25 Ways To Be A Bad Boy No Girls Will Be Able To Resist

You've probably come across a guy who has a devil-may-care attitude. He seems to not care about life but women still fall for him. This is a bad boy.

By Gerald Matiri
25 Ways To Be A Bad Boy No Girls Will Be Able To Resist

Who is a bad boy?

You have probably noticed that being overly nice to women isn't getting you anywhere. The strange thing is that the bad boys seem to get all the lovely women. And if you are wondering who or what exactly is a bad boy, here are some signs to identify them.

i. Bad boys are dudes who get the girl they like without a lot of effort

ii. Bad boys are guys who women fantasize about and would do anything to have them

iii. Bad boys are dudes who sweep girls off their feet, make them have sexual fantasies, break a girl’s heart but leave her calling and missing him for the next ten years

In this article, we are not referring to the bad boys who take their bad side to the extreme and are known for verbal or physical abuse, abandoning their responsibilities, drug abuse, breaking the law and even robbery and murder. Our focus is on the bad boys who are not dangerous or violent and women find them irresistible. The reason why women love bad boys is that they have traits that women find irresistible. The bad boy traits can be so strong that they turn her on and she is left unable to control her behavior and emotions. Bad boys act in a manner that is so powerful that women are left with a strong and deep attraction for them. Even when her family and friends try to convince her that a bad boy is the wrong choice for her, she will strongly cling o you and defend you if you are a bad boy. One thing that is worth noting is that the bad boy is a state of mind. Having the attitude of a bad boy may help you a little bit. However, if you want to be a hit with the girls, you want it to be a state of mind. Once you have that mindset, style, and attitude, your outer appearance come naturally. Here are 25 traits of bad boys. Once you adapt them, you will also become a bad boy that no girl will be able to resist.

1. Bad boys do what they want, when they want

When you start asking a woman for her permission to do something, she will find you to be too soft. One quality of bad boys is that they never ask for permission. Instead, bad boys do whatever they want to do. Bad boys dress how they want to dress. Bad boys will never ask if it's okay to do something. Bad boys go after whatever they need. Bad boys will not wait to be given the go ahead. Many women are used to the nice guys who ask for permission and seek approval when they want to do something. Being confident in your decisions will make you stand out from the crowd.

2. There is no pretense in bad boys

A common thing about bad boys is that they don’t pretend to be someone they're not. Most nice guys act in a way that will portray them as sweeter, nicer, cooler, and more charming than their real self. They will act one way in a relationship and another way when they are around their family and friends. Bad boys don’t pretend to be someone else in a relationship. Bad boys have no room for pretending to be whom they are not in order to please a woman. Bad boys don’t care what girls think about them. Instead, they are just who they are. It is this kind of authenticity that attracts girls to bad boys. This is because bad boys show their composure, maturity, and honesty. This makes it easy for bad boys to sweep women off their feet. It can be difficult to pretend to be the nice boy every day because there are situations where your true self will come out. You may dress well when you are going to meet your girl but dress badly when going to the grocery. What if you bump on her during your shopping trip when you are dressed badly? She'll immediately know that you've been faking it the whole time. Better to be your authentic self than to have her fall in love with a fictional version of you.

3. Bad boys are daring

Bad boys have a natural confidence that comes from within rather than from any external places. Their confidence is not in the form of women, money, cool phones, clothes, nice car, nice houses etc. Even without these material things, a bad boy will always have confidence. This confidence comes from a more natural and primal place. The fact that it is from within makes it more authentic, powerful, and solid. This confidence isn’t fake and it is an indication that you know yourself and where you are headed to. It is this confidence that impresses women and makes them fall in love with bad boys.

4. Bad boys show confidence in their body language

Like we have already noted, bad boys ooze a certain level of confidence in everything they do. However, this confidence is more noticeable in their body language. Bad boys don’t hunch. Bad boys don't slouch. Bad boys don't show that they are insecure or unsure of whom they are. Bad boys aren’t afraid of women or even care what other people think of them. Bad boys dress the way they want without a care of what women will think about them. A bad boy’s body language always sends a message that he is a high-status person. He is confident and assured of himself and what he does. Whatever he wants, he gets it and nobody can change that fact or tell him otherwise. The self-assured mindset of the bad boy is reflected in his body language. When you put a bad boy in a group of other nice boys, you will notice that 8 out of 10 girls will go for a bad boy. This is because they will be impressed by the bad boy's physical charisma, as a result of how bad boys hold and present themselves.

5. Bad boys have a reason for whatever they do

One reason why a nice guy will always mess up in a relationship is that they have the habit of accidentally saying the wrong things or showing the wrong gestures. They may also say something against their will or against their line of thought. This is something that doesn’t happen to bad boys. When bad boys make a gesture, that is exactly what they wanted to do. When bad boys say something, that is exactly what they wanted to say. In other words, bad boys think critically before they do or say something. You will never catch them doing or saying something accidentally. Therefore, if you want to be a bad boy, you will need to start moving with purpose rather than by accident. Ensure that you think things through properly before you do them and always do things with the right intention. The moment you speak and act with a purpose, not only will it be attractive but it will also be a clear indication of your high level of confidence.

