Why Older Men Are Dating Younger Women: The Pros And Cons

Older men dating younger women has been happening since time immemorial. Find out the pros and cons of this and get advice on your own relationship here.

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Why Older Men Are Dating Younger Women: The Pros And Cons

The case of older men dating younger women

Just like every town has its own madman, every town has also seen its fair share of older men dating younger women. This kind of relationship is motivated by a number of things. For instance, an older man and younger woman can genuinely fall in love. The relationship can also be driven by material gains, convenience, and other forms of motivation which we all know too well. Regardless of their reasons for hooking up, it is important for both parties to take note of the pros and cons of their kind of relationship if they are to do it the right way. And since this article is strictly for older men dating younger women, then there are certain points that they need to pay full attention to. At the end of the day, it is imperative to not only read what has been written here but also seek knowledge elsewhere so as to fully understand what you are about to get yourself into. And, although seeking advice on older men dating younger women being important, you also need to be fully aware of the motivation behind the relationship. That way, you can know what to expect from it. If the relationship is motivated by monetary gains, then you have to know how to deal with it. The same applies if the relationship is motivated by love. Without further ado, here are the reasons why older men end up dating younger women.

1. An older man feels young dating a younger girl

One of the most popular advantages of dating a younger woman is the fact that the relationship makes the older man feel younger. More often than not, the younger woman will remind her older man of his heyday, bringing the much-needed buzz of excitement into his life once more. A younger woman will almost always suggest doing the craziest, most exciting things. And in the end, she will give him the opportunity to experience and relive all of the incredibly amazing moments he had years ago. Chances are, she will suggest the funniest adventures, including sex positions that will make him feel like a stud. Dating her will most certainly be a bragging point to his friends, who will definitely praise him for being a stud. Guys, let’s not pretend that having our egos stroked once in a while doesn’t feel good. It does feel great and will make us want to continue being with that hot, younger woman. But since everything has pros and cons, my advice is that the older man shouldn’t get carried away with the ego stroking and the feeling of being young. This is because he can end up spending too much of his money just to be referred to as a stud while living in the past. It is important for him to be cautious and have people who can drag him back to reality. Therefore, if you are an older man dating (or seeking to date) a younger woman, then make sure you have a circle of friends to keep your feeling of youth in check. The younger woman will also be seen as a gold-digger and will therefore be resented by others, even if it's not true.

2. The older man is updated when dating a younger girl

When in a relationship with a younger woman, the older man can rest assured that she will update him in every sense of the word. From the latest apps and gadgets all the way to what’s “popping” in pop culture and fashion trends. She will definitely teach him a thing or two about the latest slang and make him stand out amongst his peers. More often than not, the younger woman will take charge of the relationship and ensure that her older man is always abreast of his peers. And, for the older man dating a younger woman, he will always be on top of his game, making it all happen for her as a reward. She will make everything seem effortless for him. More often than not, his relationship will always be “lit”, as the younger woman will say when she is happy with her older man. The older man should remember that everything has pros and cons. And as the much older, financially stable one in the relationship, the younger woman might expect him to fund all of the new things she is teaching him. Oh, and if she suggested that he tries something new, or listen to a new song, or maybe buy more cashmere shirts since cashmere brings out his eyes – he is the one who will do the spending. Being updated comes with a lot of impulse buying so he needs to be very careful.

3. Dating a younger woman = exciting sex

Well, it goes without saying that an older man dating a much younger woman is bound to enjoy lots of hot, steamy sex from the relationship. Of course, the woman has incredible sex drive and energy and her “daddy” is definitely going to enjoy everything that comes with it. Chances are, she will be more than willing to experience things with her older man which his wife might not be okay with. In other words, he will be in a position to enjoy an incredible amount of excitement that he would have otherwise missed. His younger woman will also look incredibly sexy in her lingerie (and in her birthday suit, if you know what I mean). And since men are visual creatures, you can rest assured that his sex life will without a doubt take a turn for the better. Because she is younger, her body is firm and tighter – all ready for him to kick back and fantasize as he enjoys having sex with her. Hell, he will even win compliments for having such cute arm candy. On the downside, dating a much younger woman will mean one has to deal with her inexperience. She might be sexy and appealing to look at, but at the end of the day, the older man will have to spend lots of time teaching her how to do certain things and it might be a tad difficult. That said, you will need to put the pros and cons into consideration if you want to be happy.

4. An older man loosens up when dating a younger girl

It is very difficult for an older man to loosen up when he is with an older woman. But when the older man is dating a younger, more relaxed woman, then chances are he is going to loosen up and be happy. The latter is true because younger people are naturally carefree and that will without a doubt rub off on the older man that she is dating. That explains why you’d often see an older man with his younger woman out on the beach or in the club, having a good time without a care in the world. Younger women tend to take things easy and as they come. And that explains why older men dating younger women end up feeling much younger (as stated before). One disadvantage that comes as a result of older man – younger woman relationships is that the loosening up almost always involves spending money. If the older man is not careful, he might end up becoming broke in the name of loosening up. Unfortunately, the latter is something that has happened on so many occasions. It is therefore important to have a circle of friends or family to advise him accordingly. Again, the younger woman will also come off as a loose woman out to get the “poor” older man’s money, which can be a blow to her reputation. Older men dating younger women can also get carried away. That is something that a man needs to be very prepared for since no one wants to end up broke and alone. Also, trying to regulate the number of times you and your younger girlfriend loosen up is important.

