8 Ways to Convince Your Conservative Man to Try Out New Positions

When it comes to sex, most men want to take the steering in their hands. Well, that’s what’s expected of them being males and the dominant of the two sexes. If your husband or partner thinks the same way, he is surely a traditionalist. 

Whosoever defined the male and female roles, gave the rein in men’s hands. From breadwinning to major life decisions and controlling the sex life, men get to decide when, how, where, and what. Traditionalist men are often associated with masculinity, strength, leadership, courage, and authoritarianism. Besides all these characteristics, if your man has the sex controller in his hands, he surely is a traditionalist and like men of his kind, he would like to do in the bedroom what pleases him. Traditionalist men are hard to convince and please. If you are not satisfied with the sex, you might not be able to convey your feelings and ask for more or something different from him. 

Modern and liberal men are easier to mold. They usually listen to what their partner has to say and are more open to new ideas than traditionalist men. You can easily find out if your man is a traditionalist or not through the presence of these characteristics:

•    He believes in cultural and religious expectations 
•    He has traits that are considered appropriate for men
•    He has a certain level of dominance in his personality
•    He is not open to new rules and point of views
•    He is more independent and rejects assistance

The presence of one or more of these characteristics in a man makes him a traditionalist and believe me it will be a real challenge for you to convince him for anything. 

Convincing a conservative man to do anything out of the ordinary is very challenging. They hardly ever try new restaurants, change their outlook, or alter their other habits for anyone. Sex being the center of marital life is mostly in control of the men. When to have sex, how many times, and the positions are mostly decided by men. Men mostly don’t care about the sexual satisfaction of women. If they are enjoying the sex and getting maximum pleasure, that’s all that matters. They hardly care about the sexual needs of their wives.

Most traditional men like the missionary position and would just want to get the job done. It is like a routine ritual for them and all they want to do is get over with it. For them, sex and adventure are two different things and one cannot have fun while having sex.    

If your husband is conservative, you will need to put in extra effort to convince him to try out new sex positions.  Here are 8 ways to convince your man to try out new sex positions. We have broadly categorized these convincing ways into two sections; daily activities and in the bedroom ideas. 

It is better to prepare him during the day time if you wish him to try new things during the night time. You can leave clues for him and make him realize that you want to have sex as much as he does. Mentioned below are a few activities that can set the mood of a nighttime adventure.

You might wonder how going shopping can help convince your partner. Well, it’s not ordinary shopping; you are going to buy some sexy lingerie with your man. Ask his opinion about the colors he likes and the type of undergarments that turn him on. Asking his opinions, likes and dislikes will help you convince him for later part of the day where you can share your likes and dislikes in sex.

To convince someone, you need to build a relationship of mutual understanding. Both the partners need to know what other partner likes or dislikes. This level of understanding can be achieved by spending quality time together. Picking up a hobby or starting a new activity together can be a great starter. It is a great way to open up and share inner feelings with each other. Conservative men can be convinced, all you need to do is befriend him.

If the man of your life is a stubborn traditionalist and won’t let you take control of sex, you need to find ways to convince him to do so. One such method is watching a romantic movie with him where the female has authority over the male partner and they have unmatched pleasure while having sex. You might not need to say a word and he will understand what you are trying to convey.

A clever way to convince your partner to have sex the way you like is to spend some romantic time with him. Plan a date night, wear some sexy outfit, have dinner at a great restaurant, spend time talking about each other and let the night smoothly transit into a memorable time where you can share your sexual fantasies and convince him to try what you love.  

Sex shouldn’t feel like a ritual. It should be an exciting new experience every single time and it can only happen if you try new things on a regular basis. Conservative men find it very difficult to give authority to women when it comes to sex. Most societies have defined male roles and mostly sex is a man’s domain. The idea that women too can have sexual preferences or they can ask for the type of sex that they enjoy is not given much importance in many cultures and societies. If you are one adventure loving soul and want to take your husband on an exciting sexual roller coaster, here is what you can do in the bedroom to change his mind.

Once you are in the bedroom, there is very little time for arguments or extensive conversations. Start a pep talk about sex and be very candid. It shouldn’t sound a made-up conversation. Start light and bring up the topic of personal choices and preferences and your expectations from the partner. You can share what would you like and what kind of positions you are more comfortable with. Don’t say that you don’t like having sex, rather say that you just want to explore new things and you hope that you both will enjoy it.

To convince your man to try new positions in sex, you need to divert his attention. This can be easily done by wearing sexy lingerie. If you have recently bought something of his liking, wear that or you can always surprise him by buying something online. Since this is the first move and you already have taken him by surprise, try a different position without even asking him.

If done in a routine way, sex can become very boring and may look like one of the daily chores. Talking about personal preferences can really help spice up the relationship. No matter how conservative a man is, if brought up the topic of sex, he will surely share his likes and dislikes. Once he has shared his thoughts, you can tell him your own ideas and expectations from him. 

Dramatic dressing up and surprise foreplay can help you set the tone and mood of the night. A sexy nighty combined with sensual massage spiced up with sex toys will not only turn him on but will force him to change his mind about having sex in the missionary position. Once he has explored new ways to have sex, he will never go back to the ordinary.     

Men being the dominant of the two genders want to control everything in a marital relationship. From breadwinning to major financial decisions and outdoor activities to adventures in the bedroom, most decisions are made by husbands. In many cultures, women are not asked about their sexual likes and dislikes.

 It is considered their duty to please their husbands and do what they are asked for. It shouldn’t be the way. Women should get what they want and communication is the key. Leave clues here and there and if they don’t work just ask in a straight forward way. Most men are stubborn because they either don’t want to look weak or have never tried something fun. Once they have tasted excitement and ecstasy, they will know what they were missing in their life and will be appreciative of you to have shown to them the true meanings of happiness.