How to Turn a Guy On While Kissing
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Kissing is one of the greatest pleasures one can experience before, during and after sex. Learning the art of kissing can guarantee pleasurable sex with your boyfriend. Many people think that having sex is enough but they miss the pleasure a kiss can bring. The lips are full of nerves that awaken sensations throughout the body. Nevertheless, when you indulge in the kissing game, make sure you do it all the way to the end.
Benefits of Turning on Your Guy
Being a great kisser gives you the upper hand when it comes to making out. You will gain confidence during the sexual act and you can be able to turn on any man. If you have the skill of kissing, a man will think off you more often than having sex with you. If you are planning to surprise your guy with your new skill, this article will guide you through it. Although it may take some time to get it right, all you need is practice, practice and more practice. Good luck to you!
1. Be Prepared to Turn on This Guy
You need to be well groomed to make your guy go crazy about you. Apply nice lip balm and avoid using lipstick since it will smudge all over him. Lipsticks may look enticing but avoid them at all cost. You do not want to ruin a nice make-out session with your guy.
2. Have Confidence to Turn on Your man
A confident girl will turn on a man especially if he is kissing you. He will sense the confidence in you. However, if you become nervous, your guy will become nervous too and the whole idea will suck. Do not freak out and start second-guessing your kissing style. Go for it with all the confidence you have.
3. Demand What You Want When Kissing Him
Some men prefer girls who are naïve in their kissing game. On the other hand, a confident girl who knows how to demand can turn on some men. If your guy is used to taking the lead, surprise him this time around and let him know how you like it. This will turn him on and things will be heated up. Do not shy aware from giving him your demands. your aim is not only to satisfy him, but to be satisfied as well. If you want him to caress you as you kiss him, tell him. If you want him to finger you, let him know. It should be a win-win situation.
4. Take the Lead
When you are kissing your guy, let him know you have changed the normal ways. This time around, do not let him take the lead. Show him how you like being touched and how you want the kiss to be. Take control even if he wants to take over. Let him know that this time around you are in charge. This will make him all hot and turn him on completely.
5. Put Your Mouth in His Erogenous Places
Once you have gently massaged his lips, move your lips in his other sensitive zones such as: The ear- Nibble softly on your guy’s earlobe; you can use your tongue to lick him on the outline of his ear. This will make his neck hair to stand. In addition, it will arouse him. To make it even sexier you can whisper in his ear naughty things or blowing into it. This will turn on your boyfriend. The chest- the way a woman’s nipples are sensitive is the same way some guys nipples are. If your guy is sensitive on his nipples, lick them or else suck on his nipples and gently blow them. This will turn on your guy. Fingers- turn on your guy by licking on his pointer finger slowly from up and down and watching how he eyes you. Neck- kissing him softly on his neck will give you the desired results. A neck is a very sensitive part of the body. Guys like it when they are nibbled softly. This technique will turn on your boyfriend.
6. Tilt Your Head after Several Minutes
While kissing your guy make sure you do not concentrate on one side of his face, this will tire him. To make things more enticing, make sure you keep tilting your head from left to right after several minutes. This will get things heated up. Many girls tend to forget to switch their head position hence making the whole kissing game boring. Turn on your man by being creative.
7. Pull His Hair A Little
If your guy is the kinky type, use this technique to turn on his manhood. While you are kissing him and being in control, use your finger to touch his hair softly. Pull his hair a little bit to cause him pain; the pain will make him shiver with wanting you.
8. Use Your Hands to Work Some Magic
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While you are kissing your guy, use your hands to touch his other body parts. Probably you started touching him on the face, shoulders, and chest. Make sure you move your hands down his sides and let them rest there for a while. This will awaken a sensation throughout his body. Turn on your guy by using your magic hands.
9. Press Your Body on His
Pressing your warm body against your boyfriend’s hard body will cause a ripple of sensations through his body. He will feel your warm body against his and this will turn him on.
10. Sit on Him
While you are kissing, make sure you are near a place you two can sit. Sitting on his lap will give him a silent message of what is about to happen. When your guy feels your pelvis bone on top of him, this will make him aroused. Sitting on his lap is a great way to turn on your man.
11. Use His Collarbone to Arouse Him
A collarbone differs from the neck in that a collarbone has nerves that will make your guy go crazy. Kissing the collarbone gently will arouse him. Of course, you will feel how hard he is. A collarbone is a great technique to turn on your guy. Use this to your advantage to get the desired results.
12. Use the Tongue Technique
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Make sure while you are kissing using your tongue you do not become slobbery. This can turn off a guy. Be careful and very chic while using your tongue. Tongue kissing will drive him crazy as he keeps on thinking what you are doing to him. His thoughts will go wild as he imagines other ways you can use your tongue on him. This technique will turn on your guy but it will only work if you are careful enough.
13. Let Him Touch You Back
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If your guy is the shy type, take his hands and place them in your body; tell him to touch you as well. Allowing him to touch you will arouse him. He will imagine other ways he can touch you. Let him do it but slowly. Make sure things go slowly but firmly as you kiss. This style will turn on your guy.
14. Use Your Teeth to Nibble Him
While you are kissing your guy, do not concentrate only on the lip kissing. Use your teeth a little on his lips. Nibble him gently. Avoid using force since you can hurt him and this will make things go south. Be gentle and you will see how your guy will be turned on.
15. Touch Him on the Front of His Pants
Well, this is the ultimate move. Use this technique if only you are sure this is what you want. Teasing him, then backing off will piss him off. Therefore, if you use your fingers to touch him on the front his pants, you will make him go crazy. He will imagine what will transpire in his own ways. This move will definitely turn on your man. Use this style if you are bold enough and you want to take things to the next level.
16. Talk to Him Gently In His Ears
Turn on your guy by gently whispering in his ears how much you want him. Let him know how you feel about taking things to the next level. This will turn on your man. Do this while you are still kissing and nibbling his earlobe.
17. Let Your Inner Self Lose
During the sexual act, make sure as your guy thrusts, your lips are locked. Keep on changing your kissing techniques. For instance, swirl your tongue in a circular manner, suck his tongue, and even French kiss him. If you keep on changing your kissing technique and making him guess, this will turn on your guy. He will keep on wondering what you are going to do next. This being the ultimate moment, make sure your lips are locked in different styles throughout the sexual act. This will help you to give him the utmost orgasm. Kissing has a way of intensifying the sexual act; it is like a means to an end.
The After Sex
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Many girls like talking to their guys while cuddling up after intimacy. What they do not know is that after sex, a sleep-induced chemical is released and this makes men want to sleep. It is up to you to wrap the evening intimacy by spooning from behind and giving him small pecks on the nape of his neck. Make sure he knows how much you have enjoyed the evening.
Practice Makes Perfect
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Once you have successfully accomplished your mission, make sure you keep on practicing. It may feel awkward at first but the more you keep up with the kissing game the more it will become like a second nature to you. It might take you longer than you think but a little patience and practice will make you an expert on how to turn on a guy. Learning how to kiss someone will make you a mastermind on how to turn on a guy. It will give you an advantage knowing you can turn on any guy as you wish and make him do things even if he does not want to. This will make you feel powerful and confident during your sexual act. You will be on your guy’s thoughts all day long. Do not be shy; practice more and enjoy!