20 Interesting Topics To Talk About With Your Crush

Do not bore your crush with irrelevant talk. Here are 20 interesting topics to talk about with your crush that would leave him glued to you!

By Amanda Palmer
20 Interesting Topics To Talk About With Your Crush

Keep your crush glued to you with interesting topics

Do you get butterflies in your tummy every time you meet your crush? You stammer, you blush, and your mind freezes out literally. You can think of nothing to talk about and in the end, you just blame yourself for being so silly. You may feel bad about wasting an opportunity to talk about something impressive with your crush. Well, it won't happen anymore! Here are some 20 amazing and interesting topics that you can bring up while talking to your crush. Not only would he be impressed by your knowledge and the way you communicate, it would make him be interested in talking to you more and more. Speech is often the second thing one notices about a person, after their looks. You might get attracted to a woman by her looks, but if she lets out garbage the moment she opens her mouth, her beauty is of no use to you! Often you might find a person very attractive but when you two start communicating, you lose interest because of the way he thinks or talks. Sometimes the greatest relationships are built on the basis of communication. Looks hardly matter in that case if you are totally besotted by the way the person thinks and talks. Next time, keep yourself prepared with these interesting topics before you meet your crush:

1. Talk about their hobbies

To know each other better, often hobbies are a safe subject to begin with. You can get to know your crush deeper and find out interesting things about him. Some examples are if he is into sports, music, reading, cooking and other such hobbies. Maybe you have common hobbies and can do fun things together!

2. Discuss life goals

A deep subject, this kind of discussion should come in much later, preferably after you have known your crush for some time. Discussing life goals gives you an idea about how focused your girl or guy is in life. Maybe you can even take some inspiration from them.

3. Talk about your favorite movies and actors.

This is a very safe topic and often one of the few initial topics to talk about with your girl or guy. Discuss movies that were just released, and your favorite movies and actors. You will know if your crush likes romantic movies or thrilling action movies. Perhaps you could invite your crush over for a fun night of watching his or her favorite movie together. She will be impressed if you remember such small details about her.

4. Talk about your little secrets

This will bring your guy closer to you. When you discuss with him some interesting, naughty secrets of yours, he will not only feel that you trust in him but he might even swear to be your confidant forever. Sharing dirty little secrets deepens your bond and enables you to become closer to one another.

5. Discuss common friends

Discussing common friends can be one of the best ways to start a conversation with someone, especially if you don't know him or her very well. You too could develop a deeper bond discussing some annoying, funny, or interesting things about your common friends.

6. Tell them about your favorite book and author

Maybe you both turned out to be book lovers and can spend all your time dating in the library! Let him know what kind of books you like to read, as well as what kind he prefers. This will also tell you a lot about his or her character. For example, liking Robin Cook makes him or her crazy about science fiction, while a preference for Danielle Steel obviously means your crush is a family person.

7. Favorite hangout joint

Find out about each other's usual hangout spots. Perhaps, you could take your crush next time to his or her favorite place. It could also tell you about the kind of food your crush likes and whether you two have common taste in food. She might love Chinese and you might be a burger fan. Knowing these small details about each other only makes the relationship stronger.

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8. Favorite travel destination

Find out where your crush has travelled to, and what's his or her most loved travel destinations. This is quite an interesting discussion, especially if you both love travelling. You will also find out about the ways she sees the world. Conversations about travel can speak volumes about a person's lifestyle. You'll learn whether they prefer to be extravagant, or are budget travelers, beach lovers, hill station lovers or wild life enthusiasts.

9. Talk about yourself and your family

Conversations on these topics can sometimes go on for hours. Perhaps your crush is a family person and may love to talk about his mom's favorite recipes or her naughty little brother's tantrums. You can join in with your own family stories. An hour or two would pass as you discuss your beloved families, and you might not even notice. Later on, you can send each other pics of your family over text too.

10. Discuss topics which your crush finds interesting like sports or politics

Maybe a little bit of knowledge on this beforehand from common friends or social media could help you out. Find out whether your crush loves sports or politics. Starting a conversation on your crush's favorite topic would have your guy all ears to what you have to say. With a little luck, you might end up talking for hours.

11. Talk about things that irritate you

This kind of topic can be discussed a little later on, after you have known each other for some time. Your crush will know you better as a person if you tell him how bad you feel for wounded animals or abandoned children. It would add some depth to your persona and perhaps your crush will be really impressed by your interesting and deep thoughts.

12. Discuss your dreams

My favorite interesting topic to discuss with my crush would be about my future dreams. With dreams also come passions and life goals. You can get an idea about what your guy or girl wants to become in life. What do they want to achieve? What's their idea of self-satisfaction? Its a very deep discussion and perhaps you can save it for when you both have ample free time to talk to each other.

13. Talk about interesting topics like their proud moments

If your crush tells you about a certain moment when he felt proud of his achievements, then he or she is really opening up to you! If they feel like telling you when they felt the happiest or proudest in life, it really means that they like talking to you. Carry on with such conversations with empathy and interest and you can discuss your own achievements too. Send some old pics over text about your proud moments in life. This will ensure that a memory of your life is with him or her forever.

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14. Discuss interesting topics like self-improvement

When you get candid about your own flaws and areas where you would like to change yourself, your crush would treat you with more respect. It's not easy for people to accept their own faults and misgivings. By doing so, your crush will see you as an interesting and complex person.

15. Talk about sex

Talking about sex with your crush can be really exciting. You could discuss some great positions and your preferences. You could also share some naughty text messages on sex with each other. Dirty talk can charge up the sexual chemistry between both of you.

16. Discuss your past

If you have had a troubled past then perhaps, you could open up to your crush about it. If he is all ears and shows sympathy, it could mean that he or she truly cares for you. Before you get into a relationship, it's good to know a person from all angles. He or she should be there for you in your joys and sorrows alike.

17. Interesting topics like first dates are always good

This will bring in some light humor in your conversation. You could talk about how certain first dates were a total disaster and make your crush split his sides with your funny behavior. You can also find out how many people your crush has been with.

18. Give some advice and personal opinions

If you've already a lot of conversations with your crush, perhaps you could get a give them hints of advice here or there. Do it without offending them. If you have managed to develop a bond with them then they will surely try to take your words into consideration. Light advice like a change in hairstyle can really keep your crush hooked on to you. He or will be glad that you notice such small details.

19. Talk about the idea of a life partner

You could tell your crush about your idea of a perfect life partner. Your crush would either get the hint that he is the perfect guy for you, or she might implement a few changes to eventually become the perfect guy.

20. Talk about marriage plans and kids

By discussing this interesting topic, you will know when your crush intends to settle down and whether he or she likes kids or not. This makes things a little clear for you, especially if you adore kids and want to settle down immediately.

Use the aforementioned topics to get things started, and you would never run out of conversation topics with your crush. You have to get to know a person slowly at first. Once you both are comfortable in a relationship then the conversation just flows. You have to keep the conversations interesting in order to keep the relationship going. Be considerate about each other's topics of interest. Make your crush feel connected to you with your conversations. You cannot keep talking about politics if your girlfriend hates it. Text her funny memes and send her funny or naughty pics to keep the romance alive. Gossip can also help to create a deeper bond between both of you. A girl loves to gossip. Doing that sometimes with her will make her more interested in talking to you. Text her with funny details of your childhood and your past affairs. Text her with funny details about common friends. You have to talk to her about everything that goes on in your world to keep her hooked on to you. Your crush should feel like sharing every small bit of information with you. Every moment that you spend with each other should be fun, light, humorous, and meaningful. So, next time you talk to your crush, mention anything above. Your crush will be all ears for sure!