20 Things A Girl Would Love To See In A Guy
Most girls surely have certain attributes or character traits they would like to see in a guy. Read on to find out what these qualities are.
Jul 24, 2018
Girls have different types or tastes when it comes to guys
You probably have noticed that not all girls prefer the same type of guy. This is because each girl has a certain type or taste when it comes to guys. Girls look for different traits, qualities, and features in their ideal guy. While these preferences vary from one girl to another, there are also several qualities in a guy that most girls find attractive.
What qualities do you have?
Have you ever asked yourself questions like "Why doesn't she like me?" or "Why is it that ladies are flocking around me?" You know what? While it is not possible for each and every girl to take interest in you, there are things you can do to make yourself generally attractive to a lot of girls. Truth be told, no one is born a man. Every man is made. And if you are to be a man winning the admiration and respect of girls, you would have to exhibit these 20 qualities. These are the top 20 characteristics that most girls would love to see in a guy.
#1. Appealing physical characteristics
Before you can even say anything, your physical appearance is enough to make an impression. Quite frankly, a girl who does not find you physically attractive in any way may not want to enter into a relationship with you regardless of your other great qualities or potential. Looking physically attractive results from appropriate dressing and proper grooming. It also involves have a fit body and adhering to a healthy lifestyle. Even if you are not genetically blessed with great features, you can still look physically attractive if you make an effort. So, don't be among the numerous double-standard guys who go about searching for good-looking girls but don't make effort to be good-looking as well. Always dress nicely, use a subtle fragrance, and stay fit. Girls like guys that are good-looking.
#2. Girls like to see honesty in guys
In addition to being physically attractive, the next important thing girls look out for in guys is honesty. They want to be sure you mean what you say and say what you mean. Most girls feel betrayed and unhappy when they discover you are being economical with the truth especially on important matters. When in a relationship with guys, ladies want honesty as much as they want physical attractiveness. Besides, no one will want to be in a relationship with a pathological liar no matter how attractive they look. Being honest with a girl will help you gain her trust. Be truthful when you talk. But then again, you may have to exercise some caution while displaying honesty in some situations. You don't tell a girl she's ugly or too fat to prove you are being honest. Even if she is, be polite and don't be too straightforward.
#3. Girls like guys who are strong
She certainly does not want to go out with a man who acts weak and looks too fragile to protect her. Most girls prefer guys with both character and physical strength. No wonder many girls judge a guy's physical attractiveness based on some body parts. They love to see guys who are agile and physically resilient. Also, emotional and mental strength is important. She doesn't want to see a guy clueless when it comes to decision-making. Therefore, as you build your body parts, build your character too. Ladies love to be with guys who know what they are doing, in control of their own selves and intelligent enough to know what step to take next.
#5. She loves to see a guy with a vision
Your vision represents what you stand for in life and what you intend to become. Girls generally love to associate with guys who have a vision in life. Talk to her about your life goals and aspirations. Having this trait shows them you aren't just existing, but you also have a purpose. The question is, "Do you have a vision for yourself?" What do you plan to become in the near future? What are your plans have you laid down to achieve them? Ask yourself these questions and find if girls will be able to see this attribute in you.
#6. She loves to see your financial strength
This is one thing she really wants to see you demonstrate. Being in a relationship means paying for dates. Eventually, it may also mean paying for trips or bills. A girl would always prefer a guy who is financially capable because it shows stability. Even if you have a nice face and impressive body parts, a girl will lose interest if you're financially weak. But don't get this wrong. We're not saying that you must be a millionaire to attract a girl. No. She doesn't need to pay for everything and buy her everything. She just needs to know that you are industrious, hardworking, and wise with your finances.
#7. Girls like to see a great sense of humor in guys
If you are going to be her best friend and partner, then you need to be able to make her laugh. Life can sometimes be frustrating and boring, that's why the capacity to turn things around with humor will always be attractive to girls. You've got to be able to talk and tease her. It can be an issue having to stay with a guy who is always moody and barely talks.
#8. She likes to see that you are caring
Her very nature demands care and she wants to be with a man who understands this fact. She likes to see that you aren't self-absorbed but that you are willing to put her first. Even when you are not with her physically, she wants to be assured that her well-being is the topmost concern in your mind. And guess what? Girls can easily identify a guy who is not caring. In fact, if you try to fake it, most of them can easily tell. It means you have to be sincere in your interaction with her. Also, be conscious of her body language and actions. You don't have to have all the answers to her needs. However, she wants to see that you understand and care about her feelings, thoughts, and concerns.