5. Unity between the older man and younger woman

Still figuring out the pros and cons when it comes to an older man dating a younger woman? Here's another bit to chew on. You will always realize that as long as they are in love, almost nothing can come between them. The older man and his younger woman will know what and how they are benefiting from the relationship, making it close to impossible for outsiders to interfere. It will be very easy for an older man to kick back and enjoy himself for as long as he can because he knows he is the right person. But it would also be a tad difficult for him to do the same knowing that his level of thinking is different. On top of that, a younger woman is highly likely to want different things from the relationship which will make things more difficult to sort out. For instance, the older man might just want companionship when his younger woman wants to “turn up” and have fun at high-end clubs or go on expensive vacations. It would be quite difficult for him to focus on the things that matter just because he is trying to make his much younger woman happy. That alone would make it difficult for the both of you to keep dating for the long haul. So, if an older man who is dating (wants to start dating) a much younger girl, then there are things he needs to do to ensure that his relationship is successful. Making sure that he has found a way around his wants and expectations and then make clear-cut decisions is a step forward. That is the only way the both of you can end up being a single unit while only taking each other's advice.

6. Mutual learning

As hinted above, there is a lot that the older man can teach the younger girl he is dating. And the same goes the other way because there are so many things that are new today that the older man has no clue about. That said, the relationship can be some sort of symbiosis as both parties can benefit which is a good thing. Apart from learning, the two lovebirds can have as much fun as possible while learning which is quite thrilling. If the older man and his younger woman are in love and end up learning on a mutual basis, then it can be a fun experience altogether, one that will leave them both happy and ensure a good time. That will also lead to both of them looking forward to spending much more time together and being happy at the end of the day. Mutual learning can be incredible, especially if they both are genuinely in love and not just hooking up for the sake of convenience. But since we are looking for both the pros and cons, we also have to acknowledge that mutual learning isn’t always a bed of roses. For starters, things can go south very quickly since the older man is more experienced than the younger woman. It goes without saying that it might end up being a tad awkward for both of them at the end of it all. The girl will feel stupid for not offering anything “learning worthy” if you know what I mean.

7. The older man will have fun dating a younger woman

Fun is among the most important reasons why you’ll find an older man dating a younger woman. I have already listed all of the incredibly amazing things that the older man will benefit from the relationship. These include a lot of hot and steamy sex, a lot of ego stroking for dating a cute arm candy, living life on the edge – the list is virtually endless. These are things that an older man cannot enjoy with a fellow older woman. This is because the older women come with their fair share of advantages, which don’t include fun, unfortunately. The older woman is more concerned with raising a family, leading a company, and other superhuman things that make them lovable. And because they are busy making the world go 'round, older men would often seek solace in a relationship with much younger women. As mentioned multiple times above, being with someone who is carefree and cares only about fun might make the older man slack in important aspects of his life and career. And as if this isn't bad enough, the older man will end up overspending in the name of having fun, which might threaten his livelihood in future. Having too much fun can also be draining, especially for an older man who would try as much as possible to keep up with a hot-blooded younger woman. And since we all know how that ends, it would be a good idea for the older man to keep himself in check and hope for nothing but the very best while having fun responsibly.

8. The older man and younger woman's POVs differ

It's always a good thing to have an older man dating a younger woman because they see life through different eyes. Their relationship, as stated above, is likely to be mutually symbiotic, meaning both of them could benefit from the advice they occasionally give each other. The older man will most certainly have an easier time giving his hot and younger girlfriend or wife advice on important matters. This is because he has been there before. And the younger woman will always help her older man she is dating with the new things, like tech updates and political movements. At the end of the day, their union will make them better with time. Both of them will definitely have something to bring to the table. And since we are checking out both the pros and cons, we also have to look at the problem that comes with having different views at times. In most cases, the younger girl will not agree with the older man she is dating on a number of matters. First and foremost, she is most likely to view him (as well as his ideas) as old-fashioned or archaic. The older man, on the other hand, might see his younger girlfriend or wife as inexperienced and therefore unfit to give him reliable advice.

Conclusion

When all is said and done, everything in this world comes with its fair share of pros and cons. Situations where a much older man is dating a younger woman aren’t an exception. At the end of the day, all they need to do is understand why they are dating and work their way forward from that. As long as the relationship is making them happy, then why not pursue it? The most important thing is making sure that there is mutual understanding and respect. Also, checking out all of the pros and cons of being in such a relationship is a very important thing to do. It will go a long way in helping both the younger woman and her older man to make necessary plans for their future. Having this knowledge will go a long way in improving on the pros and significantly reducing the cons. This will, in turn, definitely improve the chances of the relationship working out. Last but not least, for such a relationship to work, both parties need to learn how to mind their own business and never allow outside talk to come between them.

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