21 Fun Sex Ideas That Are Not Kinky nor Freaky

Everyone wants to spice up things in the bedroom, but not everyone is up for going all fifty shades of grey on their partner. For all those who want to change up things in the bedroom but aren’t up for something drastic, I’m here, and I have your back. I’m going to let you in on 21 fun tips that all of you can try out without being too outrageous. So, there’s no need to feel jealous of all those people trying weird fun things in bed, here is a list of things that all you newbies out there can be a part of and move your relationship to the next level.

While too much sugar may cause you some trouble, chocolate and sex are a great combination. Whether you eat it before sex or try eating it off of your partner, it’s going to spice up your relationship. So, whether its whipped cream or chocolate, try anything you like and give it a go.

Granted that not everyone’s into it, but giving it a go couldn’t possibly hurt, could it? Stepping out of your comfort zone can be adventurous and a great way to bond with each other. While some people seem to be weirded out by it, it’s bound to grow on you when you find out the pleasure it can give you.

Sex doesn’t always have to be a well-orchestrated, well thought out series of events. It is the primal human instinct, and sometimes we need to let the animal inside us take over. Feel the animal inside your human nature and let go of the sophistication that evolution has given us. A bit of hair pulling, scratching, and spanking might just be enough to satisfy that beast inside.

There is something magical about having sex under the blanket of stars. Having the breeze cool your bodies as you engage in steamy sex is blissful. You should try to go for a romantic dinner on the rooftop and see where that leads too. Who knows the effort you put in might even lead to you getting lucky more than once.

Picture this; you’re in a thick jungle with your significant other; you’ve trekked for hours and are tired and sweaty. You reach the top of a hill, and your eyes fall on a lush waterfall with a pond of clear water next to it. There is no sign of civilization for miles. You go there, get naked and get inside the lake. You cool off and get busy loving each other. If you’re a couple who loves the outdoors, then this can be a great way to spice things up.

Another way to give your sex life a twist is by trying it in different places. Imagine you’re in your office and you're tired, in walks your wife and one thing to another, you end up having sex. It will be a great way to let loose and have fun while doing it. There’s something about having sex where you aren’t supposed to that turns you on beyond measure.

We all know you've watched those movies where they get crazy horny and end up having sex in the plane's restroom, and don't say that you didn't want to have a go at it. Why not try it; after all, you only live once. So, the next time you plan on going someplace by air, give it a try.

This one is for the ladies; you've been dominated in sex for too long! Why not reverse the roles, take charge, this is the time to control your man, and make him a slave to your whims.  Trust me guys like a woman who knows when to take what she wants, a woman who's not afraid to rule and conquer.

The idea is to have a mirror in front and another on the ceiling. Visual stimulation along with physical one makes you lose control. While it may sound like a small change but research shows that visual stimulation can enhance your sexual appetite.

Toys have always been considered a kink but with the ever-evolving sex industry, there are so many options to choose from. If you want it less kinky, choose non-penetrative options like vibrators. Nothing can replace the feeling of a good vibrator, which will leave you wanting more.

 Having sex in the same old room for years can be boring. Try taking it to the lounge or the couch, to the kitchen on the counter, under a warm shower, or a bathtub. Heck, take it to the garage but be open to new things.

Sex in a car might be something older people use to do when they were in high school, but you can’t say that it isn’t fun. It’s an old school way to spice it up. Imagine driving down a wide stretch of road with no one in sight and having your partner constantly pleasure you. You could do it on a busy road if that’s what you're into but safety comes first!

Strip games are a fun way to get horny if you’re not in the mood for effort, but still want to have fun. Try strip poker or truth and dare for that matter.  Make sure that it’s a game with short rounds that can strip the clothes off soon.

Masturbation is another old-school way you can spice things up. While it’s something we've done for as long as we remember, try putting on a show for your partner and make them watch. You'll be in your comfort zone, and your partner will definitely get all riled up for the grand finale

Most of us have seen magic mike right? Giving your partner a lap dance is the best birthday gift. However, it takes time to develop those moves, practice makes perfect, so, get to it! Don’t worry if you’re not that good either, it’s the effort that counts and once you’re good at it, it will surely add to your sexual allure.

Getting naked in front of your man when he least expects is going to drive him crazy. Being unpredictable is the sexiest thing ever. You see him playing games, and all of a sudden his eyes fall on you dropping your towel in front of him, who do you think he's going to crush - you or the game?

Seeing you get naked while he’s out is going to make him eager to get home. Send him a risqué photograph of you and see him get home as fast as he can. While women can keep it in their pants, most men aren’t conditioned to do so. They’ll be thinking about you the whole day, and I think everyone wants that right?

Watching porn together will give you both new ideas. Seeing others get at it is surely going to get you all riled up in no time. Before you know it, porn will be in the background and you’ll be having at it.

Wearing your favourite character's costume or the costume of your partner’s favourite character is sure to get your partner excited. While dressing up might seem like a new territory, you already do that for Halloween right so why not for a good time.

 Blindfolds have been widely popularized by Hollywood these days, thinking fifty. Tie her hands, blindfold her and pleasure her, the anticipation and uncertainty of what comes next will surely lead her to a body wracking orgasm. Restrictive and delayed pleasure is known to drive people crazy.

While talking dirty might not be your forte, you should still give it a go. Talking dirty means that you’re comfortable with your partner and it is going to ease frustration and be fun!

In short, you don’t have to go out of your way to have fun. Try to fuse it into your everyday life and see how it changes the dynamics of your relationship.