Scorpio Man In Bed: 10 Sexy Things He Secretly Wants

Read these 10 sexy things a Scorpio man secretly wants you to do in bed

By E.M. Love
Scorpio Man In Bed: 10 Sexy Things He Secretly Wants

A Scorpio Man

A Scorpio man can be a very complicated man to be in a relationship with. He may seem brooding, emotional, passionate and adventurous. This sign's complications can be well-worth marriage though as his passion can drive women crazy. He gives off sensual energy, drawing all kinds of people to him. Passion along with compatibility may be high on the list for some people to want marriage.

The biggest turn on in a relationship for a Scorpio man is getting into a woman's head and connecting with her on a deeper emotional and spiritual level, not just a physical one. He does what he wants to when he wants to, following his desires before completely thinking about any consequences from his actions. He will do anything that he has to do to get what he wants, so be sure you want a Scorpio man and are ready for him before trying to seduce a Scorpio to bed with you, because you may just get what you wish for. It is often very difficult to break up with a Scorpio.

Here are some of the sexy things that you can do to seduce your Scorpio man and what he secretly wants you to do, both in the bedroom and out.

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1. Be Adventurous In Bed

A Scorpio man loves adventures and is very adventurous himself, so it is only logical that he would secretly want to be in a relationship with some who is adventurous too. You can do this by bringing new practices to bed with you, such as bondage or some kind of restraint. Turn on some porn to watch before you get into bed with him, this will surprise a Scorpio sign in a good way if you have never done this before.

Show some dominance with your Scorpio man to help set the ground rules by seeing what he does in reaction. You can also bring a new person into the picture, which many see as adventurous. Be careful though as Scorpio men are known for their jealousy, but this can also help you guys establish ground rules on what is going to be accepted in your relationship. If you know they are not into having anyone else in the bedroom with you guys, avoid this one as Scorpios can be very territorial.

Show this Scorpio your passion for life and he will love that as he is also very passionate. Your passion should shine through during any adventurous acts you do with him in bed. That will go a long way in cementing the love relation between the two of you and charting a course for the future.

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2. Show Your Emotions To Your Scorpio Man

Scorpio men are very emotional creatures, so showing them your vulnerable side is what they wish to see. They are very curious about what goes on in your head and want to know all about their special woman. Often they get more excited and turned on by what you tell them and share with them and no one else than they do by what they see.

If a Scorpio doesn't think you are interested in him or who he is then he won't be very interested in you either. Scorpios want to be with someone just as committed and passionate as he is, especially in bed. By letting him know that you love him, adore him, and respect him, your Scorpio man is more likely to stick around for more. He is very interested in your feelings and will worry that you do not love him if you do not tell him regularly. He may be afraid that you want to break up if you do not regularly reassure him.

Don't be afraid to tell a Scorpio sign when something is upsetting you or bothering you, or when you are angry. He would rather know everything than wonder why you are acting the way you are. Just make sure to reassure him that you love him. Open yourself up and then get him to open up to you and share his deepest secrets. This will bring you guys closer emotionally, which is one of the secret, sexy things that he really wants.

A Scorpio man will see you as courageous and respect you for opening up to him by telling him everything that no one else knows about you. Marriage with a Scorpio is often a very close marriage as he will end up knowing everything about what is in your mind.

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3. Maintain Eye Contact In The Bedroom

Eye contact secretly excites a Scorpio man, especially while in bed. Your eyes are said to be the windows into the soul, so use them to your advantage. Projecting your feelings of lust, love, adoration, and want in your look will go a long way with a Scorpio man. Your eyes can draw him in and seduce him if you learn how to give the right look.

Maintaining eye contact with him during sexual activities in bed, including foreplay and sex, is another thing that he will love. Giving him a blow job while keeping his eye contact will really get him off and he will think that it is very sexy. Feel a connection with him while doing this, as a Scorpio man is sure to feel one. Having eye contact with your Scorpio man may even start to feel like an unspoken language. You can then use those looks from the bedroom while you are out anywhere else, one that just the two of you know. This will further strengthen any bond that the two of you have.

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4. Be Powerful & Assertive In Bed

Scorpios love a challenge, so they secretly love when women test the boundaries. Don't be completely dominant, however, as a Scorpio man likes to be the dominant one, but don't be completely submissive either, which would not a challenge at all.

A Scorpio man loves being with a confident woman who has enough self-respect to be assertive and tell him exactly what she wants him to do! You can also show assertiveness by being the one to grab him and initiate sex, at least every now and then. Be the one in a dominant sex position to start off, but be ready to give it up to him when he pushes back while in bed.

Scorpios are the dominant ones and they expect you to submit to them in the end. Remember, Scorpios do not like following orders but they do love a good challenge that they can win. Be assertive and tell your Scorpio sign exactly how you want to be treated while in bed, tell him how to sexually satisfy you, and at the same time make sure you are sexually satisfying him. He will even think it's sexy when you cuddle him passionately. He loves to be close to you, and any passion that you can show while doing anything is sexy to him.

