Warning! 35 Unmistakable Signs He's Not Interested In You

Is your guy not interested in you? Are you confused about his behavior? Here are 35 warning signs to know for sure that he is not interested in you.

By Janani
Warning! 35 Unmistakable Signs He's Not Interested In You

Is He Interested In Me?

Relationships should be built on mutual interest. But, many a time we really find ourselves in situations where we might be interested and the guy might not be. We tend to overlook their behavior as we are really focused on falling in love with them. You need to know whether your guy is truly interested in you or not to avoid a great deal of embarrassment. You might be interested, but he may be a guy who never reciprocates the interest. So, you may need to look out for the signs that say he is not interested in you. Before you jump to conclusions and take a next bigger step, make sure that you understand his behavior and watch out for these signs. Here are 35 warning signs that tell you he is not interested in you.

1. No Eye Contact

You might be out on a date with him, but if you feel he never holds eye contact and simply looks away when you look at him it is definitely heading for trouble. You might never catch him looking at you and you will find him really comfortable in his own world. This sign surely means he is not interested in you; because, if a guy likes you he will hold eye contact or just keep staring at you or will just keep checking you out.

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2. Never Touches You Is One Of The Signs

If your guy is not interested in you he might never want to touch you. He will never try to get intimate with you. He will dread doing things that involve touching, hugging or kissing you. He will make excuses to avoid or even if he does he will not mean it. If you notice this sign in your guy it is probably because he is not into you. Because, if a guy likes you he will try by all means to get physically close to you.

3. One Of The Signs; He Is Never Around You

When in a group you might actually keep looking for him, but he will never be around. He will try his best to be away from you if he is not into you or over you. He will find a way to keep you at a safe distance. He might disappear a lot without any notice or information. If this is the situation you are in right now then your relationship is headed for trouble. It is a sure sign that your guy is not interested in you.

He Is Not Interested If He Cancels Plans With You

You will notice that you guy will never show up when plans are made. There might be a lot of last minute cancellations. It might seem that he never values your time as much as you do his. Your guy might never even feel guilty for canceling plans with you. So if this is what you are dealing with then chances are he is not into you or probably over you if he ever was in love with you.

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5. No Apologies Even When Wrong

If your guy is not interested in you he will never apologize even when he is wrong. He might never be able to say the magical word 'Sorry'. Whatever might be the situation he will value his ego more than the relationship that you two share. So, whenever something comes up, you will find yourself saying 'Sorry' even if it was not your mistake. So, if you notice this sign it is a major red flag that he doesn't like you back or is not into you.

6. Never Supports Is One Of The Signs

When a guy is not interested he will never support you. He will never be there for you. You will not be able to rely on him. He might never seek you for your support as well. He might have other friends who he would give a lot of attention but sadly, you will be left without any support. If your guy shows this sign it is a major red flag that he is not into you or is over you.

7. Never Cares About Your Relationship Status

If your guy likes you all he could ever think or die to ask for is your relationship status. But, if he is least bothered about your relationship status then chances are he is not interested in you. If he is into you, he might try to make sure that you are not taken or seeing someone else. But if that doesn't concern him, then you need to look for another guy to date.

8. He Is Not Interested When He Never Listens To You

You might be on a date with your guy and you may notice that he never listens to you; then it is probably because he is not into you. Guys, in general, are poor listeners but to the one they are interested they are very good listeners. If you notice him not listening to what you have to say or do then it is likely that he is not into you or over you.

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9. Never Remembers Your Important Dates

Your guy might forget all your birthdays, work anniversaries and career milestones. He will never be able to remember and wish you for your special dates. When a guy never remembers your important dates then chances are he is not interested in you. Because, when a guy likes you he would never forget your special dates just to show you how special you are to him. But if that doesn't seem to happen then it is better that you move on with your life.

10. He Is Not Interested When He Never Calls You

When a guy is not into you he would really never care to call you. You will notice that you would be making excuses to talk to him while he would be least bothered to talk to you. He will never try to stay in contact with you. Your guy might never find time to talk to you unless he needs something from you. This is one of the warning signs that he is not interested in you.

11. Never Initiates Talks Over Messages

Your guy might never be in a mood to message you. You will find that all your conversations over text messages would have been initiated by you. You might also notice that he would always be in a hurry to end conversations or would have left the conversations hanging in the middle. He might never have the patience even to go through your text conversations. If this is one of the signs of your guy's behavior then probably he is not interested in you.

