40 Meaningful Questions For Couples To Get To Know Each Other

When your relationship is new, you think of several ways to keep in touch with each other. But, as you grow old together, you start taking your partner for granted. It is very important to keep the spark alive in a relationship. If you think that you know your partner inside out, then play some guessing games with your partner. Jot down simple questions on a piece of paper and ask your partner to answer them and vice versa. Through these kinds of small game you will be able to unravel the unknown side of each other.

A relationship blooms only when you nurture it. Almost all the couples commit a common mistake of holding back their thoughts. You presume that your partner will read your mind. But, not everybody is a mind reader, right? So, you need to speak up. Your relationship will be strong only when you know each other well. When you discuss some meaningful questions with each other a sense of familiarity will grow.

It will not take much time to ask your partner few meaningful questions that will in turn help you strengthen the bond. In the midst of all the chaos of life, it is very important that as a couple you two are in sync. Heart to heart connection between couples can only take place when they know their partner well. So, play a question and answer game with your partner and discover where you were not in sync as couples.

Here is a bunch of thoughtful questions to help you grow as a couple. Hopefully, after going through this little game, both of you will have a lot to connect all over again. 1. According to you, what is your best and worst attribute? 2. What is your take on cheating? 3. How many girls have you dated before me? 4. Do believe in God? 5. Are you close to your mother or your father? 6. Which is most important to you – good looks or intelligence? 7. What is that one important trait you look for in your partner? 8. Would you shift to a new place for the love of your life? 9. Do you like the idea of dating online? If yes, then have you tried tinder? 10. What’s the greatest fear that you have?

Compliments are always pleasant and when someone appreciates your understanding as couples, then it is even more endearing. People only see how compatible both of you are, but what goes into maintaining this strong bond is a complete secret. As couples, you need to know the shortcomings of your partner so that you can make it up with your qualities. In the same manner, your partner also will cover up your shortcomings. You must try to become the better half of your partner. Mostly, couples play the blame game to hide their vices, but only those who take their partner’s vices in their stride comes out as a winner in real life.

Are you all set to know your partner even better than before? Then ask these simple questions and listen to what he has to say. 1. Are you more of a spontaneous person or a planner? 2. What will be your reaction if you come to know that your partner is having difficulty in getting pregnant? 3. What is your take on adoption? 4. Are you content with your family life now or is there something that you long for? 5. What is that one thing that irritates you and you want me to change for better? 6. How do you want me to express my love for you? Do you want me to buy you a gift or do you want me to express my feelings through words and touch? 7. Am I able to meet your emotional requirements and desires? 8. Do you have any regrets? 9. Tell me three things about yourself that I don’t know. 10. What is that one quality that you simply adore about me?

When was the last time you went to a party as a couple? If you can’t remember, then it is high time you attend one as a couple. What if, my partner is not a party animal? Don’t stress so much, just go ahead and ask. You will be surprised to see that your partner was actually waiting for you to pop the question. Attending a party as a couple, is just an alibi, what’s important is that both of you are together and enjoying each other’s company. Relationships are almost like a treasure hunt game. You will have to understand the hint that your partner is providing to unravel the treasure of love and support at the end. Try different things as a couple, play mind games, surprise each other pleasantly, and communicate to ensure that both of you are on the same page.

It doesn’t really matter if you are a newly wed couple or an older couple. There is always a mystery that you need to solve. Knowing a person is a continuous process. You will keep on discovering something new about your partner when you start asking questions related to his childhood, teenage, young age, his aspirations, dreams, etc. 1. What is the fondest memory of your childhood? 2. Are you a morning person or a night person? 3. Have you lost someone who was very close to you? 4. What is that one thing that you cannot do without? 5. Were you a happy kid or a grumpy one? 6. How do you see yourself 10 years down the line? 7. Do you love to read books? Which one is your favorite? 8. Do you like your name? If not, then why? 9. If you think that life is a game, then what are your set of rules for that game? 10. What is that one household chore that you hate to do?

Once you start with the question answer game, you will understand the reaction of your partner better. If you think just by staying together, you will know your partner well, then you are wrong. When both of you are staying together as a couple you will come to know about each other’s habit. But, if you want to understand the emotion or the behavior pattern of your partner, then you will have to get into the quiz game by asking simple but meaningful questions.

You must be wondering about how to pop these questions to your partner! Fret not, you can start asking them casually and then when they are in the game, coax them a little further and see how they go with the flow. 1. Have you ever done anything illegal? 2. What is that one lie that you say most often? 3. What will be your reaction, if I take up a job that where I need to travel a lot? 4. How much importance do you give to anniversaries, birthdays and vacations? 5. Are you paying off any debt at the moment? 6. How much have you saved till date? 7. Do you have any plan of buying a home of your own? 8. If you win a lottery today, what will you do with the amount? 9. What are your thoughts about platonic friendship with the opposite gender? Do you think it is possible to maintain? 10. Are you in touch with your exes?

You question your partner daily about several things, but when was the last time you asked some meaningful questions? You must be having a long list of things that your partner should not do, but is there any list that says you and your partner must do this together? No, none of us prepare any list like that, right? Will you be able to accept the fact that your partner has taken you for granted? So, before that phase hits your life, make some plan as a couple. Go out on a date, enjoy some adventure sport that your partner loves, go on a shopping spree together. It is not important to go out and have fun, instead you can also try having fun while doing the household chores. When you are doing something together that means you are spending time with each other. You can ask him questions and listen to what he has to say and before you realize your household chores will be all done. Moreover, you will also come to know about some fun, interesting and important facts about your partner that you were unaware of for so long.

Next time, when you will be buying any gift for your partner, it will be all the more special. Not just because you remembered your partner’s preferences, but also because you gave importance to their unfulfilled dreams as well. Make some game changing rules to bring your life back on the track. Life is a big party and you need to decide whether you want to make it a boring one or turn it into a happening one.

Two people can be imperfect, but if they work together as a couple, then they can make their relationship a perfect one. Fights and arguments will happen, but you must let your love win over all these small hiccups of life. When you will start knowing each other deeply, you will be able to understand your partner’s reaction better. You will be in a better position to handle your partner when they are angry or sad about something.

Being in love is the most beautiful feeling one can have. So, you need to hold it dear to your heart. Take care of it and let it bloom in all its glory. Make your partner feel special every day and for that, you won’t need to spend a fortune. Instead, listen to what your partner has to say, spend some quality time together and you will see how beautiful your life has become. Making some slight changes in your schedule and taking time out for your loved one will bring a smile not only on their face but you will also feel content about yourself. Give it a try and see for yourself.