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5. Play Hard To Get

A Scorpio man loves a good challenge that he knows he can win, and love when you play hard to get. Dress sexy and flirt with him, but do not give in too easily. Wear something that is casual but hot and reveals some skin, just not too much skin! He will naturally want to pursue you and he will do his best to get you right into bed. You can further play hard to get by leaving your clothes on as a barrier against him until he wins, which he will work for and love the chase! Always let him win or else you may be looking at a break up, as a Scorpio will not let you be the dominant one in the relationship except to play.

A Scorpio man loves letting the sexual tension build until you both can't stand it anymore, even being fine with not having sex for periods of time. They love the feeling of when that built up tension is finally let loose and they can ravish their woman. Playing hard to get will help build up this sexual tension until you both can't take it any longer and have hot, passionate sex that is memorable.

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6. Venture Into New Realms With Your Scorpio Man

A Scorpio man loves trying out new experiences. They have a big imagination and are courageous enough to act out and take initiative on anything their imagination conjures that seems interesting enough. Scorpio signs are very spiritual, so don't be afraid to try out something very different such as communicating telepathically and using only body language during sexual fun.

Try out sexting, or sending sexual text messages to each other to connect in a different way. Have phone sex and talk intimately over the phone, so you are each in your own space while doing this and can see how you guys feel about it. You may find that it is easier to open up and tell him things that you normally wouldn't tell him in person, as you don't have to look him in the eye.

You can also try video chatting with each other. See how it feels to have sex without touching each other or even talking. Be yourself and try anything else or any other fantasy that you have always wanted to try. Your Scorpio man is sure to be game for it and will love trying it out with you. All of these can also help keep your marriage passionate and alive with your Scorpio.

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7. Be Sensually Mysterious In Bed

Don't be afraid to let loose and act out on your secret sexual fantasy in the bedroom. Tell your Scorpio man about a fantasy or a secret about something sexual that you have done, and it will surely get him excited and ready for anything. Dress up in some sexy lingerie before coming to bed if that is something that you don't normally do, and he is sure to wonder what is going on but will definitely love it. Push him to his limits of what he is willing to do, just make sure to not push past that unless you want a break up. He will be curious of what you are doing but will be up for it. It may take some time to find out what his limits are, but the more you open up to him then the more that he will open up to you.

A Scorpio man can help you get over any fears that you may have which hold you back on acting out these fantasies. He will push you to let go of your fears and insecurities and experience this fantasy with him in bed. They are great about not judging you, so you can tell them anything.

8. Leave Your Comfort Zone With Your Scorpio

You may not trust easily but to be with a Scorpio man you must leave your comfort zone. Connect with him on a deep emotional level. Tell him about what you are afraid of, such as being rejected or failing at a long-worked-towards goal. Tell him what makes you nervous and what you don't like. Tell him all about your secret fantasies. Scorpios will see this honesty as sexy and wish their lovers would do this regularly so that they can really connect. In their eyes, deep honesty where you confess your weaknesses makes you a stronger and more powerful woman.

Discussing expectations, fidelity, and limitations can be out of the comfort zone of many people but it is essential for being in a relationship with a Scorpio and avoiding a break up. It will be uncomfortable, but this Scorpio sign will think it is sexy that you are so open and willing to talk about these topics with him. They want to be in your head. They will get more turned on by knowing everything you think than by you doing anything physical in bed, because this shows that you really trust them. In a marriage with a Scorpio don't expect to be able to keep any secrets from him. / Instagram

9. Play Sex Games With Your Scorpio Man

Sex games can really spice things up in the bedroom and make for an adventurous night, and a Scorpio man loves adventures. They love women who are not afraid of new adventures and who will give them a good challenge. Even just playing a simple game such as chess, and when you lose a chess piece to the other person, you have to take off an article of clothing. Make sure to wear some sexy clothes to make this more tantalizing.

You can make a rule such as whoever is naked first has to do some kind of sexual favor to the other person. You can add stripping to most games, and you can add different sexual rules along the way for when certain parts of the game you are playing come into play. You can also play games that you guys play and dress up for and act out a fantasy, or role play. The sky is the limit, and with some help from your Scorpio's imagination, there are sure to be plenty of ideas and options for sex games. This will make things very exciting for your Scorpio, who loves both games and seduction.

10. Be Unique

Dress how you want and act how you want. A Scorpio man loves a strong woman who has a mind of her own. They don't want to be with someone who follows the crowd in every instance. This Scorpio sign will think that it's sexy when you put your hair up in a unique way or wear those unique glasses. They will love when you try something completely new and not ordinary while in bed. Scorpios are up for anything except ordinary and dull. They want adventure and passion. Don't be afraid to show them who you are, both inside and out, and let your passion for yourself shine through, both in and out of the bedroom. Keep them excited with your uniqueness and they will never want to break up with you.

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Final Words On Scorpio Men

Scorpio men are very intense, adventurous men who love to get into your heads and know everything about you, connecting with you on a very deep level spiritually, emotionally, and physically that most people don't usually get to. They want to completely dominate you in every way possible. They love a good challenge and think it's sexy when you show that you are also powerful, but that they still dominate you in the end, especially in the bedroom. They have magnetic personalities that will keep you coming back for more, but can be difficult to be in a relationship with as they can be very jealous and when they want to do something, they will do it. You will never forget your Scorpio; whether you are want to or not, he will have made a lasting impression on your life.

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