Your Wedding Night: A Night For You And Him
Whether you grew up together in the same neighborhood, went to high school together or accidentally met in a bar only to realize that you were meant to be together, to get him on the knee with the ring box in his hand, asking for your hand in marriage can take time. Not in every case though, some men take just a few days to conclude that tying a knot is necessary for them than simply moving in together.
Once he has proposed, a new hustle starts. The wedding preparations take a lot of time, energy and resources unless you have planned a simple wedding at a remote location with a few close relatives and friends. The wedding itself can be an overwhelming experience especially if it’s your first time. Pre-wedding nervousness is normal and can last even after the event is over.
The wedding day has come to an end, the guests are gone and whether you are ready for it or not, you are about to experience the most romanticized and out of a love story kind of wedding night. All the stories you have heard from your friends, the apprehensions and jitter can be quite overwhelming for both the partners. There are fair chances of ruining this beautiful night by saying something stupid or doing something that was not meant to be done.
No matter how long you have known each other, your wedding night is a chance to meet your better half all over again. It is the night for you and him to dream about a great future together, making promises about not leaving each other’s side no matter what the situation and keeping the vows till death. It is the night for you and him to celebrate your togetherness. It is the night for a new beginning.
He may be nervous and he won't say
Wedding preparations not only tire you, they often get to your nerves. The mere thought of a possibility of marrying the wrong person, several “what ifs” and “how to’s” can mess with your brain right at the time when you are taking your vows. Cold feet and anxiety sweats are normal, even for men. After all, it is the most important and special night of life. No matter how much he has prepared himself, there are chances that he won’t be able to say a single word when the time comes.
Don’t take him wrong as it is just anxiety and nervousness that has taken over. Yes! Men can become nervous as easily as women. The only difference is, a woman will communicate her nervousness in one way or the other while it is difficult for men to admit that they are tense. You might get a clue from nail-biting or striding across the room.
He is probably stressed
Getting nervous about important life occasions is pretty normal. When it comes to weddings, even the tiniest of things can turn into stressors. Getting the venue booked, selecting the menu, sending invitations in time, getting fitting issues of the dresses fixed and above all meeting all the expectations of the partner can be nerve-racking.
If, by any chance, you are noticing the behavior of your partner to be odd; he is stressed. He must be thinking about getting everything right on the wedding day and the upcoming wedding night. To make it the most memorable night of your life, he might be going through phases of utter frustration. Feeling a pressure of the outcomes of the night that can be the foundation of your entire relationship is genuine. Your first impression is the last and he surely wants to leave a great one and he is feeling the heat of it.
What Type of Songs Does He Enjoy?
Whether he is stressed or nervous on the biggest day of his life, you can help him get comfortable with the reassurance of your love and support. No matter how anxious you are, one thing that makes you feel relaxed is music. If your guy is the anxious type, surprise him with a list of his favorite songs played in the background. Music will surely calm his nerves and get him ready for a great night ahead. You just need to know what type of music he likes and how to take him by surprise with one of his favorite tracks.
You can prepare a dance with your friends or ask his friends to show their moves on an all-time favorite song. Here is a list of 9 love songs for your guy and you can select the one depending on his taste of music.
Best 9 Love Songs For Your Guy
The last song may end the wedding day on a romantic note but the list does not need to end here. You can have a long list of favorite tracks to play throughout the night to make it memorable. The selection of songs is very important in this regard. Which songs to play and in what sequence can uplift the mood and set the tone of the entire night. From hip hop to jazz and rock to classical, whichever kind of music sets you on can be selected for the wedding night. Here are some romantic songs ranging from slow to upbeat to turn your guy on even before the night begins.
1. Capital Letters
If your husband-to-be is a movie lover, he surely would have listened to several wedding songs from movies and might have enlisted a few to play at his wedding. You can surprise him by playing “Capital Letters” by Hailee Steinfeld from the movie 50 Shades Freed.
Perfect beat and great lyrics make it a complete package for the wedding playlist.
2. A Thousand Years
“Darling don’t be afraid, I have loved you for a thousand years”. What else would he like to hear? Sung by Christina Perri, A thousand years is the wedding soundtrack from Twilight. Heart touching lyrics and soul-stirring beat will make his heart beat faster and he will surely forget about all his nervousness.
3. Eternal Flame
Close your eyes, give me your hand, darling
Do you feel my heart beating
Do you understand?
Do you feel the same
Am I only dreaming
Is this burning an eternal flame?
Eternal flame by The bangles is a melodious song, perfect to ease the nervousness and calm your nerves for a great night ahead.
4. Our Love
Oh, I've been walking
Down this road
And on my own
And on my own
And I've been searching (been searching)
To find my way (to find my way)
To find the path
That you've been traveling on
Like the trees wait
For the rain to come
I feel hope
In the strength of our love
And I'm going crazy
Our love by Judah and the lion, a sweet melodious song, will take you slowly to a night full of heightened emotions that will be unraveled bit by bit in form of slow pouring rain that wets you completely, eventually.
Enjoy and celebrate the togetherness!
5. We Found Love
Shine a light through an open door
Love and life I will divide
Turn away 'cause I need you more
Feel the heartbeat in my mind
It's the way I'm feeling I just can't deny
An upbeat song by Rihanna about finding love is a great selection if your better half loves funky and hip hop music. Wedding songs are meant to uplift the spirit that is having apprehensions and fears. The lyrics remind you that the promises you made to your partner are meant to be kept and the life that you are going to share will be worth every second.
6. Love me like you do
You're the fear, I don't care
'Cause I've never been so high
Follow me through the dark
Let me take you past our satellites
You can see the world you brought to life, to life
So love me like you do, lo-lo-love me like you do
One of my personal favorites, sung by Ellie Goulding, Love me like you do is a sensational song with heart touching wordplay and great music. There is no better idea than starting your wedding night with this song playing in the background. Your partner will surely sweep you off your feet and will forget that he was anxious at all.
7. More than words
Saying I love you
Is not the words I want to hear from you
It's not that I want you
Not to say, but if you only knew
How easy it would be to show me how you feel
More than words is all you have to do to make it real
Then you wouldn't have to say that you love me
'Cause I'd already know
Another slow number by Extreme, perfect to set the right tone for the most special night of the life.
8. I’ll Make Love to You
Close your eyes, make a wish
And blow out the candlelight
For tonight is just your night
We're gonna celebrate,
All through the night
Pour the wine, light the fire
Girl your wish is my command
I submit to your demands
I will do anything,
Girl, you need only ask
An ideal song for the wedding night sung by Boys II Men. Every word of the song will stimulate the senses and heighten the spirits.
9. One in a Million
Sometimes love can hit you everyday
Sometimes you can fall for everyone you see
But only one can really make me stay
The sign, the one in the sky, has said to me
Your one in a million
Your once in a lifetime
You made me discover one of the stars above us
Sung by Bosson, the song lyrics and music make it a perfect number for the wedding night playlist. Why be nervous and stressed out when you are with your beloved; lifetime partner.
Believe it or not, it’s your wedding and your partner is stressed out. He won’t tell but you will know. He will try to be himself and to do so he will mess up. Now it is up to you to make him feel comfortable and nothing can calm the nerves better than music. The 9 songs mentioned above include some slow and fast tracks with sensual lyrics and music to help you two enjoy the best night of your life to the fullest.