Best Way To Tell A Girl You Like Her Over Text And Win Her Heart

Wondering how to tell your girl that you like her? Want to text her instead? Read on further to know about ways to tell a girl you like her over text.

By Amanda Palmer
Best Way To Tell A Girl You Like Her Over Text And Win Her Heart

Win your girlfriend's heart over text

For some people proposing comes easily. They can easily win over their girlfriend's hearts with an impressive proposal. There are some others who feel quite shy and nervous and often delay their proposals in fear of getting a refusal. It's quite natural to feel nervous around your love interest especially when you want to share your feelings of love with them. None like to get a no for an answer and due to this fear, you keep delaying. Conveying messages over text and social media have made the world a smaller place. With the number of emoticons and signs available over text, it is possible to convey your heartfelt messages easily making sure the other person understands your sentiment and the tone over text. They are as good as making a verbal communication with someone and only better at times. You can tell her that you like her. Let's see how you can tell your girl that you like her over text...

You can start with a casual hello over text

This gives your girl a hint that you're interested in her. If she is interested too she would continue the cute conversation. Keep it to basic initially. Keep the communication over text short as a long text about your hobbies, favorites or opinions will get her bored quickly. You can tell her something like, ' Hey! just thought I'd say hi'. If she responds quickly and positively, take it as a good sign and proceed with normal conversations like asking her about her day.

You can tell her you find her cute over text

Just a casual "hello" out of nowhere will keep her wondering why did you choose to message her. Text her that you find her cute. This will start your conversations on a good note. Do not compliment her too much else it would feel fake. Tell her things that sounds genuine.

She should find you cute too over text

Texting can be rather risky at times. You might appear to her as rather arrogant or selfish in spite of your best efforts. It is difficult to decide over text about the tone of the person or his expressions. Try to be gentle, sweet, fun-loving over text in order to make a good impression in front of her. Out of nowhere, if she gets a wrong impression in the beginning about you, it will be quite tough to change that image. Make sure she likes you over text.

Try to capture her interest first by talking about things she'll like over text

You have to know a little bit about her before initiating a text chat. Your conversation needs to flow in the direction of her interest. Love is the second big thing after the girl likes you. She can like you over your witty or funny text messages. As per her response, you can predict whether she has started liking you or not.

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Text her in the night

The night is the time when a person is done with their personal and professional work and they are generally in a relaxed state of mind. If you text your girl at this time, it could get you her complete attention. Start with asking her more about herself and her work. Let her open up to you. You can engage her in conversation if you show interest and concern in her day to day life. Tell her about your day and ask her about hers. Write short text messages else she might get bored reading. Long text messages tend to be very boring.

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Pick a particular time to text

This will slowly get into a habit for both and soon she would be waiting for your text messages. You can easily make this a routine for a few days by asking her about her day and you share yours with her. A text is a wonderful way of knowing each other. The way you or your girl respond to each other's text messages would tell you a lot about each other. Try not to be too predictive in your text answers as this will bore her out soon. If she asks you, 'How was your day?', you could text something interesting like 'It was fun' instead of being vague like, 'good'. This would also keep the conversation occupied as she would want to know the details of the text.

Do not flirt all the time over text

Do not always reply in a flirty manner, but don't be too caring all the time too. Keep a right balance between both. Every day, try to write a sentence or two praising her or tell her that you like chatting with her. Be different every day and don't be too obvious. She will keep her engaged in you. You could text things like, ' That was very kind of you!' or 'I have been dying to tell you this all day, I knew you would find it very funny.'

Do not write improper or obscene messages over text

A text message saying 'You have a great body,' will make her block you immediately and think about you as a pervert. Such talks should come days after you both have proposed to each other and are quite comfortable in a relation. Sending such messages right in the beginning will cast a bad impression about you. Your girl would think that this is all that you want from her and her interest in you will fade off. Even if you compliment her on her physical appearance, tell her things that sound sweet rather than vulgar.