12. Never Gets Jealous Is A Sign He Is Not Interested

When in relationships it is normal to feel jealous and possessive over the one we like. But when your guy never gets jealous or shows no signs of being possessive over you then chances are he is not into you or over you. You might be around a bunch of guys but it would never be his concern. He would never care or worry even when you flirt around with guys having him around. This is one of the clear-cut signs that says he is not into you.

13. No Special Treatment

If your guy wants to be in a relationship with you, he would make sure that he gives you his special care and attention. You will notice that he will treat you like a princess. On the contrary, if he is really casual and shows no difference in his attitude or behavior then chances are he is either not into you or over you if you guys had been in love.

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14. Not Interested In Your Personal Life

Your personal life stories might be never his area of interest. He might not be interested in meeting or knowing your friends or families. Your social life will be outside his knowledge. He will show no interest towards your past or personal life. Your guy will never even want to know what is going on in your life. Even your work achievement and other exciting stories about you will not make him interested. If this is the case with your guy, it is because he is not into you or simply over you.

15. Talks About Other Women

When a guy likes you or wants to be in a relationship with you, he will never talk about other women with you. But if your guy talks about other women or gets your advice for dating other women it is a major clue he is not into you. Your guy might tell you about his dating life and whom he is interested and whom he is not. When your guy gives you all this information about other women it is a hint that he is not into you.

16. His Personal Life Is Always A Secret

If your guy is into you he will share the information about his family, and friends. But, if you find him secretive then it is because he is not into you. He always separates his personal life from you, if you feel you never really know about him it is because he is never really interested in you. Your guy never wants you to know any of his family and friends as he never feels the connection with you.

17. He Is Always A Busy Man Is One Of The Signs

Your man has his own priorities and you might not be on that list. He will consider you his least priority. You might be busy but still, you will be able to make time to talk or call your guy, but he might simply reject your call saying he is too busy. It is all priority that matters- when a guy really likes you, you will always be his priority. But if you notice that he seems to be always busy and unavailable then chances are he is not into you.

18. Never Makes Plans To Meet You

When a guy is not interested he will never make any plans with you. He will never call you on a date or a dinner party anything for that matter. All the plans that are made will be in groups. He will never be interested in spending some alone time with you. Even if you make plans he might not be interested. If this is the situation you are in then it is a sign that you are going nowhere with your guy.

19. Flirts With Other Women

Your guy never hesitates to flirt with other women even when you are around. He might be comfortable in his shoes and might flirt with women and try to get their attention. If this is the case with your man then chances are he is not interested in you and hence the flirting with other women. Because men who are really interested never flirt with other women having the one they like by their side.

20. Notice His Body Language

When noticing the signs of a guy the most important sign to watch out for is his body language. Nothing tells you as much as his body language, it reveals a lot about him. If your guy leans towards you or is always angled towards you and sits beside you at all times then it is a sign that he likes you. But if he never shows any of these signs then the chances are he is not interested in you.

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21. Your Instincts Say He Is Not Interested

There may be many warning signs if a guy is interested in you or not. But the most obvious sign would be your instincts. You will have a deeper instinct that keeps telling you that he is not into you. It is always wise to go with your instincts no matter how heartbreaking they are. So, if you find your instincts constantly telling you that he has no feelings for you, then it is probably because he doesn't.

22. Never Smiles Or Laughs At Your Jokes

You might find all your friends cracking up at your jokes except for the one guy whom you really cared for. He will never be able to laugh at your jokes or even smile for that matter. You will also notice that he might never have a genuine smile when he is with you or greets you. He might fake a smile and will never be excited to be with you or meet you. If you notice these signs in your guy then never have any hopes of having any kind of relationships with him.

23. Never Teases You

Guys love to tease the one they are really into. Just for the sake of having fun with you, they might tease you. Teasing is a way of keeping a conversation never-ending. But if you notice that he never teases you but teases his other friends then it is a clue that he is not interested in you. Make sure that you notice this hint and move on with your life. Because to build strong relationships it has to have humor and it should be fun.

24. Never Notices You Is One Of The Signs

When a guy is not interested in you he will never pay any attention to your looks. He will never be able to notice your hairdo or makeup or even your dress. You might have had a new haircut but he might never be able to figure out any difference. If this is the case then it is because he is not into you. A guy when he likes his girl he will never miss a chance to notice her and compliment her.