#9. Girls like to see you act intelligently
Girls all over the world love to associate themselves with intelligent guys. They want a guy who speaks well and is well-informed about many things. Being intelligent makes her trust your judgement even more. And once she trusts your judgement, you will have almost no problems when it comes to winning both her respect and love.
#10. She loves to see a guy behave maturely
Do you know that girls themselves know that they can sometimes be naughty? Yes, they do. And for this reason, they want their dream guy to be able to keep up and handle their occasional naughtiness. A girl cannot imagine herself with a guy who would easily get annoyed at the slightest provocation. While she sometimes displays the little girl in her, she hopes to be handled maturely by a guy. Therefore, you have to display a grownup attitude called maturity.
#11. Girls like it when guys are disciplined
If you are disciplined and love to discipline, then most girls will probably like you. They want to be assured that in the event that you decide to marry them, you can handle issues at home particularly with your future children. Being disciplined, however, does not mean cowing her or shutting her out. Rather than seeing you as being disciplined, she'll see you a bully if you show such signs.
#12. Girls like it when guys smell good
As a result of your constant activeness and biological framework, you are likely going to perspire more than her. Sometimes, this results in body odor in men. Body odor is a huge turn-off so make sure that you always smell pleasant. What's the use of wearing nice clothes if a girl can't stand being around you because of your bad odor? Girls like it when guys smell and appear good. Try to find out which cologne works best for you and wear it moderately.
#13. She likes it when you are independent
To some girls, this is what being a man really is. Being a real man means being able to make independent decisions. She doesn't want to be with a guy who even make up his mind unless aided by someone else. It shows that you don't have direction in life. You are going to frustrate her that way. A girl will have a hard time relying and trusting on a guy who cannot be independent.
#14. Girls like guys who are confident
Confidence is a quality that can sweep girls off their feet. If she is a shy girl, then she will like a confident guy who can take the lead. If she is an outspoken girl, then she will like a guy who can equally match her confidence. A confident guy is always good to have around. Your physical attractiveness or great body parts may quickly be forgotten by girls if your personality lacks confidence.
#15. Girls like guys to be innovative
You will leave her awed if you are talented at doing some everyday tasks in an unusual way. Most girls, just like a lot of guys, quickly get tired of routines and would love to see some variety added either to their lives. As such, they often look for guys that can think think from different perspectives.
#16. Girls like to see guys keep their promises
Ever made a promise to a girl? You can be sure she has it stored on the tablet in her heart. She expects that you will honor the words that you said. A girl will be turned off if a guy doesn't value promises. But if you show her that you will never break a promise, then she will surely treasure you. Do not make promises if you don't intent to keep them. Always be a man of your word.
#17. Girls like guys who are not easily discouraged
Girls understand that life is full of uncertainties and disappointments. Girls like to see guys with an unwavering hope for a better tomorrow. A "never-give-up" attitude is not only attractive, but it is an inspiring characteristic too. If you have the ability to keep going despite all the setbacks in life, then girls will find motivation in you too.
#18. Girls like to see guys proclaim their love for them
Girls like to be told they are loved often by their guys. They hardly get tired of hearing that. Even after you have been together for years, she wants to hear words of affection from you. As a guy, you have to be generous with saying the words "I love you." It might sound repetitive, but it will always be appreciated by your girl. Show her that you love her not only with these three words but using your actions as well.
#19. Girls like to see guys give them thoughtful gifts
Gifts are highly treasured by girls especially if they are thoughtful. Imagine presenting a signed football or jersey to a girl who loves sports. For sure, she will never forget it! While your words may gradually faint in her ears with time, your thoughtful gifts will constantly remind her of you.
#20. Girls like to see guys stay humble
Even if you possess all the great qualities and amazing talents, girls will not like you if you constantly brag about them. Girls like it when guys are humble. They are not fond of show-offs. You win their love and admiration more by not blowing your own trumpet. If you interview five girls, you can be sure not fewer than four of them would tell you plainly that they like humble guys. Humility is a treasured characteristic in both guys and girls.
So, there you have it. These are the 20 qualities that girls like to see in guys. Do you have these traits? Some of these traits are naturally found in some guys, while some can be achieved with extra effort. For example, you can't fake humility. However, you can something to be physically attractive. But the most important thing is to be yourself. Girls will easily know it if you're trying way too hard to appear to be something you're not. If you're going to change something, be sure that you really want it.