20 Romantic Ways To Make Your Husband Happy & Satisfied In Bed

A good relationship and a happy husband starts and extends far past when you go to bed with him. Sure, it can be said that a husband will be happier when you make him happy in bed, but ladies, let's not forget there are 23+ hours in a day that you can be pleasing your man. You married your husband, so there is a good chance that you know the things that will make him happy. Don't make it seem like you are up to something. Take a chance to branch out and try something new also. It is time to put your knowledge to the test and turn words into action. The happier that you make your guy outside of the bedroom, the happier you will make him inside the bedroom. He will be all geared up, appreciative, and willing to return the favor. Here are twenty tips that will help you make your husband happy in bed, helping to build your relationship and in return, make you a happy wife!

Making your husband happy in bed starts first thing in the morning. Here are some tips to help you make your honey swoon over you from the time you wake up. Tip #1: Don't sleep in that morning. Get up early. Get the coffee and newspaper ready. Make him breakfast (in bed). The first thing to remember is that he will notice the small things all day long, so stack them up in your favor starting from the time you wake up! Tip #2: Focus on the small things. Warm his towel up in the dryer while he is taking a shower. Offer to let the dogs out during the day. Do small favors for him that you normally depend on him to get done. He may wonder what's up, but just reply that you love him. In a relationship, it is important to satisfy all needs of your husband, especially if you are looking to make him happy that night! Tip #3: Make sure you look good. There is nothing better for a man (other than being in bed with you) than seeing you look good that day. Take a shower. Do your hair. Spend a little more time putting on your makeup. Wear something a little sexier that day. Make him notice you. Smell good. He will be sitting back going, "Damn, that is my woman." Believe me, ladies, this makes your husband happy. No husband wants to see their wife let themselves go. Tip #4: Buy a small gift. Other than doing good works and random acts of kindness for your hubby, buy him a small gift and give it to him in the afternoon. He will surely be wondering what is up, but again, just let him know it is because you love him. It doesn't need to be anything extravagant. However, a small gift just to let him know you are thinking about him will begin luring him towards thoughts of the bedroom later. Hell, buy yourself some lingerie while you are at it!

Remember, this can be an all-day process. You are trying to win his heart over again. This isn't to say that the two of you are having any kind of problems, this is simply saying that you are trying to be selfless and you want to make your man happy. There are a ton of things that you can do throughout the day to make your husband happy. During all of these actions, keep one thing in mind: "I am trying to get him in the sack tonight so that I can make him happy in bed." Keep repeating this mantra over and over, and you will discover a bunch of things that you can do to make him happy. Give him some space during the day. Don't nag. Don't do things that make him unhappy, that's for sure! Tip #5: Start making hints throughout the day. He will pick up on them, no matter how subtle they are. Make some comments on how happy your husband makes you in the relationship. Tell him how much he satisfies you. This will be a common theme throughout the evening. Tip #6: Eat an early dinner. No one wants to have sex on a full stomach. Eat early, and eat light. Make a delicious meal for him...his favorite even. Eat before six o'clock to make sure that his tummy has time to settle before you guys decide to hit the hay. Tip #7: Add some alcohol. There is nothing more lubricating to your sex life than a little bit of wine or an after-dinner cocktail. You can have more than one, but the plan is to not make him pass out before your mission is complete. Tip #8: Bust out that lingerie. Yes, ladies. Tonight is the night to get past your insecurities and to bring out the best. If you don't have some, get some earlier in the day. While your husband is nice and comfy with his cocktail on the couch, go into the bedroom and change into your nicest lingerie. Either invite him into the bedroom or walk back out (be brave!) while he is on the couch. If you have children, wait until they are in bed of course! Tip #9: Be assertive. Initiate. There is nothing that makes your husband happier in a relationship than you initiating. Many times, men are the ones who have to make the first move. Take the time to let him know that YOU are interested tonight. Start kissing his neck. Look at him seductively. Let your interest be known. If all else fails, just start playing with his member - he will catch on.

Foreplay is an important part of making your husband happy in bed. You need to be daring and initiate, and you need to keep the focus on him. Watch for warning signs that he is not happy with the foreplay experience and take a chance on trying something new. If you find his hands roaming into unknown territory, take a shot at it. It means that he is really horny and tonight is the night you are trying to please him, right? Tip #10: It is time to be romantic...and kinky. Remember, this is about wanting to satisfy your husband. Don't make it all about you (unless he wants to please you...if this is the case, do what is making him happy). During foreplay, make sure that you focus your efforts on romantic speech, stimulating touch, and for goodness' sake, use your mouth in every capacity. Tip #11: Fingertips and lips go a long way. During foreplay, giving your husband a blowjob is important. Some men will cum quickly, so know the signs. Nothing will kill the mood faster than not hitting a home run tonight! Start off with romantic and move into kinky. He will get really turned on, especially if this is not how you normally operate in bed. Use your fingers and lips to touch and kiss him all over. Tip #12: Let him please you...if he is aiming for it. If he flips you over and wants to perform oral sex on you, let him. Yes, you are trying to make this about him tonight. However, men want to satisfy their women because it helps them to feel like a man. If he turns the tables and wants to satisfy you...let him. Remember, this is about making your husband happy in bed. Many women focus so much on making their man happy that they forget that sometimes, making their wife happy is what makes a man feel truly satisfied. Let him know that he has the go to make you happy as well. However, if you truly want to get him riled up, put the focus on the things that get turn him on. You know him best, and you know what will do the trick.

