How do you get a guy to ask you out?
What should you do if you want to make the guy you like ask you out? Should you tell him directly? Should you change the way you behave? Should you get help from his friends? Should you just sit there and wait? There are many ways to get a guy ask you out. But if you want it to actually work, then you have to do it right. There are simple but effective steps that you can take to encourage the guy you like to ask you out.
Giving him the right signs
Yes, you really want to go on a date with this guy. But remember, you should not look too desperate or make it too obvious that you are head over heels for him. Let him know that you are interested in going out with him. But don't go too far. Wait for him to respond to your hints and actions. If a guy sees that you are too desperate, then he might not give a lot of effort in asking you out even if he wants to. He'll probably just wait for you to make the moves. To wow a guy and let him ask you out you need to do two things: drop a few signs for him and become desirable in his eye.
Little signs that matter when you want a guy to ask you out
Give him a few signs so that he'll begin to see you as a potential dating partner. Sometimes, a guy thinks that you just want to be a friend. So, he totally dismisses the idea of going out with you. Make sure that you give him the right message. Drop some hints will give him the strength to gather his courage and ask you out. You want him to have an idea that you have feelings for him. It is important to give him a few clear yet subtle signs that you really enjoy being around him. Show him good reasons why he should go out with you. To encourage him to see you as someone he can date, use these tips.
1. Ask your friends to drop some hints
When you are talking or having a fun conversation with the guy you like, get a trusted female friend to join the conversation. It will also be preferable if other friends are also around. Let your friend randomly comment something like "You both make a cute couple" without pointing anyone specific in the group. You can also ask your friend to jokingly say something like, "You two should go out together." After all, they say that jokes are half meant. You can use humor to drop those hints. It may be an awkward and embarrassing moment, but it can be helpful in making the guy see you as someone he can be more than friends with.
2. Get a friend to tease the guy you like
Just like with the first tip, you need some support from a friend in this trick. Ask a trusted friend beforehand to interrupt your next conversation with the guy that you like. Get your friend to say that it is apparent that he likes you. If you want to take it further, make your friend ask the guy if he's ever thought of going out on a date with you. Your friend should say it like it's both a joke and a serious question. It is easy and straightforward without being too embarrassing. See how the guy reacts to that. If he is interested in you, he will use this chance to ask you out.
3. Ask the guy to join you
Got any plans with friends this weekend? Casually bring this up while you're talking or chatting with the guy you like. Ask him to join you and your friends. Tell him he will have fun checking out a new place and hanging out together. It might not get him to ask you out right away, but it will bring the two of you closer. You must make sure he doesn't feel lonely or out of place. You must keep him company and make sure he has a fun and enjoyable time.
4. Make weekend plans with just you and your guy
Did you follow the previous tip to ask the guy you like to join you and your friends? Next weekend, invite him again to join you. You want it to be just the two of you this time so plan carefully. First, you gotta ask him about his plans. While he is telling you about his plans, say that you also like doing the same thing. If you don’t like that activity, then make it a fake happy surprise. If he has no plans or not certain about his plans, then you can just ask him to join you in an activity and tell him that you wanted to try it for a long time. It will give you a chance to spend some time together. Who knows? He might even ask you out the next day.
5. Let the guy know your routine
No, you don't have to let the guy know the exact time you wake up or the specific things you do to get ready in the morning. While conversing with the guy, give him an idea about your routine and schedule. Talk about how you spend your evenings or how you spend your time after school or work. Let him know especially if there is a place where you like to hang out after a hectic day or a particular gym you hit every day. If you both work or study in the same area, then it's even better. It will give him an excellent opportunity to spend time with you. Maybe you can try walking the same route or eating in the popular restaurant in the area. Letting him know your schedule is a sign that you want him to be a part of your daily life. Love blooms when you spend time together with each other.
6. Letting him drive you can encourage him to ask you out
Did you ever think that running an errand or stepping out of the office can be an opportunity to spend some time again with each other? You must try bumping into the guy you like while your way out you can ask him to drive you or to come along with you. Always keep in mind that even if you are doing it intentionally, you should make it look coincidental. You can ask him to join you for coffee. It is a simple but perfect way to make him ask you out. Once you get the opportunity to meet him again, try your best to make him see your good side.
7. Ask him to help you
A guy can’t refuse when a pretty girl asks them for help. Ask him to fix something. It can be a broken gadget or anything. If he likes you, he will use this excuse again to spend some time with you. When he is done helping, thank him with the sweetest smile and maybe a special gift like homemade lunch or coffee. It will bring a spark in your relationship that may lead to him asking you out for a real date.
8. Pretend to be sick and show your sexy side
Yes, it can be a desperate trick. You don't have to do it if you feel uncomfortable. There is nothing wrong doing this trick as long as it doesn't become a habit. If you want him to come over to your place, then this is a very effective way. While you are talking to him after work or school, pretend that you are not feeling well. Pretend that you are having a terrible headache or stomach cramps. If he asks you if you need his help getting home, then this is your chance. Accept his request. When he takes you home, ask him to come in. Change into cute yet revealing pajamas. Let him see a bit of your sexy side. But be careful. If you wear something overly revealing, then he'll surely find out that this is all fake. However, if you are actually sick, then you won't have to feel guilty about it.
9. Let the guy know you are interested
When you want a guy to ask you out, the most important thing is to let him know how you feel. It is probably the most direct way to make him ask you out. You must let him know that you are interested in him and that you are considering a relationship with him. When you feel that it's the right time, go ahead and let him know your true feelings. There is a good chance that he'll use this situation to ask you out. With most guys, this is the best form of encouragement that they need especially if they feel to shy to ask you out.
10. Make him jealous
If none of the tricks above worked for you, then use the ultimate weapon. Jealousy. This is the ultimate weapon to make him ask you out. If the guy you like also likes you back, he will never accept you hanging out with other guys. If he's jealous, then it's a good sign. No guy can tolerate the girl they like going out with other guys. You can ask any of your trusted guy friends to make him jealous so that the guy you like asks you out. The fear of losing you will overcome the fear of being rejected by you. The guy you like will become more protective than ever towards you.
Always remember that making a guy you like ask you out is important but don't let this desire ruin a healthy friendship between you two. Sure, some of these tricks require planning and a little help from some friends. But remember that is still important to be natural around him. You might have to pretend once or twice to get his attention, but don't let yourself become something that you're not just to make a guy go out with you. For a long term relationship, it is important that he likes you the way you are.