Why is hooking up at a party important?
Well, everyone who goes to a party wants to have a good time, probably the best time they ever have and includes both the guys and the girls. And after a night of drinking, dancing and a lot of banter, it would only make sense if you got to take the belle of the ball at home. Doing so is like putting the icing on the cake and that is why it is very important to guys. Here are some of the things you can incorporate into your game if at all you want to get better at this:
1. You can hook up with anyone if you are confident
Confidence will almost always give you the chance to hook up with any girl at any given party. There is no way around it but the good thing is that if you're shy you can always work on it. No one is born confident. You can ask your most confident friend for tips if you have to. At the end of the day, you will start seeing yourself as the best human being ever. This way, you won’t have a problem with approaching any girl, which will make scoring a hook up with her much easier. And even if you are rejected (because let’s face it, not every approach is successful), you won’t take it personally. You will just go ahead and have a good time with the next girl that drops into your radar and move on unbothered. And even if you don't hook up, she will have respect for you.
2. Make a hook up with a girl happen by smelling good
Before going to meet up with that hot girl at a party, you might want to update your fragrance selection. Girls love a guy who knows how to groom himself, and this includes smelling good 24/7. Even if you are planning to meet her via tinder or any other online dating platform, make sure that you leave the first impression that you are a guy who knows what he is doing through her sense of smell. If you do it right, she'll be dying to hook up with you. Also, if you have facial hair, make sure that you are grooming and combing that beard the right way. This will let her know that she's picking the right man, someone who is clean and neat always. If you aren’t really that good when it comes to getting the right fragrance, don’t be afraid! There are plenty of good people who will be more than willing to help you. All you need to do is look up custom fragrances online or go to a high end store to find your perfect match.
3. Girls at parties hook up with mature guys
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By mature, we're talking about guys who can handle their liquor. The last thing that a poor girl needs is a guy who is drinking like a fish, shouting at everyone, and causing all kinds of drama at a party. So, if you want to have the chance to hook up with any girl that you want, then you will have to keep calm and focus on your game. Try to look cool and not desperate to get laid. It’s such a huge turn off, to put it mildly. Instead, always look like the guy who is out to have a good time and you will most certainly have girls swooning around you. Everyone wants to have a good time at the party, which includes the possibility of a hook up, but no one will openly admit to this last bit. By creating a chill facade, people won't think you're desperate. You shouldn’t exhibit any desperation even over text (or online) and you will increase your chances of a hook up with just about anyone.
4. Girl will always go with the attentive guy
Whether at a party, at church, or online, girls will always love the guy who listens and pays attention to them. When you pay attention, a girl will take you for a cultured man and what woman wouldn't want to sleep with a cultured man and have cultured babies? Ok, scratch that last statement about cultured babies. But you got the point, right? So, make a point of listening to the girl you want to hook up with. Then sit back and watch good things happening to you without even working too hard. Besides, if you listen to what she is saying and contribute to the conversation, whether you are talking online or face to face, the girl will end up trusting you. And since you aren’t an amateur, you probably already know that trust is a very important part of hooking up with any girl at any party. You can never hook up with any girl if there is no trust between you two – even if she likes you. So, you better start learning how to be an attentive guy if you are looking to get lucky at the next party.
5. Girls only hook up with modest guys
Whether the girl looks at you as a potential hook up or just as a friend, she will always appreciate it when you are modest. That's definitely a trait that you'll want to have when you are counting on hooking up with a girl at a party. If the girl sees just how amazing and modest you are, then it will be twice as easy for you to hook up with her, plain and simple. Modesty is what separates confidence from cockiness. Being cocky won’t really guarantee you a hook up with any girl you want, because girls aren’t into arrogant people. So, the next time you are at a party or just hovering around tinder and you manage to spot a hot girl that you definitely want to hook up with, then remember the importance of being modest. Even if you are hot or successful, always find other things to talk about to the girl that you are planning to hook up with and you will most certainly reap the benefits of modesty.