You have made it past the foreplay stage, and with any luck, the two of you are about to have intercourse. Tonight isn't the night to do the same thing that you do every night. Tonight is the night to experiment, to be creative, and to make his fantasies come true. There are a lot of things to take into consideration. First of all, is this the night to make a baby? Don't scare him by going too overboard towards things that will have a long-term outcome. Tonight is the night to do a little role play, to try new positions, or to do things that he has expressed interest in but you have been too shy to try before. Don't worry if it doesn't work out, he will appreciate the effort! Tip #13: Try something different. This is probably one of the most important tips for making your husband happy. You have turned him on all day. Sometimes the same old-same old is boring. This isn't to say your normal missionary position won't make him happy. However, try something different than normal. Tip #14: Ride him. Yes, ladies, get past your fear of squishing him or not doing it right. Hop on that sucker and go for a ride. If you are feeling extra daring, turn around so your back is facing him. You doubt this works? Try it. Believe me, it will make him happy. Tip #15: Go at his speed. If he is looking to turn it up a notch, go with it. This isn't about making it is a romantic night for you - this article is about how to make him happy. If he is ready to turn you over and bang the heck out of you, let him. Remember, if things get out of control, you always have the right to communicate with him and let him know. Tip #16: Let him finish strong. Don't let him think that he is failing. Pull out all the stops. Scream, moan, squirm, pant...do whatever it takes to make sure that he knows that he is doing his part right.

There is always the chance that things won't go according to plan. He may not feel in the mood. He may not be able to get it up. He may cum too quickly or not at all. Truth be told, it may not be you that he is unhappy with, but he certainly will not be happy with himself. He needs your support more than anything to reassure him that he has not failed. Certain drugs will impact his ability. Certain mindsets will too. Don't make him feel inadequate by babying him, but do let him know there are other options than the one you both were shooting for. Whatever you do, (Tip #17) don't show your disappointment. Show your love. This is the man that you have chosen to marry, and he depends on your understanding. Remember, you have not failed at all. This isn't about you. This is about him. He needs to know that he can satisfy you in this relationship, even when he isn't in the mood. Your plans have not failed, and he has not failed. You are out to make him happy, and that is why no matter what the turnout is, you did your best. Be supportive of him!

Tip #18: Cuddle for a minute. There are plenty of guys who really enjoy this. Cleaning up can wait. Make sure you communicate with him on how happy he just made you. Your husband wants to know that it was good for you as well. Don't talk too much though. Kiss him. Hold onto him. Make him feel strong and like he is your post-coital protector. Tip #19: If you don't fall asleep in each other's arms, get up and get him a drink or a snack while he is in the bathroom. He will appreciate the small gesture of kindness. Take a shower with him to clean up if he is in the mood (be careful...this can lead to another session!)

Ladies, making sure that your relationship with your man is happy goes beyond using these tips just for one day. You want to satisfy him as many days of your marriage as possible. Believe me, it will come back around to you. The next morning, get up again and start all over again. You may not have to go to all extremes like you did the morning prior but don't let your love seem like it is a one-hit wonder. Use these tips over the course of a week and see how your relationship improves. Tip #20: Make sure that you tell him the next morning how awesome the previous day was. Even if things didn't pan out the way that you had hoped, he wants to know that you are okay with it. However, if things turned out the way you had hoped, let him know that his happiness is what is most important to you. In a relationship, him knowing that you are out to satisfy rather than be satisfied is an empowering feeling.

There are plenty of ways to be romantic in a relationship and to make your husband happy in bed. Remember, it is the little things that count all day long, not just the act of intercourse itself. The key thing to remember is that if you aren't happy, you can't make someone else happy. So, make sure, prior to this special evening, that you take good care of yourself and your mental/physical/emotional states. If you aren't in the mood, you aren't going to get him into the mood. Men love their women, and they want to see them happy as well. If you are not happy, he might feel like it is his fault and he will not know what to do unless you communicate with him. Communication is key in a marriage. You need to know what makes him happy and also be willing to try it. How do you know it won't make you happy unless you try? Do you know the signs of his happiness? Communicate with your man frequently (but don't have long drawn out, tiresome conversations on it) to find out what he likes in bed, what you can do during the day that pleases him, and what he can do to please you. Remember ladies, take care of yourself in the process. If you are feeling good, chances are it will be easier to make your man feel good as well.