Turning on men
Men get turned on by many different things, and ultimately every man is different. Most men do get turned on by similar actions, which is great for women. By knowing how to seduce a man, when you want to, can greatly spice up your relationship and love life. This may also be just what you need to win that guy you have been pining after, but who has not made a move yet. Turning him on without him realizing it or touching him can really get his attention and make him want you badly. If you do it right, he will be thinking of all of the dirty things he could do to you, which will make him want to touching you. He will want you to be his, at least for the night.
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Learn How To Turn On Men
Men are all different, but turning them on can be made almost into a science. Body language is intuitive for most, and by learning what body language to use when you can turn men on whenever you want to. Knowing what words to say and when is also how you can turn on guys without touching them. There is a lot of power in words when used appropriately and at the right moment.
Relationship Status: Long-Term Without Touching
What works for you may also depend on your relationship status. If you are in a long-term relationship then some of these simpler actions such as smiling at your man may not turn him on. He sees it all the time so it is not as new or exciting anymore. In this case, talking dirty to him should still turn him on.
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Relationship Status: Single
If you are single, then just keeping eye contact with a guy can turn him on. You probably do not want to talk dirty to him if you just met him, however. He may get the wrong idea and think you just want to have sex, even if you do not want to sleep with him. There are non-verbal and verbal behaviors that you can use to seduce the man of your dreams, whether you have him yet or not.
Flirting: Non-Verbal And Verbal
Flirting is all about trying to attract someone that you desire, which can be for fun or with the intention of something serious. There are two types of behaviors you use while flirting, which are non-verbal cues and verbal cues. Non-verbal and verbal behaviors are what you can use to seduce the man of your dreams, whether you have him yet or not.
You can use verbal behaviors to turn guys on by using certain words to your advantage. This is where verbally flirting comes in, such as giving compliments. Also asking questions can be a form of verbal flirting, as it shows that you are interested enough in them to ask questions about themselves or whatever else that involves them.
This kind of behavior is where you use your body language to get him turned on. Non-verbal cues include smiling at him, leaning towards him with your body and getting into his space, and keeping your body pointed towards his. These behaviors all show that you are paying attention to him and only him, which he will love.
Top 15 Ways To Turn On A Man Without Touching Him
Here is a list of some of the top ways you can turn on a man without even touching him using only your words and body language. There are many ways to do this without any skin contact. You probably already do many of these actions without even realizing it, as body language is an important aspect to turning men on and comes naturally. Guys like to look, so that is why there are so many things you can do that they will look at and it will turn them on. Using these techniques to turn him on will get him ready for foreplay or it will just seduce him to where he wants to get with you.
1. Smile At Him
If a man likes you then often all it takes is a simple smile to turn him on quickly. You are giving him your attention while he already likes you, so by smiling you are giving him a silent non-verbal signal that you are going to be friendly. If you smile at a man from across the room, this can also turn him on as it could be seen as flirting. Even though you are not directly communicating with him and you guys are on opposite sides of a room, you are seeking this man out mentally and giving him a smile, letting him know you are happy with him. Try and make your smile flirty when you look his way. Look into his eyes intensely for a few seconds. He should be eager to seek you out as soon as he is able to, as this can seduce him from afar.
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2. Turn A Man On With Confidence
Men love confidence. If you act confident this will turn on a man without touching him at all. Make sure you say every word with confidence while talking to him and hold yourself up with confidence. This is why many men love women in high positions, because they are often very confident with themselves. Women who know they can get any guy they want really can get any guy, because they are confident of this and men can see and feel that confident energy. Even if you are not confident, pretending to be confident can help you put on a show of it, and eventually you will be feeling it for real.
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3. Give The Man A Compliment Without Touching Him
Everyone loves a good ego boost, especially men. Giving guys a compliment will turn him on with just your words. Giving a compliment shows that you like him and you admire him in some way. This will make him more confident in talking to you and will help him open up to you. As he opens up he will be more open to both your non-verbal and verbal flirting.
4. Wear Something See-Through
Guys love see-through clothing and the one you are trying to seduce is most likely no different. Even if you still wear under garments that are not see-through, men will love when you do this. Even if only part of your clothing is see-through, this can be a tease for guys and they will want to see the rest of you.
5. Let Him See Your Bra Strap
Letting your bra strap show can be a tease for many guys. When your bra strap is showing your shoulder is most likely also showing, which is also a tease! Men love a good tease and will wonder what the rest of you looks like. To some men nice shoulders alone can turn them on. Wearing something sexy like some nice lingerie will really turn him on, as he will get a glimpse of that lingerie and wonder what the rest of it looks like and how you look in it. It will drive him crazy trying to imagine it or waiting to see it! He will be pining for you the rest of the night!
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6. Wear Tight-Fitting Clothes
Wearing tight-fitting clothes will show off the curves of your body, which turns many guys on without having to say any words. Tight clothes show off your body without actually showing any skin so this could be a great option for those of you who are modest and want to stay covered up for the most part. Your boobs will be shown off this way without showing any actual cleavage. This will also show off your butt, which men love to look at, especially if you have a nice round butt. This will fuel their imagination of what you look like without clothes on. If you have nice, long legs then tight jeans will accentuate your legs, driving many men crazy with thinking about those legs wrapped around them.