6. Be patient with the girl you want to hook up with
It doesn’t matter whether you want to hook up with a girl online, face to face or via text messaging. If you want that hot girl, then you have to understand and practice the art of being patient. No girl in her right mind will hook up with a guy who is oozing with desperation. Girls will always pay attention to the minor details and so if you want to hook up with one, always ensure that you are smart enough to pay attention to the signs she shows. The moment you spot a girl that you want to hook up with at a party, the best thing is to let her sip her drink as you observe her from a distance. Let the guys who are desperate to hook up with the girl make their uneducated moves first. Once they give up, then you can make your move on the girl. Make sure that you are oozing with self-confidence and everything will certainly go your way as far as the hook up with the girl is concerned. Be smooth. It also helps that you're coming after a ton of failures, so you'll look better in comparison. If the girl isn’t into dancing or talking, don’t be hard on yourself. It might not mean that the girl doesn’t want to hook up with you. She might not be in the mood or even better, the girl might be shy. And that is why you need to be patient.
7. Online hook ups are easier if you are a gentleman
If you check out a hot girl and immediately want to hook up with her, the first thing you need to show her, after confidence, is that you are a gentleman. Once you have seduced the girl into kicking it with you at the party, try and be a gentleman as well if you want to hook up with her later. Pull a chair out for the girl, hold the coat of the girl, let the girl step into rooms first, hold doors open for the girl and so on. You will have to do all that if you want to stand a chance with the girl. If you thought chivalry was dead, you need to resurrect it now, even if it means calling upon your lord and savior. So, before you go hitting up on a girl at a party, make sure that you have reviewed all the moves that a gentleman would do. Do that and you will hook up with any girl you want at any party.
8. Win the girl by winning over her friends
Girls make decisions as a group. Why do you think they go to the bathroom together all the time? That's where they discuss their secret plans. You need to make sure all of the girl’s friends also get a good impression of you. That will greatly increase your chances of being able to hook up with her. You can start by talking to her friends and getting them drinks while talking to the girl that you want to hook up with. You can also ask the friends about themselves so that it doesn’t look like you are ignoring anyone. If you're online, you can also make sure that your tinder profile is polished. The girl, as well as the girl's friends, will most certainly love swooning over your hot photos and laughing at your witty bio. When sending the girl that you want to hook up with some chocolates after the party, make sure that you are sending the girl’s friends some incentives too. You can also invite the girl and all her friends for a pizza or a night out and they will never forget you.
9. Break the ice with the girl
Even if you are talking to the girl you want to hook up online, try to meet up with her ASAP. Thankfully, you can get some useful tips online on how to text the girl you want to hook up with. Learn to be suave online and she'll be itching to meet you in real life. The first thing you'll probably want to do when you meet is hug her. Breaking the ice and touching her gently is important because it’s the first step of being intimate with the girl that you want to hook up with. Make sure you hug her the first chance you get!
10. Crack a few jokes
Ask any girl and she will tell you that she loves a guy who can make her ribs hurt from laughing. It wouldn’t hurt to have a couple of jokes up your sleeves whenever you go to a party with the intention of hooking up with a hot girl. Girls love to laugh and if you are the kind of guy that makes people laugh, girls will love being around you at parties. Rest assured that your reward will most certainly be a hookup. So, the next time you see a hot girl at a party, don’t be afraid to move in for the kill with a witty one-liner. Crack a few jokes and once that girl is comfortable and happy, you are halfway to scoring the best hook up of your life. And if you don’t hook up, then you can be assured that the girl will be a good friend from then on.
Whether you are looking to hook up with a girl at a party, or online through tinder, always remember that at the end of the day, the most important thing that you can do is be yourself. Being yourself is the most important thing because girls will always sniff out fakeness from a mile away. And if a girl finds out that you are fake, then you've just ruined all the chances you ever had of being able to hook up with her. So, as much as you would like to be super funny or dress well and also be supremely confident, always remember to be true to yourself. Do this whether you are chatting online, via text messages, and when you meet up at the party. Follow these tips and you will see your success rate improve. Just believe that you can do it and everything will work out in your favor.