6. Bad boys don’t get scared

One of the other reasons why bad boys always act with purpose is because nothing scares them. Bad boys aren't afraid of what a woman will think or how she will react. Bad boys are not scared of anything that might happen. In case things don't go the way they planned, bad boys are able to deal with it. Bad boys don’t get scared at all and in most cases, they simply act or speak on instinct. When a bad boy wants to hold a woman’s hand, he simply grabs it. When a bad boy wants to kiss her, there is no beating around the bush: the bad boy will pull her towards him and simply kiss her. When a bad boy wants to flirt with a woman, he simply goes for it. In case something doesn’t happen as per his intentions, the bad boy simply ignores it and moves on. When a woman is attracted to you, she will not mind this kind of attitude. In fact, she will like it when you show that kind of assertiveness. She will love you more when she finds that you are not scared of showing your authority in the relationship. On the other hand, when you are afraid and weird, the woman will simply back off and she will no longer be attracted to you.

7. Bad boys will do things at their own pace

You can't rush a bad boy to do something; they do things at their own pace. There is no way that a bad boy is going to do things faster or slower in order to make someone happy. Instead, a bad boy will do what makes him happy, where he finds it necessary and at his desired pace. When the bad boy moves fast, it is up to the woman to keep up or she will be left behind. When the bad boy is moving at a slower pace, it is up to the woman to learn some patience. Therefore, if you are trying to be a bad boy, you will need to move at your own pace without a care of whether girls approve of it or not. This will show confidence as you do what you want to do at the pace you want to do it.

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8. Bad boys never try to fit in

One characteristic of nice guys is that they always have a hard time trying to fit in and look cool. They think that this is the right thing to do. The nice guys want to follow the latest fashion, styles, and trends so that they will look cool. They will also try to change their behavior to make them accepted in society. Their fantasies are full of wistful thoughts that women will find them cool and hand over their numbers without a hitch. Some of the ways in which nice guys try to fit in are by using the latest slang to show how cool they are. They try to dress in the latest clothes in order to look trendy. They will post selfies and try to get lots of likes from their circle of friends on social media. This is despite the fact that these are opinions of people who should not have mattered in the first place. On the other hand, bad boys will rarely care about this stuff. Bad boys will wear what they want without giving a damn of what people think about them. Bad boys also behave according to their feelings and will not allow outside opinion to influence them. Therefore, if you want to succeed as a bad boy, you will need to do away with the need to fit in, and ensure that you are living your life according to what your guts tell you. Ladies don’t like getting into a relationship with a “follower”. Instead, they subconsciously long for a bad boy who acts according to what pleases him and is happy with his status and place in the world.

9. Bad boys do not flinch

Nice guys are usually very timid and will shy away from all forms of conflicts or controversies. They are always fearful that something bad will happen. On the other hand, bad boys do not blink or flinch when it comes to this kind of stuff. This is because when you do stupid things when dealing with a bad boy, he will simply get back at you. This is not to mean that violence or fighting is okay. However, we cannot deny the fact that we live in a dangerous and violent world. Women are looking for bad boys who have the ability to stand up for themselves and their loved ones. You cannot afford to be a guy who cries out to your mama over every simple matter and always plays the victim. There are times when you should be able to stand your ground when it matters. This is the type of attitude that women are searching for in a relationship. They want a bad boy who will not chicken out when faced with a challenge. The moment you show a woman that you have the ability to protect her, you can be assured that she will fall in love with you. So, when there is conflict, you must be able to stand strong and deal with whatever will happen instead of running away.

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10. Bad boys will not require your approval

The only reason why a bad boy continues living in this world is to make himself happy. You may consider this to be a bit self-centered but that's alright. Women find that quality of self-centeredness to be okay as compared to trying to please everyone. Bad boys do not focus their lives on trying to make women happy or even seeking their approval. All a bad boy cares about is trying to approve of himself. If you want to be a bad boy, you will need to begin approving of yourself. Stop trying to seek the approval of other people and never try to make women happy just for them to like you. If your goal in life is only to seek the approval of other people and make them happy, you yourself will never be happy.

11. Bad boys don't have a care in the world

This is probably the most common and powerful trait of bad boys. Bad boys will rarely care what others think of them, particularly beautiful women. The opinions of other people don’t matter. Women find guys who care too much in a relationship to be unattractive and total pushovesr.

12. Bad boys are unpredictable

When a woman gets into a relationship with a bad boy, she does so because she is attracted to his unpredictability. The only reason why women enjoy being around a bad boy is that they will never know what he is up to. This unpredictability is good as long as bad boys don’t abuse women, get into street fights, or engage in drug abuse. As long as the woman you are in a relationship with can predict what you are going to do, you can be assured that she will find the relationship boring.

