15 Signs That Prove He Is Not That Into You

Falling in love with someone is a wonderful feeling, but being rejected is something women do not like admitting. We have adopted this annoying behavior of over-analyzing a man’s behavior if he into you. We make stupid excuses for him while trying to justify his behavior. When a man shows you his true nature, then you should believe him. There are no questions to ask yourself since his intentions are clear that he is not into you. Nevertheless, there are certain behaviors in a man that should alert you if he is not that into you. If you keep making excuses for his actions or keep on wondering about his behavior, this should raise a red flag that not all is well. Below are some obvious signs that will help you read the person intentions towards you to help you know if he is really into you:

When a man is interested in you, he will move heaven and earth to talk to you every day. He will keep sending text messages. Moreover, anytime you call him he will answer on the second ring. A man who is into you will make an effort to make the relationship work by finding time to talk to you. If you notice your man is assuming your texts or he does he call you back for several weeks or days, these are signs that he might not be that into you.

When you are with your man and he keeps talking about other women all the time, this should raise a red flag. A man who does not acknowledge his girlfriend’s presence or feelings and is comfortable talking about other women has no respect for you. In addition, when he keeps on eyeing other girls when you are with him, this is one major sign that he is not into you. Do not waste your time on him. Leave him before he does. At least you will walk away with dignity.

When you are dating, a man who is interested in you will want you to meet his parents, working colleagues and his close friends. He will be proud of you and will want to show off his new girl. If you have dated for a few months and the man is not interested in introducing you to anyone in his circle, this should alert you that he is not willing to make a life with you. This is a sign that he is not into you and your relationship is stagnant. Leave him and progress with your life.

If your man criticizes you all the time by commenting on your physical appearance, he is not worth your time. If he keeps finding fault with your physical appearance all the time and he does not do anything to encourage you, it is a sign that he is not into you. He is using you; moreover, he is selfish, and he does not deserve you. While you are together, he will keep on comparing you to some other women and trying to change you to be more like them. In addition, he shoots you down whenever you two are having a conversation. This man does not respect you and he is rude to you. Never give in to a man who has rules on how you should live or dress up.

An interested man will ensure he talks to his girlfriend and finds out how her day has been. He will engage in small talks and will always avail himself. He will text back and even call you. He will be more concerned about your life and he will try to uplift you in all that he can. However, when a man avails himself when he wants to get physical with you, and after that, he disappears without any explanation, this man is not into you. He only wants to use you not minding about your feelings. This is a major sign that he is not interested at all since an interested man will want to know all about his girlfriends’ day.

A man who actively finds time to text other women apart from his girlfriend is not interested in the relationship. He never calls you unless you call him. He never texts you back and he keeps on pretending how busy he is to avoid being with you. However, on his phone, he texts other women with whom he is much more than you. This should raise a red flag. Do not ignore this sign. This man is not into you at all.

When a man you are dating avoids you all the time and he keeps on making excuses not to meet up, he is not into you. He is not interested in making the relationship progress. Do not overlook this sign and start making excuses to justifying his behavior. This is not your fault that he does not find time for you. This is all him. An interested man will not avoid his girlfriend.

When a man you are dating keeps his emotions at a distance, this man’s behavior is questionable. When he avoids disclosing anything personal about himself, this means that he is not interested in you. When a man avoids eye contact when you are talking to him, and whenever you ask him a personal question, he avoids answering, he is not into you, and your relationship is stagnant. Get out before you get hurt. He is not worth your time.

An interested man makes an effort to show his girlfriend that he appreciates her. He will come over to your place and see how you live. However, if you are dating a man who avoids coming over to your place or even avoids the street that heads to your home, this man is not straight. You should not ignore this major sign. His behavior, speaks for itself. This man lives by rules since he has a double life.

Two people in love cannot keep their hands off each other. If you are dating a man who avoids public affection with you or even gets mad if you accidentally touch him, it is either he does not want to be seen with you or he has some other girls out there. Do not ignore this major sign. This man is not into you and he does not love you. He will only get affectionate when you two are behind closed doors. He is not worth your time and you should walk away as soon as possible. Never agree to settle with a man who will not even hold your hand in public.

When a man you are dating gives you rules never to leave your things behind at his place, stay away from him. Giving you such rules means he has something to hide. He might be bringing other girls over, he has a wife or he is a neat freak but mostly it is because he brings other girls to his place. If you accidentally leave a toothbrush behind, he makes sure he removes it. This is a clear indication that he is not into you. Your relationship is going nowhere. Walk away before you get hurt. This kind of a man is not worth your love and eventually, his rules will get on your nerve.

A man who loves you unconditionally will want to have a future with you. He will get time to plan with you every step of the way. He will also want to start a family one day. However, if your man avoids discussing any plans with you yet or he keeps rescheduling your conversation, he is not into you. He has no plans for commitment, and he is wasting your time. Leave him while you can. Do not make any excuses for him.

Never get involved with someone who is a cheater. If he is involved with some else, what makes you think he will not cheat on you with some other women? Men who are cheaters are the worst kind and they would say anything to get you to agree to be with them. Such men do not keep their promises. They will hurt you and in the end and they will never leave their wives for you. They only misuse someone for their own benefit. Do not stoop that low and get involved with such a man. These kinds of men live by rules not calling them unless they call you.

A man who loves you hardly changes any plans you two have made, unless there is an emergency. A man who is not into you will not care about your feelings. He will not stick to the plans you two have made, neither will he call to explain himself. This is an indication that he does not respect you or your time. You deserve better so call it off.

If you are in a relationship and your boyfriend disappears on you without a word for weeks, dump him! He is not worth your time or your love. Such men who pull such stunts leave their women worried and wondering all the time. This is a major sign that he is not into you. Do not waste your love on him. There is a better man who deserves your time. It is tiring to keep on guessing a person’s behavior whether he is into you or he is taking you for a ride. A man who is into you will show his full intentions upfront even though most men prefer to appear mysterious. Do not stay with a man who has questionable behavior; you will only end up making stupid excuses to justify his actions. The above guidelines are signs that will help you to note any change in your man. If you suspect any of the above pointers, get rid of him. Do not waste your time. You deserve so much better.