Your Man Wants To Be Romanced In Bed, Too. Find Out How!

If your man has been romancing you all the time, then it's time to switch your roles! Surprise him and find out he wants to be romanced in bed.

By Amanda Palmer
Your Man Wants To Be Romanced In Bed, Too. Find Out How!

Why should gals have all the fun?

Men pamper women, men persuade women into sex, men buy women gifts, and men go gaga over women all the time! But they need a bit of all these too. This time, why don't we give them the time of their lives? Take them by surprise and pamper them. Buy them gifts and give them the most erotic and sexually arousing encounter of their lives. Read on learn how you can romance your prince charming in bed!

Treat him to a lovely surprise

Book a lovely hotel room for the both of you. But don't tell him directly about this. Ask his friends to pretend that he will be meeting them. Get the room ready beforehand with his favorite wine, rose petals on the bed, and some lovely music. Don't forget to put on some sexy lingerie. He will love your surprise.

Romance him blindfolded in bed

When your man enters your bedroom tonight, take him completely by surprise by blindfolding him. Next, whisper in your most flirtatious tone in his ears that he is about to have the most erotic romantic encounter of his entire life. Let him lie down on the bed while you do all the most mind-blowing things that he can imagine. Show him what he means to you with your romantic deeds. Men love surprises when it comes to love making.

Your man will love kinky sex

If your sex life is starting to become rather bland and boring, then it's time to spice it up. Trying new things in the bedroom is key for an active sex life with your man. Kinky sex might not be every woman's cup of tea, but chances are, your man will love it. It sexually arouses men like crazy. If you've never had kinky sex before, then now is a great time to add some wild fun in the bedroom. Use your imagination and try experimenting a bit. Try using some sex toys to make the encounter more exciting. Perhaps, you could also masturbate in front of your man to arouse him. This kinky act will bring out the animal in him, and you both will end up having one of your wildest sexual encounters. Wear your most dramatic lingerie. You can even wear some costumes if you're both into roleplaying. How about enacting scenes from an erotic movie like "50 Shades of Grey"? Tie him up and play with him till be begs you!

Find out about his fantasies

Tease him, trick him, seduce him. Do all that he has ever fantasized about. Ask him about his fantasies and fulfill them. Perhaps, he wants to try something different. Get a little bold and do whatever that pleases him. Men often find discussing their fantasies a tad bit uncomfortable for fear of judgment. Open up to him about your fantasies first and then ask him about his. Maybe he likes outdoor sex or shower sex? Find out how you can bring his fantasies to life and do it. Romance him the way he desires.

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Dominate your man in bed

You can romance your man while dominating him. Be a little bold and take the lead in the bedroom tonight. Most of the time, men dominate women in bed and women like it that way. But being submissive all the time can be boring. Show him a bit of your dominant side while you're making love. You could start by pushing him on the bed or pulling his hair a little. Tie his hands up if you want to completely dominate him. He will be surprised at this new attitude, and he will love the way you take control. Trying doing this in the bedroom if you want to excite your man.

Variety is the spice of life

Sex is more exciting if you spice it up each time and add some variety. You and your partner will surely enjoy it. Instead of the usual missionary style, try other positions. Try doggy style or woman on top. Experience different pleasurable sensations with new positions that you haven't tried before. You can also explore positions that can be done not only in the bedroom but in other parts of the house as well. If you always give him a blowjob while he's lying in bed, then why not try doing it while he's standing? Wear sexy lingerie and use different props or toys. Make your sexual intimacy as pleasurable as possible. Sex should never feel like a routine. Always try new things to make your sex life more exciting and unpredictable.

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Watch some porn while in bed with your man

Watching some hot and steamy porn while in bed can arouse your partner. This time, take the lead and serve some cocktails while a porn movie is playing in the background. Make your man excited about getting in bed with you. Get him in the mood using the right actions. If you want to have slow and sensual sex, then choose a porn movie with that theme. Romance is one of the greatest things that couples share and if you do it right, it will always be an active and exciting part of your relationship.

