Top 10 Real Reasons Why Guys Stop Texting You After A Few Days

You're dating a new guy, and things seem to be going well for both of you. You start thinking he might be the one this time around. A few days pass and everything is fine. One day the guy stops texting you out of the blue. You hold your breath and wait for him to respond in the evening. You start making lame excuses to justify his behavior. Nevertheless, after several weeks pass and the guy has not answered back, reality hits you hard; he has vanished, just like the other guys! You keep wondering what is wrong with you. Is there something you always do wrong? Do not stress yourself out too much. If guys stop texting you back in a few days, it is their loss. Furthermore, you are lovable and charming. In case you are wondering why guys stop texting you in a few weeks or days, here are some reasons for their vanishing act:

When you have been with a guy for several weeks and things start getting hot, as a woman, you will start wondering where this relationship is going. You will start trying to make your intentions clear. Perhaps when you hook up with guys, they are into you, but not enough to stick around for long. They are there to have fun. It is a cruel thing to do, but that is guys’ nature. If you start mentioning your intentions, you scare them off. It is funny how guys take the cowardly way out. They do not know how to tell you since they feel bad. Therefore, they take the shortcut out and stop texting you back. Do not wallow in self-pity because all guys tend to disappear on you. Your time will come when you will find the right person for you.

You probably thought you had found the right person this time around. Unfortunately, you did not dig deep to find out if the guy is single or not. When things start getting serious between you two, he starts backing off and texting you back becomes an issue. This could mean more than he's just "busy". Most of the time, guys do not know how to multitask; that is why they are caught cheating easily. Guys are unable to handle two girls at the same time without messing up at one point. If he sees he will be found out by his girlfriend, he will stop being with you immediately. If you have had a series of breakups, then you should know you are being taken for a ride. It hurts to hear this, but that is second nature to most guys.

Are you the type of a person who gets enthusiastic about a relationship? If you have gone on only two or three dates and you're already planning to bring personal things into his house or you have already called your parents to introduce him as your fiancé, it is a complete turn-off. Most guys want to take things slow; they prefer to take their time to know their partner better. If you become too pushy, most guys will tend to back off slowly and they will stop texting you often. When they do, they become vague. Eventually, they will stop texting you and there's nothing you can do about it. If you can help it, stop getting ahead of yourself and enjoy the blissful moments when you can.

Guys like chasing women; that is their nature. If you become too available for him, he will get bored easily. Guys are weirdly drawn to women who are unavailable. When a guy is texting you and you respond after 30 minutes or so, this will hook any guy to you. When you become too available, it means you are waiting by your phone for his text messages. When you are busy with your life and a new guy comes along, do not make him the center of your universe. He was attracted to you in the first place because you are an interesting person with a complex, varied life. Guys get bored easily, and at times you might have no idea what has triggered his boredom. When you see that the guy that you've been dating for a few days or weeks has stopped texting you, do not be surprised because it might be you are too available for him, and the thrill of knowing you is over.

Women love to talk; that is what makes them special. However, when it comes to a first and a second date, you should minimize your words and enjoy the date. When you spill all the beans at once on your first date, rest assured any guy will stop texting you. Most guys talk less, therefore, they need you to keep the conversation going. Engage in a way you do not give out too much about yourself. If you can, let him do the talking. If you have been dating a guy for a few days, then the texting stops, it might be that you are giving out way too much information on the phone, or you are texting him too often. No man wants to either read a novel about you in the text or receive a thousand texts in a second. He will probably forget what he has read after reading a few lines of the message. You cannot blame the guy for quitting on you. Avoid texting too much, even though we live in a world where text messages are often used.

Some guys are naïve when it comes to romance and texting. You can flirt with a person through texting, and he can be clueless as to what you mean. Texting a person while you are flirting with him does not send the right message correctly. Guys like to hear that flirty tone. Therefore, it is best you call when you suspect your man has no idea you are flirting with him through texting. Some clueless guys can interpret the texts as moody or cold, and therefore stop texting you. No man would want to chase a woman who seems uninterested in romance. Let your man know your intentions before he stops texting you.

Some guys have low self-esteem, and the only way to feel better about themselves is to get a girl who plays hard to get. This guy is there to take you for a ride. He is not interested in you at all, but he will keep up with the romance until he gets what he wanted out of you. This is cruel, but it is true. When a man's ego is down, having sex with a hot girl will make him feel better about himself. He will text you as much as you crave until he gets what he wants, then the texting will stop abruptly. Be careful of such men; you are a means to an end to them. They boost their ego when they get sex from you, and then they leave without a goodbye. If you have encountered such a man, do not be surprised as to why he stopped texting you. They're always looking out for the next target even if they are with someone. You're better off without these guys. If he stops texting you, do not worry about it.

You have been enjoying the dates, and the sex is good. Things are working out for you. However, when you start asking about the relationship, the guy becomes vague. He dodges any emotional texts from you, and he avoids answering any relationship-related questions that you ask. You should stop the relationship immediately before you get attached more. If you do not, this man will eventually stop texting you. You do not want to get involved with a man who is there to have fun. Unfortunately, such men are very romantic and fun to be with. However, they will never make good husbands or fathers. They will vanish when things get bumpy in the relationship. They have no decency or pity, and their way of saying goodbye to you is to stop texting you. Do not wallow in self-pity. You are terrific, and it is his loss.

Sometimes guys get intimidated by a woman who is out of their league. This is fine, but it shows that he is not a confident man. No woman should be around a man who suffers from low self-esteem. You might have more money than he does; perhaps you come from a rich background, and that is why his self-esteem is suffering. The guy can have deeper issues as well. Therefore, you should not stick around to find out. If you continue to hold onto such a man, do not be surprised when one day he stops texting you. He will vanish from the face of the earth just to avoid you. Such men can be controlling or abusive in a relationship. If he stops texting you, do not stress yourself out or try locating him. You are better off without such a man.

We live in a world full of wonder and mischief. Some men would hook up with a woman and not say they are married. You will think you have found the perfect man since he is well groomed, he knows his moves, he makes you smile, and he gets you well. Such men may live a double life. Most of them always conduct business far away. Therefore, they will require traveling every so often. These men are romantic, charming, and lovable. Things will go well for a few days or so until he disappears on you and stops texting back. Once the texting stops, you will not have a say in the relationship. The upside of this is you do not get to waste a lot of time with a person who does not appreciate you. Do not over-analyze the situation by talking to your close friends and trying to come up with a remedy. Move on from the situation before you end up spending a lot of time worrying about nothing. If you keep on texting a guy who has bailed on you, it will not help solve the situation. With these few pointers, you now know there is nothing wrong with you. Whether the guy is texting you vaguely or not, move on, it is his loss.