25 Unmistakable Signs That He Likes You More Than A Friend

We all have that one friend whom we like. Unfortunately, we don't know whether he is more than a friend. Here are 25 signs to look out for.

By Gerald Matiri
25 Unmistakable Signs That He Likes You More Than A Friend

Is the person you like more than just a friend?

Guys rarely go wrong when trying to figure out whether a lady is more than just a friend. They can tell whether you like him or not. It is in their nature to make out whether you are more than a friend or not! However, as a girl, trying to figure out whether he likes you as a friend can be more than a Herculean task. Probably, you have even sat down with your girlfriends trying to analyze what he said to you and whether that was among the accurate signs that he likes you. The good news is that there are some accurate signs that you can be on the lookout for that can be an indication of whether the dude likes you more than a friend.

1. Check his body language to know if he likes you more

Have you seen him cozying up to you or just leaning on you? Does he seem to always prefer to sit next to you? This could be an accurate sign that he likes you more than a friend. If you find that he leans towards you when you are facing him, this is an indication that he wants to be close to you. If he is always finding excuses to touch you or seem comfortable when you touch him, this is a sign that he likes you more than a friend. However, this doesn’t mean that he will need to caress you if he likes you more than a friend. I am talking about him patting your shoulder during those funny moments or touching your knees when trying to draw your attention. This is a clear indication that he likes you more than a friend.

2. Constantly looking at you means he does like you

It is important to differentiate between when he is stealing those romantic glances and when he is just looking at you because you got spinach trapped in your teeth! To do that, you will need to consider whether he looks at you in the eye when you are talking. In case he isn’t interested, he will probably be looking into the distance or even at another beauty. But if he is maintaining eye contact with you, it is an indication that he is in love with you. The only reason why he keeps looking at you is because he likes what he see and feels good when looking at you. Therefore, if you happen to catch him as he stares at you and this happen more than once, it is an accurate sign that he would like you to be more than a friend.

3. Chasing you means he likes you more than a friend

When a guy likes a girl, he will rarely hide his interest. He will ask her out, send a message to her or even call her. This should also be the case if he likes you more than a friend. He will show interest in you and openly say that he is in love with you. Men are generally wired to chase ladies. Therefore, if he doesn’t show interest in you, chances are that he is simply not interested. It is possible to determine how close two friends are by noticing how much they get in contact with one another. In case you have to always call a friend or text them messages, it means that the friendship isn’t balanced. But if you find that the guy keeps calling you or sending messages to you, it is because he has the desire to be with you. This is an indication that he considers you to be more than a friend. However, it is worth remembering that friends tend to call or text one another quite often. Therefore, you will need to determine whether his rate of calling is what you can term as normal, friendly or more than normal. A good way that you can determine that is by figuring out the reason for calling or texting you. Is he doing a follow-up on a project you both were handling? If this is the reason for calling you, then it is pretty normal. However, if he just texts you to say ‘hi’ or is coming up with an excuse for calling or texting you more than your expectations, this is a clear sign that he likes you and considers you to be more than a friend.

4. Laughing with you means he is more than a friend

Probably you have noted that all of a sudden you have become the funniest person under the sun. If the man keeps laughing at your jokes, including some that suck, it is a sign that he likes you. He may just be hiding the fact that he likes you though. On the other hand, he will also try to make you laugh.

When a dude likes you more than a friend, he will try to impress you with his vibes. He will not only have a good time, but he will relax while in your company. When people enjoy themselves, they laugh. If a guy likes you more than a friend, he will put a lot of effort in making you laugh. At times, he will tease you as part of the flirting game. However, you need to realize that teasing is not equal to abusing you!

5. Remembering your details

When a guy is not into a woman, he will barely remember her name. However, when you see that he can remember even the finer details, this is a sign that not only does he listens to you, but he is also interested in you. Men will rarely remember your details as a sign of being polite, as many of them don’t even care. So, if he seems to remember you birthday, it is a sign that he cares about you. If he seems to remember the things you love, it is an accurate indication that he values you. Have you changed something about your look whether great or small and the man seems to notice? If he notices your new hairstyle or the fact that you changed your cologne, it is a clear indication that he considers you to be more than a friend.

6. Talking to you differently is a sign that he likes you

To determine whether he wants you, listen carefully to what he says to you and compare that to what he tells his other female friends. In case he seems to pay more attention to you, is flirtier or laughs more, it is an accurate sign that he likes you more than a friend. Therefore, watch whether he treats you more warmly than his friend as this is a sign that he treats you more than a friend. If he is introducing you to his friend, you need to be keen to hear how he does that. In case he has some feelings for you, he will not introduce you as a friend. This is because he can already feel in his head that you are more than a friend and he might find it odd referring you as a friend. If he behaves differently when around you, , it is because he considers you more than a friend.

7. Getting curious about your life is a sure sign

When a dude is in love with you, he will get super curious about your life. This is not only because he likes you more than a friend but because it offers him the excuse to ask some more questions. Therefore, he will be curious on the kind of person you are, where you come from and how your life is like. This is a sign that he is not just being friendly.

