15 Hot Sex Tips To Make Love To A Cancer Man In Bed

There are many ways in which a woman can please a man in bed. But if you want to please a cancer man in bed, then you will have to go an extra mile.

By Auntrone89
15 Hot Sex Tips To Make Love To A Cancer Man In Bed

Pleasing your cancer man in bed

Love is always a good thing. And for any woman to bring out the best in her relationship, she had to fully understand how to love her man in a way that he won’t even think twice when asked to choose between her and others. And the same goes both ways as a relationship, just like tango, takes the effort of two people. Still, on a woman pleasuring her man, it is essential for you to know that a cancer man has got specific needs that no other man would require from you. It is, therefore, a good thing for you to study him and focus on making him happy. Doing this will without a doubt make your marriage to not only work but also to thrive in the biggest way possible. First, you can start by fully understanding the characteristics of a cancer man.

1. Test the waters while in bed with your cancer man

You need to fully understand that one of the salient cancer traits is the mystery. You can never tell what a cancer man is up to no matter how hard you try. That said, you can try and do some guesswork while having some fun. But make sure that he is into your advances so that you can avoid awkward moments. At times a cancer man might be thinking and so the need to be left alone. But if you try to make an advance and he isn’t in the mood, don’t feel bad or look jealousy at the mug of coffee that he is giving more attention than you. Just understand and come back later. And if you are having a difficult time figuring your man out, then it would be a good idea for you just to stop asking and ask your cancer man what’s up as directly as possible. It will be good for your relationship if you learn how to be direct.

2. Shower your cancer man with affection

Don’t get it twisted; all men love some affection from time to time. But when it comes to your cancer man, the kind of affection that your man needs will be much more than you had ever anticipated. And for that matter, you will be required to sit tight and figure out more ways of showing your cancer man affection, whether in the kitchen through the food that you cook him all the way to the love that you make to him while in bed. And especially when you are making love to your cancer man in bed, you need to see to it that you are going that extra mile so that in the end, everything works out for you. As you are in bed with the love of your life, you shouldn’t mind edging closer and telling him that you love him as many times as you want so that it can have the desired effect.

3. A cancer man is always calm in bed, so should you

As a woman, you need to understand that a cancer man looking chilled doesn’t mean that he cannot switch to the beast mode in zero to three seconds. But if you provoke them, then they will end up dominating you in bed with all of their freakiness. That said, you should mistake his calmness for not wanting sex or lovemaking (and this is what makes reading cancer men as a whole an uphill task). If you aren’t trying to get him to have sex with you, then just lying on his chest and gently stroking him will be enough to make him feel loved in the marriage. Besides, I already mentioned that a cancer man loves to be showered with affection as being one of their many salient traits. That said, any chance you get, always make sure that you are showering your cancer man with affection without misinterpreting his calm nature.

4. A cancer man is sentimental in bed, complement that

Let’s be honest, if you make love to a man like never before, he is always going to look back to that moment jealousy especially if he isn’t getting enough of the good sex lately. That said, a cancer man has always been known to reminisce from time to time. And because of having such kind of nostalgia, then it is pretty darn easy to impress him in bed especially since you already know what he wants (as he can’t stop talking about the last time you gave it to him as though your life depended on it). In that regard, you can keep impressing your cancer man by doing all sorts of stunts in bed and, in the end, give him a lot of good stuff to be nostalgic about. Do these enough times, and you will end up keeping your cancer man for life and not just in bed. Again, the key is to not only understand his characteristics but to use it to your advantage — end of story.

5. Be gentle, a cancer man can be shy in bed

Despite being a best and a freak in bed, a cancer man is known to have a problem expressing his feelings especially if they don't know you well. That said, you shouldn’t be very aggressive the first few times you get with him in bed. Make sure that your cancer man is comfortable and always be there when he is ready to take things to the next level. If you do this the right way, then you will not have a problem enjoying having sex with your cancer man because he will be ready to unleash his sexual prowess with you, but only when he is most comfortable to do so. The moment you try to rush things into bed with your cancer man, then things will only be awkward. But now you know what is required of you being the woman who is in love with a cancer man.

6. Be as open-minded as your cancer man

If you ever wondered why a marriage to a cancer man is always incredible, then you should read the heading again. Yes, a cancer man is very exciting because they are always down for trying something incredible and mindboggling. So, the next time you feel like you aren’t cool with him being on top all the time, how about suggesting that you try going on top. Even if he wouldn’t have tried this before, he will most certainly be more than willing to try it out, just because you asked and that is what makes them too cool. The latter is one of the cancer man traits that you should exploit to the maximum, being the exciting woman that you are. And trust me when I say that your cancer man won't stare jealously especially when you are enjoying your new sex position that you suggested that you try out.

