Kiss On The Cheek: What Does It Mean & How To Do It

Different kisses are meant to convey different nonverbal messages. It is therefore very important for one to not only know when to kiss but how to kiss. A kiss on the cheek will convey a totally different message from a kiss on the cheek. The same applies to the message conveyed by a kiss on the lips. That said, you need to take some time to figure out how to go about this rather complicated kissing business. Thankfully, there are plenty of online sites that anyone can access and enjoy useful information free of charge. If you already have a girlfriend/boyfriend, learning how to kiss her/him on the cheek properly is a tad better. This is because it’s much more fun kissing someone you truly love. As we all know, kissing alone cannot convey the intended message perfectly. It is therefore important to learn how to kiss, hug and whisper into one’s ear if necessary. More often than not, it is the guy who goes for the kiss on the cheek, neck, lips or if you are a freak like me, booty - please don’t judge. But that doesn’t mean that girls cannot learn all about neck, cheek or butt kissing. At the end of the day, it is a fun thing to learn, and you’ll definitely end up much closer than you used to be. Just remember to be as open-minded as possible, and everything will work out just fine!

It is important to note that not all kisses on the cheek are meant to be sexual. There are sometimes when a loved one might be going through some tough times and a kiss on the cheek might be used to show your love and support. In that case, you’ll be required to learn how to place the perfect kiss on the cheek. More often than not, these kinds of kisses on the cheek are accompanied by a long, warm and loving hug with umpteen rubs or taps on the back. In order to effectively show support, the kiss on the cheek ought to be quick while the hug that follows ought to be long and warm. That means a kiss on the cheek complimented by a hug shows you’ll stand together with your loved one till the end. At times, a kiss that shows support will be seen during a competitive sport that an associate one has won. In this case, a kiss on the cheek can effectively show solidarity in victory and not just in pain or a bad time. Again, the kiss on the cheek is likely accompanied by a long, tight hug – most likely with a couple of rapid bangs on the victor’s back. In summary, the kiss on the cheek might mean support in both good times and bad times. Just don’t go kissing a guy on the neck when they are having a bad time lest you want to be misunderstood.

Yeah, you heard me right. A properly placed kiss on the cheek usually goes a long way in showing love and affection. You can kiss your lover, your family member or your friend on the cheek without raising any eyebrows as long as you do it right. Just like a kiss on the cheek to show support, a kiss on the cheek to show affection is highly likely to be accompanied by a hug. For your lover, the kiss on the cheek might be longer and tighter than the hug you a friend. The duration of the kiss on the cheek also depends on the person you are kissing. Also, make sure they comfortably understand what the kiss means before kissing them. I highly recommend restraining yourself from kissing your guy friends on the cheek especially if you are a guy. This is because most cultures consider men kissing a little feminine. The same applies to the duration and tightness of the of the hug. Again, make sure you and your guy have talked about the kiss on the cheek and have practiced. The same can be done with friends. Time will make you better kisser, trust me!

A kiss on the neck might mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people, so is a kiss on the cheek. In this case, a kiss on the cheek might mean complicity. In the mafia movies, we all see the dons kissing on the cheek before the commencement of a meeting or an execution. Apparently, the kiss on the cheek has a significance which is, yep, you guessed right – complicity. In other words, a kiss on the cheek, in this case, means they are in accord. A kiss on the cheek might also mean the mafia members are under oath to carry a secret (s) to their graves. This explains why members or associates who broke that vow had to suffer the consequences - hence the countless cold bodies washing ashore in the movies. So, be careful when you go around kissing people on the cheek, especially the mafia! Now that we know what a kiss on the cheek might mean, let’s look at how to administer it effectively. Again, a kiss on the cheek is a technique that needs to practice and mastered over time. It is therefore shrewd to be patient.

Trust me, the last thing you want is to kiss someone with a dry, crusty lip. Do that to someone’s poor cheek, and not even the warm, prolonged hug can save you from making them cringe. Carrying some lip gloss around to keep your lips soft can be a good start especially if you have dry lips. Apart from using lip gloss or petroleum jelly to soften your lips, try being a gentle kisser. A kiss is supposed to show love or support and not to leave saliva stains on someone’s poor face. Even worse, a dry, crusty kiss might chase the guy of your dreams away. This is because the poor guy simply mistook you for some kind of vampire. Funny. But then again, that’s life, right? But you can avoid such little embarrassing moments by learning how to do things the right way. For instance, occasional lip glossing never hurt anyone. If you are a guy with a staunch belief that lips gloss is for girls, then the least you can do is staying hydrated. Being hydrated will go a long way in making your lips softer hence making those nice, well-calculated kisses on the cheek much more memorable. Feel free to make use of the thousands of YouTube tutorials about making your lips softer and better for kissing. Remember: Always go for the kiss at the right time. You don’t want to jeopardize the perfectness of a kiss on the cheek by startling the person you intend on kissing. Start by reading their body language and how they are responding especially if you aren’t used to them. Do that, and you’ll thank me later. Oh, and before I forget, don’t your tongue to spread saliva on your lips it’s disgusting! You don’t want to end up leaving disgusting stains on someone’s poor cheek.

When you intend on kissing someone on the cheek, remember that their cheek isn’t going anywhere. So, take your time and find the right spot on which you can plant your kiss. No one is rushing you for crying out loud! The recipient of the kiss on the cheek might even misinterpret it if you do it fast. One precaution you need to take into consideration is kissing slowly but without lark. In addition to that, make sure that your confidence is at an all-time high then go for it! Don’t be second guessing your kiss unless your intention is making it awkward. Again, sealing the kiss on the cheek with a nice, warm hug will always be a great idea. But if you are in a hurry, you can just plant the kiss, whisper something in their ear before taking your leave. Always read the person’s body language before kissing them on the cheek. It is very important because if someone happens to not be in the mood, then it's best for you to keep your lips to yourself. For a kiss on the cheek to fulfill its purpose, then it has to be received willingly!

In as much as you are supposed to kiss on the cheek slowly, it doesn’t mean that you have to lurk in someone’s face! As soon as you are done planting the kiss on the cheek, move on to the next step quickly. The next step may include a hug, compliments or formalities – depending on whether you are in the mafia or are a Tom, Dick, and Harry just like the rest of us. If you are a guy showing his girl love, a hug and a back rub should follow suit after the kiss on the cheek. Making the kiss on the cheek express your innermost feelings is an art you need to practice and become good at. That’s the kind of power a kiss on the cheek has especially if done properly.

In conclusion, a kiss on the neck, a kiss on the lips and a kiss on the cheek all convey different messages. Therefore, it is shrewd for anyone, whether a girl or a guy, to fully understand what a kiss to a certain place means before using it. A little practice in the department of kissing department is highly recommended. As earlier stated, teamwork is key when it comes to kissing. For instance, practicing with your girlfriend/boyfriend/husband/wife is the key to making you a much better kisser. Apart from kissing people in your romantic relationships, you should also learn how to kiss your friends and family. This is because kissing is a very strong form of nonverbal communication and therefore has to be done properly. Groom yourself before kissing anyone on the cheek. Make sure your oral hygiene is spot on and for the love of Christ, wear some lip gloss! Kissing people on the cheek with a pair of crusty lips can lead to terrifying nightmares, says top science. Okay, I am just kidding on that note. But you totally get the point, right? Last but not least, kiss as often as possible! It is a healthy experience that brings meaning to life in general!