Be direct about your sexual or erotic thoughts

Women generally hide their sexual thoughts and erotic fantasies from men. Don't be shy! How can your partner know what you like and don't like if you don't tell him? Be honest and tell him what arouses you. Tell him what you want him to do to you. Tell him what makes you horny and your deepest desires are. Your man would love to do everything for you when it comes to sex. Just be direct and give him instructions. He will be more than obliged to fulfill your fantasies. This kind of romance will make your bond stronger as a couple.

Cook your man's favorite meal or get his favorite take-away

Great food is the way to a man's heart. A great romance definitely follows after a great meal. He will love your thoughtful gesture. Prepare a beautiful candlelight dinner at home and he will surely be in awe. Men appreciate such gestures especially if they are done with a personal touch. Don't just stop the romance after dinner. Make sure that you continue treating him like a king once you get to the bedroom.

Sexy lingerie leads to a great romance

How do you expect your man to get sexually aroused if you dress up in boring pyjamas? Wear something seductive. A satin and lace lingerie set under your sheer nightgown would be just perfect. It will tease him while still leaving something to the imagination. Wear something that he has never seen before. Sexy lingerie is a visual treat that will feed your man's libido. If it's your first night together, then make it extra romantic by doing this.

Romance your man with a massage in bed

Be your man's own masseur maiden and give him the most erotic massage of his life. Give him some relaxation while arousing him at the same time. He is all yours. Soothe his body with your gentle strokes and tease him with your naughty strokes. Like women, men have erogenous zones too. Tease your man on his most erotic zones with your massage. Your man would love to be massaged. Needless to say, it will lead to a great romantic encounter afterwords.

Just like women, men love breakfast in bed

Why not treat the love of your life with his favorite breakfast in bed? Not only would he be delighted with your thoughtful gesture, but he would adore you even more. Surely it would lead to a great start to a great morning! A dreamy and intimate encounter with your beloved just before you rush to office would just make your day. Make romance an important part of your lives by putting in an extra bit of effort.

Flirty talks lead to hot romance

Perhaps you could begin your sexual foreplay with some naughty and flirty talks? Men love listening to women's sensual voices. This is one way or arousing your man sexually. Sending naughty texts or telling him things like "I want you all over me today" will drive your man crazy with desire. Men also love sexting. Try sending your man a message like: "I cant't wait to have you inside me" or "Tonight I'll be romancing you like crazy' or "It was lovely having you inside me yesterday." He might still be in the office, but he won't be able to get you out of his mind for the rest of the day.

Show some interest in his hobbies

Before romancing your man in bed, strike up a conversation about his hobbies or day to day activities. Ask him about his day at work, his favorite football team, or ask about his guys day out. It will show your warmth and empathy. Setting the mood right will pave the way for a romantic sexual encounter in bed. He will feel that you are interested in him completely and sex is not the only thing you crave for. Believe me, this leads to a better sex life.

Play daring games to spice up your romance

An erotic game of striptease will sexually arouse the both of you. You can play strip poker or any card game where the player has to take off a piece of clothing each time they lose. In the end, you'll both be naked and aroused. This game is really fun and exciting between couples who want to spice up their sex lives. These fun and daring games will take your sex life to a whole new level.

Romance your man in bed by showing him your loving side

Lastly, you have to show your man that you really love him. A great romance, a beautiful relationship, and great sex all results from genuine love. Small gestures mean a lot in a relationship. Sex is not the only way to show your love for your partner. Show that you're interested in his life and that you care about his well-being. Instead of sleeping right after sex, spend a few moments with him to bond and become closer emotionally. When you really care about him, especially in your most intimate moments, then he will truly feel your love.

Adding excitement to romance and intimacy

We all know that sex isn't just done for reproduction. It is the most intimate experience that is shared by a couple. Sex should be enjoyable and pleasurable. Doing it the same way can lead to a slump in intimacy. Luckily, there are many ways to spice up your sex life with your one true love. Just like women, men also want to be romanced in bed. Now that you've learned the many ways to romance your man in bed, then you can expect to have a more exciting sex life with your one and only.