Crushing On Someone?
It is always a little frustrating to not get noticed by the guy you have been crushing on for ages. Guys are simple creatures; this may seem like a bad thing, but at least they are easier to attract. To get his eyes on you is as easy as pie. Making the first move is hard, so let him make the first move for you. It makes life more fun and easier. It's better when everything is plain and simple, so don't play hard to get. Take your time to get your guy's attention and let him approach you first. Here are a few ways you can get your guy's attention and make him for fall for you even without talking to him.
1. Dress in a flattering way
Your sense of style is what your crush will first notice about you unconsciously. So, dress up yourself to lure him into looking at you. Wear something that you are comfortable with; never go for the kinds of clothes that don't make you feel confident. Wear something that works on you. Why not try red? Red brings out the best in everyone. It is believed that the color red makes a woman look more appealing and approachable. It might drive your guy crazy. There is no need to dress for your guy unless you want him to pay attention to you. So don't have any regrets when you try to impress him with your wardrobe collection. This is one easy way to get your guy to notice you without talking to him.
2. Wear makeup to get your guy's attention
Guys are honestly kind of dumb, so even when you have smudged eyeliner or faded lip color he might not care because he might not know anything about makeup. But to get your guy's attention, all you have to do is look clean and fresh. A look that brings out your natural beauty will impress him and get head over heels with you. But it also depends on your guy, so focus on what he likes best to get him to notice you instead of being generic. If you have stalked him enough on Facebook to know your guy's taste, then go ahead and wear makeup you know he would love. But if you don't, then its advisable to follow common and classic makeup styles. It is believed that guys notice a woman with pretty, cute eyes or a bold lip. To make sure you don't miss out on this advantage wear a little makeup. Don't go too hard trying to impress by overdoing your makeup, you'll just end up getting a weird look from him. It is always wise to go for something rather than to wait and not getting things done in the end. So go ahead and charm him with your killer looks without talking to him.
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3. Love yourself
Being in love with yourself is not easy. It takes work at first, but when you are a natural it gets easier for you to get your guy's attention. When you love yourself that boosts your confidence level. Being confident is one way to get your guy's attention rather than just sitting in a corner to text someone else about how you wish he would look at you. Your guy will notice you when you love yourself more and when you are fully content with your life. Your guy might want to approach you just to know you better when he notices this quality in you. Build a bold and beautiful self to captivate your guy's attention by loving yourself. This is a great way to get your guy to notice you without talking to him.
4. Be a fun loving girl
If you are a fun loving girl, you will find yourself drawing crowds to you all the time. Live in the moment, have a blast, enjoy life as it comes. When your life is a party, it gets easier for your guy to notice you. That doesn't mean you have to fake having a fun life. Just be true to yourself and let him see the real you, rather than faking it to seem like a fun gal. Nothing gets your guy's attention more than having a great life. It would seem to your guy that being around you would make his life better as well. This quality would help you easily get your guy's attention. Don't sit glumly in the corner waiting for someone to talk to you while you are on a texting app or using facebook. None of this is going to happen when you seem to be a secretive and moody person. This will not help you get your guy's attention without talking.
5. Never look desperate for your guy's attention
When you are trying to get your guy's attention, never let him know that you are desperate for him to notice you. You might not know that your behavior is sending signals to him that show you are hopelessly craving his attention. Don't ever do this as this might drive your guy away. It would be great to make eye contact with him every now and then and then look away. Staring at him for too long might only send creepy signals that would scare him away. Be casual when you are around him in public. Give him a smile or two when he looks at you. Take your time, he will notice you eventually as guys are visual creatures. He will definitely never miss looking at you. This is a great way to get his attention.
6. Be approachable
Everybody fears rejection and so does your guy. So it is wise to make sure that you send him a vibe that you are friendly and approachable, rather than a moody and angry person. To make him feel that you are friendly and approachable even if you're someone new to him, make sure he sees the confident you. Never slouch, fidget, use Facebook or text when you're around him. These will all send him signals you are not interested and will push him away from you. Sending your guy a positive aura might attract your guy's attention to you. This is one surefire way to get your guy's attention without talking.
7. Add him on Social Media
This might sound a little silly but you can get him to notice you even through Facebook without looking like a stalker. With today's advancements in technology, even this is possible. To get noticed by your guy through Facebook, your mutual friend is necessary. Observe your friend's Facebook feed regularly whenever you see posts of your crush and make sure to post a short text comment. Keep it very casual so it doesn't seem a little creepy. Let your mutual friend on Facebook know that you have a crush on that certain guy and that you are trying to get him notice you. Most likely, they will help you. Getting you tagged in their posts will also help you get your guy's attention. This is one crazy but effective way to get your guy's attention without talking to him and get him to notice you. Try it! If you are a really shy girl this would help a lot.
8. Bump into him to get your guy's attention
When you want to get your guy's attention, make sure that you know his common interests. Try to run into him occasionally without seeming obvious or he might think you are stalking him. Seeing you at the same places regularly might send him signals that you share common interests and it is an easy way to get your guy's attention. This will send him subtle signs that might get him to ask you out. Don't make the mistake by making yourself too available for him as it might make your guy think that you have nothing better to do with your life than to stalk him. Show him that he is not your only interest and that you have many other wonderful things to do in your life. This independent quality will grab your guy's attention no matter what. So, when he makes the first move be proud that you got his attention.
9. Make yourself busy
Make sure that you don't miss out on living your life while you're trying to get his attention. Always be engaged with important things and your guy will definitely adore you for being a busy bee. Guys find girls who are always occupied with stuff to do more attractive, and if you are a one then it gets easier to get his attention. You can throw a few glances at him every so often, but make it appear casual. Let him take his time to appreciate you even when you are looking away. When you find him looking at you when you are not looking at him, it is a great sign that he is interested in you and that you have gained his attention without talking.
These tricks can easily get your guy's attention, but if you are looking for a relationship with your crush you need to be yourself. Never fake things to get his attention and make him like you. Remember never to change yourself and pretend to be someone you are not. A relationship won't last forever if it's based on a fake persona. Now that you have gained his attention if he doesn't seem eager to make the next move and ask you out, be bold. You should ask him out. Life is short and there is no time to waste in overthinking whether he likes you or not. Be confident and make the next move. Take things into your own hands.
If he makes the first move then you are in great luck. Congratulate yourself for making this happen. Let him know your little tricks after a little while after you start your relationship. It would be fun to tease him for falling for you. Always be prepared for the worst case scenario. If your guy turns you down don't get upset. Hopefully, this will never happen as there are only very few men who would turn down a girl like you. Now that you know these tips and tricks you can easily get any guy's attention. All the best and have a happy love life!