60 Romantic Gestures That’ll Melt Her Heart Like No Other

As a guy in a love relationship, you can't afford NOT to be romantic. Yes, you heard me right. She's not hanging around you just to listen to your sweet but distant dialogues, listing your thoughts and wishes. She needs you! Yes, by her side, around her and if possible, all over her. Now, let me ask you some questions: Has your girl ever complained about you being far away even when you see each other every day? Does it appear she isn't appreciating even the best of your love intentions? Have you ever caught her admiring other relationships and it pains you deeply? Relax and read on! I know what the issue is. Your relationship is romance-free! You are being too formal. Maybe you are not aware; the greatest need every girl has in a relationship is affection -- not sex. And unless you meet this great need of hers, every other thing you do will not be appreciated. Girls often complain about guys not being romantic. Guys, in turn, try to defend themselves by accusing girls of being too demanding. It's time you get out of the defensive attitude and be in control of your relationship. Below are 60 proven romantic gestures that will melt her heart and meld it permanently with yours.

Let it not be said that we are discussing a subject you cannot fully grasp; let's define the keyword here, which is romance, before dishing out the gestures. What exactly is it? Well, it is only you that knows how you felt and what you saw before approaching your girl that you love her. No one can fully portray the connection between you both except yourself, but the visible way by which you convey your love, feeling and if you like, emotion to her is what is known as romance. Put differently, romance is the expression of the emotional connectedness between you and your girl that makes her understand that indeed you love her. This expression can be simple or elaborate but its success in achieving the purpose of conveying love is what matters.

Surprised this is coming first on the list? Don't be. It is a romantic gesture that is non-verbal. You don't have to say anything, your appearance alone will do all the talking. Brush your teeth daily, have your bath daily, dress well, eat well and sleep well. It's that simple. If you are married, do not allow the insurance of marriage make you reckless in your appearance. Be reminded she still wants to be proud of her husband anywhere, any day. You are as old as you look, and not necessarily as your birth certificate reads. Keep abreast of the latest fashion and get yourself a nice cologne to wear. It will surprise you what this simple gesture can achieve.

She thinks you cannot cook a particular food because you are a guy? Well, go ahead and "prove her wrong." You'll leave her wondering all day and thinking about you. Think of things that would leave her mouth ajar and be screaming "Wow" often. Don't be predictable even in your handling of issues and discussions. Occasionally, take some uncommon path and follow it through to the end. You will look like a superman before her.

Are you in the midst of your friends or business partners and she is also there? Introduce her like she is your queen. If you are like me, I'll point to her as "Her Majesty," "My Queen," "My Best friend," and "The Mother of Our Children" (if you are married). Such occasions are not the time to economize words. Be generous with them. You know what you are achieving by doing this? You are assuring her that she's not only important to you at home or in secret but that even in public, you are always very proud of her.

If there is something she cannot get tired of hearing from you, it is the constant affirmation of your love for her. Even if you are already married with kids, she still wants her husband to keep telling her "I love you." You can be creative with this statement. How about writing it inside one of her notes where you know she will definitely see it? It will work like magic. Everyone loves to be loved especially the female, folks. And if you can master this gesture well, you've won her to yourself 50 percent.

When you know she has been stressed out doing certain things, consider sending her a text. You know her birthday or your wedding anniversary is just around the corner? Fill her eyes with some wonderful love texts. You'll be surprised she'll keep those texts and repeat them to herself when you are not around. But please note that you have to do this discreetly. As a normal law of life, anything that is too much in circulation soon loses its value.

You cannot get close to a girl by keeping your distance from her, not even someone you are in a relationship with. Create every opportunity to get closer to her physically. Hold her hand when you both are walking. Snuggle up to her when you both are watching a movie. Hug her, kiss her and what next? Have sex with her. The closer you come physically, the better. Don't leave her to take the initiative. Here is one way you have to be the man!

The gift does not always have to be big in size but then, it has to be big in the message it is carrying. This can be achieved by tailoring it after her personality and hobby. For instance, if she likes sports, you can get her a customized jersey or a signed football. If she enjoys fashion, a new outfit once in a while would suffice. The most important thing is to be creative.

It seems obvious that most girls love talking and being listened to. Yes, even the ones that appear quiet love gabbing with their boyfriends. You'll melt her heart like no other if you can always be available when this need arises. Look for nice places where you can spend a whole day together doing nothing but talking. The more attractive the place is to her, the more romantic she'll find your discussion.

