Is He Attracted To Me Or Just Being Nice? 10 Subtle Signs To Tell
10 subtle signs to tell you for sure that he likes you and is attracted to you
Jun 11, 2019
Is he attracted to you?
Expressing your feelings for the one you are attracted to gets complicated when the fear of rejection creeps in. This could be the reason that he has not yet expressed his feelings for you. Not all guys are comfortable in opening up and confessing their romantic interests. But when a guy is into you, he will drop you hints and signs that will tell you he is really attracted to you. Failure to notice these signs might make you miss your dear one. So, focus on all the subtle signs that he is secretly giving you away, it will tell you what he has been hiding from you.
It can always get confusing when you are trying to crack his little secret and know his true intentions. You can mull over if he is really into you or is just being nice to you. But the truth is there is a fine line between being attracted and being nice. Being nice has certain limitations and if your guy seems to overcome those, then you are in for a major luck. Here are the top 10 subtle signs to tell you for sure that he is secretly attracted to you and is not just being nice.
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1. Pays attention to his looks if he is attracted
When your guy is secretly attracted to you and is not just being nice to you, you will notice a difference in his looks. He will pay keen attention to look fab when you are around. He might develop a sense of style so he will look classic whenever you are around. He will always want to be presentable so you get to notice him and take this relationship to the next level. He will have a great haircut, beard or no beard it will be your choice. Your guy will want to impress you with his killer looks. Whenever you are around he will want you to notice him as the most handsome guy around.
For a guy who is trying to be nice or friendly to you, he will never bother to be handsome when you are with him. There might a slight sense of looking good but will never take that extra effort to look really nice so you get impressed. This is one sure way to decide if he is really into you or is just being nice. When his looks matter especially when he is around you, this is an obvious sign that he is hiding his feelings for you.
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2. Note if he is just being nice with his body language
When a guy is into you, his body language says it all. Even when he is hiding his little secret his body language will speak otherwise. He might unconsciously send you signals that will speak his interest for you. Don't forget to miss the signs that he will be sending you if he is into you. You will fell your guy is always angled towards you. His face, hips even his feet will all be in the direction towards you. Even when he is at a distance he will be seated in the direction facing you.
The most important signal will be his eyes and his gaze. There is nothing that could tell you his love more than his eyes. Just don't miss it. When your guy is just friendly you will never notice any of these signs, but just a good friend. So, a great way to find out what he has been secretly hiding from you it is to watch out for his body language the next time he is around you. Body language is a subtle sign that tells you he is secretly attracted to you and not just being nice.
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3. Listens to you when he is attracted
Your guy will not just be a listener, but also a good one. He will actively listen to your stories even if it were the most boring ones. Shockingly, he will even seem to enjoy them. Your guy will remember even the small details from your stories. Not even a single detail goes missing. He will be all ears when he is with you. Your crush will also make sure that you know that he listens to your stories and values them as you do. Even if you are texting him he will be a good listener, you will get the vibe that he enjoys your stories.
What else to call this relationship other than attraction. Guys can never be good listeners that is a universally known fact and if he is one such a guy, obviously he is into you. Guys who are being nice, exceptional cases, of course, might listen but will never remember stuff. Even when he does remember he might not value you them as you do. So, now that you know he is really into you, grab onto him and never let him go. This a sure subtle sign to know for sure that he is attracted to you and not just being polite.
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4. Stands up for you when he is attracted to you
You might be with a group of friends or texting over WhatsApp and when someone bad-mouths you, you will see him getting resentful. Your guy might not be comfortable when someone tries to belittle you or criticize you. He will stand up for you even if it is over texting, nothing will stop him. Your guy will never let anyone hurt you when he is around.
Even if it is a most valuable person for him on earth, he will be ready to raise his voice against them. This is a way that you can truly understand his feelings for you. His little secret that he has been hiding will be out when someone tries to hurt you. It is a sure sign he is attracted to you. When a guy is being nice he might stand up for you but there will be a limit to it. They will not be able to stand to the person they value the most rather try to talk you out of it. They might be there for you, for the after effects but will not be there when the damage is done.
Generally, by the time you marry someone, they know everything about you and vice-versa (well almost everything! Just saying!).
5. Being a part of his life is a sign of attraction and not being nice
You will notice that you will be a part of his life. All his friends and family will be your friends and family too. His world will revolve around you. There is not a thing that you will miss that is happening in his life. All his deepest darkest secrets will be known. You will find yourself that you know a lot about your guy: his fears, worries, happiness and much more. His life will be completely spinning around you. There is not a single day that will go by for you without knowing what is happening in his life. Even when he is not able to meet you in person he might be texting you to let you know what is happening with him. This is a good sign to reveal what he has been hiding from you secretly. It clearly means he is attracted to you.
