Erotic Letters 101: How to Write a Really Fine Erotic Letter

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By Michele
Erotic Letters 101: How to Write a Really Fine Erotic Letter

Have you ever thought of the old times, when people used to write letters to express their feelings to their loved ones? How fascinating and fulfilling it would have been. I can assure you that, still in this era of modern communication, letters can be defined as the perfect mode of expressing one's desires. 

Here, we are going to discuss Erotic Letters 101: How To Write A Fine Erotic Letter. Words, when put together, seamlessly can help express a human's deepest desires and passions accurately. Expressing sexual desires to a loved one is quite normal. There are several sculptures, literary texts and different works of art that depict sexual desires in one way or another.

What’s Happening Nowadays?

Recently, the advancement and ease in different modes of communication have made it a lot easier to stay in touch with the loved ones. But the one disadvantage is that it has made communication appear unnecessarily fast and easy. And that leads to several loopholes in the manner of expressing one's thoughts. Do you even consider that certain emojis and sexting can do the job?

To Be Honest, NO!

Composing a letter, equipped with emotions and feelings of sex, is greater than any chain of sexing. What we need to understand here is that humans are naturally very expressive. Any sort of poor communication can lead to several misunderstandings. And what eventually happens is that; people get bored with each other easily, as the expressions are not candid.

That is why; I am going to help you pen a letter that will help express all the erotic feelings that you want your partner to know about. The first thing that you need to know is that a letter is just like a story that you relate slowly and with a proper flow. There is no restriction when it comes to the number of words you can write or the intensity of your emotions that you can express. So, let’s see how you can come up with a really fine erotic letter.

5 Most Important Basics of Writing an Erotic Letter?

If you have not written an erotic letter earlier this would be an exciting experience for you. This letter will help in improving your love life and of course sex life too. Even if you are not that good with words, do not worry, with time this love letter practice will get better. Just follow what I am going to put here.

1. How do You Want Your Partner to Feel?

First of all, you need to set your intention for writing a well-versed letter. It will help in developing a proper tone for correspondence. There can be a lot of different reasons like you want your partner to feel better after a long hard day, you want to express your love, and you want to help your partner feel sexy and confident or just want to get physical. The possibilities are endless.

Whatever topic you choose your tone needs to fade from a romantic to an erotic tone. After all, seduction requires steaminess, warmth and some sass.

2. You Have to Show, Not Tell

Whatever intentions you have, need to be expressed practically. There is no use of colorless statements, which will eventually make the whole scenario look flat. Imagine how you want to treat your partner and come up with the whole scene in your mind.

Show your partner that you need him/her bad! Carve details for how you feel, what you are doing right now, what do you intend to do and what do you expect. Add life in your words and leave a strong impact. There is a difference between making a mere statement and being sexually expressive.

3. Just Keep it Specific

It is an erotic letter so stick to the point. There is no use of filling your letter with poetic, emblematic or flowery language. Keep your words simple, but make a striking impression. Tell something to your partner that excites both of you, it could be about any body part.

If you want to get erotic do not miss bringing some hot encounters between you two in the past. Recall them and compliment where necessary. You can repeat something that seems too ordinary. Like there is no harm in saying; 'I love you' or 'you make me horny' to your partner several times. Sometimes the simple repetition of phrases and words looks very sexy and insistent.

4. Even a Metaphoric Approach Can Help

You must be wondering that I just said keep it simple and now I am daring you to try a metaphor. Adding a metaphor will help in polishing your erotic side. If you manage it well then it will add strength to your erotic sentiments and even make that letter appear scandalous in an acceptable manner. Here, I am going to add something for your help.

Frida Kahlo (a renowned Mexican painter) once wrote to her husband: ‘All my joy is to feel life spring from your flower-fountain that mine keeps filling all the paths of my nerves which are yours’. Isn’t it metaphorically erotic? I will just leave your imagination to work here. You can come up with any such sort of metaphoric paragraph in your erotic letter.

5. Be Authentic

Share your feelings, be vulnerable and open up about your erotic desires. Do not make it difficult for your partner to guess what you expect. Be honest so that there is a sort of difficulty faced by your partner to understand your erotic desires penned in the letter.

What you have to do is just be yourself do not fabricate or complicate things. On purpose, the fancy language will just give a mixed message. Use the voice that comes from your heart and mind. It authentically reflects your style and personality. 

So these are simple points that you need to keep in mind. And trust me in the end; you will be the author of a very fine erotic letter.

What to Do After Writing A Letter?

What is sexier than a neatly written erotic letter? Your handwriting further strengthens the essence of your erotic letter. Just choose a simple neat paper and a pen for this job. Do not go too extravagant, as it would look extra. After writing the letter, you can put it on a side table or in the pocket of a jacket or anywhere else where your partner could easily find and read it. It is as simple as that.

What Does An Erotic Letter Look Like?

Here, I have a sample for you. This extract has been taken from a letter written by Arthur Miller for Marilyn Monroe.

“I will kiss you and hold you close to me and sensational things will then happen. All sorts of slides, rolling, pitching’s, rambunctiousness of every kind. And then I will sigh. And when you rest your head on my shoulder, then slowly I will get HUNGRY.

I will come again to the kitchen, pretending you are not there and discover you again. And as you stand there cooking breakfast, I will kiss your neck and your back and the sweet cantaloupes of your rump and the backs of your knees and turn you about and kiss your breasts and the eggs will burn.” 

See how carefully Marilyn Monroe's husband has projected his intentions and created a whole scene out of it. For that, you need to be sexually creative and that's nothing challenging at all. Imagine to what extent you can easily arouse your partner through a simple erotic letter.

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I hope that until now, you have a clear idea of how to draft an erotic letter. It wasn't that difficult at all. All that you need to keep in mind is that; only an honest expression will help your partner in understanding whatever you want.

Letters that you write need to be full of flattering and erotic adjectives. For that, you will need to think like a wild animal, which can easily use some extraordinary action or arousal words. Do not worry; you will get better after two or three letters. And trust me erotic letters can add some serious spice to your sex life.

So what are you waiting for? Grab a pen, imagine the hot sexual stuff and develop a scene in your imagination and let it all on a piece of paper. Get creatively kinky!


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