How To Make A Man Miss You And Obsess Over You Like Crazy

Being missed by your guy when you are not around is a nice feeling. But how do you make your man miss you? We will share the secret with you.

By Sanchari
How To Make A Man Miss You And Obsess Over You Like Crazy

Linger in your man's thoughts

Girls are often more expressive in a relationship when compared to boys. They're not shy to let their man know that they miss him. But, when it comes to guys, they generally don’t express their feelings as much. This can make the girl wonder whether the saying ‘out of sight means out of mind’ is true! But this should not be the case, right? If you are in a serious relationship then both of you should reciprocate the same feelings. Wait! Don’t jump to any conclusions without knowing the facts. It might just happen that your man is missing you too, but he is just not able to express it! That's a possibility too, right? So give him the benefit of doubt. And on your part, you must make sure that you do everything in your power to make him miss you when you're not around. Is that possible? Yes, it is very easy for any girl to make a man miss her like crazy by following the tips below.

Make sure your guy misses you

There are some tricks and tips that you should follow to make your guy miss you like crazy and get obsessed with you. When you are new to a relationship, the guy might text you often that he misses you, but it might be hard to tell whether he really means it or is just faking it. If you are in a dilemma, then you can ask yourself whether you have done anything to make him miss you! If you think that you two just had a normal date with nothing particularly exciting and you two were just lazily chatting away, then chances are high that he isn't really missing you. Were you the first one to text him and say that you were missing him? If that's the case, then he just texted you the same thing to make you feel better. He doesn't miss you and he's not thinking about you. Don’t feel sad; there's no need to hit the panic button.

Make your man express his feelings

If you aren't making an effort to make your man miss you like crazy, then why should he miss you? It doesn’t mean he no longer has feelings for you, but he's just busy with other things and doesn't really have time to invest in thinking about you. When the initial spark fades away and you two get comfortable with each other, the guy may stop expressing his feelings. Your man thinks that you already know how he feels for you, so there is no need to remind you every time you meet or text or chat. You have to admit that guys are like that. You have to put in some effort to make them realize your worth and make them miss you. If you want your man to genuinely miss you, then you are in for a treat right now. We are here to share few tips and tricks to help you make your man miss you and obsess over you like crazy. Are you game for it? Then read on.

1. Let your guy be free

What? How can this help? Hold on, slow down. I'm going to explain how it works! Imagine your man came up to you with some excuse so that he can hang out with his guy friends. Don’t create a scene; simply allow him to go without making a fuss. He will be excited to go out with his guy friends, but his excitement will fizzle out in no time as well. He will start missing out your company soon enough. He'll call you every now and then to keep you posted about what he is doing. He might not say directly that he is already missing you, but in reality, he actually is. If he didn't miss you, then why would he call you while hanging out with his friends? He will soon realize that he needs you more than his friends. He enjoys your company more than anything else. Still, your guy won’t be able to express it in words because he might not be aware of the fact himself. Men will be men and we all know that how ignorant they can be about their feelings. They need time to realize their own emotions.

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2. Give your man time to miss you

Texts are an important part of relationships these days. We can fight over text, we can express our love through texts, and we can also let our man know our secret emotions over text. But, if you want to make your man miss you, then you need to ignore him for some time over text. Yes, you read that right. If you're always available for him, then when will he miss you? When I say ignore his texts, it doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t reply at all. It just means that you shouldn’t leave all your work to reply to him right away. If you are taking a bit of time to reply, then he will definitely start wondering about you and what you are doing. Isn’t that what you want? He is actually missing you. He'd keep his eyes on his screen to see whether you have replied yet or not. No matter how busy he is, he will take out his phone and keep checking it at regular intervals. Don’t make him wait for too long though; it would be rude, so let him know that you'll talk later as you're busy with your work right now. This will do the trick. He will be looking forward to meeting you after work and until that time, his mind will be full of thoughts of you.

3. Your signature perfume will make him miss you

Don’t keep changing your perfume every day. Instead, stick to one and make it your signature scent. This will help in triggering memories of you when he smells this fragrance even when you are not around. He might be busy with work, but when he smells this perfume he is sure to look around for you. Having a signature fragrance will definitely make him miss you.

4. Surprise your man to make him miss you

Don’t be too predictable. Surprise him with your skills or decisions. If you want your man to be interested in you for a long time, then surprise him every now and then. He will start wondering about you when you are not around. Keep some tricks up your sleeves to amaze him when you meet after a long time. It can be your dancing skills or your adventurous stories, just make sure he is in awe of you. If you are an open book and he knows everything about you, then why would your man miss you like crazy? The trick lies in being mysterious. He will be looking forward to meeting you or talking to you so that he can unravel the mystery.

5. Listen to your man

It's very hard to find good listeners. We all have so many things to say that we forget that sometimes we need to listen to others as well. So, listen carefully to what your man has to say. He would really appreciate it. Next time he feels like sharing something, he will think about only you. Your guy will start missing you when he is not able to share his thoughts with you.