It feels so great for a woman (or girl) to see her husband (or boyfriend) defend her in public. Someone is about to maltreat her and you just step in to fight for her? You've just added a star to your rank in her heart. There may be times when she's the one that is wrong; never attempt to correct her publicly especially if doing so may cause her great embarrassment.

That you are the husband does not mean you should leave all house chores for her. Do some cleaning and washing. Let her take some days off the regular chores while you are in charge. She's going to be wowed and even respect you more. This is a gesture most men are not always willing to give but which has a very great chance of keeping their homes together in love.

11. Volunteer to help apply her makeup to her face. If you are not experienced with makeups, offer to help with her lips. 12. Have a shower together, it feels great! 13. Kiss her early in the morning before she goes out. Repeat the same gesture in the evening when she comes back home. 14. Allow her to sit on your lap and cuddle her with love. 15. Have a nice photo session with her. It'll fill her heart with lovely memories. 16. While she is still getting prepared to sleep, make the bed for her. This is achievable if you share the same room or you are married. 17. Watch romantic movies together all day. You can decide to take her to the cinema for that too. 18. Always seek her opinion when you are about to take a decision. It makes her feel important. 19. In one of those days when she comes back from work stressed out, invite her over for a foot and back massage. 20. Keep a safe distance from her occasionally by going on a trip or holiday. It would allow her to miss you. 21. Take her shopping at her favorite place. 22. Have a slow dance with her. If you don't know how to dance, you've got to learn how. 23. Serenade her. Don't mind whether you can sing well or not. Just identify her best song and make an effort. 24. Compose a nice poem for her and rehearse it into her ears when she's about to sleep. 25. Create a photo album of her favorite pictures. They should be pictures that remind her of her pleasant past events. 26. Have a moonlight walk together. 27. Have a candlelight dinner together. 28. Prepare breakfast early in the morning before she wakes up. Serve her the breakfast while she is still in bed. Do not forget to take flowers along. 29.Send her a lunch pack at her workplace. You can even take the lunch to her office yourself. Make sure you write a little note for her and drop it in the pack. 30. Make her friends your friends. 31. Thank her sincerely for even what she's supposed to do. 32. Create a deep interest in her ambition and hobby. 33. Be observant to notice any changes in her and address them accordingly. If she's started making new hairstyles lately, let her know you're aware of it by complimenting her. 34. Don't make her a promise you will not keep. Let your yes be yes and no be no. 35. You both want to alight from a vehicle? Get down quickly before her and help her with the door. 36. Create some time out to tell her why she matters to you greatly. 37. If one person must win an argument between you both, let it be her. 38. Speak well of her before your family members. 39. Don't keep anything secret from her. Let her feel she has access to your world. 40. Come up with a name that only you call her. 41. Let her make some decisions such as which movie to see and which clothing to wear. 42. Ask her to assess you before you leave home. 43. Rejoice greatly even over her little accomplishments. It makes her feel very special. 44. Make an order of nice things for her from online stores. 45. Make sacrifices for her. 46. Kiss her on her forehead. It's lovely. 47. Let no day pass by without you giving her a call. 48. Be flexible and open to change. Sometimes, there are things you must let go of. 49. Help her in making some really tough and difficult decisions. 50. Make her problems yours. Let her know that whatever affects her affects you. 51. Inspire her to achieve something she's always been afraid of. 52. Insist on not eating your dinner without her joining you. 53. Occasionally give her a long and deep hug. She'll keep the experience with her for a while. 54. Kiss her on the back of her palm. It's not common but it's very lovely. 55. Run to meet her at a distance and offer to help carry her things. 56. Spend some time talking to her about your past. That'll give her a sense of belonging. 57. Be straightforward with her. Do not play with her feelings. 58. Treat her like a baby. Ask her questions when you are unsure of how she feels. 59. Recognize her right to privacy and respect it. 60. Create a lovely video of your nice photos and email it to her.

Sometimes, it doesn't cost much to be romantic. You don't even need to empty your bank account. Just practice some of the gestures highlighted above and this will help you bridge the gap that may already exist in your relationship. No matter the distance between you both, if you have imprinted your love on her heart, it'll be difficult for her to let go of you. The way to make her love you madly is to be romantic.