Use the correct emoticons over text where necessary

With texting, we don't know the tone or the expression of a person. This often leaves us wondering whether the person took the message in a good way or a bad way. A message saying, ' No issues', could mean 'ok, do whatever you please, who am I to tell you' and it could also mean ' no problem, I understand'. Sending smileys and other signs in text messages is a wonderful way of conveying your emotions along with the message. Tell her that you find her funny, tell her that you miss her, tell her that you are smiling, tell her that you are angry, tell her that you are confused, tell her that you are dumbstruck and many such expressions using emoticons.

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Be prompt with your answers over text

Don't take too long to reply to the text. You have already picked up a time to text her. Do not let any other distractions come in the way as she would get distracted and lose interest soon. Make sure the time you devote to her is for her only and this itself will make you win her heart.

Try to be humorous over text

Be funny and witty with your replies to keep her amused and interested but this does not mean making fun of her or sending her silly jokes every day. Reading jokes is fine only when you are getting bored but not necessary when you need to build a special relationship with your girl. Your humor will help you crack her up especially when she has had a tough day. She would appreciate your jokes then and even find her mood uplifted.

Find out about her likes and dislikes over text

Does she like ice-creams? Which flavor? Actor she likes, most-liked food, does she like vegans? You can find out all this from texts and this will show her that you are really interested in her and she will also like to share her favorites with you.

Tell her about your opinions on various matters over text

Girls like confident guys and before you win her over text, it is necessary that you both like each other's personality to prevent any kind of heartbreak later on. You share your viewpoints on various matters and let her share hers.

Tell her something nice about her personality that you like over text

Girls always love to hear praises. Try to give her a genuine compliment here and there without sounding too obvious or artificial. This is a surefire trick to win her heart over text. Like for example, if she tells you about her opinion on something, you could always reply saying, ' Wow, that's a wonderful way to put it, I could have never thought it myself, I love the way you think.' This sounds too impromptu and she will be excited with your comment.

Create some special memories

Share some of your personal favorites with her and ask her about her favorites. Later, whenever you come across her favorite ice-cream flavor or song, you could send her a picture of the text. This would spread a smile across her face and spread warmth in your relation.

The right time to get mushy or romantic

After a few days or weeks of being in touch via texts, you both must have established a comfortable bond. Now is the right time to get a little mushy or flirty with her especially before saying goodbye. This will be like signing off with a smile and leaving something pleasant to think off.

You can get a little naughty now and then

You need to do that too, else it will send across a wrong image of yours! Just before saying goodbye, you could text her saying, 'What you wearing?' or 'I wish I were with you right now!' This could send some deep and passionate signals from your end and you may just win her heart over text.

Tell her about what you feel about her

Girls love to hear what others feel about them. Give her a genuine summary of her nature, attitude and all the wonderful things that you like about her. This should also come in a later phase when you know that she is showing an interest in you and that it's time to take the relationship further.

In my opinion, the best way to make a girl like you over text is to establish a friendly relationship over text without showing any intentions of meeting her initially. Let the relationship sail smoothly over the guise of a friendship and let it slowly take the form of love. Such relationships are very strong and sturdy as you know the person inside out. A love blossomed out of friendship is often more meaningful and long-lasting. Texting is all about right timing and choosing the right words. It's not as easy as just picking up a paper and writing something on it. The way you write your words, your choice of words and that too used at the correct times convey a lot to the receiver and also makes or breaks a lot of relationships. Clever, slow and steady use of texts for your girlfriend will help you win her over and have a loving partner for life. Before sending any text, read it once and analyze how the other person would perceive it. If she asks you to meet her and you are genuinely busy at that time, if you just write, 'Sorry, can't make it', it might offend her, but if you write, ' Oh, no, I have a meeting at that time, but I want to meet you too, lets see If I can postpone my meeting with my client to meet you or can we meet an hour earlier? will not offend her and make her adjust according to your time schedule. So you see, it's all in the speech.