15 Facts To Help You Quickly Understand How Men Fall In Love
1. Let's face it...Men like that physical attraction!
First things first
Hey she's cute.
Let's get real. Looks make the first impression for most men. A man will instantly be taken with looks, body type, curves, or whatever attracts him. It doesn't mean that you have to be beautiful and perfect. Men like lots of different types of women. They definitely are physically attracted first. So don't think that how you present yourself is not important. Some men like curvy women, some like big busty women, and some like athletic skinny women. But they all fall for women based on how they like their looks first. So just take a little care in how you look. Stand tall and be happy with yourself and your appearance. Men will love you for it. It's more often not "love" at first sight...it's infatuation. You gotta start somewhere so take what you can get. When it comes to men, it's physical first and everything else comes later.
2. Flirting equals interest
Flirting is one of the most entertaining parts of a new relationship. Men like to flirt whether they are serious or not. It's a game to see how well received the advances are and whether it's worth their time to pursue the girl. They start with little things they think are cute or funny that progress when they receive a go ahead sign from the one they have their eyes on. They may try this with several at first, but end up most interested in the one from whom they get a response. Girls tend to be open minded and respond rather than blowing them off; if you are looking for that special someone. You never know what a man is like under the facade. Let them in just a little and see where it goes.
3. He likes what you do for him - he is on the way to falling in love
Men like being treated well and they like being made to feel special.
Men like to feel appreciated. If you notice his smile when you thank him, or he brightens up when you do something for him, even if it's picking up something he dropped, you are on the right track. Falling in love will take time for men usually, but treat him right from the start and he will fall quickly for the attention.
4. He introduces you to his 'man friends' and their girlfriends
Men like to get to know you before they start introducing you to their friends. A sure sign that a man is quickly falling in love is when he introduces you to his pals from work or school. This is when he thinks that the relationship has potential. When he meets you at a bar and introduces you to his 'man friends' and/or their girls, you know that he is turning a corner and likes you a lot. Another step that indicates love is maturing and quickly growing.
5. Conversations become meaningful
Ever talk to men and they only talk and think about shallow topics? You begin to think there isn't much to them. A sure sign that they are falling in love is that they begin to talk about feelings, or think about future plans...things that require commitment on his part. How quickly they open up is a good indicator of how they are falling in love. However, avoidance of serious topics is a warning sign that the relationship is not advancing. Falling in love requires trust and confidence in ones partner.
6. Advances become stronger and men fall in love
Hinting and flirting gets stepped up as a man falls in love. They become more proactive and make stronger moves to advance the relationship when they think you are now the most wonderful person in the world. When men start to fall or think that you also like them, their advances will become more meaningful. They now have the hope that the relationship will progress and turn into love for both people about to enter into the unknown - the start of something wonderful.
7. Men begin to do things to help you
When men start to help you with everyday tasks, and they want you to be your best person ever, they are quickly falling in love.
Men love to help. They love to be the savior of the day whenever you are in distress. Even simple things mean a lot. When men begin to care about helping you get through the day a little easier then he will quickly fall in love. His care and concern will be obvious in the way he asks how your day was, in ways he thinks about helping, and how he can make your life easier. If you have a stressful life this will be even more evident as he begins to shoulder what he can for you. Men will ask questions and want to offer advice when they feel they can help. Allowing them to help will be vital in a loving relationship. Set the tone from the beginning and always be appreciative. Everyone responds well to love in return. Help each other in the end to be better people. That is what love is all about.
8. Protection quickly surfaces and super heros come to life
Men are great protectors and will fight to the death for their families and those they love. It starts quickly in a relationship where they make sure to keep you safe from harm. There is nothing more romantic or loving than a man insisting on being on the traffic side of the sidewalk when you are strolling about. A sure sign that he is quickly falling in love and becoming protective is the small things that he does as a man everyday.
