What Women Want In A Man: 15 Things Every Man Needs To Know

Women have different preferences when it comes to the kind of man they want. Find out what women expect from a man and what men should expect in return.

By Dagmar Thomson
What Women Want In A Man: 15 Things Every Man Needs To Know

What Women Want In a Man: 15 Things Every Man Needs To Know

Every woman dreams of finding the perfect man someday. However, there are rare qualities every woman looks for in a man. These qualities are rare to find in a man and that is why the perfect man is hard to find. We all know nobody is perfect including women, but with these rare qualities, any man can adapt if he is willing to. Nevertheless, most men lack at least a quarter of these qualities. Ladies do not ask too much of a man, but if your man or a husband is sufficient in all the qualities you seek, this will make any woman happy for life. That is all women desire. Here is a general checklist of what women want from a man. However, you can outline your own checklist that you think it will help you find a husband.

1. Women Want a Man with Integrity

In a relationship, women want honesty in a man. However, too much honesty can ruin a relationship. Since you're in love with each other, you should be able to trust each other. Let her know what is going on in your life and do not hide important things in your relationship. Let her know about your past, your amusing experiences, and don't forget to share some poor decisions you've made in the past. She'll know her man has integrity. However, do not be brutally honest about everything and if you can, lie a little bit. At times, women need to be lied to, especially when it comes to appearances. We all know everybody their good days, and even their bad and at times, a woman may even gain a few pounds. She still, however, wants to be told she looks beautiful even though you know that might be the case.

2. Kindness in a Man Is a Virtue

Women want a man who can love her for who she is. A woman does not want to feel the need to lie. She wants to know her man knows her inside out and she can be comfortable with herself. Nobody is perfect and if your woman has accepted all of your flaws, you should be willing to accept hers as well. Most women tend to fall in love with a man who shows compassion for life. When growing up, most men were taught that they should be tough, therefore toughness should come with being mean to people but this is not the case. A kind man attracts a woman from afar. Women want to be near a man who portrays kindness in everything. Thus, kindness should be at the top of the checklist.

3. Women Want a Romantic Man

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When dating, men tend to be romantic until they become committed and children join the family. Things change slowly because the mother is too busy being there for everybody, and the husband is busy making ends meet. Romance is forgotten and at the end of the day, the couple is tired and they want to rest. When the romance ends in a relationship, the relationship starts having problems. As a man, you should keep the fire burning. Light a few candles to surprise your wife occasionally. Plan a getaway trip just the two of you. Be romantic despite being a family man. Women want to be treated like girlfriends even after they become wives and mothers.

4. A Financially Independent Man

Women want a financially stable man to cater for their needs. We all know, not every man out there is financially stable, but at least he should be able to contribute to a relationship. An independent man is one you can rely on. Even if he has a family, you will know he'll be capable of providing. He is financially stable and that means he makes his own choices. No woman wants a mummy’s boy. A man who relies on his parents for financial aid cannot and will not attract a woman.

5. Women Want a Reliable Man

A reliable man is a person you can depend upon. Women want to feel that they can trust the man in their lives. A reliable man will be there for you in good times and in bad and you know you should be able to depend on him at all times. He will go out of his way to make sure you feel safe with him no matter what. There are men who do not know how to stick around when things become bumpy. A man who can stick around to the end is a man worth keeping. This trait is rare to find since most men are afraid of such a commitment. If you find such a man, you are settled for life.

6. Women Want a Man Who Knows How to Communicate

In order for every relationship to work, there must be communication between both spouses. Most men don't know how to communicate physically and verbally. Therefore, they communicate best during intimacy. It is unusual to find a man who bares his soul out in the open. However, it is a woman’s nature to communicate. She wants you to listen and sympathize with her situation. She wants to feel that you care and if you can offer sound advice to her. A husband should learn how to communicate with his wife since this will strengthen the relationship. Communication is the key to a better relationship. A man who knows how to talk it out with his spouse is a good man.

7. Intelligence and Physical Strength

If your husband or man is physically weak, he should at least have mental strength. A Woman needs to feel safe when she is with a man who can protect her from harm. Women are attracted to a man whose strongest point is his mind. They want to feel safe, taken care of and loved all at once. If you are in a relationship, and your husband keeps on expanding your knowledge on certain matters, you will never leave such a man. You can be physically challenged but make sure you are intelligent. Therefore, as a man, you are capable of adapting if with physical strength, then with mental strength. Every woman wants a man she feels safe with.

8. A Man Who Offers His Loyalty

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It is a woman’s nature to be competitive with other women. If you are married, you want your husband to love and cherish you always. She wants to know that you only think of her and you cannot see the future without her. It would be heartbreaking if you found out that your husband has his eyes on another woman yet he is with you. Therefore, women seek a man who gives blind loyalty to them. We all know this is a rare trait to find in a man and it is a man’s way to wander off. However, if you can master giving blind loyalty to your girl, you are set for life. A woman wants a man who will never cheat on her.

9. A Caring Man

Women want a man who cares for them in good times as well as bad. She will want to feel loved, cared for and that you can share her problems with her. She wants to feel you will always be there for her no matter what. We are all human beings and at one point in life, we will need someone to take care of us. However, if you can manage to be caring, you will be among the good men who are rare to find. If you care about your girl, then she will reciprocate the feeling. You can count on her when you are at your lowest point in life. A woman wants a caring man.

10. A Confident Man

When a man is confident, his body language portrays he is confident in his own skin. Women tend to be attracted to a confident man. She wants a man she can trust with her life, and one she will want to be around you all the time. People trust a confident man easily. As a man, you do not have to speak much. Just be confident. All women want is a confident man as their spouse.

11. A Go-Getting Man

When true love strikes, you have no idea where it will land. When you fall in love with a man, you only hope he is ambitious. A man, who knows how to set goals in life and does his best to accomplish them, enters in the league of the best men, who are rare to find. This man knows what he wants in life. This is the type of a man, every woman will feel safe with, and she will want to depend on you when it comes to settling down. As a man, you have to be a go-getter. Every woman wants to settle with an achiever.

12. Sense of Drollness

A man who makes you laugh is worth having around. Laughter reduces tension and improves moods in a relationship. A man who makes his spouse smile or laugh all day long will have a wife. A woman will want to be by your side every day since you will always make her day better. She will count on you to keep her smiling for the rest of your lives. Every woman wants a man with a sense of humor to be a part of her life.

13. A Passionate Man

A man who possesses a passion for what he does is a man who knows what he wants. Women are drawn to such a man. Some women are physically attracted to a man without considering his traits. This should not be the case, so please, be a passionate man and you will find a wife very fast.

14. An Attentive Man

A woman wants a man who knows when to speak and when to contribute to the relationship. Some men do not know how to handle such a situation. Some want to dominate in a conversation while others care less. Women want attentive men, a man who listens to them and talks when necessary. This is an important trait to acquire in life. It will apply in every aspect of your life. A woman wants an attentive person as a spouse.

15. Reasonable Grooming

Women are different; some want rugged men while others want fine groomed men. Grooming in men is not their finest point in life. However, a woman would appreciate it if you do a significant amount of grooming. That is all she requires to make her happy. Different women have different qualities that they are looking for in men. The above is just a checklist and you should not kick away a man because he does not possess all of the above. Even as you look for certain qualities, learn to compromise because no one is perfect. As for men, do not fake it trying to impress a woman. Just be yourself and you will attract the right woman who will appreciate you.

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