Make sure that the tight clothes you choose to wear are not so tight that you are uncomfortable in them. If a guy sees that you are uncomfortable he may be wondering why and how he can make you comfortable instead of focusing on how good you look. No one likes to see someone they like or love, become uncomfortable.
7. Show Him Some Thigh
Showing off some of your thigh is a big tease for guys. It makes them wonder if they could see even more of your bare skin, and where that could lead. You can make it seem like you didn't mean to show him that much thigh if you do it while you are leaning over or sitting down. He will not be able to help himself and look when you do this, even though he knows he should be polite and look away. Wearing a short skirt and bending over to show more of your leg always works well to turn a man on. You do not need to wear a skirt so short that it shows your butt, but wear a skirt that is above the knees at least.
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8. Wear Something Lowcut In The Back
Letting more of your back show than you normally do is a great way to seduce guys. Seeing your back will make him want to touch you there. Guys love the middle and lower backs of women and seeing this part of your body is a sure way to turn them on without having to say a word. Even better if you are fit and you have some back muscle. Wearing a little black dress will make him want to touch you more, and if it has a low back then all the better. Don't overdo this by barely wearing anything, but instead wear a dress where parts of it show slithers of your body so he only gets a sneak peak.
9. Eye Contact Without Touching Him
Maintaining eye contact with a guy can be a big turn on. It shows that you are paying attention to him and that he has your full attention. It is often said that the eyes are the windows to the soul. You are connecting with him on another level that you do not connect on with everyone. You are looking into his soul and really feeling him when you keep your eye contact with him. Make sure you are aware of the look you are giving him while maintaining eye contact, as he will feel it. If you think about giving a look of wanting him and of sexual energy, he will feel that and get turned on. Be confident in your eye contact.
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10. Laugh Together
Laughing with a guy can be a big turn on as he will see that you think he is funny, which means that you like him in some way or at least find him amusing enough to pay attention to. Keep the conversation fun and casual to where you guys can joke around with each other. Humor is great for releasing any stress and it has been shown to increase serotonin, which is the chemical in your brain that makes you happy. When you laugh together you have fun together and it helps you bond. When you bond with someone you want to do other activities together and spend even more time together. This will make him want you more. Never laugh at him though or that will definitely turn him off.
11. Be Mysterious
Don't tell him everything. Be mysterious. Men love the chase of trying to find out everything about you. Don't touch him but flirt with him. Give him positive body language showing that you like him but you don't have to outright say that you like him or want him. Tell him enough about you to let him know that you are interested, but you are not ready to open up to him completely. This shows that he will have to work to get to know you, which guys love. Make sure to ask him questions about himself so it is not all about you, and this will help you remain mysterious. If he keeps asking you about yourself too much, turn the question around and start asking him all of the same questions.
12. Talk Dirty to Him
A man loves when you talk dirty to him. This will often instantly turn him on without you having to touch him at all. Be ready for his advances that are sure to come. Great for long-term relationships, this can spice things up with just your words before you even get to the bedroom! You can be a master of seduction in this area in no time if your man is into this! If you are shy at saying dirty words you can even text dirty to him, or as most people call it, 'sexting.' It will still have a big effect on him! Because of how quickly this seduces men, maybe only do this with men that you know and trust. This could quickly turn on you otherwise.
13. Whisper In A Man's Ear
Whispering to a man can be very seductive. You are very close to them but do not even have to touch them, and some guys get turned on when you whisper in their ear and they feel your breath against them. Cup your hand around his ear so he will feel the full effect of your whisper. He will feel like you are letting only him in on a secret, connecting you two. He will be quickly turned on by this.
14. Show Part Of Your Tattoo In Strategic Areas
If you have a tattoo in an area that most people do not see, let part of that tattoo show but not enough to where you can tell what it is. Guys will be intrigued and want to see the rest, which would mean having to take off your clothes to do so. That will then get them to thinking about taking off your clothes and what happens when clothes come off. This will turn guys on, especially if they love tattoos. Guys that love tattoos are usually ones that like bad girls and girls that are not like everyone else. If you have a tattoo and let part of it show this tells a guy that you do not care what people think. Not caring is a big turn on for many guys.
15. Play With Your Hair
Playing with your hair can seduce a man without using any words. This is a non-verbal form of flirting, and the guy may not even realize it. Run your hands through your hair. Flip your hair around while you are talking, acting like you are just moving a bit to get more comfortable. Play with some of the strands close to your face. All of these are great ways to seductively play with your hair while talking to a guy you want.
There are many ways you can turn guys on without touching them or even using any words. Any woman can do this, and the more you practice the better you will get at it. Many do not even realize they are turning guys on with what they are doing and may even be doing it subconsciously. Realizing that you are doing this will give you more power so you can take the lead for where you want the day or night to go. Ultimately turning a man on without touching him is a form of flirting, which can be a fun game for everyone.