6. Play hard to get to make your guy miss you

You should be the one who ends the call after a conversation. Text him a good night message even when you feel like talking to him the whole night. If you are playing hard to get, then his interest for you will only grow. His desire to be with you will increase like crazy. I know it’s hard to keep your emotions under control, especially when you are with someone special. But you have to do this if you want him to miss you and be the first one to reach out next time.

7. Ignore your guy on social media

Nowadays we all are obsessed with the social media. Anything and almost everything is up on the feeds of Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter. Your guy will probably be on at least one of these platforms or maybe all of them. Ignore him online to make him miss you. It's easy to give in to the temptation of liking a picture that he just posted because he looks so damn cute. But wait, girl. Resist from doing so and put across a facade of being too busy to obsess over his social media. If you ignore his online presence a bit, then he will start missing you. He might have posted the picture for you only, but if you don't acknowledge that, you can actually make him miss you like crazy.

8. Stay in your guy's mind

Do you remember that time you cleaned your room and found that small gift lying unnoticed in one corner of your closet? Remember how you were lost in thoughts about whom it was from, what was the occasion, and how happy you were to find it again? You started thinking about the moment and the thought ended up lingering in your mind for the whole day. If you want your man to be obsessed with you for a whole day too, then leave something behind in his car or his room. It can be a hair clip, your earrings, or any small thing that will remind him of you. This will make him think about the time you were there with him and how both of you spent the whole day with each other.

9. Use social media to make him miss you

Yes, I know I told you to ignore him on social media, but I didn’t advise you to stay offline altogether. You can actually use it to your advantage. Post a picture where you look busy with your friends or you are trying out something adventurous. When he sees your active life, he will want to be a part of that. He might not like every post that you share, but you can be sure about one thing: he is definitely taking note of everything you are doing. Don’t create fake posts; be genuine with your updates. Have fun without him and make him aware of your escapades through social media.

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10. Get a makeover to make him obsess over your new look

If you have been sporting a particular hairstyle for a long time now, then it is high time you change it. If your tresses are long, then you can go for a short hairdo. If it's short already then try coloring it differently. It's time to change your wardrobe too. Go shopping and buy yourself some nice outfits. Then wear something new when next time you meet your guy. He will be pleasantly surprised to see your new look and won't be able to stop thinking about it. It will leave him wanting for more and he will expect that you surprise him with something new every time you meet. So that means you will always be there until the time you meet again. These little things will keep him obsessed with your thoughts.

11. Make him miss you by treating him as a friend

So you've been going out for some time now, but if all of a sudden you treat him like a friend and not a lover, then his mind will start wondering what’s going on. Don’t do that every time you meet him! Otherwise, you will be giving out the wrong signals. But it can be a fun thing to do once in a while. Hold back your emotions while you're talking to him and speak to him in a more formal way. When it is time to say goodbye, be courteous and polite rather than flirty.

12. Make him dream about you by texting him at night

Before hitting the hay, make sure that you're in his mind. How is that possible? Text him. If you want to chat with him for some time, then you can text him something important that you did today. It will keep the conversation going. Nighttime texts are very important when you want to make him miss you. If you want him to dream about you, then you should be the last person he talks to before dozing off. Though it's a good thing to do, don’t turn it into a habit. Otherwise, he will lose interest. Chat for consecutive nights then take a day’s break, and again continue texting at night for 2-3 days at a stretch. This will keep the tempo going and you will linger in his mind for sure.

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13. Make yourself irresistible through soft touches

While crossing the road, hold onto his arms and stay that way for a little longer even after you reach the other side. He won’t tell you right away, but your man will find it hard to resist your touches. It will be exciting for him and he will be longing for more. Gentle and seductive touches are essential to make your man obsess over you like crazy.

14. Plan a big surprise for him

Why don’t you plan a surprise for your man? Prepare a sumptuous meal for him and call over his guy friends (even if you hate his guy friends!). Trust me, he will be more than happy to receive such a surprise. This will help him realize your worth and make him return the favor as well. He will start to miss your thoughtfulness and sweet gestures when you're not around.

15. Don’t make it too obvious

Don’t expect too much from your man. It's unrealistic to expect him to miss you like crazy and text you every hour. Be real. He has his own life, and so do you. Don’t you have anything to do? Start concentrating on your life, instead of missing him all day and bothering him whenever you get bored or life feels empty. This can be very annoying for a man and he will start losing interest in you. So give him his own space while you engage yourself in something productive as well.

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Final Words

Us girls find it super easy to express our feelings when we miss someone we love. However, guys have much more trouble expressing their emotions. If he says that he loves you, then he surely means it and you don’t need to play any more mind games to verify his feelings for you. But at times, these tricks are important to keep the spark alive in your relationship. If everything becomes predictable, then your love life will get pretty boring. Indulging in these crazy but fun mind games won’t hurt if you do it within reasonable limits. Don't nag or complain about him always ignoring you. It won't help. Instead, you can try these clever tricks on your guy to make him miss you and confess it to you. Even when you know that he misses you and loves you a lot, it's still nice to hear it him say it out loud, right? You can also use these tricks to make your ex-boyfriend jealous and miss you.