8. Likes hanging out with you

If a guy likes you more than a friend, he will want to spend a lot of his time hanging out with you instead of his other friends. Therefore, if the guy is always finding a reason to spend time with you, it is an accurate sign that he likes you more than a friend. Likewise, if the guy finds you in a group and tries to separate you from the rest, it is a clear sign that he wants you to be special in his heart.

9. Messaging you on social media

When you see guys messaging you on social media especially when you have just come online, this means that he is actually watching you either consciously or subconsciously. This is not a behavior of a person who is just but a friend. This is what he would do when he wants something new and it is a clear indication that he considers you more than just a friend.

10. The guy showers compliments on you

This is one of the clues that will help to find out how a guy is treating other people. Is he is the kind who is always ready to compliment his friend? If your answer is yes, it means that you don’t have to read a lot when he compliments you. However, if the guy rarely offer compliments to others but is always showering you with them, it could be an indication that he has feelings for you.

11. Getting nervous when around you is a sign

It is important to watch his behavior when he is around you. Does he seem to get fidgety or nervous? If your answer is yes, then this is an accurate indication that he wants you more than a friend. This is particularly the case if he is a guy who is usually very confident. The reason why the guy is nervous around you is because he is afraid of making a fool of himself when he is around you.

12. Feels jealous about you

This is definitely a sign that is pretty obvious. In case the man sees you with other guys and responds in a negative or jealous way, this is among the accurate signs that he likes you more than a friend. This can also be among the signs that are hard to conceal or fake. In case he has strong feeling for you, he will definitely respond in a stronger way.

13. He treat you like his girlfriend

Guys don’t like it when other men show interest in their ladies. This means that when you go out with him, he will behave as if you are his girlfriend. This is in a bid to show other men that you are already taken. He will act with confidence in order to prevent other men from hitting on you. Guys, are different!

14. Giving you a present means he is more than a friend

There is no way that you will go out there and buy a present for a guy that you have no feeling for. If you do so, you will end up sending the wrong impression. This is the same case with dudes. Guys will rarely spend money on a woman if they are not interested in her. That means that if you see a man buying you a present, it simply means that he likes you more than a friend.

15. Asking random questions

If you notice that a guy keeps asking some random but obvious questions, this is an indication that he likes you more than a friend. Do you have a boyfriend? What is your idea of a fun date? Asking whether you have a boyfriend is an indication that he is interested in dating you. Asking what activities you engage in for fun is meant to plan for a future date. If he is asking about your history, it shows that the want to invest enough into you. Guys say less , mean more.

16. He is always ready to help you out

In case you ask him to assist you in doing something, is he always ready to do that? If he is there to help you move apartments, drop you at a party and even offers to pay your rent, it means that he like you more than a friend.

17. He asks information about you

Probably you have been told by his cousin that he has been asking her about you. Did he ask whether you are seeing someone? This is a clear indication that he is into you. Guys express less!

18. Being loyal means he likes you more than a friend

When with you, he doesn’t look at other girls even when they dress provocatively? This is an indication that he likes you more than a friend.

19. Shows interest in your friend

Guys, we all have an annoying friend. The bad thing is that in most cases, this happens to be our best friend. In case he doesn’t seem to like her but is always ready to hang out with her because of your presence, it is an indication that he takes you to be more than a friend.

20. He treats you like a queen

If the man shows chivalry, it is because he is still in love with you. In case he is always opening the door for you, writes some little notes or does every little thing for you, it is an accurate indication that he considers you more than a friend.

21. He forgets about time when you are around

Have you noticed that when you are with him, he doesn’t seem to care about time? If he doesn’t seem to care about getting late when the two of you are together or he can spend the whole night speaking to you on the phone, he surely is more than a friend. Guys indicate all the time!

22. Asking other people

You can simply ask his friend about his relationship status. Ensure that you select a trustworthy friend. But since it can be hard to find a guy who won’t tell him, make this as casual as possible.

23. Consider the activities you engage in together

When you are with him, what kind of activities do you engage in? Are these date-like or just work-related routines? When you look closely at how the two of you interact, it is possible to know whether he likes you more than a friend.

24. Asking for a kiss

If the guy tries to kiss you, this is an accurate sign that he considers you more than a friend. The only reason why he can try to do that is because there is something appealing that he like in you.

25. Gather courage and ask him

With the above mentioned unmistakable signs, it is possible to know whether a guy likes you or not. However, there is no better way to know if he likes you than to ask him. While this may not be as easy as it sounds there are times when a relationship will not move forward unless one person takes the initiative. In case you are quite sure that he likes you more than a friend, there is nothing wrong with facing him and asking him about the status of your relationship. You can try to make this lighthearted so that he doesn’t take the question too seriously. Be creative and find a fun way of asking him the question. For instance, you can send him a valentine note or even ask him to fill a riddle. Avoid overdoing it. Guys do not like it much. When you think of a creative way of asking him, he might even get impressed with you and that’s the beginning of a lifelong romance!

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