Guys who are just being nice don't have their lives revolving around you. They might ask you for suggestions but you will never be a part of their lives. They might also be texting you about their life but there will not be any depth in it. It will just be plain simple ones. This is a crystal clear sign that tells you he is attracted and not just being nice.
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6. Seeing a future is a sign of attraction not being nice
When your guy is attracted to you he will see a future with you. He will make short-term and long-term future plans with you. Either it is planning a birthday party couple of months ahead or booking a concert in advance just to be with you. It is the subtle signs of your guy giving you hints that he is attracted to you. Whenever your guy sees a future in your relationship it can only mean that he is interested in you.
You will also notice that even when he plans something big about his future, he will make sure you are in it. This is a great way to know he is attracted to you and it is time to take your relationship to the next level. A guy will never be ready to plan his future ahead with the one he is just trying to be polite. He might be your good friend but he has never been attracted to you when he sees no future with you. Not planning a future with you clearly means he is not attracted.
7. Makes Compromises Just to see you smile
When your guy is ready to make compromises just for you, it is a clear sign he is attracted to you. You will always be his priority and that making you happy will make his day. He would be ready to make any kind of changes in his life just to bring a smile on your face. He might even be ready to change himself for you if he believes that will bring happiness to you.
Compromises are a part of life, little sacrifices for your loved ones are that brings you closer and helps you to stay in love forever. If your guy is ready to make such sacrifices, then that definitely means that he is deeply attracted to you. For guys who are trying to be nice, they might make compromises but in a restricted way. They will not be willing to go out of their way just to make you smile. So, now that you know your guy is ready to make compromises for you, it is high time you reveal your feelings for him and take your relationship to the next level.
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8. Your Guy gets Jealous
When your guy is into you, he might be comfortable when you are around your guy friends. Even if you are just texting your guy best friend you will notice he will act a little weird. He might get jealous when he sees you with your other guy friends. This is clearly because he has feelings for you and is waiting for you to realize it. But little scared if you might develop a romantic interest in other guys.
He might also not like the idea of you being close with your other guy friends at least until you confess your feelings for one another. This is a major hint that he tells you that he adores you. This sign is hard to miss, so never be ignorant to miss this sign and miss a dear one. Guys will never get jealous when they are just trying to be nice. He will be friends with your friends and might be happy to see you happy but never jealous. This way you can easily say that he is not interested in you. Now, that you know his true feelings for you, go ahead make the next move, don't be afraid to express your feelings for the one who is already attracted to you.
9. Supports you to achieve your dreams
When a guy is putting a lot of effort just for you to accomplish your dreams, it is a sure way to know he is attracted to you. He might be your inspiration, motivation and might be constantly cheering you up to achieve your dreams. You will also observe that he will help you pick up your broken pieces and build a better YOU, a better world for you.
Whenever you are broke or lost, he will motivate you to help you find the real you and will be able to bring out the best in you. This is a way to find his little secret and that he is attracted to you. When a guy is just being friendly he will be there for you. He will be there to support you but not at all times. Remember he has a life too. He can also hit rock bottom so he might not be around when you really need him. He might be ready to help but will never go that extra mile for you to be there for you. This is one subtle way to know his true intentions for you.
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10. Interested in Your Life
Your guy will be interested in your life. Your friends, your family, your interests will be his new interests. He will try to be friends with your family and friends. As it is a great way to get to be in your part of life as you are in his. Your guy will try to get a good impression on them as well. He will know that their opinion about him will matter to you. He will try his best to make a good impression. He will try to learn your hobbies and passion and try to develop his interest in your passion. That could help you two to get closer when you share common interests. This is a clear-cut signal that says he is attracted to you.
When a guy is trying to be nice, he will never try to impress your family or try to get a good impression. He might be friends with your friends and family but not in a way that you hope to be. You will notice that there will be a certain level of distance between them. He would appreciate your hobbies and passion but will never develop interests just to get closer to you. This is a sure way to know his feelings for you.
Guys are not complicated when it comes to cracking their secret. They might be a little bad when it comes to expressing their feelings for you but they will clearly show it in their actions. It is true that actions speak louder than words. It is how they show their love for you. Your guy might be a great admirer of you but poor in expressing his feelings in words. The one sure way to find his hidden feelings for you is to carefully notice the subtle signs that he will be sending you unconsciously. It is you who should never fail to notice these signs when he does them. By noticing these signs and appreciating them you can develop a beautiful relationship and who knows he could be your the ONE. Ignoring these signs might get him friend zoned and you might end up missing a beautiful love story that is yet to be written.
Now that you know he has feelings for you and is not just being nice. Take the high road, confess your feelings for him and take your relationship to a whole new level. There is no need to be confused or afraid to express your feelings for someone who is already into you. Go on, make the biggest decision and have a fun-filled love life. All the Best!
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