9. Men begin to care about supporting you in ways other than money and dates
Men want to represent strength in a relationship. When they begin to support you in loving and meaningful ways without any complaints and giving generously of themselves and their time, that is a sure sign that they are falling in love. Men think that supporting women is their responsibility and it will begin to show.
10. Men see you are vulnerable
Vulnerability is a difficult thing to share. When you begin to show that side of yourself, a man will want to protect and guide you in a love relationship. He will quickly begin to ramp up his moves to protect you and be full of love and care. While it's a difficult thing for anyone, vulnerability on both parties will move the relationship along as well as anything. Before long you will find it easy to share stories and you will fall in love with someone who will always be there for you. Men love the feeling that they are the one to help and protect. Men love to feel needed and when you are vulnerable, they are quickly enamored with the possibilities. Love will abound and men will become the prince in shining armor.
11. Games and Rewards for a Man
Playing a little hard to get makes the prize even sweeter for men.
Risks and rewards are both sides of a game. As a relationship quickly builds between a man and a woman, there are little things that insure the relationship can stand the test of time. When a woman plays a little hard to get, the rewards for the man are greater and longer lasting. Men will feel accomplished and appreciative if they have to work hard to prove that the relationship is real for them. These moments of relationship building will pay off in the long run. A man commits to a relationship that he feels he had to work hard to get. This makes him both strong and vulnerable. The dichotomy will be worth the love that ensues. Giving in too quickly or too freely will devalue the relationship and hinder love from developing quickly in a man. Make the rewards worth the wait. Make every moment special when it's achieved. Each step can quickly advance your future, but take time to develop it fully to reap the most love you can attain with a man. Don't worry about time - all good things come to those with patience.
12. Your man asks for help and/or offers to help
Taking the trash is no fun task for anyone. When your man is quickly beginning to fall in love, he will do the perceived manly tasks for you. This will include some of the dreaded task like taking the garbage out, cleaning up the fall leaves from the yard, or fixing the leak under the sink. On the flipside, when he is slammed at work, he will text you and ask you to pickup dinner on the way home since he will be late...or ask you if you can wash a load of clothes for him so he can spend more time with you when he gets off of work. Teamwork to accomplish things so the time together is of higher quality begins to show through the stress of everyday life. These are sure signs of a man falling in love. Communication strengthens as does helping each other. One can quickly determine how much in love one is by their willingness to be less selfish and more giving to their new love.
13. Relationships are a progression for Men
Things are really getting serious and you know that a man is falling in love when serious things that started slowly begin to progress. For example, if he introduces you to his sibling first and a month or two later to his parents, this is a sure that sign that the relationship is on a path of progression. That would then follow with introducing you to his extended family members. It is a great sign that he might be falling in love with you.
14. You are invited to go on vacation with him.
Plans for the future become a sure sign of a man's love growing. When he can finally invite you along for a trip somewhere, things are moving toward a long term relationship very quickly. Sometimes these invitations are a bit of a trial of the relationship. If you can successfully travel together under the stresses that travel inherently presents, then the relationship is moving in the right direction. Spur of the moment mini trips are a good sign, but the real sign of love is when you are planning one and two week vacations to new locations together. Quickly, a man's love shines when he wants to take you on a trip you have only dreamed of. These moments will become some of the most cherished ones from a relationship.
15. I Love You - Finally spoken!
Your man finally says the words from his heart.
The ultimate commitment of a man is when he can actually say the words "I love you" and mean them! You can see it in his eyes, and you can feel it from his soul. It's not just words out of his mouth but rather a heartfelt sentiment that he loves you. It is sometimes slow to build in a man, but patience pays off in a relationship. If it happens quickly, you know you have it right...if it takes time...you might have it even more right. Love grows over time and love conquers all. Two sayings that transcend the tests of human life. Keep communicating. Keep spending time together. Say I love you multiple times everyday and mean it. Take the trip. Enjoy your life together in love with each other. Be faithful and be truthful and you will create a lifetime of true love that will last.