Gentleman's Guide: 10 Cute Ways To Tell A Girl You Like Her
If you are a guy wondering how to make a girl know that you like her, worry no more, we have you covered. Below are some ten cute ways to show her that.
Jul 24, 2018
The Gentleman's Guide
Are you a guy trying to figure out how to let a girl know that you like her? Well, I know that it can look almost impossible sometimes because you fear that the girl might reject you or you might mess up. You might also be afraid to look like a fool, but you need to know that falling in love is normal and if you don’t approach her, how else will she know that you like her? But when you are talking to her, don’t sound weird or needy. As much as you can’t just tell her flat-out that you want her in your room which will look awkward, you need to calculate your moves and make sure every time she is listening to you she is getting more attracted to you, in every chance you have. Girls tend to get creeped out easily if you become too forward, but they also hope to know what you feel. Here are some cute ways to let a girl know you like her.
Test Her By Complimenting Her And Showing Some Kindness
You should not jump right into a romantic mode or else you might look like a guy who is after sex. Test the girl’s reaction by maybe telling her she looks beautiful, sexy and you like her looks. A girl who is not interested will just say thank you and go ahead with her activity. After all, this won’t be the first time for her to hear that. But a girl who perhaps wished to hear that from you will smile, get a bit embarrassed in a sexy way, blush or just tell you that too. You ought to know her birthday, what she likes and what she loves to do during her free time. Buy her drinks, surprise her with gifts and always find time for her. When she has an issue, be supportive, and make sure that in her heart she knows you are there for her. With due time she will come to understand that you like her and that’s why you are giving her everything you can.
Pay Attention To The Girl
When a girl likes you, she might drop some few hints for you, but most do not. It’s like a tradition that it’s the man who should approach the girl and tell her that he likes her. A woman who loves you will want your attention and for you to let her know you like her, pay attention to her by maybe spending time with her even if it’s for a few minutes. You can do that by walking by her home, workplace or school. If you pay attention to her, a girl feels that she is appreciated and thinks that you would want to spend more time with her. If you have a tight schedule don’t worry, you can just let her know, but when you find some free time in the course of the week just find her. By doing so, she will understand that you like her.
Flirt And Tell Her Crazy Stuff
Girls love you more if you flirt with them and this is definitely one of the best ways to let a girl know that you like her. What do you need to do? You just have to be creative and be able to say some funny words that are sending the message, but indirectly.If she is laughing at your jokes, lucky you. You need to press the right buttons at the right time by doing crazy stuff like making some dumb faces at her, touching her unexpectedly, smiling at her, make a lot of eye contact with her and winking at her, flatter her, exaggerate your compliments and make her feel great about herself and then accuse her of flirting with you. She will appreciate your role in her life and know that you like her.
Know Her Friends
You shouldn’t just limit yourself to the girl, but connect with her friends and make sure they are comfortable with you around. You can achieve that by being kind to them or basically doing everything you do for the girl you like. Some good friends will tell her that the guy is awesome and she deserves him. By spending time with the girl’s friends, you build a strong relationship that will be an advantage for you in your quest for her heart. By not being their friend, they become suspicious of you because they have no idea of who you are. Try to know each of them personally and spend some time together and they will just help you communicate to your girl that you like her.
Look Presentable, Cute And Dress To Impress Her
Girls love to see guys who are good looking, and you make her proud by dressing impressively enough for her friends to notice. When other girls pay attention though, show her you are actually interested in her noticing how you have dressed or it will mean nothing if others do. When a girl sees you are working hard to impress her alone, she automatically knows you like her. You also need to look presentable, and the best way to know what the girl prefers you to wear is by knowing which artists she like and the kind of music she loves. For example, if she listens to Tupac, you can tie a bandana around your head. But there is one significant way you can look presentable before her, which is dressing casually. Most ladies love men wearing just a T-shirt, a pair of jeans, and some leather shoes and the girl will know that you are trying to impress her because you like her.
Take The Lead And Let The Girl Know You Are In Control
There is nothing as sexy as showing a girl that you are ahead of her when it comes to making choices, as long as the decisions are favorable for her. You need to think critically before you make such a move and you should also know if she is comfortable with you. If she is, then good for you, take charge. Don’t be the kind of guy who asks her where she wants to go, what she wants you to do, or her favorite bar or movie. Just make a decision on the places you want both of you to go, pick a movie and make her sit down to watch it with you. When a girl knows you are way ahead of her, she knows you are trying to make a point, and what other point than to show her you really like her?
Pay Some Of Her Bills And Buy Her What She Likes
If you are comfortably making a lot more money than the girl you like, and after paying all your bills you are left with much of it, or if you a gentleman enough and can have some money set aside for her, then pay for her minor bills and help her out when she is struggling financially. This is not a way to tell her that you are buying her love and attention. If you keep the worth of money out of it, you will realize that helping her sort out her bills makes her know you like her. There are also some other ways that you can show her that you like her including paying for her pizza, buying her coffee and paying the small debt she has in the bank. Doing all this is not just investing time in her but also money. Look at it from a different perspective -- you are doing it to show her a good time and let her figure out that you are doing it because you like her.
Don’t Do What You Know Other Guys Do
Most boys make this mistake. Do you know why copycats don’t make it in life? It’s because their content is already out from the original owner of the idea. So why should you do what other guys do? They perhaps tell her she is beautiful. Tell her something else like, “Your beauty is out of this world, Rihanna would be jealous of you.” That automatically makes her know you like her, and she sees the other guys as cheap jokers. You need to figure out what these guys do and don’t do it yourself. You have to stand out as the one guy who can be able to conquer her feelings. When you capture her attention, in her mind she will know you like her, and you really need her.
Don’t Be Afraid To Speak About Sex And What You Like
When you send some sexual hints, she will definitely know you like her. You can make some sexual innuendo, speak to her in an intimate tone, sexually communicate with her or simply just look at her in a sexual way. By sexually looking at her I mean looking at her hips, breasts, ass and her eyes and you let her catch you staring at those points. This can become hard, and a few guys, especially the inexperienced, may think that when they act this way she will get mad and say you want to sleep with her and dump her later on. No, women actually love to feel their feminism, and one of the ways to do that is noticing you like her and that her body is attractive to you. Just try to make it as natural as possible.
Talk About Your Future
You can tell a girl you like her by not really saying it but by talking with her about your plans and including her in it. That doesn’t mean you should start planning your wedding as it will look crazy and dramatic. You just have to make her aware that in a week, a month, a year or after a decade you will be somewhere and you won’t be alone but with her. She would be a fool not to know you actually like her. By including her in your future, she will also know you aren’t going to leave her, and she will like you too. Tell her about your dreams, joke about how many kids you would want, tell her about a car you wish to buy, just anything good that you are planning to achieve and she will know that you like her that’s why you are open with her.
That’s it, guys. Now, you know the cute ways to make her know you like her. You should also rely on your experience with other girls. Remember, one stupid move will not only make her know you like her just like you wanted but also put you right into the friend zone. Common sense thinking is a requirement if you want that girl.