20 Messages To Send To Your Girlfriend To Turn Her On

Looking for new and exciting ways to turn your girlfriend on? Try sending some of these sexy messages to get you both in the mood.

By Rose Elementary
20 Messages To Send To Your Girlfriend To Turn Her On

Sending Your Girlfriend Sexy Text Messages

The great thing about cell phones is that you no longer have to be physically with your girlfriend to get her turned on. Texting makes it so you can send your girlfriend naughty messages any time of day so that she knows you're thinking of her and you both get in the mood. Here are 20 sample texts you can send to your girlfriend to spice up your relationship and get you both ready for sex.

Sex Messages For Beginners

Sending sexy text messages isn't exactly something they teach you in school, or something you want to discuss with your parents. Your parents have barely figured out how to text you without messing up. They surely can't help you compose a sexy text to send to your girlfriend! The thing about just starting out with sending sexy texts is that you don't want to come on too strong. You can't just send a picture right off the bat and expect it to turn her on. It won't work! She'll be more annoyed than anything, and you definitely don't want that. The point is to turn her on, not turn her off. Starting off slow is key. Don't bite off more than you can chew. Only send sexy messages if your relationship can handle it, and don't send messages early on that will make you both feel uncomfortable. Here are a few examples of messages you can send to your girlfriend to turn her on that won't send her running away screaming. The messages are super sexy and get the point across, but they're not crass or overwhelming. Using these messages will help get her in the mood, and ease you both into a relationship that's sexy in real life and over text. 1. You are the hottest girl I've ever met. You turn me on even in jeans and a t-shirt. 2. Being as sexy as you are is definitely illegal. If we were together, I'd show you just how much I love it when you break the law. 3. Sometimes when I'm soaking wet in the shower, I think about how much I want to make you just as wet. 4. I want to run my fingers through your hair. My fingers want to touch other parts of you, too.

Flirty Sex Messages

Girls love it when you get flirtatious with them. They're not looking for a message that says, "hey, let's have sex." They want you to get a little creative with the messages you're sending. She wants to be wooed, and you have to woo her. Sending a sexy text message doesn't have to mean you're the next Shakespeare or anything. She's not looking for a poem about how good she looked in her bathing suit the other day. However, she does want you to put in a little bit of effort so she knows you're interested in more than just sex. Flirty sex messages are the perfect way to let your girlfriend know you're into her and that you care enough to spend time crafting a sweet, sexy message. Not only will the sexual nature of the message get her turned on the second she receives it, but she'll also get turned on by the fact that you're showing her you care about her. If your girlfriend thinks you only want sex, she's not going to respond well when you go to actually do the deed. If you use flirty sex messages to get her turned on, though, she'll be waiting for you to come over as soon as possible. Try these sample flirty texts to get her in the mood: 5. I have a picture of you in my phone and I just can't take my eyes off of it. You're the most beautiful girl in the world. 6. I saw an awesome garden today, but I couldn't pick a flower to bring to you because the most beautiful flower is you. 7. You must be a light switch because everything you do turns me on. 8. You belong in a frame on the wall of an art museum, but then I couldn't hold you in my arms and I'd be lost without you.

Romantic Sex Messages

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Anyone who says romance is dead is lying. Just like with being flirty, sending romantic messages is a perfect way to get your girlfriend in the mood. You can send her flowers with a sweet note, open the door for her, and always put the toilet seat down after you use it - those are all romantic gestures. But there's nothing like sending a romantic text with a side of sexual innuendo to get her really in the mood. Sex messages may not seem super romantic on the surface, but they're the most romantic thing you can bring into your relationship. All you have to do is be sweet while also telling your girlfriend that you want her body so badly you feel like you might explode, and she'll be ready to have sex with you as soon as possible. You should tailor your romantic sex messages to your relationship, because everyone is different. However, here are some examples that you can try out on your girlfriend that are sure to show her you love her and you want her and her body. 9. Even though today was a rough day at work, thinking about you and the things we do together got me through it. I can't wait to see you and relieve some more stress. 10. I think of you every morning when I wake up. If you want to see proof, just look at the tent in the sheets. 11. I heard a sexy song in the car this morning and it reminded me of you. See you soon. 12. Everything in my life is better when we're together. Especially when we're together in bed.

Surprise Sex Messages

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If you're going to send a sexy text message, it should always be consensual. First of all, sending an unwarranted sext to anyone is likely to get your number blocked, and that's the last thing you want to do. Second, it's a lot hotter to get a sext from someone you know and like than to get one from a stranger. Your girlfriend will appreciate it if you ask before you start sexting her and it will both save and improve your relationship if you send consensual sexts. Once you and your girlfriend have developed a sexting relationship, you can start sending her messages at less convenient times. Knowing that your girlfriend is getting turned on when she really shouldn't will make you both really excited to get together and finish what you started over text. Try some of these examples for surprise sex messages that will turn both of you on. 13. (For when your girlfriend is at work) I know you're in a meeting, but I can't stop thinking about you. Look at how happy you make me. (Send a nude photo) 14. (For when you're together in public) That dress you're in has me so hard. You're going to see just how much you've turned me on when we get home. 15. (For when you're at work) Just looking at a photo of you got me super hard. I have to rub myself under my desk and pretend it's you just to calm myself down. 16. (For when you're at home and she's somewhere public) Do you remember when we (remind her of an intense sexual encounter you had)? I've been thinking about it all morning. Let's recreate that night.

Sex Messages To Send Before Bed

Face it, the time that you are most likely thinking about having sex with your girlfriend is when you're not together but you're both about to go to bed. At night, you're laying in bed and your mind starts to wander to your girlfriend and the last time you had sex. Before you know it, you're hard and alone. Most of the time, your girlfriend is thinking about you, too. She's just as turned on by your past sexual encounters and she wants you as much as you want her. She might be too shy to text you to tell you just how much she wants you, though, so you have to be the one to break that ice. Sending sexy text messages at night is great because you may be able to get a full on sexting encounter going if you send the right starting messages. This way you can both get off together even though you're separate. Or, if your girlfriend is already asleep or isn't checking her phone in bed, it'll be a nice surprise for her in the morning when she wakes up. She'll be thinking about you all day if she wakes up to a sexy text about how turned on you were the night before. That'll make the next night even better for both of you, especially if you can have sex in person. Try some of these sexy messages to send just before you go to bed to either start sexting or get her turned on in the morning. 17. I was thinking about the last time we had sex and I got instantly hard. I wish you were here to help me take care of it. 18. If we were together right now, I wouldn't be able to get my hands off of you. I'd start in your hair, then work my way down to your breasts, then all the way down. 19. I may be alone in bed right now, but I'm pretending my hand is your mouth and it's not as good as the real thing, but it'll do for now. 20. Falling asleep without you sucks. I wish we were together so I could do all the things I want to do to you, and then we could fall asleep in each other's arms.

Send Your Girlfriend Sex Messages

Sending sexy text messages to your girlfriend will help you get closer and help to solidify your relationship. These twenty examples are sure to help you turn on your girlfriend and enter the world of sexting!

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