Signs he is in love with you secretly
1. He remembers all the little things you share with him
Most men are bad with little details and are often pretty forgetful. They are not very good with remembering dates even the important dates such as birthdays etc. Therefore, if a man remembers things you have told him, it means he pays attention to everything you say. This shows that he is interested in you and wants to know more about you. He might not say it out loud at first because he wants to be sure that you feel the same way for him, but this is a subtle sign that men give out unintentionally. If he is in love with you, he will try his best to remember everything you tell him. He wants to make you feel important by showing you that he doesn't only listen to you to reply back, but he listens to you because he genuinely wants to know more about you.
2. He is vulnerable with you
Being vulnerable is hard for everyone whether you are a girl or a guy however it is harder for men to be vulnerable as they are always perceived to be too strong to share their soft side especially to a woman. Men do not even share personal details about their lives to their male best friends hence if a guy is opening up to you and is being vulnerable; he definitely has that special place in his heart for you. Opening up to someone takes a lot of courage as well as trust and it is always hard for a man to bring out his vulnerable side because of the unrealistic picture of how men/women should be that society has painted. If he is sharing stuff with you that he hasn't shared with anyone else, it means he trusts you with all that and he wants to open up to you.
3. He will blush when he is around you
Whenever a man starts blushing while he is talking to you, it means he is interested in you and wants to take things forward with you. A man will only blush while talking to you if he likes you more than just a friend. However, you should know if a man is shy and gets awkward while talking to women; if he is shy then he is blushing because he is awkward in talking to you or any other woman. When he is into you or is secretly in love with you, he will be that way only with you and not with any other women. He will blush when you compliment him or notice him and he will make sure to put in that extra effort for you.
How to tell if he is only in love with you physically
4. He looks for reasons to touch you
If a guy is in love with you for physical reasons only, he will be in search of reasons to touch you. Touching is of more than one type for example If he likes holding your hand in public that doesn't come under this context. However, if he looks for a reason to touch your thighs or grab your butt in public or even in private, it means that he is attracted to you physically without having any emotional connection with you. He will ask you to come over to his plan or maybe go on a ride with him because he will not be able to make any moves in a fancy restaurant crowded by people or any other public place. He will even be hesitant in introducing you to his friends or family as your girlfriend because he doesn't think about you in a long term manner.
5. He rarely texts back
If a guy doesn't text back or rarely initiates a conversation himself but suddenly after 12 am he replies back and tells you he had been busy, know that he is in love with you only physically. If a guy is actually in love with a woman, he will make time for her or at least let her know that he cannot talk at the moment.
6. Every conversation ends up into something sexual
If a guy constantly makes sexual jokes around you or tells you that your voice or your voice or your smile turn him on then he is only into you for physical perks. He isn't in love with you but is only lusting on you. He gets annoyed or looks for ways to avoid deep meaningful conversation but only likes to sext, know that this is a red flag and he isn't in love with you.
Body language to tell if he's in love with you
7. He puts in the effort to look his best when he is with you
If a man puts in effort in his dressing and style and wears the colors you once told him you love, it means he is dressing to impress you. He will wear things you like and will wait for a compliment in return.
8. He can't help but smile around you
If a guy likes you, he will not be able to control his smile around you. Everything you say will make him smile or even blush. You will even know if it is a genuine smile or a fake one. No one can fake a smile the entire time.
9. He makes eye contact
If a guy likes you, he will make eye contacts with you and would like to maintain that. Eye contact is considered to be one of the highest levels of intimacy that is built between two people without touching. Your eyes reveal a lot. If a guy is in love with you, his eyes will speak.
10. He stares at your face
If a guy is in love with you, he will not shy away in staring at you. He will notice all the little details in your face, the way you smile or the way you roll your eyes and even your lips. He can stare at you all day long.
11. He leans in close
If a man is interested in a woman, he will lean in close to her. This shows a level of intimacy and affection. No guy leans on a woman randomly. He will only lean in when he is interested in you.
12. He doesn't check his phone
When a guy forgets to check his phone with you, know that he prioritizes you over everyone else. He likes to spend time with you and wants to know about you without any distractions. It becomes evident that he is into you and doesn't want to divide his attention from you.
13. He gets insecure when other guys try to be extra nice to you
A guy will only get insecure when he is really into you. He likes being your go-to person and acts weird when other men are being extra nice to you. He will not be insecure for a girl who is just a friend but if he is insecure for you that means he is interested in you.
14. His lips part
If a guy is interested in you or is in love with you, his facial expressions will change around you. His lips will part and he will have a cute smile on his face. He will stare at you; especially your lips and he will not be able to hide his expressions where it'll be evident that he cannot wait to kiss you.
In Love with You Quotes
“And in her smile I see something more beautiful than the stars.”
— Across the Universe by Beth Revis
“It’s one thing to fall in love. It’s another to feel someone else fall in love with you, and to feel a responsibility toward that love.”
— Every Day by David Levithan
“I love you the way a drowning man loves air. And it would destroy me to have you just a little.”
— The Crown of Embers by Rae Carson
There is a difference between being in love with someone emotionally and being in love with someone only physically. A girl will know from the actions and expressions a man does, which will show if he is in love with her or if he is just physically attracted to her. When a guy is in love with you, he will flaunt to have you. He will not shy away in introducing you to his friends but when he is only into you physically, he would insist on keeping things private and he will only talk to you about sexual things. It is important to differentiate between love and lust. Love is where a guy is wholeheartedly devoted to you. If a guy is giving you mixed signals, know that he is not in love with you. For someone who is in love, he knows how to make his lady love feel like.