Find Out What Are The Tips And Rules On Dating Online

Get Ahead With the Tips and Rules of Dating Online In 2019

By Sarah Potter
Find Out What Are The Tips And Rules On Dating Online

Online dating enables connections between people over the internet with the primary aim of developing personal, romantic or lasting sexual relationships. Such services are available through online dating service apps, and websites available on your internet-enabled mobile devices and personal computers. These services enable members to create profiles and upload personal information like age, sexual orientation, location, gender, and most services encourage members to upload pictures so other members can decide to make contact using the information supplied by you.
 

Some online dating services have a broad membership base encompassing different kinds of the relationship while others have a targeted market based on various features like religion, sexual orientation, special interests and the like. These dating services are grouped into the free membership websites that generate their revenue from adverts placed on the site, those who offer free registration and use but with optional premium services which are paid for and those that rely solely on paid registration and membership subscriptions.

Statistics of Online Dating

Research has shown that over the years, the first Sunday of January is known to be the best time to download any kind of dating app and start swiping. The majority of the dating apps reported activity on this particular day accompanied by increased activity from January to February.

In a member survey of The Inner Circle (a new dating service), it was found that 98 percent of female members wouldn't date anyone who has poor manners. Eighty-three percent of male members also agreed to the same point.

Another statistic by eHarmony (an online dating site based in Los Angeles) reports that 83 percent of Americans are happy in their respective romantic relationships with their success hinging on a relationship with open communication, an equal partnership, and a healthy sex life.

eHarmony research also shows that 40 million Americans are using online dating websites. 27% of young adults are reported to be using online dating sites, which increased by 10% from 2013 most possibly due to the popularity the dating websites gained on smartphones. For the 55 to 64-year-olds that use online dating, there has been a 6% increase from 2013 to 2015.

Top 5 Dating Apps In 2019

These are the 5 dating apps that made a wave in 2019;

1. Tinder

Tinder - Apps on Google Play
‎Tinder on the App Store

Tinder is a mobile matchmaking app that allows users to like (swipe right) or dislike (swipe left) on the profiles of other users. It enables users to chat each other up if both parties form a match (i.e. like each other) based on the information each one uploads to their bio including pictures. It was designed initially by Hatch Labs and was launched in 2012, and by August of 2018, they announced a total of 3.7million paid subscribers who were about 81% growth compared to the previous year.

2. Feeld

Feeld

Feeld for Android
‎Feeld For iOS

Feeld, formerly known as "3nder" is a location-based social application for iOS and Android that aids communication between people with specific sexual orientations like polyamory and other alternative sexual preferences. Launched in the UK in July 2014 and later in the US in 2015. It was developed by a London - based company called Feeld Ltd.

3. HINGE

Hinge - Dating & Relationships -
‎Hinge: Dating & Relationships

Hinge is a dating app founded in 2012 by Justin McLeod. The app uses the Facebook page of its members to extract personal information that makes up the user profile and in turn use this to facilitate a match. Hinge incorporates the tinder-like swipe and is known for the "the relationship app" phrase. It is an engaging app with features to remind users when it's their turn to continue a conversation.

4. Coffee Meets Bagel

CMB Free Dating App for Android
‎Coffee Meets Bagel Dating App

This is a dating and social networking site based in Los Angeles. Created by three sisters; Arum, Dawson and Soo Kang and was launched in New York on April 2012, Boston in May 2012 and on October 24, 2012, it was launched in San Francisco.

5. BUMBLE

Bumble

Bumble - Date. Meet Friends
‎Bumble - Meet New People

Bumble is a social and dating application that serves as a liaison center for heterosexual users. It was programmed so that only female users can make the first contact with matched heterosexual male counterparts while anyone can make contact in the event of a homosexual match. It was founded by Whitney Wolfe Herd (when she left Tinder) and was released in December 2014 on both iOS and Android.

Top 5 tips of online dating

Your dating profile age doesn't necessarily influence attraction from the opposite gender (or same gender as the choice may be) on your chosen dating app. These tips will improve your match rate by attracting beautiful, smart partners and encourage them to actually respond to your messages;

1. Upload the perfect pictures

Your profile picture is a really vital part of your bio build up, most times, it determines if other members will swipe left or right on your profile, so it's advisable to hire a professional to take the picture in a natural environment. Use only photos where you are the center of attention and which demonstrates the lifestyle your partner might be interested in. You can even show your friend (of the opposite gender) for feedback on the picture before you upload it.

