5 Secrets To Getting Your High School Relationships To Last

High school is a great source of learning and creating memories for everyone. Some experiences turn out to be good, and some leave us with a long-lasting agony. And yet, the one thing remains mutual amongst all these moments and accidents, friendships and bitterness, laughter and tears, is that you always get something from this period of your life. Though one has a lot more to solve other than the problems of a guy buying 72 melons. Many ghosts to face other than that of Canterville. When trigonometric triangles seem easier than love triangles, with algebraic identities not helping in making one of your own, and you have to figure out the bonds of chemistry with your, probably, first love rather than the bond of hybridization. Yep, those high school relationships. Nobody can ever forget this part of their life. A few such young lovebirds even end up getting married or at least last a significant number of years, which is adorable. Who would not like to have a bond like this? So, here are the secrets of making it last as long as possible.

The key is to say it all. Make sure you talk about whatever makes you happy, bothers you or about something you just don't like -- because nobody is perfect. At first, things that you find cute might become boring or even annoying. As much as you love your high school partner, there can be certain traits or behavior that you don't appreciate. That's the way things go in real life; the passion eventually burns out in the long run. It's amazing to be loyal in a relationship, but we often forget it's more important to stay honest. However, we don't suggest you fight over things, but observe, think, analyze, and then have a discussion. This is a piece of advice for all the boys and girls. Let your partner see both, your bright and dark sides. One wouldn't understand and accept if one doesn't know. And no, when you are in a relationship, your eyes don't magically start talking to each other, that's just a sign of your souls connecting, not talking. In high school, you are too young to spend days and nights wondering about the mysterious *love language* and you are allowed to make a few mistakes. Even if you don't say it the right way, you'll learn how to deal with it. So, laugh, cry, gossip, argue, and just open up.

If you wish to take your high school relationship to the next level, then that level is in college. That's right! There are many levels to go through before you reach that of marriage. It's necessary to focus on your studies equally not just to make your career, but also to receive a good education. Instead of getting mad at each other for being busy, encourage your partner to study and expect the same from them. High school is already a pain and hard to deal with. Don't let your relationship be another one. Learn and grow together. Working hard for each other is an inspiration. And of course, those study sessions can turn out be interesting.

Best friends make the most successful high school relationship. Yeah, it's all a farce. It is not necessary to be best friends to be a long-lasting couple or to end up in a marriage. But it's the other way round. Amity is the secret but is not mandatory for each other. Having friends and letting your partner have friends other than you helps a lot. There is the time where everyone needs their space and time. However, these breaks are for a moment not forever. Never tell your partner to cut off from their other friends or family. At the same time don't do that to yourself either because it feels good to spill out your relationship troubles in front of your friends. You will feel relaxed, find solutions and come back to your *bae* with nothing but love.

The question you need to ask yourself, first of all, is how long do you expect it to last? High school is de facto, a place to learn well from your mistakes. A young soul tends to do some silly stuff too. How would you make great memories, right? But if you wish to take your relationship through high school, college, and then adult life, you have to make efforts forever. Being serious and pretending to be an adult all the time is the common mistake many make giving an illusion of maturity. The advice is to do all your cute stuff no matter what age, what place you are at or what others think and yet respect each other. Be sane and crazy when you need to. Nicknames, texts, flowers, chocolates or whatever it takes. Most of all have hope but not expectations. Or it will just end up in disappointments.

How long would you expect someone to love you if you don't completely love yourself? Especially in high school, a relationship is quite fragile as it might be your first one. With a young heart, one goes through many self-analytical phases during this age. Some results might not be good. When you don't positively see yourself, you block your optimistic perspective towards things around you, towards your relationship as well. With the pressure of high school studies, it's even more complicated. The facts won't change before you try making someone else happy, you need to be happy and comfortable with yourself. Only then your relationship can go any further than high school. You would be ready to give your best to the one you truly love.

There are many tips and secrets that will help you in making your high school relationship last for a long time. However, the most important thing is to be patient and optimistic if you want to have a long relationship. Lastly, don't just concentrate on your relationship. Always consider the facts that high school is a very crucial phase of your life. You must focus on your studies along with your relationship.