aquarius who is not speaking their mind, here are some other signs to look out for. 

- Initiates long and engaging conversations
- Makes you feel special and treats you like a queen
- Shows his emotional side to you
- Opens up about his inner thoughts
- Shares their vision of the future with you 

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When an Aquarius man likes you, he'll make you feel it.


There are many things you can do to attract an Aquarius man. The best way is to be yourself and strut what you have. If you try too hard to change into someone that he likes, they will catch on to that and get turned off. Think about what you like in a man and see if it fits with the characteristics of an Aquarius. If yes, then you're good to go!