2. Use the right username

For dating websites where you are allowed to use a username instead of your first name, your username is something you need to put a lot of thought into. It's always good to be creative but since it's one of the things other members will first see about you. You need to get it right because you need to assume their inbox is crammed with messages from people like you so you need a username which won't sound lame or make you look like a loser.

Go with usernames that sound interesting and will make them curious.

3. Be funny and engaging with your Bio

On many of these dating websites, there's usually an "about me" box beside your profile picture. You need to mention relevant information and line it with humor. You should totally avoid clichéd greeting which might eliminate the little interest your match has been generating. You also need to avoid anything which oozes negative vibes or emotional statements that will just make you appear bitter or judgmental.

4. Be consistent

When users of the same dating app you're using checks out your pictures and reads your bio, they should be able to create an average mental image of you. If your photographs contradict other information on your profile, it gives out a strange negative vibe which might result in your prospective match to move on.

5. Stay safe

We've all heard disturbing news about people who went on a date after interacting on dating websites. They are mostly as a result of users not looking like their profile pictures and others turning out to be dangerous. If you are going to meet anyone from the dating site for the first time, ensure you agree to meet in a public place only as a safety measure, and you should inform a family member or a friend to know where you're going and with whom you're going.

10 Rules on Online Dating

Everyone has an idea about proper etiquettes to observe when online dating is concerned, but the following are some of the general regulations:

1. No second message

Do not send the second message before getting an answer to your first question. Don't let your anxiousness drive you towards sending texts like "???" or any impolite retort while waiting for a reply. The user might just be busy at work.

2. Reply Within 24 hours

Reply to your messages within 24hrs to maintain a positive flow with interested users by replying every message you get within 24hrs.

3. Verify

Verify the identity of your potential date before going on dates through other social media like IG and Facebook.

4. Dont give your number just yet

Don't throw your digits around even though texting is more comfortable than Internet messages. Safety first.

5. Set a Date

Set up a real date anytime from 3 days to two weeks to show actual interest.

6. Show your disinterest

Declare your disinterest early to eliminate any waste of time.

7. Go ghosting

Go for the ghosting option instead of drastic procedures like blocking or unmatching.

8. Don't lie

Don't lie about your personality because it'll be more embarrassing to be caught in a lie.

9. No private pictures

Do not send creepy or uncalled for naked pictures and definitely no private pictures without mutual agreement.

10. Keep in contact

Keep in contact with those who show interest in you on your chosen dating app so they won't assume you've ghosted and moved on.

Online Dating Games

Online dating games are avenues to experience the activities of dating apps in the virtual world. Choices ranging from adult fun to serious relationships could be opted for, and the thing they have in common is that the users can create their own world and explore is as often as they want.

An example of these kinds of games is Second Life which is an online virtual world, developed and owned by Linden Labor based in San Francisco. The platform is based on the 3D experience generated by the user. It also has its own virtual currency which is exchangeable with real-world money.

Online dating scams

One of the adverse effects of online dating apps is that scammers also use this medium to meet potential victims. They create fake profiles also known as the catfish accounts to build online relationships after which they use the trust they earn to convince their victims to send money to them.

Some go to the extent of planning a wedding before taking off with all their "partner's" money. Scammers can easily be recognizable if they show any of these characteristics;

•  They are quick to suggest you continue the conversation outside the site using personal email or instant messaging apps

•  Scammers are quick to claim they are in love

•  If he/she claims to be a US citizen but have to be traveling overseas frequently for work

•  If he/she always make plans to visit, but it never works out

•  If your supposed partner claims to be in the military or out of the country on a business

Don't lose your shirt along with your heart.

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Summary

Dating online has lots of advantages, and it entertains a lot of bad eggs to use it for their own means. Ensure your personal safety first throughout your online escapades and make sure you don't get pushed into sending your hard earned money for medical emergencies, travel, visas or any other dubious excuses and make sure to report any suspected fraudulent activity to the appropriate authorities.

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