13. Bad boys don’t compare themselves to others

You will never find a bad boy trying to be like someone else. Bad boys will always appreciate who they are. This is unlike common nice guys who will find a person in a higher status and try to compare themselves to them. Unlike nice guys, bad boys usually look at other men and simply wonder what they're up to.

14. Bad boys leave women wanting more

One trait of bad boys is that they are very good at making women fall madly in love with them. Bad boys will then disappear because they know they will never meet her needs. This may sound mean and cruel but it leaves the woman wanting more of him. The bad boy will never milk a date to a point where it becomes dry. The bad boy will never constantly call a woman until she gets bored and neither will he give a woman everything that she wants. The bad boy will never sacrifice his heart for the sake of a woman. This only serves to multiply her desire and feelings for him. When you find that most of the women in your life keep on leaving you, it is a sign that you are giving too much in the relationship and you're forgetting who you are in the process.

15. Bad boys break the rules

Like we have already noted, bad boys will do what they like. This means that bad boys are never fond of rules. However, bad boys don’t break laws so that they can go to jail. It's just that bad boys do not like being ordered around. Women love dating guys who do not conform to standard expectations of behavior or thinking.

16. Bad boys don’t kiss women’s feet

This just means that bad boys have no time to try and make the women happy. Instead, the only reason why bad boys go to work is to make money and use that money to buy things that they need or want. On the other hand, nice guys spend a lot of their times thinking of some nice ways to manipulate a woman. They try to dress in the latest fashions to attract a woman. When a woman approves of them, they will do anything for her to get her full attention. This is a ridiculous act that prevents women from seeing the true selves of these men. This is unlike the bad boy who will spend only a little time scheming to make a woman fall for him. The bad boy will live his own life and when he's around women, a bad boy will relax and enjoy the fun.

17. Bad boys aren’t gullible

Bad boys will not fall for the excuses, tricks, and games that nice guys usually fall for. When a woman asks for his number, the nice guy will not hesitate to give it to her. A woman will cancel a date at least 3 times with 3 different excuses and the nice guy will never grow tired of asking her out. She will play sneaky and dishonest games and her beauty will make the nice guy keep overlooking everything. A bad boy has no patience for these games. When a woman asks for his number, the bad boy will understand that she is only running away from him and won't ever call him. When she cancels a date twice, the bad boy forgets about her and moves on. Bad boys know what women want in a relationship and are able to spot their tricks from afar. When a woman is used to meeting nice guys that are always following her around, she gets surprised when she meets a bad boy who can do everything better.

18. Bad boys don’t praise themselves

Nice guys will look for a million reasons why a woman should choose them as a boyfriend. However, this rarely works as the woman will not care. She can make up her own mind about men. One thing that bad boys are aware of is that selling themselves will actually hurt more, rather than help.

19. Bad boys don’t give priority to women

Unlike what many people believe, women don’t like guys who make them the center of the dude’s universe. What they want is to be part of the man’s world. All that women want is love, affection, and attention. They want the man to continue doing his own thing and focus on things that are important to him. When you make a woman feel like she's the most important person, she'll only feel annoyed or even scared by your constant attention.

20. Bad boys have their minds made up

When making a decision, it is always important to make up your mind quickly instead of beating around the bush. Bad boys knows this and are really quick in deciding what they want. If you are the kind of guy who always hesitates in making a decision, this is something that you may want to change if you are trying to be a bad boy.

21. Bad boys don’t become victims

You will never find a bad boy becoming the victim of the situations around them. Instead, they tend to adapt and quickly overcome the unfortunate thing that happens to them. It is this kind of attitude that women admire in them. This is unlike nice guys who will sit around and whine rather than dealing with the challenge at hand.

22. Bad boys are brutally honest

This is another attitude that women admire in bad boys. Bad boys will say whatever is on their mind whether you like it or not. They will look a woman in the eye and tell her the whole truth instead of lying to her in a bid to seem sweet. Bad boys know it is better for a woman to be mad at them rather than lying to her. Better to be brutally honest than have a reputation for being a liar.

23. Bad boys are passionate

Whatever the bad boys set their sights on, they are passionate about it. They will put all their energy into it. This includes trying to win women. They will show more sexual passion and energy towards the woman that they are interested in.

24. Bad boys think highly of themselves

When a bad boy has a negative side, he acts as if this doesn’t matter. He will still talk highly of himself and will not let anyone put him in a bad light. This is one of the attitudes that women love about bad boys.

25. Bad boys go after what they want

You will never find a bad boy wishing that he could talk to a certain woman because she is too hot and out of his league. Bad boys will go out there and actually talk to her. It is this confidence in themselves that mesmerizes women. Whatever a bad boy wants, he goes after it. In case a bad boy wants a woman's number, he asks for it. A bad boy is not nervous or shy. If you want to be a bad boy, you will need to develop the same kind of attitude and mindset.