Single? Here's 10 Ways to Get A Girlfriend Fast

There isn't really any shortcut to successfully find a girlfriend, but there are some pro ways that can speed up the process. Here is your guide to get a girl a to like you.

By Saadia
Single? Here's 10 Ways to Get A Girlfriend Fast

If you are looking for a girlfriend, you are at the right place. It’s ok if you weren’t really lucky in finding one. Chances you already like a girl but you are not sure how to make the first move. No worries, we are here to help. We are about to share 10 useful ways to get a girlfriend fast:

1. Stop Chasing Girls (Even Online)

Experts say that the first step of getting a girlfriend is to actually stop trying to look for one. Don’t go about chasing every girl you see. Take it easy! With each new interaction you have with a female, do not expect anything in return. When a girl sees that you don’t give a care about her, it makes her run after you. So, make the most of this female psychology. This applies to girls in college and out. What most guys usually do is they try to jump on every girl they see both online and offline. They try to do whatever they can to impress a random girl without knowing her and without thinking whether or not she will give a damn about them. Women like challenges. They are attracted to guys who are not afraid to speak their mind and disagree with them. That’s the kind of guy you want to be!

2. Be Social

Do you feel the pressure on you? Relax, you are not alone. The easiest way of taking this pressure off is to be social with everybody. This will help you in greasing the wheels of your social muscles. It can get a bit tricky for those who haven’t really done this before, or those who didn't socialize much in school. You might feel a bit awkward in the beginning but it will be fun as you move forward. When talking with girls, be as social with them as you would be while talking to anyone else. Ask them what she is up to or just give a comment on the book she is reading. You can even compliment her hairstyle or clothes. There is another advantage in being social. If a girl likes you, she will give an invitation herself. All you have to do is get her attention and then making her your girlfriend will be a piece of cake.

3. Be a Good Listener (If You Want a Girlfriend Fast)

Women like to settle down with men who make them feel special. If you fail to inspire this feeling in a girl, that means you are more focused on your own feelings. Often, men put so much effort in impressing a date that they come off as someone who is not interested in the person sitting in front of them. By the time the very first date ends, the girl is already rattled off by the behavior so the relationship is not even going to move further to a second date. Don’t be such a jerk or else you will lose the chance of making her your girlfriend. Take the time to understand who she is. The best way to do that is by letting her speak. To set yourself apart from the rest of the guys who come off like college boys, listen to her and ask her questions. This will make her feel connected to you and so you will successfully make it to the second date. If that happens, she is ready to be your girlfriend.

4. Show That You Care

Want to win a woman’s heart? Just show her that you care. Women easily get the attention of the men who are sensitive to their needs. Don’t believe me? This is from Stacey who got married to the guy she was dating. “It was the time when Jake and I were dating and we used to just sleep together. Yes, I was his girlfriend but it wasn’t really something serious. Somehow, I ended up telling him that I have to get a biopsy done on my cervix as the doctors are concerned I may have cancer. Surprisingly, he didn’t let me go to the hospital alone. He took off from work that day, drove me to the hospital and took me back to my place. He even made me lunch and dinner. He made sure I was ok and he was there pampering me all the way till I got recovered. That’s when I decided I don’t want to be his girlfriend, I want to be his wife. I proposed to him myself!” Well, if Stacey can marry Jake, then with a little care, you can win the heart of the woman you like and make her your girlfriend too!

5. You’re Allowed To Be A Bit Quirky

Well, if you want to catch the attention of a woman, don’t be the one who conforms to the masses. In school, it can seem like conforming will help you fit in. But if a part of you is a bit quirky, let it shine! Monika tells a quirky incident from last year. “Last Christmas, along with other gifts, my boyfriend got me a harmonica. I was wondering why and there he said, get it? A harmonica for Monika. It was weird but I liked it.”

6. Sacrifice your Manliness

If you want a girlfriend, you gotta do it. You're not in high school anymore. If a man is man enough to show his sensitive side, any woman will go crazy for him. For those who are already seeing someone, this trick will serve as a golden ticket to get a girlfriend.

7. Work on your Confidence

So all those who are looking for a girlfriend, remember one pro tip. The way you feel about yourself is a crucial factor that determines your overall desirability to females. The thing is, women are attracted to those men who ae confident about themselves. Obviously, no woman would want to be a girlfriend of a man who thinks he is not good enough. So, watch some videos online and learn how to build confidence. Everyone starts somewhere: think of this as going to school for dating. It is never too easy to have self-confidence built and become the type of man every female desire. You may have to work on developing the right attitude to make a woman you girlfriend. So, take your time. Along with that, don’t ignore you grooming. The more groomed you are, the more confident you become. And honestly, you are never going to find a girlfriend if you look like a slob all the time. Don’t end up wearing expensive clothes and cologne, you just have to take care of basic grooming. Just wear decent clothes, smell good and have your chivalry in place. That will be enough to get impress your soon-to-be girlfriend.

8. Be Reliable to Your Soon-To-Be Girlfriend

It’s great if things are working out positively. In the midst of it all, don’t forget that you have to reliable. If the girl you are approaching feels that you are not that serious, she will never want to be your girlfriend. After all, nobody wants to be with someone who is here today but can disappear any time. Some guys end up messing their chances of getting a girlfriend by doing weird things like canceling the date an hour before the time for no reason. If the girl is uncertain about you all the time, she will dump you before things get serious.

9. Don’t Mess Up The First Kiss

The first kiss with your date should be electrifying. It plays an important role in making her your girlfriend. So, don’t suck at it. Don't be that college boy who slobbers all over the girl he's kissing. You have to leave her absolutely blown away. The first kiss will tell her what kind of guy you can be in bed. While you are kissing her, gently touch or caress her tongue with yours. Your goal should be to give her such a kiss that she ends up wanting more. Once you are successful with the kiss, things will take a positive turn. Remember, do not act desperate and it should be just a kiss, nothing more than this.

10. From Date To Girlfriend

By now, you may have gone on at least 2 to 3 dates with the woman you like and let’s assume you like each other. What’s next? What should be your move to officially make her your girlfriend fast? If you're in college, things move quickly, so you'll have to be quicker, and very clever. Before you want her to be you girlfriend, you need to know whether or not she is interested in you. Instead of chasing her, be so good that she chases you. Be a gentleman on all dates but act a little cold afterwards. Don’t give her everything she wants. When you are texting her, don’t be predictable. Let her crave for your attention. When she becomes addicted to you, she will think: • Does he even like me? • Did he even enjoy the dates? • Why isn’t he texting me? • Why isn’t he online? • Is he seeing someone else? Once you have got the girl thinking these things, it means you have got her running after you. She might make the move and tell you that she wants to be your girlfriend. Even if she doesn’t, but you feel that she is curious and she is interested as well, now is your chance to make her your girlfriend.

For some guys, finding a girlfriend becomes more difficult than ever. Why does it happen? Why is it so hard to make her your girlfriend? The problem is, such guys are not very good at making women feel attracted to them. They may already be seeing so many girls but because they are simply nice, friendly and polite, it is coming in the way of converting her into your girlfriend. Dude, if you really want her to be your girlfriend, you have to actively make her feel attracted. Display those personality traits that attract women naturally when they are talking to you. If you are not good at doing that, you can always ask your friend (who is good with girls or knows how to get a girlfriend) to hook you up with somebody. That’s a neat shortcut to get a girlfriend. You may not succeed once or twice, but if you keep trying, you will actually find yourself a great girlfriend fast.