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25. Never Surprises You

There will be no surprises in your relationship with him. He will never be able to surprise you or will never make an effort to surprise you. Your guy will never shower you with gifts or make any huge gestures to say that he is interested. He might never surprise you even for your birthday or any of your special occasions. This is one of the noticeable signs that he is not into you.

26. Acts Selfish

Your guy will be really selfish when it comes to his needs or wants. He will always act self-centered even when you are around. Being in love and relationships means you need to be selfless and give more than you receive. But if your guy acts selfish and never bothers about your needs, priorities or wants, it is because he is not into you. Never ignore this sign as it is never a good sign for any relationships and that it means he is not interested in you.

27. Never Stands Up For You

You might be with a group of friends and if someone belittles you he will never care to stand up for you. He will never be bothered if someone criticizes you or make you feel small. It is really a bad situation to be in but the good thing is you get to know that he is not into you. Make sure that you never miss this sign as it is a very important sign and it should never go unnoticed. Not being able to stand up for you is because he never cared for you in the first place.

28. Never Comforts You

He will never be a shoulder to lean on or to cry on. Your guy might not be interested in knowing your worries or sorrows and might never be able to comfort you as you have hoped. If a guy likes you he will make sure that you are well comforted at times of need. But if he is least bothered about your mental support and if you can never get the comfort, because he is not into you. This is one of the major signs that he is not interested.

29. Never Offers Help Is One Of The Signs

Whenever in trouble, he might not be the first person to offer help. Your guy might be least bothered about your trouble. He might give you some suggestions or ideas when asked for but will never be able to help you out of your bad situation. Even when he could help you out the bad situation he will never offer to help you. On the other hand, he might ask you for help and get things done. It is one of the notable signs that he is not interested in you.

30. His Talks Are Always Casual

If a guy likes you he would talk in a more romantic way. But, if you notice that all his talks are very casual and no romance in it, it is because he might not be into you. You might also notice that he is always preoccupied with his own thoughts when you are around. These signs are because he is not into you and that he will never have any kind of relationship with you.

31. Never Offers Financial Support

There might be a time in life when you might be in financial need. You might notice that your other friends will be ready to give you financial support but he might never be able to do. Sometimes, even when asked he might never be able to provide support financially. This is one of the sure signs that he is not into you and that you need to move on and to wait for the right guy.

32. Never Makes Sacrifices

Relationships are built on compromises and sacrifices, but if he is not ready to make any sacrifices, then he is probably not interested. Being able to make sacrifices and compromises for the one we like is one of the greatest joys of being in a relationship. But if that becomes a problem it is because he is not interested in you. This is a major red flag that he is not into you, never miss to notice this sign.

33. Never Tries To Impress You

You will notice that your guy will never make any efforts to impress you. He will never pay any attention to his looks or make surprises or big gestures of affection. Your guy will never take special care just to look good or smell good for you. He might never do things that you like just to impress you. If this is your current situation with your guy then chances are he is not into you.

34. Never Cares About You

Your guy if he is not interested in you he will never care about you. He will never care about your feelings, emotions or happiness. Even when you are sick he will never even care to know if you are feeling better or not. Your guy will never show you any care and will never be able to appreciate you for interest towards him. He will never even care about your safety, even when you are in trouble it will be his last priority. If your guy shows these signs it is because he is not into you.

35. Never Misses You

One of the last and most important signs that you will notice in your guy if he is not interested in you is he will never miss you. When you are not around him he might never feel your absence. He might never even realize that you are gone. Even when you don't text him or call him your absence will never be felt. You might travel and he might not even know that you are out of town. If your guy never misses you then it means he is not into you.

Move On With Your Life

Now that you know with all the warning signs that your guy doesn't like you back it is better to move on with your life. Also, make sure that these signs are present in your everyday life and not just a coincidence on a rare occasion. Never make a bad decision and lose a valuable relationship.

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But, when you notice this kind of signs on a regular basis then he is simply not into you. Never go chasing someone who is not interested in you, rather find the one who will be happy to be with you. Your guy will never make you feel special and unique if he is not interested. So, make sure you find the right guy. Also, when a guy is not interested in you he will never be interested in you. So, let go of this relationship and find the perfect one for you. After all, relationships are supposed to make you feel better, not smaller. All the Best!

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