7. In bed, a cancer man is very, very imaginative

Be sure to try catching up with your cancer man once you hope in bed with him. He will always come up with some sexual stints that you have never heard of but in the end, enjoy it to the maximum. That said, you shouldn’t question his imagination because he won’t disrespect you or try to do things that you won’t like a single bit. Your cancer man will always come up with new ideas on how to make love to you. Therefore, it would only make sense that you also let your imagination run amok. That way, your sex life you and your cancer man share will be explosive, which will also translate to an explosive in bed action that always rekindles your love over and over again. You can also tease him in a bid to work up his imagination. If you do this and get to do it right, your cancer man will love you for not judging his imaginative ways. So, make encouraging him part and parcel of your daily routine.

8. Don’t be pushy especially in bed

The latter goes hand in hand with your cancer man’s calm personality. Despite the fact that he loves being cool as a cucumber and getting all freaky in his own time, a cancer man doesn’t like being pushed to doing things he doesn’t want especially in bed. That said if you want to be that one woman that your cancer man is in love with, then always remember that being obnoxious doesn’t augur well with him. You can start by only suggesting things but never pushing him into trying or doing things because his affection will wither and with it, your marriage. To avoid being obnoxious in bed with your cancer man, the best thing for you to do would be to learn how to ask. Ask if he is in the mood, ask if it’s okay if you can rub here or suck there. Doing that will also help you avoid second-guessing all the time.

9. Always be generous to your cancer man in bed

Among the many good traits exhibited by your cancer man, one that stands out is none other than being generous. And the same also happens to be extended while in bed. That, therefore, means that if you also practice generosity while in bed, then you will most certainly win your cancer man over without any problems which are quite an amazing thing at the end of the day. Give it to him and doing so like you mean it and don’t ever stare jealousy when he is generous to other people (unless he is generous with his shlong). The latter will show that you are an understanding woman. And needless to say, a cancer man will return the favor the moment you both hop in bed. The good thing is that being generous in bed is something that can be learned. It’s even more exciting when both of you practice it together.

10. Be unpredictable

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If you want to grasp the attention of your cancer man, then you need to learn the art of being unpredictable. This is because they are usually very intuitive and therefore very good at reading people. With that in mind, you can learn how to slip under their radar so that they aren’t sure about what to expect next. If you do that to them, they will always look forward to hopping in bed with you and will, therefore, make the sex too hot. That explains why a cancer man will always love a woman who is hard to read since that kind of marriage is never boring. If you are unpredictable, it would be a good idea for you to keep it that way because he will be so into you to the point that you won’t even have to worry about other women, if at all you are already staring jealously at them. Again, your cancer man will always look forward to jumping in bed with you, which is a good thing if you ask me.

11. Be a passionate lover

A woman who is intense when making love is one that can truly enjoy being in a marriage with a cancer man. The good thing about being intense when making love is that you won’t have to try too hard to achieve this. Just make sure that you are doing everything in your power to concentrate on how good the sex is and it will just come to you as naturally as possible. You can possess the passionate traits of lovemaking by showing commitment during the lovemaking sessions. Take your time to clean yourself up and get some hot, naughty lingerie. And you can also proceed to moan and groaning a bit during the sex as it will put you as well as your lover in the mood of the sex.

12. Avoid causing him pain

The thing about loving passionately is that there is a big possibility that your cancer man can’t handle a heartbreak. So, if you want him to love you for real, then you need to stop giving him reasons to hate you. For instance, if you ever find yourself in a position where you hurt him, try and make things right. But if you are making the heartbreak be something that is recurrent in your relationship that he has to stare jealousy at every man that is talking to you, then you are going to have a very difficult time staying focused in your relationship. And that will most certainly translate to bad sex which is something that we all don’t want to happen. But if you take care of your cancer man and protect him from heartbreak, then the sex will most certainly be amazing for the both of you.

13. Make him feel wanted

When in bed with your cancer man, always strive to make him feel he is wanted. The good thing about this is that there are plenty of things that you can do in your bid to make him feel loved and wanted. You can always moan during sex and embrace him as tightly as possible because it will give you that much-needed action in your sex life. A cancer man loves a woman who makes him feel wanted and wouldn’t trade her for anything in this world. You can start by simply telling him that you want him and then the rest can flow naturally.

14. Be strong for him when he isn’t

A cancer man has got mood swings, more often than not, he can’t control them. It would be a good idea for you to always make love to him when he is in the mood so that you can both enjoy it. But when he is not in the mood, then it would be a good idea for you to give him that much-needed space because he will appreciate you at the end of the day. You can also be the rock in your marriage, and with such traits, he will love you for real. Trust a cancer man to reciprocate in bed. Also, avoid jealousy from being part and parcel of your relationship.

15. Don’t be scared to be a freak

Apart from getting rid of jealousy in your relationship, always be a freak for your cancer man. Believe you me; he can handle it because resilience is part of their DNA.


Making love to a cancer man is easy. As long as you are doing everything in your power to understand their general characteristics, it will be a tad easier for you to please them in bed as well as in general. Just make sure that you are focused and are committed to doing so and the rest will be a tad easier. You have absolutely nothing to worry about if you aren’t good at this because, just like everything else under the sun, making love to a cancer man is an art that can be learned.